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Re: Funke Adejumo Reacts To Rape Allegation Again Biodun Fatoyinbo By Busola Dakolo by blaise26abj(m): 9:07am On Jul 04, 2019 |
Chanchit: When a married pastor is shagging single ladies , it’s adultery whether they consented or not. And that is commotion already and should have been dealt with. My point is that they should have allowed him to address the issue then. If he had apologized (assuming he was guilty) and reached out to all other victims in one stroke, this allegation of rape wouldn’t have come up. Now that they can’t protect one of their own, they are coming out to say opas 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Funke Adejumo Reacts To Rape Allegation Again Biodun Fatoyinbo By Busola Dakolo by greypencils: 9:10am On Jul 04, 2019 |
Rosay15:Oga, these people know the truth. Wale Jana wey no know before na him run mouth. But person call am tell am the truth. That's why he deleted the post he made on facebook. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Funke Adejumo Reacts To Rape Allegation Again Biodun Fatoyinbo By Busola Dakolo by CrazyMan(m): 9:11am On Jul 04, 2019 |
NoToPile:Everyone knows that pastor biodun had sex with busayo. The question here is was it r.ape or consensual sex. Cos I believe that if indeed she was r,aped she shouldn't have had anything to do with the pastor in question. Her continued presence in the church, and even allowing the pastor join her and her husband in holy matrimony after the incident speaks volumes. My take. 1. They both had sex. 2. She was pissed of after the first sex but kept quite maybe because the guy in question was her pastor. 3. She developed likeness for him, something he noticed which made him come back for more romps. 4. The relationship went sour at some point which made the pastor regain his full pastoral authority over her. Maybe that was during the time she got pregnant for her current husband. 5. She confined in him after the second pregnancy. He suspended her, and he advised her to get married to the father of the baby. 6. He bought her a car gift and wedded them personally in his church to settle her off. 7. She resurfaced years later and began to claim she was r.aped. From this I believe it's safe to conclude that if pastor biodun should be scolded it should be for fornication and not r,ape Now on the issue of apologizing, would you apologize to a girl you had consensual sex with, married her in your church to her husband, gifted her with a car? What exactly would you be apologizing for? 2 Likes |
Re: Funke Adejumo Reacts To Rape Allegation Again Biodun Fatoyinbo By Busola Dakolo by crazygod(m): 9:13am On Jul 04, 2019 |
Sanchez01:Its ur type that like to put 'jara' into things. She apologised that some people where hurt by this news. She never apologised to the accuser about being 'raped'. Stop making a mountain out of a mole hill. |
Re: Funke Adejumo Reacts To Rape Allegation Again Biodun Fatoyinbo By Busola Dakolo by TVSA: 9:14am On Jul 04, 2019 |
kiyosaki1: or it's you that can't understand. Read again with your brain opened "IT HAS TAKEN ME TIME TO SPEAK PUBLICLY ABOUT THIS BECAUSE WORK FIRST HAD TO BE DONE TO ENABLE THE PROCESS OF RESOLUTION. THIS WAS THE MORE URGENT, PERSONAL TASK. TODAY, I AM THANKFUL TO GOD FOR THE COUNSEL THAT HAS SEEN BIODUN STEP DOWN TO ALLOW THE PROCESS OF FACT FINDING, HEALING, RESTITUTION AND JUSTICE CONTINUE. ALSO SO THAT THE CONGREGATION THAT GOD HAS ENTRUSTED INTO OUR HANDS ARE GUIDED WITH LOVE, INTEGRITY AND WISDOM. THE HOUSE OF GOD SHOULD REMAIN A SAFE SPACE FOR ALL. NO FORM OF ABUSE SHOULD HAVE A PLACE IN GOD'S HOUSE. MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY IS WITH EVERYONE WHO HAS EXPERIENCED BROKEN TRUST FROM THE CHURCH. BUSOLA. EVERY GIRL. EVERY BOY. EVERY CHILD. MAN. WOMAN. THE CHURCH IS EMBRACING ACCOUNTABILITY – AND IT IS EXACTLY AS JESUS HAS REQUESTED THAT WE MUST. FFA... HONORING GOD AND BLESSING HUMANITY". She mentioned "restitution", "no form of abuse", "accountability". She didn't even try to stay on the fence. She never said if the accusations were wrong. 1 Like |
Re: Funke Adejumo Reacts To Rape Allegation Again Biodun Fatoyinbo By Busola Dakolo by AmazonTopaz(f): 9:15am On Jul 04, 2019 |
tyson98:Me too she just nail the gucci pastor. 1 Like |
Re: Funke Adejumo Reacts To Rape Allegation Again Biodun Fatoyinbo By Busola Dakolo by crazygod(m): 9:16am On Jul 04, 2019 |
CrazyMan:That ur point No 1 get as e be. If she was pissed off about the 1st act, then its two things. 1. She was forced which equals rape. 2. She was disappointed cos her expectations about first time sex was dashed. Perhaps she expected more acrobatics from the pastor |
