Timil:
A friend actually suggested that I should stay in the relationship but we should stop with the PDA and limit how we communicate in public for some time just to confuse the gang members.

Bad ideal. If they suspect anything fishy, they would assume she is cheating on the guy(s) with you and you gats be a strong man too or you become a statistic. Your choice.

ritmek:
My brother run for your life....this life no get part 2 oo

only a carward will run and leaf his babe

Timil:
Good day Nairalanders I'm Jay (psuedonym) by name and I need your candid advice please bear with me if my writeup is long.

Several thoughts have been running through my mind all day and I've been trying to get an answer within but none is forthcoming. Flash back to some few months ago there's this girl I met in school, she's sweet, lovely and she's got everything I want in a woman, we started talking and we got to know each other.

During one of our conversations she told me about a particular guy of the Aiye confraternity who has been hitting on her but she claimed its nothing to be worried about so I waved it aside.

Few months later she gave in and gave me a yes, precisely six weeks ago but on the 7th of this month (Sunday). She told me a friend of hers decided to take her out only to discover that its a gathering organised by some gang members to celebrate their annual anniversary (7/7).

She said she met some other gang members who has been hitting on her there, according to her claim she said nothing transpired between her and the members of the secret society but during the convo I got to know that apart from the other guy in Aiye there are also two other cult guys from different gang who are also after her.

I didnt take it as much of a big issue I just told her to be careful of friends and people she moves with. Sunday went by and today (Wednesday) after lectures while hanging around the school premises she showed me two other gang members who had approached her and who still holds an interest in her making it 4/5 or more cult guys who are hitting on her.

From that moment I wasn't at ease but she didn't seem bothered or disturbed like I do infact she was still getting cosy and all loved up with the PDA despite the fact that I was trying not to draw attention at that very moment.

When I got back to my hostel while thinking of what to do I remembered that two-three weeks before we started dating I had a nightmare in which some gang members were after my life.

I thought of the nightmare and the current circumstance I am and I can see some sort of relation I've been thinking whether to continue the relationship or end it even though its still young, fresh and filled with love.

Please Nairalanders I need your advice on this, thanks for your help.

Well since you have decided to die for a woman which is obviously being caused by way too much indulgence in movies , internet , comics and porn

Goodluck

You are very ignorant nauseating and pathetic

Kalashnikov102:
1- Avoid PDA

2- Stay Sharp

3- Don't move around isolated areas around the school alone

4- Don't keep late nights

5- Pray to God about the relationship and your life

6- Cult guys are scared too!! exhibit confidence when walking

7- Watch the body movements of the guys hitting on her whenever you spot them

8- Have some friends who are cultists too.. Especially those in your area or class.. Jus learn to Crack jokes with dem and move on.

9- Always have an update from her about the guys hitting on her

10- Do you plan on settling with this girl or you jus want relationship wey go end for school gate



Note!!! I ain't a cultist.. I did same while in school and it paid off!

Kudos to all the graduates on Nairaland.. E no easy especially when you school for South

The worst advise here

This will get you killed

Only caword runs....



Make the relationship die naturally
( leave her open for other guys to spin her
Make her love you less)

SageMK:
Your goal in that school is to —

1. Read your books.

2. Make it out alive.

You are not there to play Romeo and Juliet at the cost of your life. That girl will leave you if she was in your shoes.

I strongly advise you abort mission!
Drop her like hot potatoes and face your books.

sad that this is what some of our schools have come to.

https://www.nairaland.com/5207293/story-cult-phase-included

I had a girlfriend in school then and we call her Joy ( not her real name ). Joy was also dating a cultist ( A member of VIKINGSSS) . I got a call from Joy that i should come to her hostel and we should pass the night together. She told me she prepared my favorite food and i rushed down like a hungry lion. I got to her house and we had a good time and even sexx . Around 9PM, i heard a loud bang on her door and i asked who the person was, YOU DEY CRAZE, NA YOU GET THE ROOM, JOY COME OUTSIDE I WAN SEE YOU, that was the voice i heard behind the door. I looked at the time and it was late in the night . I picked up my phone to call a friend to come get me as i sensed danger but my phone went dead. I then sat down in the room and she assured me that all is fine. She went out to meet the guy and they argued loudly and some other boys came in and joined them. The next thing i heard was AROMATE wetin dey happen, i immediately knew i was in trouble. She came back in and was shouting at them and screaming from inside, I KNOW ONE FRIEND AGAIN NA BY FORCE. I told her i wanted to leave and she said i shouldnt leave and that it was safer to stay than go out that night. I told her its better to leave than staying in doors and that could bugle the door at night pretending to be robbers and shoot me. I gathered courage and left and immediately i got outside, i saw 5 Fierce looking men and i ran for my life, they chased me and stabbed me , i managed to escape with the injury. The next day, i reported to the police and arrest were made. The police men that came for raid where also member of the VIKINGSSSS, they made arrest and released them same day.

she may even be in on it.

