Deepfeel:

Hahaha hahaha you should have given him a hand job instead, you didn't even allow him to pour see wickedness

He disallowed himself frm pouring ,not me! He is weak

Amatarasha:
He disallowed himself frm pouring ,not me! He is weak

So he should have shown strength by forcing himself on you

You are the reason why i hate a loose-mouthed guy. Always revealing confidential matters in the name of seeking for advice. That is supposed to be your personal pleasure....

Carry am go tb joshua

Why not help the poor girl

Michelle55:
You weren't doing it right to she felt the need to do the do by herself to save stress.. It's her personal decision to either stop or continue. TBH, what's the need for a d1ck if the owner of the tool can't properly make use of it
If you want to help her, have a deep communication with her during the act, don't act like you know everything about her body system

You ehnn

femi4:
When they use 30 mins in the bathroom .....what do you think they do there?

Na Small pikin dey worry am

Sadguru Said there nothing wrong in masturbation just the frequency of it is what's harmful, Op You should help her limit the frequency of it even if you're not dating her, this Way you'd have improved her life in a way.

badadvice:
Na so secret take dey expose and spread when you tell only one person.
She told you her secret (though not pleasant), something she hasnt told anyone else not even her roommates or parents and you immediately tell your friend the next day.
Two days after that, you tell the whole world through a faceless social media platform, nairaland.
Anyway, I'll advise you dont leave her.
Instead, do a collabo with her and help her masturbate and reach orgasm more often so she'll get used to you rather than she going solo.

let's join our hangs together to say No to solo wanking

badadvice:
Na so secret take dey expose and spread when you tell only one person.
She told you her secret (though not pleasant), something she hasnt told anyone else not even her roommates or parents and you immediately tell your friend the next day.
Two days after that, you tell the whole world through a faceless social media platform, nairaland.
Anyway, I'll advise you dont leave her.
Instead, do a collabo with her and help her masturbate and reach orgasm more often so she'll get used to you rather than she going solo.

Best Advice
Not all ladies reach orgasm with penetration. Every time I have sex, partner satisfaction is always my priority.
Stay with her if you love her.

I suggest you watch more porn so you get used to the sight of a female masturbating.
I have a secret to tell you: your girlfriend is a human being.
She must have spent her single days “rubbing one off”.
I don’t see anything wrong with her action.
If it bothers you that much free her for another man.

Op you're still a learner... I swear!
Anyway, I don't really blame you, simply because most Naija babes are sexually inhibitive, and you probably haven't met one who isn't shy to express herself sexually.

Some other dude will get more excited watching her masturbate, and will even give her a helping hand to help her achieve orgasm faster.

You have to be more open-minded if you really want to be with her.
Masturbation is not a big deal.

When next she visits and starts masturbating during sex, you can help by sucking her nipples, handling her breasts, caressing her body etc.
When she eventually climaxes, you can then pound or lick her to another orgasm!

In no distance time, you'd begin to enjoy the new sexual experience with her.
Be open minded and enjoy her!

martyns303:
A lot of women don't orgasm via penetration, you need to learn what works for her. U have to be matured about this.

Op, follow this advice else you will continue sharing her with her fingers Truth is there are different ways to please your woman sexually, it mustn't be a penetrative sex. Some women derives sexual pleasure differently so find out what really works for her, ask her questions while at it or tell her to show you how to pleasure her. Dont be embarrassed or shocked, atleast be grateful that she ain't cheating on you with another man(well,except her finger)
PS: everything boils down to communication, don't act like you know her body(infact act like a novice and Tell her to show you how to make her feel sexually satisfied)
Always remember that what works for Miss A is not applicable to Miss B(they are all different and react to things differently) that Miss A derive sexual pleasure from penetrative sex doesn't mean that Miss B will cum in that manner. Don't work based on assumption, ask her the right questions and watch as she succumb to you.

Kingsteve:
Op you're still a learner... I swear!
Anyway, I don't really blame you, simply because most Naija babes are sexually inhibitive, and you probably haven't met one who isn't shy to express herself sexually.

Some other dude will get more excited watching her masturbate, and will even give her a helping hand to help her achieve orgasm faster.

You have to be more open-minded if you really want to be with her.
Masturbation is not a big deal.

When next she visits and starts masturbating during sex, you can help by sucking her nipples, handling her breasts, caressing her body etc.
When she eventually climaxes, you can then pound or lick her to another orgasm!

In no distance time, you'd begin to enjoy the new sexual experience with her.
Be open minded and enjoy her!

Baba baba ooo

Avast:



Baba baba ooo

EditLord:
If you really love her, then help her overcome her addiction. I was addicted to masturbation to the extent that having sex with a woman is not pleasurable like using my hand. I once masturbated in the presence of a lady cos I wasn't feeling her, yes it was that babbbbb

I use to think quitting masturbation is impossible cos I've tried many times and failed, but I stumbled across a forum where I discovered that porn and masturbation are the number one cause of erectile dysfunction, a problem I've been battling with. I can't say the same for ladies though but that revelation gave me the determination to quit for life.

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. So you have PHD degree on masturbation, that's interesting, I like ladies of your kind, can we chart privately on WhatsApp

AwkaetitiBabe:
Yes so what's the problem here? She's still a beginner. Some people wey done graduate from the school

. People like ma lady, PHD degree of masturbation, can we chart privately on WhatsApp

izaray:
When next u guys wanna do the do, help her reach orgasm more often that way she will get used to you than masturbating.