Re: Funke Adejumo Reacts To Rape Allegation Again Biodun Fatoyinbo By Busola Dakolo by Nobody: 9:17am On Jul 04, 2019 |
[quote author=Rebelutionary post=79927234] Call them "emotionally slow" and what not but one thing you fail to realise is that Nigerians have given this man the benefit of the doubt for all the series of allegations before now and you can't blame them for insisting on justice to be done this time round! i hope you know there is no difference between allegation & hearsay.. asides Ese walter, which was clearly a case of fornication please mention other series of allegation. when emotion sets in the brain hibernate, how does been a fornicator justify been a rapist, most men are adulterers does it mean we all are potential rapist, does it mean if you can fornicate then you can rape ..is that the analogy now. 1 Like |
Re: Funke Adejumo Reacts To Rape Allegation Again Biodun Fatoyinbo By Busola Dakolo by AmazonTopaz(f): 9:18am On Jul 04, 2019 |
xarm:Very silly of you to try and bring religion into the matter. Rape has no gender tribe and religion ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Funke Adejumo Reacts To Rape Allegation Again Biodun Fatoyinbo By Busola Dakolo by Sanchez01: 9:18am On Jul 04, 2019 |
kiyosaki1:There's an aspect of linguistics called DISCOURSE ANALYSIS. It focuses on analyzing a text, speech, speech patterns, text patterns and how words are communicated. Discourse Analysis are used even in courts of advanced countries. I analyzed the text just as I would do any statement, facts or otherwise. 1. Busola raised allegations against Fatoyinbo 2. Pastor Funke admitted to have worked behind the scenes, meaning Fatoyinbo has likely been pressed to give account of whatever happened. 3. She also admitted it took her time to come out because 'serious work' had to be done 'behind the scenes'. Now see this... 1. She thanked God Fatoyinbo stepped aside to allow for fact finding (a possible obstruction of justice would have happened or that he would rope the church in his mess. COZA was never accused but Fatoyinbo came out to dismiss the allegations leveled against him, using COZA's letterhead paper. He never seperated his church from his person and this was what Pastor Funke meant). 2. And then she mentioned HEALING (who is to heal, the accused or the 'victim'? Is she implying that Busola, seeing Pastor B on the altar or knowing he still preaches would hurt her?) 3. And she mentioned RESTITUTION immediately after healing (who is restituting here?) 4. And then 'JUSTICE CONTINUES' (this, here, is everything. What justice is implied here; that the truth continues to come forward or that Pastor B continues to be the subject of social media trial or that Busola continues to 'suffer'?). 5. ... THAT THE CONGREGATION THAT GOD HAS ENTRUSTED INTO OUR HANDS ARE GUIDED WITH LOVE, INTEGRITY AND WISDOM (love because the truth and pure concern for the church must be exhibited; integrity because Fatoyinbo must deal with the church with all honesty and not sway the members because he is the manager and finally; wisdom because the congregation must not be led astray and support the foolishness of what is thrown at them) 6. THE HOUSE OF GOD SHOULD REMAIN A SAFE SPACE FOR All. (this is more declarative and assertive than a suggestion. Statements as this are often directed at or towards someone or a people. It could be towards Fatoyinbo, members of the church, social media jurors, even Busola and the family). 7. NO FORM OF ABUSE SHOULD HAVE A PLACE IN GOD'S HOUSE (notice she said 'no form of abuse'... Also note this is coming at a time after she has 'worked behind the scene' to make her findings.) 8. MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY IS WITH EVERYONE WHO HAS EXPERIENCED BROKEN TRUST FROM THE CHURCH. BUSOLA. EVERY GIRL. EVERY BOY. EVERY CHILD. MAN. WOMAN. Perhaps you might want to ask why her apology is coming after she stated that abuse of whatsoever form should not have its place in God's house. Also notice she was specific by mentioning 'Busola'. While you could say it means nothing, understand she is the purpose of her piece in the first place. 9. THE CHURCH IS EMBRACING ACCOUNTABILITY (how? By making the accused responsible, regardless of his position subject himself to justice and allow for it to 'continue'?) Her statement alone attests and admits certain things even though she was generic with THE CHURCH and not specific. But this is coming after: IT HAS TAKEN ME TIME TO SPEAK PUBLICLY ABOUT THIS BECAUSE WORK FIRST HAD TO BE DONE TO ENABLE THE PROCESS OF RESOLUTION. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Funke Adejumo Reacts To Rape Allegation Again Biodun Fatoyinbo By Busola Dakolo by AreaFada2: 9:20am On Jul 04, 2019 |
