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Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Nobody: 8:09am On Jul 06, 2019 |
Every weekend sex? Oga, can't you stay 2-3weeks without sex? I am not going to do that with you if you were my husband. Give your wife a break joor! |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by franchasng: 8:13am On Jul 06, 2019 |
In Nigeria, 90% or more of ladies don't want to have sex cheerfully or normally unless they are forced, cajoled, lured into it using money, gifts, favors, fake promises of heaven and earth, promise of employment, promotion and even promise of marriage, and this is why no Nigerian woman can win any case of rape in any Nigerian court headed by a male Judge because they understand this situation that Nigerian women only have sex by force or by deceit. So op apply the Nigerian male tactics on your wife and watch the outcome, tell your wife you are planning to get her a car soonest, that there is one big money your company will soon pay you, that once the money clears, you will buy her the car, that what type of car does she like most, then watch how she will kill you with sex for the next few months in anticipation of the new car Pls don't quote me, I am inside Church Choir practice 6 Likes |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Mart1994(m): 8:17am On Jul 06, 2019 |
GrabHisBalls: In ur mind now, u think u made sense. Let's turn u into a man and give u the same situation and watch as you go bananas two seconds. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Laurene: 8:21am On Jul 06, 2019 |
koyyess:sharrap, the man is also stressing himself to provide for them. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Nobody: 8:22am On Jul 06, 2019 |
You all keep chanting "sit her down,DISCUSSION" without considering the possibilities he must have done. We just have to acknowledge the fact that some women don't really like sex, the best way for a man is to abandon her, here is what i mean change the perception make her start thinking you came home for the children not her. You either cheat or fake it ...oga get sex elsewhere stop disturbing her buh don't stop loving her afterall she is your wife & mother of ur kids. As times goes on she will notice, every lady might not like sex buh every woman want attention ...these will force her to retrace her step ...if truly she loves you. stop begging for love,stop begging for sex, it irrirate women n make them have little or no time for you as a man. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by obinna222: 8:25am On Jul 06, 2019 |
True talk @ Daddy time. She would reset her memory then. daddytime: |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by koyyess: 8:28am On Jul 06, 2019 |
Laurene: Are you married? You think being married and a full time house wife is child's play? loosen those tight weaves so you can think properly. Fish brain. Then again, you may not even be a female. Just one of those frustrated sex starved f@ggots hiding under (f) monikers. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Korllami007: 8:39am On Jul 06, 2019 |
franchasng: Your head de Dia. That's why I said Nigerian women no de enjoy sex. If they do, I don't think they need to be cajoled, force, even as a wife too. Some people are advicing him to take her out every time, give her more money and buy gifts everytime he wants to have sex as if his wife is one of the street girls that guys pass around like shisha. Guy A will tell guy B, "If you want to Bleep that babe just buy her shawarma and the p...sy is all yours for that day." And guy B will reply, "I don't like that girl. What of her friend?". Guy A will reply, "Hmmm. That girl like money oo. If you can be giving her money, you will hit her kitty till thy kingdom come." If the money and gifts and is not frequent as usual, that means no sex for the husband. Because not everytime the man will be having the time to buy gifts for his wife or taking her out. What if he becomes broke, that means no sex for him for that period of time. It's necessary for the husband to take the wife and the children at least once in a month not because he wants to have sex with his but to have nice with his family. In the West, families go on different cruises, land cruise, ship cruise etc. The family go on cruise not because the husband wants have sex with his wife but to spend nice time with his family and relax. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Bizibi(m): 8:39am On Jul 06, 2019 |
yankison:it doesn't work like that, the day you do that is the day you abandon your family. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Bizibi(m): 8:46am On Jul 06, 2019 |
There are kids and womanizers on this forum,even one said marriage is for losers ......nairaland!!!! |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Deathisfree: 8:47am On Jul 06, 2019 |
donkilidon: My brother set a hidden cctv camera in your house. You will know the truth .its obvious you love your wife but women are idiots they don’t deserve it |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by mechanics(m): 8:59am On Jul 06, 2019 |
daddytime:That's a wrong reply, you shouldn't advise people to do evil. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by mechanics(m): 8:59am On Jul 06, 2019 |
Keep praying about it. |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by CArt(m): 9:01am On Jul 06, 2019 |
Don't sleep with another woman yet but let her be seeing u with a matured prettier lady. If she doesn't change then retrace your steps. Start doing what u were doing for her at the early stage of ur relationship. If nothing changes then change your mind. |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by CorperKola: 9:07am On Jul 06, 2019 |
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Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by ngwababe(f): 9:11am On Jul 06, 2019 |
Ajohnnasa we will talk about these. 1 Like |
