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Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by bluskyee: 10:35pm On Jun 30, 2019 |
At the inception of 2018 I thought my pre wedding photos will be on the front page of NL (with a new moniker )but it seems I am a bit mistaken. Looking forward to meeting a partner is turning to a full time job ( or maybe is not, perhaps I am over thinking or ... ) I am thinking perhaps my transfer is the main cause but I am 2years here already. I know say I done cast well but is just funny, really funny. I am not looking for advice pls, I am only thinking out loud with the aid of Budweiser, hoping to read this when I start thinking again. At least I won't have to think again. If you happen to be in this category you can share your thought ( guys only) 5 Likes |
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by DOMINO001: 10:36pm On Jun 30, 2019 |
You go hail naa. Me las las if my schedule tight, my sis go help me find woman abeg. After all I don't attach any much importance to marriage. 10 Likes |
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by bluskyee: 10:45pm On Jun 30, 2019 |
DOMINO001:lol...the lady my sis was trying to recommend to me to ehhnnn, when I saw her pics, make I end story abeq 23 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by DOMINO001: 11:03pm On Jun 30, 2019 |
bluskyee:Tell her to recommend like 3 then you choose one 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Nobody: 11:06pm On Jun 30, 2019 |
bluskyee: 40 Likes 3 Shares
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Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by SageMK: 11:06pm On Jun 30, 2019 |
Be a success. Set your priorities right as a man. And you'll find it easy finding a partner. 13 Likes |
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Nobody: 11:10pm On Jun 30, 2019 |
Naso e dey be o. When e reach time to settle down, You will realise girlfriend plenty, but wife scarce. Men dey, na husband be problem. You see the one wey fine, e no get sense. The one wey get sense, she no get nyash...no sexual attraction. The one wey get nyash, she too like instagram and snapchat. In fact, na undercover-slay queen. The one wey get everything you want, she is in a relationship. This life ehn... Just a select few will be lucky to see every they want in one. Last last, so many will have to compromise. You see that your list and standard, you go dey reduce am small small. 146 Likes 20 Shares |
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by bluskyee: 11:12pm On Jun 30, 2019 |
0KNM:noted. 1 Like |
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Filmewell(f): 11:13pm On Jun 30, 2019 |
You are too proud. Joor. If every body will decide what they will look like every body will look like Miss World. Lonely man. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by bluskyee: 11:14pm On Jun 30, 2019 |
SageMK:like seriously, bro I should be telling you all that. I thought I said no advise...just think out loud if you are in the same category... If you have it figured out, no point being here 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by bluskyee: 11:18pm On Jun 30, 2019 |
DOMINO001:lols she was angry I decided not to meet the lady, I don't think she will be that nice ... 1 Like |
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by bluskyee: 11:20pm On Jun 30, 2019 |
AntiBrutus:bro where are you from, I like this guy already. You see the one with everything she is already taken....who them come leave the remaining for? 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Bbbwings: 11:22pm On Jun 30, 2019 |
Hmmm I'm thirty this year. 4 Likes |
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by bluskyee: 11:26pm On Jun 30, 2019 |
Filmewell:you already judging me, you are not fair. I am not a lonley man...though sometimes but not entirely. Everyone is lonely sometimes hence it is not particular to me..."lonely man" got me laughing though. 3 Likes |
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Nobody: 11:57pm On Jun 30, 2019 |
The reason you are finding it difficult is because Boys fvck who they can Girls fvck who they want But boys marry who they want Girls marry who they can Finding who we want is hard that's why boys detest marriage Finding who we can is easy that's why girls like marriage Sense will not kill me 56 Likes 6 Shares
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Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by bluskyee: 12:13am On Jul 01, 2019 |
Bbbwings:We all age... |
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by bluskyee: 12:16am On Jul 01, 2019 |
Ighoga898:I never thought it will be this difficult. I have fun on my own terms but I thought by now I should have settled. But I have not had a reasonable date. Sadly I can't marry a colleague, due to policies. Not that I fancy any female colleague though 4 Likes |