tyson98: Before nko? If it wasn't true they would have all descended on Mrs Dakolo since. |
Re: Funke Adejumo Reacts To Rape Allegation Again Biodun Fatoyinbo By Busola Dakolo by crazygod(m): 9:21am On Jul 04, 2019 |
[quote author=ericsmith post=79927807][/quote] Exactly. This is what I am saying, this is simply a case of adultery which should be treated in the confines of the church. But if its rape as the accuser alleged, then she goofed because she should have sued him. Perhaps a case of paedophile like R.Kelly that's if she was really younger than 18 as she is claiming which in this case, she should also sue. My grouse here is the social jungle justice that is taking place. |
Re: Funke Adejumo Reacts To Rape Allegation Again Biodun Fatoyinbo By Busola Dakolo by ipswitch: 9:30am On Jul 04, 2019 |
Tactful, diplomatic response. Madam has a sensitive matter in her hands. CAN is off, PFN is off and police said Dakolos are yet to file their case, lets see the healing and resolution asap. |
Re: Funke Adejumo Reacts To Rape Allegation Again Biodun Fatoyinbo By Busola Dakolo by AdorableJosh(m): 9:33am On Jul 04, 2019 |
DameB: Can't be consensual if she's below the age of consent, though I understand what you're trying to say is nonforcible sexual intercourse with an underaged individual. 1 Like |
Re: Funke Adejumo Reacts To Rape Allegation Again Biodun Fatoyinbo By Busola Dakolo by DameB(f): 9:35am On Jul 04, 2019 |
AdorableJosh: Yeah. Like teenagers having unforced sex and all that |
Re: Funke Adejumo Reacts To Rape Allegation Again Biodun Fatoyinbo By Busola Dakolo by Sanchez01: 9:35am On Jul 04, 2019 |
Ayisatojo:That he did it a long time ago isn't the point, but that he claimed no such thing happened in his so called press release. I am not perfect and I am not God but I do understand that admittance of sin or whatever it is I did wrong precedes forgiveness. Has he come out to admit it happened a long time ago? No! He claimed it never happened and that this was the first time he was being accused directly when in fact Ese Walter's graphic details of whatever went down between them is still scattered on cyber space. 1 Like |
Re: Funke Adejumo Reacts To Rape Allegation Again Biodun Fatoyinbo By Busola Dakolo by kiyosaki1(m): 9:37am On Jul 04, 2019 |
TVSA: You still didn't get it , okay let me come down to your level inconflict resolution their are processes involved, and those processes are what she outline beginning with fact findings .It's during facts findings that the truth comes out and the real cause of the issue at hand is discover , and after the follow up process is naturally healing which will be for both parties follow by restitution from the guilty party and lastly justice, what she outline is just the basics of conflicts resolution so get and stop displaying your level of ignorant . |
Re: Funke Adejumo Reacts To Rape Allegation Again Biodun Fatoyinbo By Busola Dakolo by CrazyMan(m): 9:37am On Jul 04, 2019 |
crazygod:96% of girls having sex for the first time don't initiate the process, it's the guys that do that. Some at some point will even beg and tell the guy to stop that's where you see guys begging as though their life is on the line. "Baby it's only the head I will put in" baby I just want to cuddle" etc...most times there's always a little bit of force during first time sex. How you react during and after the sex is what makes people and even the the initiator interpret it to be either r,ape or consensual sex. She let her guard down and submitted to him for sex. Which made even the pastor feel it was consensual. After the act who did she confined in... Nobody Who did she tell.... Nobody There's a saying that if you give a free meal to a stray dog, he'll be back the following day for another. After the pastor layed low for days and everywhere was calm, he decided to try his luck for the second time...and guess what, he succeeded and sex became a regular thing between both of them. My question is if she was r,aped as she claims why didn't she speak out after it was done the first time. Why let him in a second, third, forth....time ? If the pastor is to tender an apology, it should be for adultery to his wife and to the church and not r,ape cos the sex was consensual. |
Re: Funke Adejumo Reacts To Rape Allegation Again Biodun Fatoyinbo By Busola Dakolo by Nobody: 9:38am On Jul 04, 2019 |
crazygod: what made her come now is becos a certain woman alledged her of dating coza pastor on timi insta page now how did the woman come about such accusation if not that she saw something beyond the norms ... for the dakolo its a call to defend busola image asap before things get out of hands, its just had to be @ the expenses of the pastor they had no choice about that. |