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Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by CorperKola: 9:22am On Jul 06, 2019 |
kennydotkom:Look at what this guy is doing o Wash ur wife's cloth! You already lost ur power and position as a man in this marriage a long time ago. I cant even begin to advise you now. I honestly think its too late. Hope the people concerned are noting this now Unnecessary Kindness will be always be misconstrued as weakness. Fact 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by AJohnnasa(m): 9:23am On Jul 06, 2019 |
ngwababe: I see you. |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Humility017(m): 9:26am On Jul 06, 2019 |
AwkaetitiBabe:most ladies beyond the age of 25 were circumcised. |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Effico5real(m): 9:26am On Jul 06, 2019 |
Psoul:God bless you for this piece. The best I have read so far. very wise. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by tightpussy156: 9:28am On Jul 06, 2019 |
hey man let me tell you the real truth take it an ur problem is solve or you remain in pains an bondage. 1. your wife is collecting a big dick outside that is fucking the wide pussy to red.A woman cannot just sit an decide not to give her husband sex after returning one full week from work. she suppose be the on to initiate sex with happiness if she loves you. 2. I don't think you are man enough to take responsibility in ur house that is why she denied you sex.remembered women use sex as a way to get weak men. 3. Do u give her money to satisfy her want that is another point for her to deny u sex.some'WOMEN' use the word no money,no sex in their matrimonial home.so now what is the differences between her an a prostitude. 4. if you lack all these point I mention go fix them properly.but if you satisfy her finaically an she still gives u excuse u better go an get a girl outside. the truth is bitter they say but it will remove you from.bondage.those that will quote me wrong for telling this man the truth should hug transformer. |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by victorian(f): 9:34am On Jul 06, 2019 |
kennydotkom: It's not because she's circumcised. I'm circumsized but I still have urges and definitely love to get laid by a man I'm inlove with. The thing is you are not romantic with words. Women love hearing sweet words in chats, calls and when you guys are together. It creates intimate bond. Be romantic with words as well. Especially during the week and on your way home during the weekends She will change and become soft loving again 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by sorepco(m): 9:34am On Jul 06, 2019 |
U would surprised. She might not be getting it somewhere. She might be stresse. Just threaten her you will get it somewhere else if she does not behave! Davash222: |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Charly68: 9:38am On Jul 06, 2019 |
bigl: |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Nobody: 9:41am On Jul 06, 2019 |
HIV, Hepatitis B is real that is all I can tell you. So if your planning on sleeping outside, have that at the back of your mind. When you have HIV, that konji that is disturbing you, you will look for it, you won't find. In fact you won't even think of Konji, you will be feeling suicidal. Be Wise! 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by realGod(f): 9:44am On Jul 06, 2019 |
chaii,there is God ooo.but madam please don't come to tell us that your husband sleeps out side now.cosyou coursed him to do so. |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Candoit: 9:47am On Jul 06, 2019 |
bigl: this is like the best answer here. Truth is I am a woman too and this stuff happens. You just lose interest and u can't explain it yourself due to body changes. You both need to see a doctor if you've tried the tip given by this brother above. Cheating will only compound ur problems 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by CeeManCollins(m): 9:54am On Jul 06, 2019 |
Your wife is seeing someone else and you know women she is doing it with her heart. shes in love with the guy. I can teach you how to find out or catch her. |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by LordAdam16: 9:58am On Jul 06, 2019 |
MobilityExpress: Oga seriously, type any search string relating to "wife not wanting sex" and you'll see this is more prevalent than cheating sef. Virtually all relationships go through a down period. Some for longer than most. And it affects both men and women (although from anecdotes, it happens more with women as they often have the lower libido in a relationship). Furthermore, since women are traditionally more self-conceited, they're not empathic in these situations. Same way you can't imagine the inconvenience of pregnancy is how they find it difficult to reconcile why you can't just let them be during their down period. It's mostly physiological. It's not a decision she's made. Many times it's not because of anything the guy has done and quite frankly he can try to change things but the odds aren't in his favor. Any older married man would either have a first hand experience or have friends who have had same. Those are the people to go for advice, not NL arm-chair relationship experts. Now, he should definitely do the investigating thing, but if nothing turns up he shouldn't feel like he's experiencing something rare. Personally from the biology and all, I don't think humans were made to have one concurrent partner for life. That made sense when life expectancy was 30 years in the ancient world. Not now with life getting up to 70+. People change in more ways than one; and the person you marry today may not necessarily be a person you'd want to be with in 15 or 20 years time. Most of our parents stayed together after whatever they had burned dim for survival reasons (where would the woman go) and because of social norms. Marriage in the 21st century should be a renewable contract with a 10 year tenor. That would also take the stigma away from separating for gender equity. So that when a man for example has to deal with this and done all he can to get her to change and she (whether intentionally or unintentionally) can't switch things up; you just circle (and look forward to) the date of contract expiration on the calendar; rather than stay depressed with this misguided notion that you have to put up with that crap for the rest of your life (or until or whenever she has her wake up call). If the men who are living with this open up to you personally; you'd think they're referring to a disability they have. That's when you'd really realize the vagina is a man's kryptonite. -Lord |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Pro2makx(m): 10:04am On Jul 06, 2019 |
