SlimChay:
Enough of the Frodd fuzz. It can actually happen to any guy. Especially guys that are the "good boy" material. Frodd cares too much about the opinions of girls. Seeking their validation. Not neccesarily a bad thing but not strategic,especially when it's to an uninspiring stoic girl that can't read inbetween lines and see value in you,like Esther. You have to understand that girls will always be drawn to that strategic thinker of a boy yet kind in a way(I don't know whether to call him the bad boy type), it's more appealing and lures them more. It's just their wiring. Yes, girls won't even love you out of pity. It's a pity.

Frodd appears to me like a good boy wearing the cloak of a bad boy. He just doesn't command the grit of a bad guy. Mature girls love good guys. What he,Frodd is going through is the aftermath effect of a masculine power loss, it's devastating. Yea one can cry too. That situation were you fall but too ashamed to stand up. You just keep dragging your self in the mud. A bad will not react that way though because he doesn't care enough about a girl's Yes or No to compromise his game. If Esther is smart. Frodd is actually her guy. No game doesn't mean he won't be a good lover, Or more romantic. But I guess girls,whether feminist or not must obey their genetic calling to love Manly men more who are more sired to not leak emotions. lol

His solution is simple. Stand up. Be more humble ,cheerful especially lively to more friendly friends who are girls. Don't harbor a grudge on Esther though, just keep your relation or convo with her short and play more platonic to other girls who'll appreciate you. Watch Esther come back to you like a boomerang.

Beorn1:
I honestly thought after sobering up yesterday morning, that Frodd had finally gotten sense, turns out that I was wrong.


There's no way any sane human would defend Frodd's stupidity, no freaking way. I cringed with shame as I read the earlier conversations between Frodd and Esther on here. Somehow I suspected it'd not end well for Frodd as I moved to other pages while catching up. Then when it was confirmed that a grown ass man, that's capable of fathering a child, cried on live TV because a girl turned you down, I was very pissed off. Words can't even describe aptly my anger at Frodd.


Then he's asking her to be his mother? For fvck's sake, you're asking someone you met on a game in just two weeks to be the mother you lost? He doesn't even know anything about Esther. Damn!! I sure know how to pick 'em, don't I? My only consolation is that I missed the whole scenario. For the first time in my life, I'm happy PHCN took the light. Best disappointment they've given me in all life.


I said I'd be dropping Frodd from my fave list if I see him stupidly on Esther's case two days ago, so, officially, I wash my hands off his case. I'll vote him above any HM he's up against (I still like him), but he's no longer my cup of tea. It's Best I watch this show from a neutral POV.

SlimChay:
Enough of the Frodd fuzz. It can actually happen to any guy. Especially guys that are the "good boy" material. Frodd cares too much about the opinions of girls. Seeking their validation. Not neccesarily a bad thing but not strategic,especially when it's to an uninspiring stoic girl that can't read inbetween lines and see value in you,like Esther. You have to understand that girls will always be drawn to that strategic thinker of a boy yet kind in a way(I don't know whether to call him the bad boy type), it's more appealing and lures them more. It's just their wiring. Yes, girls won't even love you out of pity. It's a pity.

Frodd appears to me like a good boy wearing the cloak of a bad boy. He just doesn't command the grit of a bad guy. Mature girls love good guys. What he,Frodd is going through is the aftermath effect of a masculine power loss, it's devastating. Yea one can cry too. That situation were you fall but too ashamed to stand up. You just keep dragging your self in the mud. A bad boy will not react that way though because he doesn't care enough about a girl's Yes or No to compromise his game. If Esther is smart. Frodd is actually her guy. No game doesn't mean he won't be a good lover, Or more romantic. But I guess girls,whether feminist or not must obey their genetic calling to love Manly men more who are more sired to not leak emotions. lol

His solution is simple. Stand up. Be more humble ,cheerful especially lively to more friendly friends who are girls. Don't harbor a grudge on Esther though, just keep your relation or convo with her short and play more platonic to other girls who'll appreciate you. Watch Esther come back to you like a boomerang.

Kayceesings:


Lol wetin you talk?

spongeisback:
Lol! Many Nigerian guys do this whole fraud (frodd) style. That's the only way they can get a girl. They cry and cajole you with their pathetic life stories, later when you unwillingly accept they would want to put "just the tip" if you refuse they will tell you how "blue balls" is hurting them. If you don't accept they will hate you and come on the internet and bítch about women.

philip0906:

Who's that?

nitlad:


You must not have seen the sequence of events that unfurled and unraveled the effeminate runt for you to be comparing it to any guy man OT for getting laid...