Re: Funke Adejumo Reacts To Rape Allegation Again Biodun Fatoyinbo By Busola Dakolo by AdorableJosh(m): 9:40am On Jul 04, 2019 |
DameB: No, it basically means an adult having sex with someone below the age of consent 1 Like |
Re: Funke Adejumo Reacts To Rape Allegation Again Biodun Fatoyinbo By Busola Dakolo by kiyosaki1(m): 9:42am On Jul 04, 2019 |
Sanchez01: You still didn't get it , okay let me come down to your level inconflict resolution their are processes involved, and those processes are what she outline beginning with fact findings .It's during facts findings that the truth comes out and the real cause of the issue at hand is discover , and after the follow up process is naturally healing which will be for both parties follow by restitution from the guilty party and lastly justice, what she outline is just the basics of conflicts resolution so get and stop displaying your level of ignorant . |
Re: Funke Adejumo Reacts To Rape Allegation Again Biodun Fatoyinbo By Busola Dakolo by Saint83(m): 9:42am On Jul 04, 2019 |
tyson98: What I wanted to say... She say it all. |
Re: Funke Adejumo Reacts To Rape Allegation Again Biodun Fatoyinbo By Busola Dakolo by crazygod(m): 9:43am On Jul 04, 2019 |
ericsmith:Then why not sue the pastor since rape is a crime? Y not file a charge? |
Re: Funke Adejumo Reacts To Rape Allegation Again Biodun Fatoyinbo By Busola Dakolo by DameB(f): 9:44am On Jul 04, 2019 |
AdorableJosh: I know, I get it that that's statutory rape. I am trying to explain the consensual sex with among minor ( where both are below the age of consent) 1 Like |
Re: Funke Adejumo Reacts To Rape Allegation Again Biodun Fatoyinbo By Busola Dakolo by Sanchez01: 9:46am On Jul 04, 2019 |
kiyosaki1:If after taking my time to point out some things and you didn't think to digest, rather resort to name calling, then it is obvious I have been wasting my time on an iidiot who isn't worthy of it. You might as well be a paid voltron from Fatoyinbo like the thugs on Sunday to defend the crazy. You are ignored in the name of the Lord ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Funke Adejumo Reacts To Rape Allegation Again Biodun Fatoyinbo By Busola Dakolo by Nobody: 9:46am On Jul 04, 2019 |
crazygod:I doubt these allegations. |
Re: Funke Adejumo Reacts To Rape Allegation Again Biodun Fatoyinbo By Busola Dakolo by kiyosaki1(m): 9:49am On Jul 04, 2019 |
crazygod: Thank you ,this is a very good observation you raise .I don't get it why people will just not reason out of the box . If what busola apologies wanted is justice why not sue the man in court. It seems there are some people that arebent in tarnishing the name of pastors and the church with the incident, they are not really after justice but the coded aim is tarnishing the Christian leaders and the church. |
Re: Funke Adejumo Reacts To Rape Allegation Again Biodun Fatoyinbo By Busola Dakolo by DonCortino: 9:50am On Jul 04, 2019 |
KanuSE: Are u serious? |
Re: Funke Adejumo Reacts To Rape Allegation Again Biodun Fatoyinbo By Busola Dakolo by Nobody: 9:51am On Jul 04, 2019 |
crazygod: There is no cases here, nothing sue for, the age of consensual sex in kwara is 17yrs, so !! They only rushed out to shut the ella woman up before more damaging accusations are made. n it worked Nobody can come n say anything like biodun & busola had an affair afterward..it will be automatically redirected to the rape saga. |
Re: Funke Adejumo Reacts To Rape Allegation Again Biodun Fatoyinbo By Busola Dakolo by kiyosaki1(m): 9:53am On Jul 04, 2019 |
Sanchez01: You didn't passed out any message , you are just repeating what she wrote with biassed illustration to support why an accused that has not be proven guilty should be hanged based on hearsay or allegation. What I tried to tutor you is the basics of conflicts resolution and the best international acceptable way of conflicts resolution. |
Re: Funke Adejumo Reacts To Rape Allegation Again Biodun Fatoyinbo By Busola Dakolo by Chanchit: 10:06am On Jul 04, 2019 |
blaise26abj: If the allegations were wrong, Fatoyinbo would have sued her then, so we didn't dispute the fact that they had sex. But for a matured lady to come out and say she felt used. When she came out to say she just want to feel herself then, you all didn't come after her. While we are blaming the pastor(s) let's also not forget to apportion the role the ladies too played. |
Re: Funke Adejumo Reacts To Rape Allegation Again Biodun Fatoyinbo By Busola Dakolo by NoToPile: 10:14am On Jul 04, 2019 |
Sanchez01: Loool you really had time to break this down, there are lots of peeps who cant make an inference. |
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