Candoit:


this is like the best answer here.
Truth is I am a woman too and this stuff happens. You just lose interest and u can't explain it yourself due to body changes. You both need to see a doctor if you've tried the tip given by this brother above.
Cheating will only compound ur problems

Thanks for being real ma'am.

However, it doesn't just happen to women alone o, it does happen to men too.

Davash222:
So, you still need Ezemmuo to come and tel you your wife is getting the dicck somewhere else

After the weeks toil and you return home to your beloved wife, a faithful wife would ‘scatter’ you with sexx!!!! She’s getting the D somewhere!!! And I think that D is performing better than you. Sorry about that.

This sums it all, with this comment, I am done with reading other comments on this post. Unfortunately the comment came too early.

Na waoh my wife n yours if den do competition for that thing e be like say na my wife go win o. Wives of nowadays Taya me to, my brother am beginning to nurse feelings outside Jaree, it could be painful, I cannot be fighting her or raping her. Have had heart to heart discussion with her, yet....

mechanics:
That's a wrong reply, you shouldn't advise people to do evil.

What is eviler than the torture the woman, a supposed wife is making the brother endure?

Kindly explain to me sir...

What kind of rubbish is this?
Why on earth should she deny you something you only get on weekends?
You guys really need to talk heart to heart.
Find out what her problem(s) is /are. Or if she's just being mean.
I'm not married, but I don't pray to deny my husband sex if I can help it.

kennydotkom:
My wife has always denied me sex with her, though I know that whenever she is not in good mood, she won't allow me, but this has become frequent with her. Note that I work in another state but I come home every weekend in which I have all the privileges to have girls because I live alone.

I can decide not to come home on a weekend just to attend to other girls but I didn't. Many people often call me a pastor because my neighbor where I work has not seen me with girlfriend with all the freedom I have.

Sometimes she jokingly says that I so much like sex that she doesn't want to grow old fast because of sex. With just 2 or 3rounds am OK till next weekend oo.

HOW TRUE IS This? as for me I get satisfy whenever we have fun togeda such that I can wait till next weekend when I will return home from work.

She is not a working class type, so she does her business at home, no stress except to take care of kids. at time she complained of headache, tiredness, or even if I wake her up at around 4am when kids have slept, she will complain that why did I wake her up when she was dreaming. And if am forcing her, she will being to make noise that can wake the kids up.

Here in my place of work in abeokuta I have all the reason to sleep with other girls, in which I have told my wife herself that my conscience cannot judge me if I do, because with little time I spend with you, u often turn me down and mostly she never initiate sex with me except she is extremely happy but very rear.

I don't know who to report her to .i just don't want to flirt around because of fear of God and love I have for my kids. We can go a month without sex, she is very OK with that, I told her that she had turn herself to just roommate.

Is she circumcised? If yes, it reduces or even erases the urge for sex.

Please don't commit adultery (Read Hebrews 13:4). Let your wife know what she's doing is sinful. (Read 1 Corinthians 7:5)

You can also call her parents. An arrangement for once a week should be established.

Davash222:
So, you still need Ezemmuo to come and tel you your wife is getting the dicck somewhere else

After the weeks toil and you return home to your beloved wife, a faithful wife would ‘scatter’ you with sexx!!!! She’s getting the D somewhere!!! And I think that D is performing better than you. Sorry about that.

your right my dear, that is just the blind truth, simple and straight

kennydotkom:
My wife has always denied me sex with her, though I know that whenever she is not in good mood, she won't allow me, but this has become frequent with her. Note that I work in another state but I come home every weekend in which I have all the privileges to have girls because I live alone.

I can decide not to come home on a weekend just to attend to other girls but I didn't. Many people often call me a pastor because my neighbor where I work has not seen me with girlfriend with all the freedom I have.

Sometimes she jokingly says that I so much like sex that she doesn't want to grow old fast because of sex. With just 2 or 3rounds am OK till next weekend oo.

HOW TRUE IS This? as for me I get satisfy whenever we have fun togeda such that I can wait till next weekend when I will return home from work.

She is not a working class type, so she does her business at home, no stress except to take care of kids. at time she complained of headache, tiredness, or even if I wake her up at around 4am when kids have slept, she will complain that why did I wake her up when she was dreaming. And if am forcing her, she will being to make noise that can wake the kids up.

Here in my place of work in abeokuta I have all the reason to sleep with other girls, in which I have told my wife herself that my conscience cannot judge me if I do, because with little time I spend with you, u often turn me down and mostly she never initiate sex with me except she is extremely happy but very rear.

I don't know who to report her to .i just don't want to flirt around because of fear of God and love I have for my kids. We can go a month without sex, she is very OK with that, I told her that she had turn herself to just roommate.

