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Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by desvi: 1:53pm On Jul 01, 2019 |
finding the right partner is difficult 2 Likes |
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Nobody: 1:56pm On Jul 01, 2019 |
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Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Nobody: 2:32pm On Jul 01, 2019 |
Michelle55:It is called having a standard. I understand some people can just tag along with anybody, the moment I make my intentions known to you and we are already talking about future, it is expected that we show respect to people. If someone does not understand respect then it is going to be a big problem in future. The quality of training have reduced these days so some things appear as not so bad but they are signals to some deep red flags that a man should try and avoid. And I gave room for mistakes and adjustment , that was why I corrected the person twice and she still continued. That kind of person have absolutely no regard or does not understand the basic human way of behaviour and interraction. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Nobody: 2:35pm On Jul 01, 2019 |
bLacKGoLd3:Hey brotherly , thank you for your response. I have attended a few cultural events but I stopped attending cos most ladies I see are over 30 years old. I can tell you I am yet to see a <30year old single Nigerian lady , not that they dont exist but I have yet to meet them. I am sure even you may not know too many, so I just got tired and decided to give up on the option of finding my category of people here, cos truly before a lady will be able to be set for express entry and stuff they will either me more than 30 years or very close. So it is quite complicated.... 3 Likes |
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Nobody: 2:48pm On Jul 01, 2019 |
Where is franchansg... Thought a man can marry a woman in the blink of an eye if he wishes? Come and see genuine stories from men. Not those fantasies you put up. I say it again, all of us are in this rat race together. However, I salute men for being more chilled about theirs. But then, they have no "biological clock" (as it is called) to contend with. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Nobody: 2:58pm On Jul 01, 2019 |
calgaryFriend:From the Diary of one your other 4 monikers on Nairaland ( Guitarlife, Guitarlife2, etc ) you have got two girlfriends in Calgary, not to add the others you're chatting with . To attract a loyal person, try practicing it yaself. calgaryFriend:One friend of mine married a 24-yo white chick, their marriage lasted only 1year. He hyped her before the marriage... she was perfect, young, this n that. After the marriage he now admitted she was disrespectful, talked back, never listened, had a bf . He is now happily married, this time to a 31yo. Fyi, some 30-somethings yo women look younger than 20-somethings. 6 Likes |
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Nobody: 3:06pm On Jul 01, 2019 |
Zielle:hi Zielle This is the second time people are linking me guitarlife , I am not that guy... damn... Now to address your other issues that you raised. I am not considering a white chick especially for these reasons that you raised, I am here and know exactly how they behave and whatsup with them. My choice of wanting a lady less than 25years is personal, someone less than 25years and raised and bred in Nigeria thats my standard, the reason why men are encouraged to work hard is so that they can be in control of their own life. Trust me most ladies that meet me throw themselves at me (apologies if this sounds like pride) but a man will choose how he wants his home to look like, and it starts from the kind of spouse he chooses for himself. I hope you get .... 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Nobody: 3:07pm On Jul 01, 2019 |
bluskyee: I am no bro, I am a sis. The ones you want that are always taken, have you ever considered the fact that someone contributed in building/moulding them? They were most likely not born that way. They learned from experiences and people (sometimes their exes). Why can't we be a little more accomodating? All this self-love that everyone is forming on social media, it leads to loneliness o. 7 Likes |
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by millionboi2: 3:13pm On Jul 01, 2019 |
SageMK:Be a success or a lier
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Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Nobody: 3:19pm On Jul 01, 2019 |
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Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Nobody: 3:25pm On Jul 01, 2019 |
calgaryFriend:Stop lying. Guitarlife, Guitarlife2, lookingforlove1 and your other monikers all have the same phone numbers and emails, the same way we link scammers on Nairaland. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Nobody: 3:27pm On Jul 01, 2019 |
Zielle:henhen are you sure ? And what is your take on the matter, I see you are not even saying anything about my response... And where is the phone number ? |
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Nobody: 3:28pm On Jul 01, 2019 |
Bossjakande: Ah, boss boss. This one weak me o. 1 Like |
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Nobody: 3:31pm On Jul 01, 2019 |
AntiBrutus: E dey happen well.some dude with a wifey chick entered PWC, next thing his boss dey send am upandan naija on assignment until the boss and the chick invited him for wedding. My sis dey tell me say hide yo man until ring dey, cause sometimes na even your paddy wey go make the move. |
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Nobody: 3:31pm On Jul 01, 2019 |
Zielle:I am a hardworking young man not a scammer fa.... |
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Nobody: 3:33pm On Jul 01, 2019 |
ornicus: Lmao... Things are happening. |
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Michelle55: 3:43pm On Jul 01, 2019 |
calgaryFriend:Some people are slow in learning you know, you just have to be patient. BTW, I understood your point though! |
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Nobody: 3:51pm On Jul 01, 2019 |
