Good day Nairalanders I'm Jay (psuedonym) by name and I need your candid advice please bear with me if my writeup is long.

Several thoughts have been running through my mind all day and I've been trying to get an answer within but none is forthcoming. Flash back to some few months ago there's this girl I met in school, she's sweet, lovely and she's got everything I want in a woman, we started talking and we got to know each other.

During one of our conversations she told me about a particular guy of the Aiye confraternity who has been hitting on her but she claimed its nothing to be worried about so I waved it aside.

Few months later she gave in and gave me a yes, precisely six weeks ago but on the 7th of this month (Sunday). She told me a friend of hers decided to take her out only to discover that its a gathering organised by some gang members to celebrate their annual anniversary (7/7).

She said she met some other gang members who has been hitting on her there, according to her claim she said nothing transpired between her and the members of the secret society but during the convo I got to know that apart from the other guy in Aiye there are also two other cult guys from different gang who are also after her.

I didnt take it as much of a big issue I just told her to be careful of friends and people she moves with. Sunday went by and today (Wednesday) after lectures while hanging around the school premises she showed me two other gang members who had approached her and who still holds an interest in her making it 4/5 or more cult guys who are hitting on her.

From that moment I wasn't at ease but she didn't seem bothered or disturbed like I do infact she was still getting cosy and all loved up with the PDA despite the fact that I was trying not to draw attention at that very moment.

When I got back to my hostel while thinking of what to do I remembered that two-three weeks before we started dating I had a nightmare in which some gang members were after my life.

I thought of the nightmare and the current circumstance I am and I can see some sort of relation I've been thinking whether to continue the relationship or end it even though its still young, fresh and filled with love.

Please Nairalanders I need your advice on this, thanks for your help.

My brother run for your life....this life no get part 2 oo

Baba find your way, those guys may come after you.

ritmek:
My brother run for your life....this life no get part 2 oo

I've been thinking of this but when I think of how much we love each other and how young the relationship is I feel like staying in the relationship.

Be a hero bro. Stand up and show them that u don't take shit from nobody.

Run asap. I mean as long as your legs can carry you.

Forget about love for now and think about your life. Just find an excuse and subtly end the relationship.

If destiny says you belong together, believe me in the nearest future your paths will cross and you will continue your love ish from where "those dare-devil cultists" interrupted.

And for the dream you had, please don't take it for granted. God speaks in diverse ways, and one of which is through dreams.

Life has no duplicate. That is what I can say.

valirex:
Baba find your way, those guys may come after you.

A friend actually suggested that I should stay in the relationship but we should stop with the PDA and limit how we communicate in public for some time just to confuse the gang members.

Your goal in that school is to —

1. Read your books.

2. Make it out alive.

You are not there to play Romeo and Juliet at the cost of your life. That girl will leave you if she was in your shoes.

I strongly advise you abort mission!
Drop her like hot potatoes and face your books.

Ziel20:
Be a hero bro. Stand up and show them that u don't take shit from nobody.

Hmmm.... this is actually what my girl wants though she hasn't said it but from her reaction to the whole situation this is what she wants but when I think of my life and think of the fact that if I end up dead in the process she will surely get another man. I reconsider going down this lane.

is either you belong or you run for your life.... if those guys drop you now, the girl will move on to another lover.

is either you belong or you run for your life.... if those guys drop you now, the girl will move on to another guy better than you.

Timil:
Hmmm.... this is actually what my girl wants though she hasn't said it but from her reaction to the whole situation this is what she wants but when I think of my life and think of the fact that if I end up dead in the process she will surely get another man. I reconsider going down this lane.

Sure. Life first.

I'm really fighting hard not to insult you, but ask yourself this question; if peradventure, those cultist use you as statistics (kill you). what will become of the girl you're staking your life for? I bet, 6yrs from now, she must have forgotten your name. probably, married to your killer who is a changed man and a born again.
conversely, if you survive. what will be the benefit of it all. pússy? you mean; you want to use your life as quid pro quo for pussy?


My sympathies are with your parent, since you want to waste.

Timil:
I've been thinking of this but when I think of how much we love each other and how young the relationship is I feel like staying in the relationship.

People are advicing you to run for your life and you're saying you love her. You think cultists na boys scout.
I hope you will continue to love her after your death. If they kill you, she will continue with her life. If you think you can lay down your life to prove that you love her so that she can love your more after your death, RIP in advance and continue your love for her in the grave while she's still alive. Please, leave money for candlenight before you die because that's very important.

See a man his parents are putting their mind on

Please your parents sent you to school to acquire knowledge and be useful to them and the society
but you have chosen to be distracted by a girl that the devils are after,your name na sorry

If those cult boys kill you she may end up becoming d capons babe......no go dey do pass your self bro, RUN......