There are two possibilities here. It is either she is comfortably cheating on you from Monday to Friday (so she does not miss you sexually at all when you are gone, she only will miss your money). So ask yourself, for this first senerio to hold, was she always like this? Especially when you were still in relationship and during the early days of your marriage? If she wasn't like this, then scenario one is likely holding, for reasons bothering maybe you are not good enough for her in bed or she can't handle having her man so far away all week, so she has another filling in the space. (Two days in a week is too bad for proper bonding)In this case, get a PI ASAP. If she has always been like that even during your single hood relationship or courtship, then we have to consider scenario two. SCRNERIO TWO She has probably been exhibiting this traits but you were not observant enough. In this case it is totally not her fault in that, there are lots of women today who had issues with their sexual life, THEY HARDLY FEEL LIKE or in some cased DONT FEEL LIKE having sex at all until you have succeeded in penetrating them, then they start enjoying it. Watch out for this kinda women, they are the sort who dont easily get wet, except they are extremely happy prior to the inter-course, they also sometimes also don't like romance, they just want you to go straight to the point sometimes, (and if you can't impress them at this instance, it will be bad for you, cos you are not guaranteed another session, except you hold something they need, like marriage, money etc). Some of this women sometimes are victims of either outright circumcision or their clitoris was badly damaged due to over heating and irritation on their clitoris from their parents or whoever bath them in the early days of their birth. Sometimes, this people go to the extent of continuously using dusting powder and hot water (and other hard substances) on this area of their vagina (I call this partial circumcision), at which point I guess they usually don't know when to stop, all they know is, they don't want the clitoris protruding out because, it is believed that women with elongated clitoris, spanning as far as outside the lips of their vagina, usually don't have hold on their sex life (sometimes, they are the 'Sarewa' type), they hardly can resist or say NO to sex when the opportunity arises, as they are most time Hot. (For me I believe there is a level of possibility in this, as their clitoris, which we know as a very sensitive part of a female body will always be brushing against their pants or trouser). So next time you are home, rather than having another argument session with her over how you are sex starved, you might want to see how "killed" her clitoris is. If its almost not detectable, then she needs help, you need to get her laboratory tested sex stimulants (from pharmacys or book a session with a doctor), always do things to make her happy, she will gladly give her self to you. In this part it is not her fault. it will only be her fault if till now she has personally not made any deliberate moves to help her self, which implies she does not see satisfying her husband as a conjugal obligation, she has given up without trying, so she is now like certain African women who no longer regard their husband in certain respect cos they feel they now have all the children they want and they are comfortable financially without the man. This is not to write off the possibility that she might have made certain effort and she can't even talk to people about it, not even you her so called husband, cos you are never around or even when you are around you never pay attention to her or her body. What ever you do bros please MAKE SURE YOU ALEAYS CREATE A COMFORTABLE OR CONDUCIVE ENVIRONMENT for your woman to talk to you on anything and every thing bothering her, just seeing that you are attentive alone can make her have so much trust in you and feel secured with you. You dont want to only suffer the backlash or transferred agression of whatever she is going through, her silence on bugging issue most of the time is bad for you, cos she is a woman and you will probably guess her emotions wrong 85% of the time, unless she opens her mouth to tell you or except you have earned so much of her trust, your ears are always open to listen even to lausy gists, then she would tell you. How many times does she spend time away from the stress of raising the kids alone?, visiting you at your diaspora station, do you invite her over often? Did you get her an house help? Brother Monday to Friday is too much, even your children might start revolting soon, cos their father is almost not a part of their life, then you start feeling lonely within your own family cis they will be more secure running to their mum alone when they have challenged, as she is the only face they mostly see. Move your family to your new station or make sure they visit you well. There are other possibility, but please look into this both scenario. Thank you DISCLAIMER This write up only represents my view on the said topic, please it shouldn't be misrepresented as a proven fact, only my personal experience and conclusions on the topic 1 Like |
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