Timil:
Hmmm.... this is actually what my girl wants though she hasn't said it but from her reaction to the whole situation this is what she wants but when I think of my life and think of the fact that if I end up dead in the process she will surely get another man. I reconsider going down this lane.

. Aiye, lol....bro na Aiye you wan followe play, I pity you......I swear down , Better run for your life.

Techcrunchng:
She is a cultist as well, her mission is to initiate you! Don't neglect the power of dreams, dreams usually come to reality in a case like this, though it might not happen exactly as seen but believe you me, it will surely happen in a similar way, human soul is powerful and I have experienced the power of dream.

oh you shared my view. Can you join me in coffee's table?

youmour:
Tah nothing dey happen,fvck craze comot her body then gbagi na so I been tidy one careful for novena that year.the cult boy sef kon dey ask wida me sef.

When e ask, why you no appear?

Belial06:


Why are you all wasting your time advising this pathetic f boy?

He is either faking this story to entertain you all or thinks it's cool to join a cult (which most do till reality sets in)

Anyways I hope it's an aiye 's babe you are disturbing so they can use your head to test new 7

You are not serious at all

Better still go join some rival group like the elebe or alura so your death would be worth something at least .

Since you don't want to face your studies and do something with your pathetic life. I just can't stand f boys

Gtfouh with this nonsense

I hope the lil aiyes in your school run you through with a cleaver

Useless child

Why would I fake a story.... to what end?!

You sound like one of those degenerate, low lives who partake in all those nonsensical cult activities and groups.

You can say or think whatever you like but I'm happy I've obtained advice from reasonable, matured and sensible individuals not from cyber bullies like you.

Good riddance to bad rubbish.

Worksunlimited:


Alora no get time to fight upandan. Fineboys have enough trouble wading off babes of other rival gang members wey dey die for them, to want to dabble with such.

I guess you are right

Likely elebe then or Baga

Are you new in the sch?
So, up till now you are still dating someone that is setting the stage for you to join cult.
Just go and join one serious Christian fellowship and surrounder your life.
When the girl sees that you have joined Christ, water go find im level.
Be wise
DON'T LET IT BE TOO LATE.

Timil:
I've been thinking of this but when I think of how much we love each other and how young the relationship is I feel like staying in the relationship.

Hmmmm...You want to kill yourself for love over a girl whom you are not even sure to spend the rest of your life with ba?

I only pity your parents...

The sorrowful tears of a mother is one thing a man shouldn't pray for.
Think twice bro..

Timil:
I've been thinking of this but when I think of how much we love each other and how young the relationship is I feel like staying in the relationship.

ur gal is a cultist too......incase u don't know,d only benefit in cultism is d fact dat thy can easily eliminate u to have d gal.


So?

Timil:
Good day Nairalanders I'm Jay (psuedonym) by name and I need your candid advice please bear with me if my writeup is long.

Several thoughts have been running through my mind all day and I've been trying to get an answer within but none is forthcoming. Flash back to some few months ago there's this girl I met in school, she's sweet, lovely and she's got everything I want in a woman, we started talking and we got to know each other.

During one of our conversations she told me about a particular guy of the Aiye confraternity who has been hitting on her but she claimed its nothing to be worried about so I waved it aside.

Few months later she gave in and gave me a yes, precisely six weeks ago but on the 7th of this month (Sunday). She told me a friend of hers decided to take her out only to discover that its a gathering organised by some gang members to celebrate their annual anniversary (7/7).

She said she met some other gang members who has been hitting on her there, according to her claim she said nothing transpired between her and the members of the secret society but during the convo I got to know that apart from the other guy in Aiye there are also two other cult guys from different gang who are also after her.

I didnt take it as much of a big issue I just told her to be careful of friends and people she moves with. Sunday went by and today (Wednesday) after lectures while hanging around the school premises she showed me two other gang members who had approached her and who still holds an interest in her making it 4/5 or more cult guys who are hitting on her.

From that moment I wasn't at ease but she didn't seem bothered or disturbed like I do infact she was still getting cosy and all loved up with the PDA despite the fact that I was trying not to draw attention at that very moment.

When I got back to my hostel while thinking of what to do I remembered that two-three weeks before we started dating I had a nightmare in which some gang members were after my life.

I thought of the nightmare and the current circumstance I am and I can see some sort of relation I've been thinking whether to continue the relationship or end it even though its still young, fresh and filled with love.