Korllami007:


People are advicing you to run for your life and you're saying you love her. You think cultists na boys scout.
I hope you will continue to love her after your death. If they kill you, she will continue with her life. If you think you can lay down your life to prove that you love her so that she can love your more after your death, RIP in advance and continue your love for her in the grave while she's still alive. Please, leave money for candlenight before you die because that's very important.

Thanks for the advice bro.

Ziel20:
Be a hero bro. Stand up and show them that u don't take shit from nobody.

Dont take poo & die abi. Ok, OP, here comes d best iron man advice

Timil:
A friend actually suggested that I should stay in the relationship but we should stop with the PDA and limit how we communicate in public for some time just to confuse the gang members.

Don't mind that friend, save your life. There are more girls out there.

kelechi50:
Please your parents sent you to school to acquire knowledge and be useful to them and the society
but you have chosen to be distracted by a girl that the devils are after,your name na sorry

I've asked her on multiple times the reason why numerous cult guys could be hitting on her but she doesn't seem to have an answer and I've this feeling those cult guys may be seeing what cool guys like us who dont do voodoo aint seeing.
Thanks anyways!

marvelous000:
I'm really fighting hard not to insult you, but ask yourself this question; if peradventure, those cultist use you as statistics (kill you). what will become of the girl you're staking your life for? I bet, 6yrs from now, she must have forgotten your name. probably, married to your killer who is a changed man and a born again.
conversely, if you survive. what will be the benefit of it all. pússy? you mean; you want to use your life as quid pro quo for pussy?


My sympathies are with your parent, since you want to waste.

The killer doesnt nid to be born again to have her. The flow of d bad boy syndrome will play out, av countless memorable intimacy with her. Both parties later part ways while bros dey him self-contain for 6ft d ground. Make e wise up

The question now is if she loves you not if you love her.
She's definitely not innocent and she's definitely stupid is she's innocent. When a girl is in a relationship and keeps telling you her male friend invited her and she went out with him dump such girl . She can't take decisions for herself and doesn't know what she wants.

If she loves you and is innocent of cultism, let her tell the cult guy that she doesn't want him for a boyfriend and if he insists or threatens find 50,000 naira go pack 25 soldiers armed to their teeth for barracks make them arrest the cultists wey dey worry the girl place them for guard room make them sign undertaking say if them rape the girl or anything do am them go shoot them. No do make dem sabi say na you. The Girl fit yan the guy prior to this raid that her favourite uncle who always shower her with gifts is a high ranking military officer. Believe me guys go distant from the girl.
Na Egede men dey find your girl lol.
You also have to exercise patience and don't court her openly. Give her a break and resume when the tension has reduced. But after all these the girl would leave you. Take heart in advance.

owowa145:

The killer doesnt nid to be born again to have her. The flow of d bad boy syndrome will play out, av countless memorable intimacy with her. Both parties later part ways while bros dey him self-contain for 6ft d ground. Make e wise up

Lol...


the emboldened is very funny

1- Avoid PDA

2- Stay Sharp

3- Don't move around isolated areas around the school alone

4- Don't keep late nights

5- Pray to God about the relationship and your life

6- Cult guys are scared too!! exhibit confidence when walking

7- Watch the body movements of the guys hitting on her whenever you spot them

8- Have some friends who are cultists too.. Especially those in your area or class.. Jus learn to Crack jokes with dem and move on.

9- Always have an update from her about the guys hitting on her

10- Do you plan on settling with this girl or you jus want relationship wey go end for school gate



Note!!! I ain't a cultist.. I did same while in school and it paid off!

Kudos to all the graduates on Nairaland.. E no easy especially when you school for South

Don't be an arsehole dude. Beta live that girl.
I had similar experience. Been alive today is a miracle.

Timil:
Good day Nairalanders I'm Jay (psuedonym) by name and I need your candid advice please bear with me if my writeup is long.

Several thoughts have been running through my mind all day and I've been trying to get an answer within but none is forthcoming. Flash back to some few months ago there's this girl I met in school, she's sweet, lovely and she's got everything I want in a woman, we started talking and we got to know each other.
During one of our conversations she told me about a particular guy of the Aiye confraternity who has been hitting on her but she claimed its nothing to be worried about so I waved it aside.
Few months later she gave in and gave me a yes, precisely six weeks ago but on the 7th of this month (Sunday). She told me a friend of hers decided to take her out only to discover that its a gathering organised by some gang members to celebrate their annual anniversary (7/7).
She said she met some other gang members who has been hitting on her there, according to her claim she said nothing transpired between her and the members of the secret society but during the convo I got to know that apart from the other guy in Aiye there are also two other cult guys from different gang who are also after her.
I didnt take it as much of a big issue I just told her to be careful of friends and people she moves with. Sunday went by and today (Wednesday) after lectures while hanging around the school premises she showed me two other gang members who had approached her and who still holds an interest in her making it 4/5 or more cult guys who are hitting on her.
From that moment I wasn't at ease but she didn't seem bothered or disturbed like I do infact she was still getting cosy and all loved up with the PDA despite the fact that I was trying not to draw attention at that very moment.
When I got back to my hostel while thinking of what to do I remembered that two-three weeks before we started dating I had a nightmare in which some gang members were after my life.
I thought of the nightmare and the current circumstance I am and I can see some sort of relation I've been thinking whether to continue the relationship or end it even though its still young, fresh and filled with love.