Secondly if you feel she's clean down there give her head, that thing the burst ladies head scatter, i swear

. Madam the madam, you don Tay for this old business oo, no be today you start,.

Which one is she is a bad energy.

Tboy1419:
. So you have PHD degree on masturbation, that's interesting, I like ladies of your kind, can we chart privately on WhatsApp

I'm not a lady and I don't masturbate anymore

Artzdanielsz:
Which one is she is a bad energy.

The thing just weak me into my bone marrow.
Naija people and superstition ehhh....
Tufia...

Michelle55:
TBH, what's the need for a d1ck if the owner of the tool can't properly make use of it

mamacita what are you implying, she hasnt tasted the feeling yet ooooo

izaray:
When next u guys wanna do the do, help her reach orgasm more often that way she will get used to you than masturbating.

Secondly if you feel she's clean down there give her head, that thing the burst ladies head scatter, i swear

chai!! this is really deep, you are a bad girl

Avast:


Best Advice
Not all ladies reach orgasm with penetration. Every time I have sex, partner satisfaction is always my priority.
Stay with her if you love her.

i will have this at the back of my mind

Why would a 21 year old lady who probably receives offer for sex from guys be addicted to masturbation?

BIGGIE121:
Hello nairalanders, there is this girl i met in shop rite few months ago she was the kind of girl that has evrytin i would want in a woman, as a sharp guy that dont admire women silently i aproached her for her digits . she was reluctant in giving me her number initially ( you guys know the general mentality of girls when guys ask for their digits) after all the "you are a stranger i cant give you my number talks" she enventually gave me her digits and that was how it all started.


Soon enough we started getting familiarised with each other and after all the wooing and persuation she agreed to date me few weeks later.


Fast forward to the third time she came to my house which was yesterday., she had been saying no to my sexual advances all this while so i really went far with her yesterday i almost had sex with her bu ,what happened made me not to, So after all the lovey duvey play we started romancing,the romance was an intense one so it got to my head and i inserted my fingers into her pp and that was where the whole saga started .


She started using my hand to rub her g spot, when she felt my hand was not doing the job she wanted it to do, she removed my hand nd switched it with hers (maybe she forgot i was stiil there with her). she closed her eyes nd started rubbing her center of gravity vigorously i was suprised by her outlandish behaviour so i backed out and was watching her . 1 mins later or so her body stiffened and she started shaking like an epiletic patient when having seizures, i was aghasted to bone (by that time my jt was already flaccid) so i started shaking her with all the strength i had that was she opened her eyes, she was really ashamed of herself so she couldnt look at my face.


Few minutes later when evertin was settled i did not know the right question to ask her, so i asked what the problem was, so she told me that she has been an addict to masturbation for the past 4 years now and that she does twice or thrice a week, (i was shock to the brim by her ourburst) i asked her whether anybody apart from me knew this ,she said not even her room mates or anyone knows that she masturbates . Her outburst was difficult for me to assimilate ,so i had to tell my friend he adviced me to stay away from her cause she gonna be a bad energy to me.


This issue has been making me feel unsettled since yesterday the experience was a new one to me so i had share it here to solicit for your opinions and ideas on how to help her stop masturbation.


I wanted her as a fling before but now i am getting attachted to her pls i am in dire need of advice on what to do with her.....


PS: she is a 300 level student of a prestigious university in nigeria and she is 21 years old

Here's my advice - Stay with her but when you get an opportunity to fùck her, do it so well that she will realise that there's no substitute for a good diçk

Michelle55:
Op, follow this advice else you will continue sharing her with her fingers Truth is there are different ways to please your woman sexually, it mustn't be a penetrative sex. Some women derives sexual pleasure differently so find out what really works for her, ask her questions while at it or tell her to show you how to pleasure her. Dont be embarrassed or shocked, atleast be grateful that she ain't cheating on you with another man(well,except her finger)
PS: everything boils down to communication, don't act like you know her body(infact act like a novice and Tell her to show you how to make her feel sexually satisfied)
Always remember that what works for Miss A is not applicable to Miss B(they are all different and react to things differently) that Miss A derive sexual pleasure from penetrative sex doesn't mean that Miss B will cum in that manner. Don't work based on assumption, ask her the right questions and watch as she succumb to you.

thanks i will have your advice stored in my medular oblaganta

izaray:
When next u guys wanna do the do, help her reach orgasm more often that way she will get used to you than masturbating.

Secondly if you feel she's clean down there give her head, that thing the burst ladies head scatter, i swear

This head of a thing ehnnn, I will give it a trial one day but I still have the feeling that I won't be able to do it.

Harlem2:
So girls also masturbate

Op can lie eh

Girls do masturbate. They are human beings like men. Many of them love aggressive porn where the dominate and sexy macho man is giving it hot and steady without mercy and delay. Don't ask me how I know.

Martinez39:
Girls do masturbate. They are human beings like men. Many of them love aggressive porn where the dominate and sexy macho man is giving it hot and steady without mercy and delay. Don't ask me how I know.

Guy
Which one is aggressive porn
I twale for you oooo

@Op how old are you ?
What you just exposed shows u are a small boy
Well I for advice you but you too small and immature to understand.
Waytin I go tell you be say u just got ur self a real girl, just dat u wouldn't kwn how to manage & enjoy this babe, she's the real babe mature man want to have .
If you can't handle her , let other real men do thanks.