I commend you for your commitment to your marital vows, however you need to understand that sex for a woman isn't instantaneous like men. You cant leave her with so much work for 5days an expect to just climb her when you come back. That is tantamount to going to withdraw cash in a bank with insufficient balance.

The process of having sex with your wife on Saturday starts on Monday, send her messages, buy are small gifts, make her feel loved and appreciated, you can buy takeout on the day you arrive so she doesn't have to cook etc.

You are away for the week and your wife has to take full responsibility for herself and the kids, that's a lot of work, every normal person will harbor resentment. You have to find ways reduce the load on her, try and make up during the weekend you are around by making sure she gets full rest, as it stands you are the oldest kid she has to care for every weekend.

You can try dropping the children with friends on Saturday n taking your wife on a date and always appreciated her for all she is doing.

Gradually she will warm up to you. All the best bro.

As big a deal as sex is in a relationship, it is still the most easily solved problem; if you seek to understand what the problem is through proper communication with your partner. My advise, talk it out with your wife.
Don't let comments here create doubt in your heart. It will destroy your home.

Set up hidden camera in your house...... you will see the answer to your question.

Op if ur father had multiple wives or ur in-laws.i. e ancestral power at work.locate mfm and go for deliverance sir.or else you are going to be an adulterers and go to hell.do not think of extra Na sword

Mart1994:


In ur mind now, u think u made sense.


Let's turn u into a man and give u the same situation and watch as you go bananas two seconds.

I expect you to support your like. So, all men in marriages must have sex at least once in a week? How did you now make sense?

I strongly believe your wife is having marital affairs with someone dat more stronger than you.... wake up man.

Effico5real:
God bless you for this piece. The best I have read so far. very wise.

Thank you dear. Remain blessed.

kennydotkom:
My wife has always denied me sex with her, though I know that whenever she is not in good mood, she won't allow me, but this has become frequent with her. Note that I work in another state but I come home every weekend in which I have all the privileges to have girls because I live alone.

I can decide not to come home on a weekend just to attend to other girls but I didn't. Many people often call me a pastor because my neighbor where I work has not seen me with girlfriend with all the freedom I have.

Sometimes she jokingly says that I so much like sex that she doesn't want to grow old fast because of sex. With just 2 or 3rounds am OK till next weekend oo.

HOW TRUE IS This? as for me I get satisfy whenever we have fun togeda such that I can wait till next weekend when I will return home from work.

She is not a working class type, so she does her business at home, no stress except to take care of kids. at time she complained of headache, tiredness, or even if I wake her up at around 4am when kids have slept, she will complain that why did I wake her up when she was dreaming. And if am forcing her, she will being to make noise that can wake the kids up.

Here in my place of work in abeokuta I have all the reason to sleep with other girls, in which I have told my wife herself that my conscience cannot judge me if I do, because with little time I spend with you, u often turn me down and mostly she never initiate sex with me except she is extremely happy but very rear.

I don't know who to report her to .i just don't want to flirt around because of fear of God and love I have for my kids. We can go a month without sex, she is very OK with that, I told her that she had turn herself to just roommate.

Change your routine,try paying unannounced visit home on working days to very sure your wife is not cheating,if you are sure she is faithful let her be when she is ready,she will ask for it.

daddytime:
Hmmm

Very rigid situation.

There's nothing you can do to reignite the spark In some women when they have decided to turn off the switch trust me.

I'd advise you just cable your line and find a fuckmate around you for relief.

By the time she sees you no longer ask her for sex, her body go phone her.

If she no dey collect from anoda Bleep mate herself

franchasng:
In Nigeria, 90% or more of ladies don't want to have sex cheerfully or normally unless they are forced, cajoled, lured into it using money, gifts, favors, fake promises of heaven and earth, promise of employment, promotion and even promise of marriage, and this is why no Nigerian woman can win any case of rape in any Nigerian court headed by a male Judge because they understand this situation that Nigerian women only have sex by force or by deceit.

So op apply the Nigerian male tactics on your wife and watch the outcome, tell your wife you are planning to get her a car soonest, that there is one big money your company will soon pay you, that once the money clears, you will buy her the car, that what type of car does she like most, then watch how she will kill you with sex for the next few months in anticipation of the new car


Pls don't quote me, I am inside Church Choir practice

Lol...as silly as this post feels, makes so much sense-the first paragraph at least

GrabHisBalls:
I expect you to support your like. So, all men in marriages must have sex at least once in a week? How did you now make sense?

First, I don't scramble for likes unless it pays my bills.