Please Nairalanders I need your advice on this, thanks for your help.

She is a cultist as well, her mission is to initiate you! Don't neglect the power of dreams, dreams usually come to reality in a case like this, though it might not happen exactly as seen but believe you me, it will surely happen in a similar way, human soul is powerful and I have experienced the power of dream.

Timil:
Good day Nairalanders I'm Jay (psuedonym) by name and I need your candid advice please bear with me if my writeup is long.

Several thoughts have been running through my mind all day and I've been trying to get an answer within but none is forthcoming. Flash back to some few months ago there's this girl I met in school, she's sweet, lovely and she's got everything I want in a woman, we started talking and we got to know each other.
During one of our conversations she told me about a particular guy of the Aiye confraternity who has been hitting on her but she claimed its nothing to be worried about so I waved it aside.
Few months later she gave in and gave me a yes, precisely six weeks ago but on the 7th of this month (Sunday). She told me a friend of hers decided to take her out only to discover that its a gathering organised by some gang members to celebrate their annual anniversary (7/7).
She said she met some other gang members who has been hitting on her there, according to her claim she said nothing transpired between her and the members of the secret society but during the convo I got to know that apart from the other guy in Aiye there are also two other cult guys from different gang who are also after her.
I didnt take it as much of a big issue I just told her to be careful of friends and people she moves with. Sunday went by and today (Wednesday) after lectures while hanging around the school premises she showed me two other gang members who had approached her and who still holds an interest in her making it 4/5 or more cult guys who are hitting on her.
From that moment I wasn't at ease but she didn't seem bothered or disturbed like I do infact she was still getting cosy and all loved up with the PDA despite the fact that I was trying not to draw attention at that very moment.
When I got back to my hostel while thinking of what to do I remembered that two-three weeks before we started dating I had a nightmare in which some gang members were after my life.
I thought of the nightmare and the current circumstance I am and I can see some sort of relation I've been thinking whether to continue the relationship or end it even though its still young, fresh and filled with love.

Please Nairalanders I need your advice on this, thanks for your help.

Have this in mind Jay if those cultists eventually comes after you kill you or disfigure you in one way or the other this particular girl will move on with her life, but anyway you know what they say something must kill a man, if you are distend to die for that p*ssy continue with her, your destiny is in your hands

Timil:
Thanks for the advice bro.

You're welcome. Run for your life.

Timil:
Good day Nairalanders I'm Jay (psuedonym) by name and I need your candid advice please bear with me if my writeup is long.

Several thoughts have been running through my mind all day and I've been trying to get an answer within but none is forthcoming. Flash back to some few months ago there's this girl I met in school, she's sweet, lovely and she's got everything I want in a woman, we started talking and we got to know each other.
During one of our conversations she told me about a particular guy of the Aiye confraternity who has been hitting on her but she claimed its nothing to be worried about so I waved it aside.
Few months later she gave in and gave me a yes, precisely six weeks ago but on the 7th of this month (Sunday). She told me a friend of hers decided to take her out only to discover that its a gathering organised by some gang members to celebrate their annual anniversary (7/7).
She said she met some other gang members who has been hitting on her there, according to her claim she said nothing transpired between her and the members of the secret society but during the convo I got to know that apart from the other guy in Aiye there are also two other cult guys from different gang who are also after her.
I didnt take it as much of a big issue I just told her to be careful of friends and people she moves with. Sunday went by and today (Wednesday) after lectures while hanging around the school premises she showed me two other gang members who had approached her and who still holds an interest in her making it 4/5 or more cult guys who are hitting on her.
From that moment I wasn't at ease but she didn't seem bothered or disturbed like I do infact she was still getting cosy and all loved up with the PDA despite the fact that I was trying not to draw attention at that very moment.
When I got back to my hostel while thinking of what to do I remembered that two-three weeks before we started dating I had a nightmare in which some gang members were after my life.
I thought of the nightmare and the current circumstance I am and I can see some sort of relation I've been thinking whether to continue the relationship or end it even though its still young, fresh and filled with love.

Please Nairalanders I need your advice on this, thanks for your help.

She knows what is going on but u don't... Take it or leave it. Use ur head boy

Don't put your life on the line for any lady. They aren't loyal!
Don't thank me