Please Nairalanders I need your advice on this, thanks for your help.

oga Na school u come to learn Abi Na woman u come find

I had a girlfriend who was so cute in high school, most guy were after her hard guys ,basket ballers , football players, and all, but the rule of love is to defend your love for her even if it costs you your life , if you chicken out if you stand you I'll have enemies and least likely keep killed , what you should know is that even the number 1 is scared of death too that's why he has a lot of people with him guarding him , so if you are though and have the backing of your guys or secuirity agents they will buzz off, go to the sss immediately you get challenged or rough handled plus learn to use a firearm and self defense know when to stand and when to let go , that's my take , they too are afraid they are bold just because of numbers they have so you get yours or jack up hard.

Timil:
Hmmm.... this is actually what my girl wants though she hasn't said it but from her reaction to the whole situation this is what she wants but when I think of my life and think of the fact that if I end up dead in the process she will surely get another man. I reconsider going down this lane.

RIP

Japa menh

Timil:
I've been thinking of this but when I think of how much we love each other and how young the relationship is I feel like staying in the relationship.

you have been told, FACE UR BOOKS.There are loads of girls about.If she cnt tell them off its her problem not urs
Leave her alone b4 dem use you practice

godofuck231:
I had a girlfriend who was so cute in high school, most guy were after her hard guys ,basket ballers , football players, and all, but the rule of love is to defend your love for her even if it costs you your life , if you chicken out if you stand you I'll have enemies and least likely keep killed , what you should know is that even the number 1 is scared of death too that's why he has a lot of people with him guarding him , so if you are though and have the backing of your guys or secuirity agents they will buzz off, go to the sss immediately you get challenged or rough handled plus learn to use a firearm and self defense know when to stand and when to let go , that's my take , they too are afraid they are bold just because of numbers they have so you get yours or jack up hard.

Talk is cheap, when teh heat comes it will be people from other schools who will pull it, so tell me how you defend against that!

Timil:
I've been thinking of this but when I think of how much we love each other and how young the relationship is I feel like staying in the relationship.

Bro please forgot about the tender relationship & love ,run for your dearest life,she attended an egede men anniversary on 7/7 and these guys don't play with women neither do they forget,forgiveness is a sin to them, please distance yourself from her and watch her date one of them soonest.

Timil:
Good day Nairalanders I'm Jay (psuedonym) by name and I need your candid advice please bear with me if my writeup is long.

Several thoughts have been running through my mind all day and I've been trying to get an answer within but none is forthcoming. Flash back to some few months ago there's this girl I met in school, she's sweet, lovely and she's got everything I want in a woman, we started talking and we got to know each other.

During one of our conversations she told me about a particular guy of the Aiye confraternity who has been hitting on her but she claimed its nothing to be worried about so I waved it aside.

Few months later she gave in and gave me a yes, precisely six weeks ago but on the 7th of this month (Sunday). She told me a friend of hers decided to take her out only to discover that its a gathering organised by some gang members to celebrate their annual anniversary (7/7).

She said she met some other gang members who has been hitting on her there, according to her claim she said nothing transpired between her and the members of the secret society but during the convo I got to know that apart from the other guy in Aiye there are also two other cult guys from different gang who are also after her.

I didnt take it as much of a big issue I just told her to be careful of friends and people she moves with. Sunday went by and today (Wednesday) after lectures while hanging around the school premises she showed me two other gang members who had approached her and who still holds an interest in her making it 4/5 or more cult guys who are hitting on her.

From that moment I wasn't at ease but she didn't seem bothered or disturbed like I do infact she was still getting cosy and all loved up with the PDA despite the fact that I was trying not to draw attention at that very moment.

When I got back to my hostel while thinking of what to do I remembered that two-three weeks before we started dating I had a nightmare in which some gang members were after my life.

I thought of the nightmare and the current circumstance I am and I can see some sort of relation I've been thinking whether to continue the relationship or end it even though its still young, fresh and filled with love.

Please Nairalanders I need your advice on this, thanks for your help.

Brody it is not weakness to flee at the first sign of apparent danger. You can mull it over for an hour or two. Gauge the girl's reaction. Does she permit them unnecessary access to her person, as to imply that she does enjoy their attention? Or is she a hapless victim of rapacious gangbangers( tbh they're not really cults by definition, just thieves and murderers).

Does she know that those fellows would have no qualms raping or molesting her? I think she should be the one asking us for help not you. Your parents have invested so much in you and your unborn children expect the world from you. Don't mess it up over some schoolyard/campus pussy. Sorry I had to characterize her that way, but man you're a young Naija dude like me, can't let you soften up for no reason. Please for the sake of your future and your life do what is smart. I never schooled in Naij but I have buddies who did and have somewhat of a picture of the landscape. Don't those bangers act with impunity when they want, esp on domestic issues like this?

