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Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Skmoda360(m): 5:35am On Jul 06, 2019 |
GodSaklek:Too much sense in your write up...I hope op see this particular post. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by hope4life: 5:39am On Jul 06, 2019 |
Any woman that does this is evil under Satan's control.You don't stay at home,only weekends and yet she does this.She is evil because she is torturing you emotionally, she is evil because if she pushes you into the waiting hands of other girls,the consequences will be disastrous. I'm talking as a married Christian.God will not excuse you of your sin because a situation pushes you there.Once you start you may not stop and it goes with a scar.Satan is using women against men these days like never before.You are the target,don't succumb to temptation. Suggestion: 1.Have a talk with her,if no change 2.Talk to someone in the family she respects most 3.Involve your pastor if you are a Christian There is a level certain thing gets to in marriage that you don't keep to yourself."Let no third party be involved in your marriage" counseling only works if Satan is.not involved. When a matter gets out of control,voice out. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by bulusberry: 5:43am On Jul 06, 2019 |
uruba23:chai did u read the content at all if u did it only means u lack understanding'' |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by popoolaRofiat(f): 5:43am On Jul 06, 2019 |
kennydotkom: One most important thing you should have raised up is if she has been behaving like that at the beginning of your marriage. If not then something happened along the way, try to find out. If yes then you have a serious issue still try to find out. |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Amuocha: 5:44am On Jul 06, 2019 |
Buhari sef |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by favour32(m): 5:48am On Jul 06, 2019 |
In order for you to have peace let her be.Go find somebody else around your working place.You go f∆¢k taya. Do not sit her and talk to her.You will only make things worse. Apply Sir Isaac Newton's third law of motion to be happy. |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by MobilityExpress: 5:56am On Jul 06, 2019 |
Davash222: Kennydotkom this is the truth about your matter. It's unfortunate |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by tonyhoney: 5:56am On Jul 06, 2019 |
This is a very serious issue. Only the person with the same experience can give a reasonable and useful advice, but you might not like the advice. Your own issue is far better than mine. I come home once in a month, when I come home, I stay 5days at home. I didn't have any GF, my always denied me sex. She also nags. There is nothing I didn't try to resurrect her urge but nothing works, being medical, being spiritual, being material, my brother, nothing works. And she never even believe she has a serious issue. I used to wake her up in the middle of the night, talk to her, beg her to change but nothing works. Supposed we hadn't had children, irrespective of religious type, I would have divorced her. The emotional torture I get from my wife, I don't you can withstand it, to the extend that my wife would not sleep with me in the same bed, she would squeezed herself in the mist of the children and sleep, if at all she sleep with me, she would demarcate the bed to make sure that I dont touch her. To cut the story short my brother, you are the solution to your own problem. I was a wife lover, I still love her. She had made me doing things I didn't like doing. I started mixing with friends, I started sleeping with oloshos outside. I started drinking. But for how long will I continue this? the time will come that I will not be able to do all these again, especially when growing old while the emotional torture from my wife will still continue. Then I find a solution myself. If you want us to talk one on one, request for my number so we can talk better. These attitudes of our wives are what kill some of the men untimely. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Fisher007: 5:58am On Jul 06, 2019 |
kennydotkom: My brother you need to enlighten yourself. This is a normal phenomenon with women or ladies after marriage. That is why most experienced men on red pill and Mgtow channel on YouTube advice you not to marry. Ladies change based on hormones, age , emotions, childbirth, etc And you will always suffer as the man for things you have no idea of. Most men are going through this in their marriage and they keep silent. Women start using sex as weapon especially when they know you are loyal to only them. It is a very stupid decision which she will likely regret over time. The second case might be she found another lover elsewhere which I am not praying that is the case. Solution: Try to discuss and explain to her on several occasions that she knows it is part of her marital duties and vows. And if she continues. Ignore her and find a solution elsewhere. Don't argue about it. Don't fight it. Divert your attention and care to your career or younger ladies who are wild and will treat you with care. Anyday she comes to her senses she will start asking you questions. Still ignore her. Let her beg and even hold a family meeting. Ignore her. She needs to understand she ain't the prize my brother. You are the prize. Simple. 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by ramondinho(m): 5:59am On Jul 06, 2019 |
Sorry Bro, But one thing i read about women sleeping with another man is that, there concubine always tell them not to allow their husband to touch them. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by CapitanS: 6:00am On Jul 06, 2019 |
Someone else is satisfying her |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by MobilityExpress: 6:04am On Jul 06, 2019 |