Secondly, yes. We are wired differently. I understand that u ladies feel the urge like once in a month unlike us that feel the urge like every second so, am not surprised u find it absurd. Cuz ur not a man.

kennydotkom:

Thank bro. Just that I don't like cheating on my wife because she is not the cheating type too, maybe because she was circumcised that is why she has low sex drive.

Yea, circumcised ladies don't like sex at all. I dated one back then and suffered a lot

koyyess:


Are you married?

You think being married and a full time house wife is child's play?

loosen those tight weaves so you can think properly.

Fish brain.

Then again, you may not even be a female. Just one of those frustrated sex starved f@ggots hiding under (f) monikers.

so do you think toiling day and night to provide for the family is child's play? To be a man is not a day job. My sex does not matter, what matters is that you get enlightened. OK

victorian:













It's not because she's circumcised.

I'm circumsized but I still have urges and definitely love to get laid by a man I'm inlove with.

The thing is you are not romantic with words.

Women love hearing sweet words in chats, calls and when you guys are together.

It creates intimate bond.

Be romantic with words as well. Especially during the week and on your way home during the weekends

She will change and become soft loving again

I heard women that were circumcised hardly reach orgasm (cum), is it true?

nuelyoyo:
I heard women that were circumcised hardly reach orgasm (cum), is it true?

Pure fallacy.

Laurene:
so do you think toiling day and night to provide for the family is child's play? To be a man is not a day job. My sex does not matter, what matters is that you get enlightened. OK

Enlightened about what?

Are you married?

Are you a housewife and mother living away from her husband?

Have you thought about being in one's shoes before making judgement?

Use your head.

Was it this way before you started working in abeoukuta, else she most likely be fucking a younger dick, better get a camera and hide somewhere or visit home suddenly.

Davash222:
So, you still need Ezemmuo to come and tel you your wife is getting the dicck somewhere else

After the weeks toil and you return home to your beloved wife, a faithful wife would ‘scatter’ you with sexx!!!! She’s getting the D somewhere!!! And I think that D is performing better than you. Sorry about that.

This is the only reason I’ll marry a woman from my state.

I don’t have the energy to be forming FBI n CIA on top woman matter

Talk to her

daddytime:
Hmmm

Very rigid situation.

There's nothing you can do to reignite the spark In some women when they have decided to turn off the switch trust me.

I'd advise you just cable your line and find a fuckmate around you for relief.

By the time she sees you no longe
r ask her for sex, her body go phone her.

Seriously you are wicked. That the only advice you have chaaaiiiii men of this days tufiakwa.

Davash222:
So, you still need Ezemmuo to come and tel you your wife is getting the dicck somewhere else

After the weeks toil and you return home to your beloved wife, a faithful wife would ‘scatter’ you with sexx!!!! She’s getting the D somewhere!!! And I think that D is performing better than you. Sorry about that.

You are very unbearable , why do you want to separate this lovely family for God sake why?

AwkaetitiBabe:
Probably the op knew that she was circumcised before marrying her. But people are wicked! What's d essence of sex if u can't enjoy it? Jeeeez

where do you reside in Abuja?

koyyess:


Enlightened about what?

Are you married?

Are you a housewife and mother living away from her husband?

Have you thought about being in one's shoes before making judgement?

Use your head.

once again shut up and shut up well. I don't have to be married to know what is in marriage. I have parents and have seen other marriages, both the man and woman play important roles to keep the family moving and that's what in this present case they are doing. if the man was jobless I would fully understand the reason for her actions. so you telling me the stress of taking care of the children is the reason is hogwash! Carrying children and giving birth to them are part of the reasons God created women including companionship. According to the Bible, the man is meant to provide for the family and the woman is meant to be submissive. so a part time housewife denying the husband that occasionally comes home sex for no viable cause is the height of insubordination in a marriage. thanks.

Laurene:
once again shut up and shut up well. I don't have to be married to know what is in marriage. I have parents and have seen other marriages, both the man and woman play important roles to keep the family moving and that's what in this present case they are doing. if the man was jobless I would fully understand the reason for her actions. so you telling me the stress of taking care of the children is the reason is hogwash! Carrying children and giving birth to them are part of the reasons God created women including companionship. According to the Bible, the man is meant to provide for the family and the woman is meant to be submissive. so a part time housewife denying the husband that occasionally comes home sex for no viable cause is the height of insubordination in a marriage. thanks.

You must really think your sh1ty epistle makes you sound smart and enlightened.

You reek of stupidity.

You think all she does all day is 'carry children'?

Again, you are stupid.

Dumb fish head.

Is your wife born again ? if NO then watch your back, may be someone somewhere, somehow is eating the food she denying you