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Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Laurene: 2:37pm On Jul 06, 2019 |
koyyess:otu nnegi Dia.. ikpu nnegi erego na esi isi. tufiakwa |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by koyyess: 2:42pm On Jul 06, 2019 |
Laurene: When they can no longer argue intelligently, they use their dirty language and insult their own parents. Dumb fish head animals. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Laurene: 2:45pm On Jul 06, 2019 |
koyyess:otu nnegi na agu mmiri ka azu fridge.. Ewu awusa. akpa amu shigbuo gi dia |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by koyyess: 2:49pm On Jul 06, 2019 |
Laurene: 1pob wh0®€. Little wonder you are treated like trash with your archaic mentality. Wait till when you are bought by your tout kinsmen. You will smell pepper. Rotten fish head 1 Like
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Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Laurene: 3:03pm On Jul 06, 2019 |
koyyess:bia this boy... mga achafu gi amu ooo.. Onye ara rara nnegi owee muta gi. |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by koyyess: 3:08pm On Jul 06, 2019 |
Laurene: I knew when you started mentioning me and criticising the lady that you are just a desperado slave looking for miscreants to give you attention. Its what you fish heads do....stab your fellow female to have d1cks to yourself. I pity you. Useless attention seeking b1txh. 1 Like
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Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by charlsecy(m): 3:21pm On Jul 06, 2019 |
HITdemUP:What if she's ugly? |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by darlenese(f): 4:09pm On Jul 06, 2019 |
lexy2014: its obvious from his post |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by dasparrow: 4:38pm On Jul 06, 2019 |
@Post I am not surprised. A lot of Nigerian women were sexually abused by adult Nigerian men when they were young. When these sexually abused girls grow up to become women, they resent sex. Many get married despite their hatred for sex because bloody Nigerian society stigmatize women and men who want to remain single and celibate. They put unnecessary pressure on people to get married and have children forgetting not everyone desires or enjoys sex or want to be a parent. We will keep hearing this kind of stories from married men as long as Nigerian men won't stop raping little girls, teenage girls and grown women. Shikena! 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by cococandy(f): 5:11pm On Jul 06, 2019 |
A woman from your place will have kids for your neighbor and nothing will happen morningstar55: 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by lexy2014: 6:16pm On Jul 06, 2019 |
darlenese: Does d post say that he doesn't make love to his wife? |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Nobody: 6:21pm On Jul 06, 2019 |
vikithor:That is a different kettle of fish if a woman has been offended we are talking about an ideal situation here. |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Nobody: 6:23pm On Jul 06, 2019 |
DarkJeddi: Lol let kukuma wait for the elders 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by erumena(m): 6:32pm On Jul 06, 2019 |
Davash222: The whole truth and nothing but the truth. |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by sweetilicious(f): 7:11pm On Jul 06, 2019 |
Jayslicky:Good suggestion. |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by tonyhoney: 7:34pm On Jul 06, 2019 |
Exodora:The family is no more lovely since the wife can no more fulfil the primary purpose of the marriage. |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by glowingflame7: 8:18pm On Jul 06, 2019 |
kennydotkom: You should work on making it memorable, not just easing off your urge till next weekend. |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by glowingflame7: 8:22pm On Jul 06, 2019 |
tonyhoney: Marriage has many purposes, all the purposes are important. |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Nobody: 9:27pm On Jul 06, 2019 |
cococandy:You don’t know what they call induction in Delta State |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Phosphorus666(m): 9:30pm On Jul 06, 2019 |
Please, brother, do not listen to those who are saying that your wife is avoiding sex with you because she's having extra marital affairs. I feel they do not have good understanding of human feelings. I cannot say myself if your wife is not having extra marital affairs, but I have this intuitive feeling that your woman is not cheating on you. Women are very erratic by nature, so they are difficult to understand most times. But remember you are the man, and somewhat superior, no matter our feminist friends may say. Apart from your wife's frequent sex repugnance, I know you are mostly worried that your wife does not understand your feeling, and also seems unconcerned about understanding you. The best thing you can do here to save your relationship, my brother, is to assert your 'superiority' as a man, but in a positive way: beyond the claims of headache, dizziness, et al. try to understand the main reasons behind your wife's standoffish attitude on bed. Was she abused as a kid, is something bothering her, is she having doubts about your fidelity (as most jealous wives do), does she finds intercourse painful Sometimes we men tend to belittle the importance of these mental issues in women. Do not make the mistake of threatening her of infidelity if she continues her sexual reservations. That's not a wise thing to do to a woman who loves you. It's like shooting your own toe. Work on yourself as well by having more control of your libido and senses. Don't be carried away by those calling you a pastor because you aren't going around with women. They are making you feel as if it is abnormal to abstain from sex when your wife is not there, and I'm afraid it's already getting to you. To be sincere, your wife is not the only one who needs counsel now; you need it to. And as a man, begin the process. I blame your wife for all this, to an extent. The summary of this my advice turned epistle is that if you want a change in your marriage, you can begin by changing yourself, and it doesn't have to be in a negative way (as some suggests here). You don't chase evil with evil, bro. Your wife loves you. |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Phosphorus666(m): 9:31pm On Jul 06, 2019 |