That charlatan deserves eviction on the basis of that alone. Walahi, it was more than cringe-worthy!!

nitlad:


Kim!

nitlad:


You must not have seen the sequence of events that unfurled and unraveled the effeminate runt for you to be comparing it to any guy man OT for getting laid...

That charlatan deserves eviction on the basis of that alone. Walahi, it was more than cringe-worthy!!

spongeisback:
Lol! Many Nigerian guys do this whole fraud (frodd) style. That's the only way they can get a girl. They cry and cajole you with their pathetic life stories, later when you unwillingly accept they would want to put "just the tip" if you refuse they will tell you how "blue balls" is hurting them. If you don't accept they will hate you and come on the internet and bítch about women.

Threebear:

I'm so disappointed in you for typing this .
What is wrong with a man crying ?

Are women the only ones supposed to be crying?
All humans have tear glands for a reason and that's to let out the steam when they're overwhelmed with emotions.
Saying Frood is not supposed to cry is denying him his right to be a human.
Stop promulgating toxic masculinity !
This is one of the reasons a lot of men die early because they're denied the right to express emotions because of people like you who shame them when they show vulnerability .
For his tears alone Frood has moved from 19th to my 18th favorite housemate .
I stand with Frodd .

Real men cry .

fergie001:

Don't mind people who didn't watch it....

Even said, if its God's will that you will be my friend..

Should I get you tissue?

My upbringing was somehow not that I was not loved ooo..

I want you to always tell me stfu when am saying things that are not right in the house.....Kai....

Vyolet, comman see ooooo

Beorn1:


Apples and oranges.


I never said a man crying is bad, hell, I was here defending Frodd when he bawled his eyes out recounting the traumatic events of his mother's death. But crying coz a girl doesn't reciprocate his love is foolishness of the highest echelon, and he deserves verbal lashing.

This ain't about a gender. If a lady cries on live TV coz a man doesn't reciprocate her feelings, she's stupid as well.

Kayceesings:


Me: :what's not to like, are you kidding me? .
You're easily the prettiest girl in this place,
no one wears dresses quite like you do, and that's including merciless mercy,
your body feels like the forge God used to make other girls.
Hearing you speak is like listening to words of wisdom while seating on massage chair.
I have somethings I like here but none like seeing you smile, maybe this isn't meant to be, but that means fate is wicked, why put me next to perfection and yet make it unattainable, (all this with lots of touching and staring into her eyes). Truth is, words are hard for me, but not today, not with you. I will read a thesaurus just to explain why I like you.

Kayceesings:


Me: :what's not to like, are you kidding me? .
You're easily the prettiest girl in this place,
no one wears dresses quite like you do, and that's including merciless mercy,
your body feels like the forge God used to make other girls.
Hearing you speak is like listening to words of wisdom while seating on massage chair.
I have somethings I like here but none like seeing you smile, maybe this isn't meant to be, but that means fate is wicked, why put me next to perfection and yet make it unattainable, (all this with lots of touching and staring into her eyes). Truth is, words are hard for me, but not today, not with you. I will read a thesaurus just to explain why I like you.

livelymatilda:

Can you imagine?
What is wrong with Jeff and Drops today? I thought they were there for the game... But they went for pussy fooling themselves before the world on a live TV..

Just imagine..


Frood---If it is God's will that we will be together bla bla bla".

Esther--There is nothing like God's will..


Bro, I am done with what I am doing. It is time for me to sleep.. Frood and Jeff weak me

Good night

Brubembem:
Are they not suppose to be real?
Male institution indeed.

Threebear:

Yet you made it so.
Read your comment I replied again .
You made it all about gender .

Vyolet:
LMAO, Ochon, you too vex oo.

Beorn1:


So why didn't I bash him when he cried about his mother's death since I'm against men crying?

Threebear:
Yes yes yes yes

100k followers .

Thanks to everyone that just followed Mike .

Let's get 200k .

garfield1:
Are my eyes deceiving me,how come biggie hasn't aired any innoson motors advert

fergie001:

Don't mind people who didn't watch it....

Even said, if its God's will that you will be my friend..

Should I get you tissue?

My upbringing was somehow not that I was not loved ooo..

I want you to always tell me stfu when am saying things that are not right in the house.....Kai....

Vyolet, comman see ooooo

MamBi:


Lol, Froddodo... I have a feeling he is going to get Esther though.... If she truly does not have any feelings for him, she would find ways to avoid him and try never to be alone with him. Anyway sha, make we dey look like lucozade.

Giel:

Your post is too stupid for words.
Contribute a dime for what?
Since when do big brother housemates contribute money to be seen as equals?
Mtchewww. The hate for tacha will make someone type stupid things . Lmao

dayveed1:
Easy to put together on keypads though.

fergie001:


Three things that were well-rehearsed, before hand