tonyhoney: From what you just said it is clear that your wife is cheating. No real wife will turn down her husband that has been gone for a month. She will even be the one to initiate sex and swallow you like a hungry lion. The fact that she is not interested with you is 100% proof she is already sleeping with another man or men. Don't accuse her randomly, get your evidence and one of the surest ways is checking through her phone when she doesn't expect. If she hides it from you or the type that you don't know her password, then she is obviously an expert in cheating already. Then you have no choice than to let her know you will start dating another woman and even marry another wife and watch how she will either correct herself and behave or continue misbehaving and expose herself that she too is seeing another person. |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by kbright2(m): 6:07am On Jul 06, 2019 |
daddytime: Don't allow some kids here destroyed the home you've built for years, some are just tools of home destruction. You case is order way round for me, my wife is the one that ask more than I do these days though, I work in same city with her. Sex is all about mode and I don't have any side chick. Beside, you may be the one satisfying yourself by not allowing her to come whenever you guy have it. The are books that will teach you how to ignite your romance life. Mind you, initially my wife don't like it before I bought books online to mode her, now me don't fancy it now. Sex drive is directly proportional to your challenges, take your time to find out her present challenges. Don't try to go against your will, it hurts and destroys beyond repair if date those devils chicks out there. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by BLESSMME: 6:14am On Jul 06, 2019 |
uruba23: You are very wise....trust me |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by NiRfreak(m): 6:15am On Jul 06, 2019 |
uruba23:Just shut up with this rubbish that u write here...Nonsense.. |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by ChelseaDotCom: 6:16am On Jul 06, 2019 |
My man, when you were in Abeokuta: 1. How many time did you usually call her before you get back home? 2. Do you talk dirty with her, make her want you , get her in the mood before you get back home? 3. Do you buy her a gift on your way back? 4. Do you use nice cologne...? My guy, sex is not plug n play, you must work your way into it with some women who are not addicted. Thank me later. |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Contumely: 6:17am On Jul 06, 2019 |
Davidasi: How exactly could this be done. Be detailed please. |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by ogawisdom(m): 6:17am On Jul 06, 2019 |
Kennydotcom You need to stop asking her for sex for at least 2 months and watch what happens. Sadly this means you will cheat but then again u have no other option. Before she can co operate she needs to get scared of u cheating. After having children most woman have low sex drive but most will still Bleep to satisfy their hubby n once a week is very reasonable. |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by bigfather(m): 6:23am On Jul 06, 2019 |
daddytime: Confirm ! |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by israelmao(m): 6:25am On Jul 06, 2019 |
I am giving you this advice because of your fear and love for God and family as well as your faithfulness and I am pleading with you not go the way of world system.I know you have been talking to your wife about how you feel as regards to her refusal to have sex with her but I still want you to take more conscious steps and have heart-to-heart discussion with her.,tell her how much you love her and your family.Again within your period of staying away from home find time to call her and also send romantic messages to her most especially let this act be intensified when it is one day before visiting your family if this fails report her to her parents.Please remain faithful knowing that you are doing this to help yourself and family.Never allow any devil to gain entrance into your home,Satan is always targeting the precious and those who have resolved in their hearts not to commit sin.May the peace and love of God be with you and your lovely home. |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by skywalker240(m): 6:26am On Jul 06, 2019 |
tonyhoney:sir, i would plead with u to share it here, alot of guys here are in dis same tin and they need to learn, its a open forum, but if its confidential, am in cos am having same experience . Are u charging for it? |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Contumely: 6:28am On Jul 06, 2019 |
Davidasi: How exactly can this be done? Could you be detailed please? tnx |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Pswagaaa(m): 6:29am On Jul 06, 2019 |
To an extent I blame you, doing courtship you should have been able to know if your wife is a sex frick or she's not. If I may ask how was ur sex life before you got transfered to anoda state? |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Jinad50: 6:30am On Jul 06, 2019 |
1cor, 7 vs 28 Problems are part of marriage. The singles should learn from this and decide whether or not they want to marry. |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Nobody: 6:31am On Jul 06, 2019 |
Davash222: With what am seeing these dayz I can't help but agree with you. Fear women!!!! well some of them at least |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Nobody: 6:34am On Jul 06, 2019 |
bigcasava1:I didn't say he should pay her for that ,don't misquote me.Those that knows what i am saying knows except we want to pretend for ourselves, especially when you have a house wife. |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Nobody: 6:36am On Jul 06, 2019 |
NiRfreak:Everyone is entitled to his opinion,what is Nonsense to you his common sense to others. |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Nobody: 6:38am On Jul 06, 2019 |
bulusberry:Hahaha Mazi may be we should wait for the elders to judge that,biko wayo wayo o 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Nobody: 6:39am On Jul 06, 2019 |
BLESSMME:Thank you 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by dazzlingd(m): 6:44am On Jul 06, 2019 |
Davash222: If I haven't seen this type of comment among first 5, I'd have quit Nairaland. |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by sylve11: 6:47am On Jul 06, 2019 |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Greenbullet(m): 6:49am On Jul 06, 2019 |
Marriage are for loosers , who in their right mind gets married ? |
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