Please, brother, do not listen to those who are saying that your wife is avoiding sex with you because she's having extra marital affairs. I feel they do not have good understanding of human feelings. I cannot say myself if your wife is not having extra marital affairs, but I have this intuitive feeling that your woman is not cheating on you. Women are very erratic by nature, so they are difficult to understand most times. But remember you are the man, and somewhat superior, no matter our feminist friends may say. Apart from your wife's frequent sex repugnance, I know you are mostly worried that your wife does not understand your feeling, and also seems unconcerned about understanding you. The best thing you can do here to save your relationship, my brother, is to assert your 'superiority' as a man, but in a positive way: beyond the claims of headache, dizziness, et al. try to understand the main reasons behind your wife's standoffish attitude on bed. Was she abused as a kid, is something bothering her, is she having doubts about your fidelity (as most jealous wives do), does she finds intercourse painful Sometimes we men tend to belittle the importance of these mental issues in women. Do not make the mistake of threatening her of infidelity if she continues her sexual reservations. That's not a wise thing to do to a woman who loves you. It's like shooting your own toe. Work on yourself as well by having more control of your libido and senses. Don't be carried away by those calling you a pastor because you aren't going around with women. They are making you feel as if it is abnormal to abstain from sex when your wife is not there, and I'm afraid it's already getting to you. To be sincere, your wife is not the only one who needs counsel now; you need it to. |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by mechanics(m): 11:55pm On Jul 06, 2019 |
daddytime:He's to provide solution to the problem not adding to the problem. |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by cococandy(f): 12:05am On Jul 07, 2019 |
Odiegwu morningstar55: 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by abimbola74(m): 7:54am On Jul 07, 2019 |
koyyess:Why bringing her post on another thread here? Bruh uno try aswear . issues on a particular thread should stay there and not digging out what is not lost . 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Wande22(m): 4:15pm On Jul 07, 2019 |
J111333:like my wife She hides under fasting and prayers 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by okewumi: 11:01pm On Jul 07, 2019 |
kennydotkom: CIRCUMCISED. When l read your story, the first thing that came to my mind was that your wife is CIRCUMCISED/MUTILATED. I have seen a lot of women with genital cutting and they see sex like punishment. They can do without sex for 6months or years. Their is no way you talk to them or follow marriage councillor, they can never change. My brother is a victim and he has carried his cross as well. Say no to female genital mutilation. By the time they establish themselves with two kids, they see sex like doing u favour. |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by kennydotkom(m): 9:13pm On Jul 08, 2019 |
Thank you � so dearly I read ur message, actually I am very bound with my kids, whenever am around on weekend the kids shift their attention to me. I do t even like going g out on weekend because I like to spend quality time with them. As for my wife, first of all she is not the cheating type, I no that for sure, though the cold weather she feel horn often compare to during the heat period, me too I don't enjoy sex during heat period. I just belive that she doesn't really like sex as I do. She is always Shameful to even touch my man hold to play with it. I thought she was pretending when we were newly married until now I got to know thta she ♮ has low sex drive. Without regarding God commandment to wife to release herself for her husband. She request for it when she like and not when I needed it and it's almost all the time. She usually takeaway her breast from me if I want to touch it... Pro2makx: |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by darlenese(f): 6:40pm On Jul 09, 2019 |
lexy2014: did my post say he does not make love ? |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by darlenese(f): 6:40pm On Jul 09, 2019 |
lexy2014: did my post say he does not make love ? |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by lexy2014: 8:19pm On Jul 09, 2019 |
darlenese: Yes it does. These are ur exact words: "you are suppose to be making love to your wife and not having sex" |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Nobody: 9:07pm On Jul 09, 2019 |
cococandy:Your eyes don clear abi? |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by cococandy(f): 10:07pm On Jul 09, 2019 |
morningstar55: |
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