Timil:
Good day Nairalanders I'm Jay (psuedonym) by name and I need your candid advice please bear with me if my writeup is long.

Several thoughts have been running through my mind all day and I've been trying to get an answer within but none is forthcoming. Flash back to some few months ago there's this girl I met in school, she's sweet, lovely and she's got everything I want in a woman, we started talking and we got to know each other.

During one of our conversations she told me about a particular guy of the Aiye confraternity who has been hitting on her but she claimed its nothing to be worried about so I waved it aside.

Few months later she gave in and gave me a yes, precisely six weeks ago but on the 7th of this month (Sunday). She told me a friend of hers decided to take her out only to discover that its a gathering organised by some gang members to celebrate their annual anniversary (7/7).

She said she met some other gang members who has been hitting on her there, according to her claim she said nothing transpired between her and the members of the secret society but during the convo I got to know that apart from the other guy in Aiye there are also two other cult guys from different gang who are also after her.

I didnt take it as much of a big issue I just told her to be careful of friends and people she moves with. Sunday went by and today (Wednesday) after lectures while hanging around the school premises she showed me two other gang members who had approached her and who still holds an interest in her making it 4/5 or more cult guys who are hitting on her.

From that moment I wasn't at ease but she didn't seem bothered or disturbed like I do infact she was still getting cosy and all loved up with the PDA despite the fact that I was trying not to draw attention at that very moment.

When I got back to my hostel while thinking of what to do I remembered that two-three weeks before we started dating I had a nightmare in which some gang members were after my life.

I thought of the nightmare and the current circumstance I am and I can see some sort of relation I've been thinking whether to continue the relationship or end it even though its still young, fresh and filled with love.

Please Nairalanders I need your advice on this, thanks for your help.

Dreams are just figments of your imaginations, not real.

What you should be concern now is your safety, if you feel you're not safe with the girl, run for your life.

may320:

Now you're talking.
But let me advice you, be careful of the way you break up with her. She's as 'dangerous' as those you're running from.
Use wisdom to cut off from her.....slowly. You know her better than anyone here. Device means of withdrawing slowly from her till she gets the message or she's no longer interested in you again.
Avoid emotional playout and manipulation from her, dont fall for it.

Exactly bro... she may even belong to their group so I don't want to make it seem like I broke up with her cos of the cult brouhaha and I made a grave mistake yesterday.
I told her about the dream I had before we started dating and if she actually belong to their group she prolly would have told them about it and they would want to carry out whatever they are planning Asap. So I have to act smart and fast.

dingbang:
Cut PDAs with the girl. Only invite her to your crib.

@OP

Another terrible advise

No woman is worth fighting another man over except she is your sister or your mother

This member is a slowpoke following this advise will land you six feet deep

Don't play around

Graduate and better girls will come your way don't be a stupîd slowpoke and follow rubbish advise like this from îdiots

Timil:
A friend actually suggested that I should stay in the relationship but we should stop with the PDA and limit how we communicate in public for some time just to confuse the gang members.

Cut her off totally. Let her know why. Let the cult guys know. It's left to her to say yes or no. Last last, let her inform her parents.

You're only a temporary resident in the tertiary school. You'll leave one day and face the real world. That was the best advise I was giving in school concerning school politics, strikes, riots and all. You're only there temporary.

A permanent stay maybe possible. "Heard" some schools are building cemeteries. It's being built for permanent residents. You interested in a tombstone for one? Trust me, your girl isn't going down with you.

Brother, believe me, LORD loves you. He showed you what will happen in the dream. But you want continue with her. Nah OYO you dey

Techcrunchng:
She is a cultist as well, her mission is to initiate you! Don't neglect the power of dreams, dreams usually come to reality in a case like this, though it might not happen exactly as seen but believe you me, it will surely happen in a similar way, human soul is powerful and I have experienced the power of dream.

You hit the nail on the head.

Dead man can't be in love,God showed you what will befall you if u date the girl and yet you are deaf to it.Think of your destiny and many people attached to it, don't waste your life and destiny in a wrong relationship because of what you called love.If you are wasted,that girl of a truth will continue her life to the end without you.Break up .it is better to have temporary emotional pain than loose your life permanently.The choice is yours.Hell and Heaven is Real

Timil:
I've been thinking of this but when I think of how much we love each other and how young the relationship is I feel like staying in the relationship.