calgaryFriend:You've written this number on your posts in your other monikers: 07032035317, same with these emails ayonaira2@zoho.com, calgaryfriend@zoho.com. You've another numbers and emails obviously. It's not me you're fooling. You edited the post after I had quoted it. It's up to ya to marry whoever you want na. Just don't come disturbing us on Nairaland later. I wouldn't touch you with a 10-foot pole going by the traits you display.... but other girls hv low standards, i know. calgaryFriend:Yimu. You might as well be a scammer. You call yourself young at 32 going on 33 but 30, 31, 32-yo women are old? Dumb hypocrite. Man with the brain of a toddler, that's u. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Altern8(m): 3:52pm On Jul 01, 2019 |
Ishilove: You get am. He’s probably over 30 too. Men at that stage tend to be rigid about some things. No time to condone any unserious behaviour. Serious, focussed babes only. 5 Likes |
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Nobody: 3:59pm On Jul 01, 2019 |
Zielle: Seriously ? Why are you this bitter, tell me, do you have some deep issues or something ? Like I said, stop throwing someone else's profile at me. You left the topic of discussion and started conspiracy theories.. come on babe, come on. How did the discussion dis-integrated to the bolded, you should apologise, if you do, I will forgive you and we kiss and make up. Life is not so hard ... we dont need to sound so bitter on/offline... |
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Nobody: 4:03pm On Jul 01, 2019 |
Altern8:Yeah I am over 30years, and I think you my friend understand where I am coming from. It is the responsibility of a man to choose his wife and not all women are wife-able. It is forgiveable if you date one but as a man if you notice that the woman is not your standard, move on. @Zielle, what is the problem with a 30+ year old man wanting to marry a 25 year old lady ? That has always been the norm, all my friends have an age gap of between 7 -11 years between them and their spouses... Ned Nwoko even comes to mind, it is not a big deal , like I said 55year old men whoose wives are 55 year old too will tell you not to make that same mistake. Men learn from what I am saying, marry a younger girl with good home training and upbringing, that is the only reward for all your years of labour, I don talk my own. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Nobody: 4:03pm On Jul 01, 2019 |
calgaryFriend:Abeg, stop lying. . All of those monikers belong to you, Yemi . Like I said you're not fooling me. Apologize for wetin? The only apology needed rn is from you for your lies and hypocrisy 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Nobody: 4:07pm On Jul 01, 2019 |
Zielle: Calm down now, like I stated what you wrote was not nice I hope you know and you should apologise . Moving on you may be a great woman with the right outlook but you dont know how low most women think, you dont date them it is men that date them and thats why almost all the men on the thread are saying the same thing. Girlfriend plenty but wife scarce. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Nobody: 4:14pm On Jul 01, 2019 |
calgaryFriend:I've said there is nothing wrong with marrying whoever you want to marry. Just don't come disturbing Nairaland later. I know you're an open book in that way. Continue being the huge liar n hypocrite that you are, Yemi. It's ur life, ur choice. 5 Likes |
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Nobody: 4:16pm On Jul 01, 2019 |
Zielle:You owe me an apology for those terrible words you said, if you fail to apologise I expect your conscience to worry you... 1 Like |
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Iogobenz(m): 4:18pm On Jul 01, 2019 |
Zielle:very rare.calgaryfriend no just want woman weh go come turn to em mama for em house. You know una way na.after 30 na explosion and stretch mark and at times very WIDE womanliness(vagina) dey nack una steady. How person go marry woman weh e no go enjoy before elastic limit set in? 5 Likes
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Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Nobody: 4:29pm On Jul 01, 2019 |
Iogobenz:False. It's uber stupid to make these sorta assumptions. I don't look my age in real life, plus trust me some 20-somethings have been around . I practically have no experience compared to a 20-something. Some women in their early 30s have kept themselves very well or are still virgins. Never judge a woman by her age 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by jessysparkles(f): 4:29pm On Jul 01, 2019 |
calgaryFriend: Oh now I see it's a recurring attitude.... Alot is taking her attention |
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Iogobenz(m): 4:36pm On Jul 01, 2019 |
Zielle:And the women in their thirties now,didn't they pass through twenties as well what stops them from hiding their wolfy skin under beef hide? look,let me tell you something. Most women that aren't married till they hit 30 have some flaws too,reason why they hit that age and are still single. Some of the Flaws include: - no direction in life(I won't touch these) -bad attitude and bossy nature. -sleep arounds(wide wide aunties) a.k.a borehole! -Impatience...etc. So it is when they hit 30+(extra time),they now correct themselves and start looking desperately for who will carry the excess baggage. I know what I am saying too well. 7 Likes |
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Nobody: 4:37pm On Jul 01, 2019 |
Zielle:You are right, I have seen many 30+ ladies here that look very 20 something. But menopause does not care, a lady has a decreased sexual appetite at menopause and they become very irritable to things like sex. So for a man who is still extremely aroused at 55+ years and a woman who is already tiring of sex, it becomes a huge problem. Nature is on the side of men marrying younger girls..... Even our culture supports that approach. 1 Like |
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Nobody: 4:37pm On Jul 01, 2019 |
calgaryFriend:Typical Nigerian man: do wrong but the woman must apologize. Nonsense 5 Likes |
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by doris4u(f): 4:38pm On Jul 01, 2019 |
calgaryFriend:I think I can relate to she chatting with other people . I always tell people that when someone that seems interested in you is chatting u up and you don't respond accordingly on chat, there is someone distracting them and it's disrespectful for her not to reply on time. She may or might not be in another relationships 2 Likes |
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