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Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by Duggedised12(f): 8:47am On Jun 21, 2019 |
See ehn, na single I single ,I nor kill person o. Why do I have to be looked down on because I dont have a ring on my finger , ladies that are younger than me are more respected just because they are married, its even worse if they have kids,chai! I don suffer . Guess what ,its all my fualt ,so society says . If a woman gets to a certain age and is not married,its all her fault, according to society, she probably doesn't know how to keep a man, she probably doesn't have good home training ,she probably was doing shakara when she was younger and the list goes on but guess what if a guy in his late thirties isnt married, he probably hasn't found the right woman yet . sighs! 80 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by obowunmi(m): 8:51am On Jun 21, 2019 |
Being a single woman in Nigeria is very, very terrible. Your parents treat you badly, friends abandon you and even strangers don't stop with the insulting comments. Be strong, I truly hope you find someone. 73 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by Vega100: 9:33am On Jun 21, 2019 |
Duggedised12: Na so, e don dey happen, very soon now depression go set in, madness comes later... ![]() ![]() ![]() When we tell una its a man's world, una no go gree hear, be forming feminist!!! U don see am noe abi ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I laugh in Swahili!!! Be Loyal. 103 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by Duggedised12(f): 9:47am On Jun 21, 2019 |
Vega100:hahahaha, see one of them ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() By the way,this "feminist" line is stale ,dont you think ![]() 75 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by Vega100: 10:55am On Jun 21, 2019 |
Duggedised12:I just saw one last week. Last week too, there was a lady captured on Camera crying and lamenting on the road for not having a husband... U can search for it. Last 2 years an elderly spinster in my compound, ran mad out of a long time depression she was battling with... ![]() ![]() You will soon follow ![]() ![]() 47 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by Duggedised12(f): 11:07am On Jun 21, 2019 |
Vega100:poor ladies, I feel for them ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() And yes ,I am allowed to rant ,its my rant ,I hope your life is perfect ,so crawl back to it ,and let me rant in peace ![]() 119 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by Vega100: 11:33am On Jun 21, 2019 |
Duggedised12:let's connect, send me a PM. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by Duggedised12(f): 11:51am On Jun 21, 2019 |
Vega100:so you go finish the yabbing abi? ![]() ![]() By the way ,I am sure you found it entertaining when the lady in your compound started displaying, I am certain you contributed to her reproach and mockery, you sound excited talking about it. ![]() 69 Likes |
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by AGNESP: 9:31am On Jun 22, 2019 |
Call me, i am male, 08159044864 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by Kingsteve(m): 9:55am On Jun 22, 2019 |
Op, at least you for upload profile pic, make people see as you be small. I'm not saying you will find a relationship via this platform, but you never just know. I empathise with you though. I have one Fulani sweet chic in her early 30's. Cash dey overflow her side, very slim and beautiful. She spends most of her time abroad...Dubai in particular, but the problem, she's not married yet. If not for the complications, I swear...I no for mind marry that chic. It's a sad situation though! 30 Likes |
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by Newguyhere: 10:56am On Jun 22, 2019 |
Duggedised12:I have lost access to the email I used in registering my nairaland account. Send me your whatsapp number on here instead:Juruguci@outlook.com ![]() |
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by Samyj247: 2:57pm On Jun 27, 2019 |
upload ur pic |
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by Nobody: 7:58pm On Jun 27, 2019 |
Send your pics to ***** let's see what we can do. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by Nobody: 8:15pm On Jun 27, 2019 |
Duggedised12:since they've banned sniper buy 3 tiger batteries crush them and remove those black powder, mix it with water and drink your problem will be solved in 15 minutes so that we don't get to read your rubbish again 24 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by pansophist(m): 10:58pm On Jun 27, 2019 |
I think we can all agree that the scapegoated patriarchal system is the best form of societal structure. The op would have been married off a long time ago ![]() 18 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by Duggedised12(f): 8:03am On Jun 28, 2019 |
lilbest4:hahahaha, why am I not surprised? I know there will be a vile creature that will attempt to transfer their demon. That you took out time out of your so called perfect life to read rubbish shows alot ![]() ![]() And by the way ,you might just die before me, who knows ,the universe works in mysterious ways ![]() 81 Likes |
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by Tuhndhay(m): 8:57am On Jun 28, 2019 |
Take heart stay strong and continue working on yourself. Am sure love will find you. Trust you are in good spirits now, just wanted to check on you and it's weekend..... Take yourself out on a treat and cheer up, trust me it will do you no good wallowing in pity. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by Altern8(m): 9:06am On Jun 28, 2019 |