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Filmewell(f): 12:35am On Jul 01, 2019 |
bluskyee:Not judging. Saying what I understand from your post. Everyone is lonely at some point but some are more lonelier than others. -George Orwell |
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by bluskyee: 12:44am On Jul 01, 2019 |
Filmewell:I just didn't like the person I saw on the picture, no offense intended. I am not lonlier, I have friends come over weekin- weekout...I am just as lonely as the average person |
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Filmewell(f): 12:50am On Jul 01, 2019 |
bluskyee:Why are you awake still. Am having insomnia what's your reason? Okay you are not lonely I agree after all it was my opinion. But with the fun you ve had all the while you need 6 years of celibacy so that you can really see a wife not a fling.. 1 Like |
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by bluskyee: 1:00am On Jul 01, 2019 |
Filmewell:I am awake because I am awake, I will soon retire though. I still need to wake by 5:30am, I am used to it though cos if I were not surfing, I will be studying. 6years is too much na haba! How long have you had insomnia? |
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Filmewell(f): 1:05am On Jul 01, 2019 |
bluskyee: About 10 years now. How I wish I can just close my eyes and sleep. Good morning and have a good week. 1 Like |
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by actoor(m): 1:43am On Jul 01, 2019 |
Filmewell: Hnmmmmmmmm I just dey Waka pass.... Looking left & right before crossing Nairaland main Express road... Vooo Ooo uu oomMmm... Thank God oh, I almost got hit by reckless NL Okada riders... 17 Likes |
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Donchukz(m): 2:50am On Jul 01, 2019 |
You guys are disturbing me,I needed to wake around 5:30 for a little work out,then take my shower around 6:30,then off I go. But,reminding of how to look for life partner,am yet to see one...you guys can recommend my future wife to me,if u see her. Tell am say I dey wait. Do have a wonderful wk |
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by OkpaNsukkaisBae(m): 3:02am On Jul 01, 2019 |
I do here stories like yours... Say wife dey scarce.. I wish you success in your search bro 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by coruso(m): 7:06am On Jul 01, 2019 |
bluskyee:nah this level me I dey too oh!, the thing is no time to even socialise. |
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Nobody: 7:33am On Jul 01, 2019 |
I can relate with you OP. For me I am outside of the country and I already made up my mind not to marry from outside the country. I have been meeting people online but after relating with them for sometime I realise the extent of how ignorant, materialistic and focus-less most ladies are. I was following up with a lady last week, then I saw her whatsap status - ENU GBE, E FUN MI LOWO ENU GBG (i am broke, please give me money I am broke). What kind of human being comes on social media to write such trash ? People dont even have respect for themselves or their families. WheN i WAS in school I was placed on minimum wage and I tried to live within my means how can people just begin to behave like peasants, so that pissed me off and I just cancelled that babe. The next one was even a little promising but on 2 occasions I was speaking to her and she was speaking to other people, imagine chatting someone and they admit they are also chatting up to 7 people at the same time. Then I rebuked the person and the next few days we are talking on phone and the person is typing and after I asked what was going on she said she was chatting with people while speaking with me on whatsap call, I did not even react, but I just cancelled her in my mind. It is quite tough really, the quality of women out there is really very low, we just have a few who are young and have proper sense. Goodluck as we continue to search... 40 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Ishilove: 7:38am On Jul 01, 2019 |
AntiBrutus:Oversense dey worry yoh 3 Likes |
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Nobody: 7:40am On Jul 01, 2019 |
bluskyee:Stop finding and let your partner locate you themselves |
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Ishilove: 7:44am On Jul 01, 2019 |
calgaryFriend:It seems you are a very difficult, rigid and impatient person. 17 Likes |
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by boiz2men(m): 8:10am On Jul 01, 2019 |
AntiBrutus:my dilemma |
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Nobody: 8:36am On Jul 01, 2019 |
calgaryFriend:Hahaha this is so funny lol. But can she not complain if she’s thirsty? |
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