No be foolishness they worry you... I wish they will post your obituary here I won't even type rip. Anu ofia. Love gbawa gi Onu there. Iti

Timil:
Thanks for the advice bro.

We dont want your story to reflect here regarding cult attack, use your brain.

YOU KNOW THE SURFACE, BET ME YOU DONT KNOW THE TIME OR EXTENT SHE SECUM ALREADY.

Thinkam well ohhhh.

Timil:
I've been thinking of this but when I think of how much we love each other and how young the relationship is I feel like staying in the relationship.

I like your statement, but you came to school to fall in love shebi?
because after education your siblings (if you have any) would want you to give them love.
na only person were deh alive go talk how e happen.

Timil:
I've been thinking of this but when I think of how much we love each other and how young the relationship is I feel like staying in the relationship.

Bro no make me vex, which kind talk b dis, ur parents send u go sch to go date, pls and pls do de needful call her attention to it, gve yourselves a break that which is meant for u, will surely come to u and that which is not meant to be will pass u.

Oga dos niqqaz join dat thing to clear doubts oh, dem go clear your doubts ohhhhhhh pls brooooo

Timil:
Exactly bro... she may even belong to their group so I don't want to make it seem like I broke up with her cos of the cult brouhaha and I made a grave mistake yesterday.
I told her about the dream I had before we started dating and if she actually belong to their group she prolly would have told them about it and they would want to carry out whatever they are planning Asap. So I have to act smart and fast.

God loves you and already showed you what will happen in near future through dream.
That dream is real, dont neglect it.
Pray for wisdom to handle the situation well and quickly too so they can forget about you and you can move on with your life.

The girl is stupid. She's enjoying the fact that cultist guys are chasing her and you this mumu dey middle dey form love abi? This definitely defined your kind of person. You are still asking us whether to live the girl or not.



I pity your family.



Modafuvka!!!

Emmbanny:
Brother, believe me, LORD loves you. He showed you what will happen in the dream. But you want continue with her. Nah OYO you dey

Exactly.

Timil:
I've been thinking of this but when I think of how much we love each other and how young the relationship is I feel like staying in the relationship.

a bullet nd u re done with ....ask urself... will this steewwpeed girl risk her life for me like this nothing except money is worth risking for

tintingz:


Dreams are just figments of your imaginations, not real.

What you should be concern now is your safety, if you feel you're not safe with the girl, run for your life.

I personally don't really believe in dreams but this time around aint taking the dream I had before we started dating with levity.

I was being chased around by some cult guys who were after my life, the dream was so terrible that I woke up weak and panting. Infact it felt so real and I see it as a warning from God.

Timil:
I had a nightmare in which some gang members were after my life

That is the answer you need right there. Don't forget how Delilah led Samson to his waterloo. And google the term "honey pot killing" whereby an ex gang members girlfriend lures her new innocent boyfriend to a place to be killed by her ex and his gang members just because she wants to apologise to him for cheating on him.

Bro run for your life.. Keep love aside

Use your brain, she won't be the target but you will be there target

Unless your life has a duplicate, those guys has no meaning to life

Inshort don't let any of them catch you talk more of warning you

Timil:
Hmmm.... this is actually what my girl wants though she hasn't said it but from her reaction to the whole situation this is what she wants but when I think of my life and think of the fact that if I end up dead in the process she will surely get another man. I reconsider going down this lane.

Be like you never chop impromptu beating before... As you dey leave one beating, you dey enter another beating from another side and the cycle goes on.

However, it depends on their level of interest and the ranking of the person interested in the respective cult group or an educated top echelon that doesn't see you as a threat to his interest.

Since they haven't taken any action yet, at least for now, the person could be a low ranked cultist with not much clout yet.

Just hope their top echelon haven't caught in your babe, because na their the real problem dey start.

Talk to your babe about it, clear am to stop the PDA and see how things pan out.

Buh I dey suspect the babe, that babe fit belong and she dey on assignment to bring person in or you in particular.


However, be very careful, avoid night waka and lonely paths as much as you can.

Don't go pricing market wey your head no fit carry.

Mcy56:

God loves you and already showed you what will happen in near future through dream.
That dream is real, dont neglect it.
Pray for wisdom to handle the situation well and quickly too so they can forget about you and you can move on with your life.

Thanks sis.

Timil:
Exactly bro... she may even belong to their group so I don't want to make it seem like I broke up with her cos of the cult brouhaha and I made a grave mistake yesterday.
I told her about the dream I had before we started dating and if she actually belong to their group she prolly would have told them about it and they would want to carry out whatever they are planning Asap. So I have to act smart and fast.