pansophist: Lol. Exactly. Patriarchy is supported by many women but they won’t confess. They are covertly enjoying the perks of being considered the fairer / weaker sex. However, every time I treat ladies the same as guys (especially when it comes to responsibilities) they think I’m just wicked or inconsiderate. But I’m only giving them a taste of the equality they say they want! ![]() OP, sometimes, people don’t get married early because of unfaithful or unserious partners and it’s not their fault. I also wouldn’t call it bad luck. Just that one’s luck is yet to arrive. If you hit the 30 year mark, it becomes even more difficult to settle down because you are too careful. You don’t want to fall into the wrong hands. You want to get it right at once. The probability of which is quite low. I would suggest a different approach. Time don pass, everybody know. Be more spontaneous now. Date more. Be visible. The more you meet people, the higher your chances of meeting your desired partner. If you’re too careful, you will be confined and won’t have a large pool to choose from. 68 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by pansophist(m): 9:34am On Jun 28, 2019 |
Altern8: Exactly, you nailed it. Equality comes with equal responsibilities, and that is something women do not want to take from my experience. A rich woman still wants a man that will spend lavishly on her, to be rescued and honored and like a little princess, to make her feel like a prize. she wont start dating and brushing up broke men, just as men have done since the beginning of time. Women have it better, just that an admission to this truism is something most will never do. 23 Likes |
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by Nobody: 9:36am On Jun 28, 2019 |
See op dis one na simple issue nau. First mingle with the young men around d area where u reside then pick a focused young man wey catch ur attention then build a relationship with him then marriage will come. Some of the reasons wey dey cause a babe to still remain single is wen she too dey date different men at once. Only u go dey run 10 men package at once dey cast urself here and dere. Tell me wich man go take such a girl seriously ![]() 23 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by Altern8(m): 9:40am On Jun 28, 2019 |
pansophist: They’d rather kiss a frog than admit. ![]() ![]() 5 Likes |
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by emmaodet: 9:42am On Jun 28, 2019 |
pansophist: My broda u sef see am. It's well 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by Duggedised12(f): 12:41pm On Jun 28, 2019 |
Altern8:thanks for your input. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by Altern8(m): 12:56pm On Jun 28, 2019 |
Duggedised12:you are welcome. 1 Like |
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by zed7: 1:16pm On Jun 28, 2019 |
It's not easy finding a partner, a lot of people are mentally, economically, emotionally damaged. Since I am a man, I will speak of the opposite sex. Most girls are not sure of what they want, I met a girl in her 30's who still wants a man that will give her butterflies in her tummy. Some want rich men when they have no job and are not even intelligent enough to get an average job. A lot have very rotten attitude, bad character, no manners, no foresight etc. Trust me it will take a lot for a right thinking man to marry such a woman. Men too have issues, some are unambitious, unintelligent, irresponsible etc and yet they want a perfect woman. People should work on themselves first before thinking of bringing someone into their world. Don't bring anybody into your damaged life. The reason a lot of people are single (not by choice) is because they have issues which others see and they don't or they choose not to. 86 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by HeliosHay(m): 1:35pm On Jun 28, 2019 |
Duggedised12: Lol..not your fault. Nigerians are crazy about Marriage. 3 Likes |
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by Kingsteve(m): 1:53pm On Jun 28, 2019 |
zed7:This! 4 Likes |
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by zukky79: 11:39am On Jul 12, 2019 |
Duggedised12: Guys also experience pressure too. I was almost 36 b4 I got married and I endured enuf Go And Marry advice. I feel ur pain sis. Just hold on prayerfully. Also check ur list of exes. There could be one nice guy amongst them who wants to settle down. Try reconnecting. Also look out for that serious minded guy around where u work or live. Remember that there could be diamond in the dirt close to u. Keep ur eyes open. May God grant ur heart desire. Peace 29 Likes |
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by Duggedised12(f): 11:50am On Jul 12, 2019 |
zukky79:Thanks alot. 11 Likes |
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by ImaIma1(f): 6:04pm On Jul 24, 2019 |
I am tempted to share my cousin's story. She's over 40 and will be wedding very soon to a man who has never been married before. She has met family members and they love her. She's a wonderful person that went through a lot. Forget what society, people and Nairaland guys say about being an evening newspaper, old cargo...blah blah... Thankfully, what happens eventually is not in their hands 42 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by Duggedised12(f): 6:09pm On Jul 24, 2019 |
ImaIma1:thanks dear. 6 Likes |
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