We want to see 'Nigerian man, Jay graduates with a 2.1' not 'Young man shot over girlfriend quarrel'. God forbid the latter. So you do your part and FORBID it too.

Definition of forbid: refuse to allow (something).

Enemyofpeace:
only a carward will run and leaf his babe

I am only reading you babe like bail your soul

Timil:
I've been thinking of this but when I think of how much we love each other and how young the relationship is I feel like staying in the relationship.

lmao...this is the daftest thing I've heard all day...it's obvious you are still young and have a lot of lessons to learn. I won't advice you to leave her not because of the stupid feeling you think you have for her but because you need this experience with the cult guys to help you learn to distinguish between thinking with your heart and thinking with your head. my only prayer for you is that you don't lose too much in learning this lesson which you need for life.
I believe by the end of this ordeal you would have learnt how to live above that feeling and make concrete decisions like a man.

Run for your life.
You are too young to die.

Your GF went out on 7/7 with a friend, only to find herself in mist of cultist. She's not such a pro liar.

Even a 100L student dreads 7/7 a week to that date. Are you sure she wasn't initiated into cultism? Stupid story!

[quote author=Timil post=80131885] I've been thinking of this but when I think of how much we love each other and how young the relationship is I feel like staying in the relationship.
Na MuMu dey worry.. MOD i said that politely.

It's seems you have spare life

They use U train how to butcher person

Timil:
I've been thinking of this but when I think of how much we love each other and how young the relationship is I feel like staying in the relationship.

Good luck with that bitch!! They told you to run but here you are still trying to prove some dumb shit...unless you a gang member too or planing to enroll anything less ball out bro..

Timil:
Why would I fake a story.... to what end?!

You sound like one of those degenerate, low lives who partake in all those nonsensical cult activities and groups.

You can say or think whatever you like but I'm happy I've obtained advice from reasonable, matured and sensible individuals not from cyber bullies like you.

Good riddance to bad rubbish.

see it called hard society so harden up , get a glock 26 , and learn how to hold your own , associate with the right people who will stand up strong and check up or watch ur back, while I had my degree in gwags if you bully me ill show you a bull in real life if u Touch me ill send dss operative to visit your house including your family house

godofuck231:
I had a girlfriend who was so cute in high school, most guy were after her hard guys ,basket ballers , football players, and all, but the rule of love is to defend your love for her even if it costs you your life , if you chicken out if you stand you I'll have enemies and least likely keep killed , what you should know is that even the number 1 is scared of death too that's why he has a lot of people with him guarding him , so if you are though and have the backing of your guys or secuirity agents they will buzz off, go to the sss immediately you get challenged or rough handled plus learn to use a firearm and self defense know when to stand and when to let go , that's my take , they too are afraid they are bold just because of numbers they have so you get yours or jack up hard.

you are right. they will and can buzz off after they have killed or maimed him.

even the ones that get killed have weapons, learn self defence and even have friends who are cultists in these outfits so what rubbish are you saying? or is being tough a guarantee of surviving the game? have tougher ones not been dropped?

Freehuman:
The question now is if she loves you not if you love her.
She's definitely not innocent and she's definitely stupid is she's innocent. When a girl is in a relationship and keeps telling you her male friend invited her and she went out with him dump such girl . She can't take decisions for herself and doesn't know what she wants.

If she loves you and is innocent of cultism, let her tell the cult guy that she doesn't want him for a boyfriend and if he insists or threatens find 50,000 naira go pack 25 soldiers armed to their teeth for barracks make them arrest the cultists wey dey worry the girl place them for guard room make them sign undertaking say if them rape the girl or anything do am them go shoot them. No do make dem sabi say na you. The Girl fit yan the guy prior to this raid that her favourite uncle who always shower her with gifts is a high ranking military officer. Believe me guys go distant from the girl.
Na Egede men dey find your girl lol.
You also have to exercise patience and don't court her openly. Give her a break and resume when the tension has reduced. But after all these the girl would leave you. Take heart in advance.

Intel cappings

Timil:
I've been thinking of this but when I think of how much we love each other and how young the relationship is I feel like staying in the relationship.

Jus look at his sharp forehead and standing ears . Love kee u dia. If dem drop u, or Bleep u up, Shey the love go be like odeshi? Since ur sense is paining u, abeg gee me ur mama number make I call am.
Even the bible says "the shrewd man see the danger and conceals himself but the foolish one keeps going on and suffers the consequences". At least read bible if u don't have sense.