bukatyne:
It is either Pastor Chris recycles this teaching every year or some people dig it up every year.

I have read this several times and I say same thing:

Marry the husband that suits your taste.

When we say that the husband a woman marries is the 2nd most important decision she can make, it seems funny.

Imagine me married to a man like Pastor Oyakilome....

Set up for marital failure be that.

GuestLog:
You feminists are only trying to massage your inflated ego. Genesis chapter one is a summary of creation story. Chapter 2 breaks down the story in detail. A woman is not a slave to a man, she is his assistant. The idea behind creating a woman is to complete a man. Just as a battery completes a phone. She gives life to the whole device called marriage and none can do without the other. Talking of the institution of marriage, man is to lead the home and takes full responsibility for the direction of the family. Please read your Bible thoroughly to avoid arguments that may make you seem ignorant.

KristaPretty:
Useless man!!! That is why his wife left him. Rubbish bleaching man!

jesusjnr:
Com'on!

You should try and not be sentimental with the things of God, for that's what leads to such misinterpretations by men.

Thanks and God bless.

KristaPretty:
Useless man!!! That is why his wife left him. Rubbish bleaching man!

SilentListener:
Nah,go and choked on your Master dick you disgusting gettho gaggers lover

https://www.xvideos.com/video12590497/reeka_b_gets_two_white_dicks_in_her_holes

Born2Breed:


Thats far from it, the Pastor spoke more on who a man is in a relationship,the bottom-line of what he said about the woman is to be submissive and to always have a manual when disagreeing with a man's decision.

megareal:


Sebi, the Pastor was free to misinterprete his own. But truly, woman is really the best of all creations. More thought was put into making her.

wirinet:
Religion is truely a virus that once it infect the brain, it starts to delete its rational sectors slowly but surely.
If woman was not the original plan of Pastor Oyakhilomes god, then what was his original plan, and why did he change it? If male and female of every animal (and plants) were part of the original plan, why was man different. So only one man was supposed to live on the entire planet with animals and plants reproducing.
The man being master is the most reprehensible doctrine I have heard, it's no different from Islamic terrorist doctrine on women. No wonder he can't keep a wife, as no woman would agree to marry her "master".
I advise ladies to shine their eyes very well before saying I do to any man. They should flee from any man that believes he is going to be her master in marriage, o as to avoid the pastor Anita experience.

KristaPretty:
Useless man!!! That is why his wife left him. Rubbish bleaching man!

taiyeayodeji:
there is a new trend among the modern day women,they assume there is no head in a home,do you agree with this,they say the man cant tell them what to do.they both have equal right and most time i tell them that, although all human beings have equal right,in an organization,u dont have same rights as your boss in office,there are some tings he can do,which you dont have a right because of your position.its wrong when women begin to disrespect men in name of equal right and some foolish men sypport this .respect is reciprocal ,both men and women shud respect themself but the woman shud give due respect to her husband and vice versa. some women even compete with husband

megareal:


Unfortunately for you, you are in direct contradiction to the man you support. Read his explanation, and then re read your submission.
Beside you are chauvinistic, I don't know why a typical Nairaland male sees any contrary opinion as feminism. You guys are so afraid, for what I don't know.
As far as I'm concerned, anyone who interpretes the Bible to suit his myopic reasoning or to massage his male ego teaches heresy.

TonyeBarcanista:
Jesus was called Master by his disciples but did he see them as His slaves?

Jesus is our Master but are we considered slaves by him?

Be guided please

AreaFada2:

First examine what the Bible says about it. For the man who is the Head, God places many responsibilities on his shoulders. Including loving his wife As he loves himself and providing.

Remember God did not place that onus on the woman. That responsibility is probably to check a man abusing his power as the head. GOD only tells woman to be obedient and love her husband but not as much as herself.

Where does that make woman a slave there? If anything men do the most dangerous jobs and even die doing it at times.

We discipline our kids and can be strict to them at times. Yet we love our kids more than anybody else on earth.
We can use earthly norms to interpret the scriptures and get it all wrong.
The Bible even makes an interesting analogy. That man is head of the family just like Jesus is the head of the man. Can the man be co-head or co-master with Jesus?

Remember that just as Jesus has such a high level of privilege as head, he also suffered and died for man. The same way a man should be ready to die for his familiy/wife if needs be.

AntiBrutus:
I fear religious people pass HIV.

ivolt:

What stops you from being a man of God?
Who determines who is a man of God?

megareal:

Thank you. That's the personal revelation and truth I've held unto for a long time. A woman was not an afterthought. A woman was already in the plan for procreation and multiplication. I always think God saved the best for the last. He let Adam experience loneliness so he would appreciate his companion and understand just how valuable she was to him.

kay29000:


Hmm. Are you AntiReligion? Are you a freethinker?

AntiBrutus:


I am not anti-religion. I am however not into organised religion, ANYMORE.

However, more than anything, I hate the hypocrisy of majority of them. Cherrypickimg which part of the bible they will adhere to. Fornicating per second, yet they will get married after intense penising, to start quoting "submit...God said this".

Very manipulative bunch.

One passage, 1001 interpretations.

Hey, I can't deal ooo! I rebuke them.

Born2Breed:
Women are not equal partners with the man in a marriage. I agree with that cos the man has 51% bad the woman 49%.

What I totally disagree with is the man being the master,where there is a master then there is a slave.

Are women slaves? Unless if the man is the master and the woman is the co-master.

Nauttyprof:


Don't get it wrong on the Master to Slave mentality.

Read 1 Peter 3:5-65 For this is the way the holy women of the past who put their hope in God used to adorn themselves. They submitted themselves to their own husbands, 6 like Sarah, who obeyed Abraham and called him her LORD. You are her daughters if you do what is right and do not give way to fear.

Submission is the key word and not a slave mentality. Was Sarah wrong to have called Abraham, Lord (Master)?

We seem to have developed many views nowadays and this is the reason we are in the mess we are today - Divorce, broken home, uncultured children and many more.

This comment is not in anyway supporting the view women weren't in the plan from the beginning as how else do we explain where God said it is not good for a man to be alone?

SilentListener:
It means black Monkey women are Cursed to Mankind, you are useless, stupid and just a waste of space

Your only existence is to offer sex to men. apart from that, nothing is in that big coconut heads of yours, bye disgusting cunt.

SilentListener:
It means black Monkey women are Cursed to Mankind, you are useless, stupid and just a waste of space

Your only existence is to offer sex to men. apart from that, nothing is in that big coconut heads of yours, bye disgusting cunt.

Born2Breed:


After 12 months of marriage, I know you will come here to edit this comment.

Till then, na who dey watch football match sabi play pass for mouth.

AbuuBilaal:
Although I don't agree with the part that women were not part of God's plan, I believe this man is right on this point.

Women don't want to submit, that's why they destroy their lives and their children's lives while they know not.

Forget the trash you watch on TV, it's a scam. You're not a man and cannot be a man. Embrace your feminity, be gentle and caring. Don't be wayward and crude. No man hates a rough, wayward and crude woman. In fact having sex with her will feel like sodomy.

A man is a man and a woman is a woman.

BTW Chris, feminists are coming for your intestines

Born2Breed:
Women are not equal partners with the man in a marriage. I agree with that cos the man has 51% bad the woman 49%.

What I totally disagree with is the man being the master,where there is a master then there is a slave.

Are women slaves? Unless if the man is the master and the woman is the co-master.