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Is It Obligatory To Inform A Suitor Of A Possible Health Problem? by Lukgaf(m): 8:56am On Jul 05, 2019 |
Question Praise be to Allah. The fuqaha’ differed concerning the matters that could affect a marriage and must be disclosed. The majority are of the view that that should be limited to specific matters that would prevent physical pleasure, such as insanity, leprosy, and genital defects. The second view is that any defect (or health problem) that may put one of the spouses off the other in such a way that the purposes of marriage – compassion and love – cannot be achieved is a defect that must be disclosed, and the marriage may be annulled if it is concealed. Ibn al-Qayyim (may Allah have mercy on him) said: The analogy is that any defect (or health problem) that would put one spouse off the other, and would prevent fulfilment of the aims of marriage, namely compassion and love, would result in giving the option of annulling the marriage. End quote from Zaad al-Ma‘aad (5/166). The second view is most likely to be correct. In the answer to question no. 111980 we noted three guidelines regarding this matter: 1. if the sickness will have any impact on married life and will affect the wife’s ability to fulfil her duties towards her husband and children; 2. if it will be off-putting to the husband because of its appearance or smell; 3. if it is real and permanent, and is not something imagined or temporary that will disappear with the passage of time or after marriage. Based on that, you do not have to disclose that you suffered optical neuritis, because you have been treated and have recovered from it. No attention should be paid to a possible health problem that has not been proven and needs ten years to be sure whether one has been affected by it. And Allah knows best. Source: IslamQA 5 Likes |
Re: Is It Obligatory To Inform A Suitor Of A Possible Health Problem? by Kingsaeedibn: 9:51am On Jul 05, 2019 |
It's a must to tell your spouse about health issues before getting married.. Especially if it's a serious health issue.. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Obligatory To Inform A Suitor Of A Possible Health Problem? by Nobody: 9:56am On Jul 05, 2019 |
Kingsaeedibn: Not in the case of imagined possible health issues... 1 Like |
Re: Is It Obligatory To Inform A Suitor Of A Possible Health Problem? by enemyofprogress: 9:57am On Jul 05, 2019 |
It is very very obligatory o, especially if the engine room is not working well 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Obligatory To Inform A Suitor Of A Possible Health Problem? by Kingsaeedibn: 9:57am On Jul 05, 2019 |
WinningSun: Explain better |
Re: Is It Obligatory To Inform A Suitor Of A Possible Health Problem? by skultrick(m): 10:55am On Jul 05, 2019 |
Nonesense 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Obligatory To Inform A Suitor Of A Possible Health Problem? by NkemChukwudi: 11:06am On Jul 05, 2019 |
Very obligatory...... |
Re: Is It Obligatory To Inform A Suitor Of A Possible Health Problem? by damola1: 12:05pm On Jul 05, 2019 |
Would you like to go into a marriage where possibility of disability was stated prior ? |
Re: Is It Obligatory To Inform A Suitor Of A Possible Health Problem? by Khaleell001(m): 10:44pm On Jul 05, 2019 |
enemyofprogress: Why is that you this idiot can't seem to stay out of what Muslims do? |
Re: Is It Obligatory To Inform A Suitor Of A Possible Health Problem? by enemyofprogress: 12:26am On Jul 06, 2019 |
Khaleell001:because they're the major problem of the world 1 Like |
Re: Is It Obligatory To Inform A Suitor Of A Possible Health Problem? by budaatum: 4:15pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
Op, this really is simple. Would you like your intended partner to be honest and open with you? It is written, “None of you have faith until you love for your neighbor what you love for yourself” (Sahih Muslim) “Whoever wishes to be delivered from the fire and to enter Paradise…should treat the people as he wishes to be treated.” (Sahih Muslim) 1 Like |
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