Why are you all wasting your time advising this pathetic f boy?

He is either faking this story to entertain you all or thinks it's cool to join a cult (which most do till reality sets in)

Anyways I hope it's an aiye 's babe you are disturbing so they can use your head to test new 7

You are not serious at all

Better still go join some rival group like the elebe or alura so your death would be worth something at least .

Since you don't want to face your studies and do something with your pathetic life. I just can't stand f boys

Gtfouh with this nonsense

I hope the lil aiyes in your school run you through with a cleaver

Useless child

[quote author=Timil post=80131551]Good day Nairalanders I'm Jay (psuedonym) by name and I need your candid advice please bear with me if my writeup is long.

Several thoughts have been running through my mind all day and I've been trying to get an answer within but none is forthcoming. Flash back to some few months ago there's this girl I met in school, she's sweet, lovely and she's got everything I want in a woman, we started talking and we got to know each other.

During one of our conversations she told me about a particular guy of the Aiye confraternity who has been hitting on her but she claimed its nothing to be worried about so I waved it aside.

Few months later she gave in and gave me a yes, precisely six weeks ago but on the 7th of this month (Sunday). She told me a friend of hers decided to take her out only to discover that its a gathering organised by some gang members to celebrate their annual anniversary (7/7).

She said she met some other gang members who has been hitting on her there, according to her claim she said nothing transpired between her and the members of the secret society but during the convo I got to know that apart from the other guy in Aiye there are also two other cult guys from different gang who are also after her.

I didnt take it as much of a big issue I just told her to be careful of friends and people she moves with. Sunday went by and today (Wednesday) after lectures while hanging around the school premises she showed me two other gang members who had approached her and who still holds an interest in her making it 4/5 or more cult guys who are hitting on her.

From that moment I wasn't at ease but she didn't seem bothered or disturbed like I do infact she was still getting cosy and all loved up with the PDA despite the fact that I was trying not to draw attention at that very moment.

When I got back to my hostel while thinking of what to do I remembered that two-three weeks before we started dating I had a nightmare in which some gang members were after my life.

I thought of the nightmare and the current circumstance I am and I can see some sort of relation I've been thinking whether to continue the relationship or end it even though its still young, fresh and filled with love.

Please Nairalanders I need your advice on this, thanks for your help!


Bro, Just have it at the Back of your mind that if you keep on mingling with that girl, one day those cultists will Approach you, its either they give you a Warning that day or Decide to End you Once and for all.. Don't risk your life for Relationship that might not even Lead to Marriage! You've been in school since and never had a problem with any cultist Or anyone (If I'm not mistaken) let it not start now because of a Lady!

Use your head and do what you know is the best for you!!!
I don waka oooooooo

Tah nothing dey happen,fvck craze comot her body then gbagi na so I been tidy one careful for novena that year.the cult boy sef kon dey ask wida me sef.

Nowadays students I just don't understand their mentality.
Parents will send you to school, to come out with good grades , with higher level of mentality but na boyfriend and girlfriend, they are hell bent on sacrificing the hard earned school fees on.

Some commit suicide cos they were heartbroken by one stupid love
Some get pregnant and come back home with liabilities with no father in sight
Some commit all manners of abortion, pretend they are innocent. Manage scale through, see one innocent hardworking man, he falls in love, not knowing she no longer has a womb cos of numerous abortions in campus ( a friend of mine ,23 Years old babe is suffering this as we speak! And her husband 45years has no clue, thinking he has won a jackpot! Anyways I pray their marriage end well )
Some join cultists and still get killed anyways

And I ask, what's happening to youths? Why focus all your energies on things that don't make sense!
Sex and love is everly there after graduation, till one grows old!
The feeling of love never fades off. It's everlasting.

So why this fever at this period, u are meant to cement your future with success and not mare with unnecessary distractions. It's not worth it.

Make una stay focused for God sakes!

Belial06:


Why are you all wasting your time advising this pathetic f boy?

He is either faking this story to entertain you all or thinks it's cool to join a cult (which most do till reality sets in)

Anyways I hope it's an aiye 's babe you are disturbing so they can use your head to test new 7

You are not serious at all

Better still go join some rival group like the elebe or alura so your death would be worth something at least .

Since you don't want to face your studies and do something with your pathetic life. I just can't stand f boys

Gtfouh with this nonsense

I hope the lil aiyes in your school run you through with a cleaver

Useless child

Alora no get time to fight upandan. Fineboys have enough trouble wading off babes of other rival gang members wey dey die for them, to want to dabble with such.