kayone6237:
Please house don't mind my construction but I will go straight to the point.

My wife always reports me to anybody that can help me spiritually and physically. What I mean by reporting is that, she always tarnishes my image everywhere, she has reported me to my Inlaw, her siblings, to the extent that I have amounted to nothing.

She reported me to my former pastor and now to my present pastor that I am a smoker of which I am not.

Anytime I go out of the house just to stroll or catch fun with my friends, the next thing is for her to tell me that I have smoked.

I am contemplating divorce because I don't see anything good about her anymore. I have corrected her several times but she won't listen.

I am saying this because it is my heart beat. I need a mature mind to give me candid advice.

Every contribution will be highly appreciated.

Bro flee from that woman ,she will will reduce your worth and esteem in society so much no one will take you serious again ..

Not good enough reason to divorce her unless you don’t love her anymore, even if that is the case try rekindling that love. Why is divorce so easy for people these days? What about the vows you took before marriage, didn’t that mean anything? what about the good times you once had? Please seek counseling for both of you on how to fix your marriage. Good luck!

What kind of smoke because some get filter and some no get filter. If you like smoke and spray the best perfume it will still be noticed by someone who has once smoked. Settle your wahala with your wife and stop smoking or being in midst of smokers. I guess that you gave her the impression that you don't smoke before you married her only to be smoking in secrecy.

TimFisher2:


Wake up from 1am and start doing incantation

Tie red ribbon on ur head and rub white powder on your face

Do it for one week,and see for yourself

She will run away from your life entirely!

If he tries this your formula then she will report him to the nearest native doctor, seems you have forgotten that she is a reporter according to the husband.

kayone6237:
Please house don't mind my construction but I will go straight to the point.

My wife always reports me to anybody that can help me spiritually and physically. What I mean by reporting is that, she always tarnishes my image everywhere, she has reported me to my Inlaw, her siblings, to the extent that I have amounted to nothing.

She reported me to my former pastor and now to my present pastor that I am a smoker of which I am not.

Anytime I go out of the house just to stroll or catch fun with my friends, the next thing is for her to tell me that I have smoked.

I am contemplating divorce because I don't see anything good about her anymore. I have corrected her several times but she won't listen.

I am saying this because it is my heart beat. I need a mature mind to give me candid advice.

Every contribution will be highly appreciated.

If the Pastor, her family members or anyone asks you, ask them who is the source of the rumours and what is their concern with your family. They would back off.

Whenever you go out to hangout, call her to ask her what she wants or buy her something. Probably peppersoup, barbecue, shawarma, etc.

She would be the one telling you to go and hangout.

kayone6237:
Please house don't mind my construction but I will go straight to the point.

My wife always reports me to anybody that can help me spiritually and physically. What I mean by reporting is that, she always tarnishes my image everywhere, she has reported me to my Inlaw, her siblings, to the extent that I have amounted to nothing.

She reported me to my former pastor and now to my present pastor that I am a smoker of which I am not.

Anytime I go out of the house just to stroll or catch fun with my friends, the next thing is for her to tell me that I have smoked.

I am contemplating divorce because I don't see anything good about her anymore. I have corrected her several times but she won't listen.

I am saying this because it is my heart beat. I need a mature mind to give me candid advice.

Every contribution will be highly appreciated.

The question is are u a responsible man cos if u are even if she lies against u people won’t believe her till they hear from u. They wud have ignored her or labeled her a liar. It’s either ur wife has a problem with u, a really bad attitude or there are certain problems or issues she’s not happy with and that why she’s acting ridiculous.

Why shud everybody even ur pastors believe ur wifes negative comments without hearing from u? Obviously Smtn is wrong smwhere and not just with ur Wife.

Try to understand each other

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OP the answer or solution to your Troublem is very simple
..all you need do is carry her along when you want to catch fun..
You think she is happy being left behind in the fun trips...op na blood dey flow through her body ooh...she no come this life separate wey only you go dey go flex..opari!

I know someone like this. She even reports the husband business to his enemies. She will be gossiping negatively about the husband to his own friends and enemies. OP if you have no children please run away from her. Your wife should not be the one showing your yansh in public. If you have children read her the riot act and give her last warning. If you hear your business outside again, the marriage is over. Such people will kill you from disgrace and shame, with HBP. You won’t even be able to stand amongst your mates without them laughing at you. Such people have no limit and can’t mentally understand the terrible impact of their actions. All they think about is how to spite their husband.

Divorce her jo. I ate nonsense and ingredients

OGA u sef dey sedon for huz.besides what kind of fun do u have when u go out?check ur self

kayone6237:
Please house don't mind my construction but I will go straight to the point.

My wife always reports me to anybody that can help me spiritually and physically. What I mean by reporting is that, she always tarnishes my image everywhere, she has reported me to my Inlaw, her siblings, to the extent that I have amounted to nothing.

She reported me to my former pastor and now to my present pastor that I am a smoker of which I am not.

Anytime I go out of the house just to stroll or catch fun with my friends, the next thing is for her to tell me that I have smoked.

I am contemplating divorce because I don't see anything good about her anymore. I have corrected her several times but she won't listen.

I am saying this because it is my heart beat. I need a mature mind to give me candid advice.

Every contribution will be highly appreciated.

Bro,the thing is that it's the kind of life your Wife choose to live, it's either you change her preference or you stop giving a Bleep about what he tells people about you.


But you trying to end your marriage just because your Wife is a gossip seems to me like you were never prepared for the marriage

Very scanty reason for divorce. I see nothing exceptional about what your wife does. This is the weakness most women bring into a man's life. Yours might only be one step ahead of others. Live with it brother!

You have no reason to consider divorce. Refocus your attention on her good sides. And you will be fine.

OP is mad

Igetmyown247:
Not good enough reason to divorce her unless you don’t love her anymore, even if that is the case try rekindling that love. Why is divorce so easy for people these days? What about the vows you took before marriage, didn’t that mean anything? what about the good times you once had? Please seek counseling for both of you on how to fix your marriage. Good luck!

If what he said is what is rereally happening, then there is no problem with their marriage just that both couple are still childish

Igetmyown247:
Not good enough reason to divorce her unless you don’t love her anymore, even if that is the case try rekindling that love. Why is divorce so easy for people these days? What about the vows you took before marriage, didn’t that mean anything? what about the good times you once had? Please seek counseling for both of you on how to fix your marriage. Good luck!

If what he said is what is rereally happening, then there is no problem with their marriage just that both couple are still childish.

I will advise you to look inwards. If you are truthful enough there are some things about yourself that you need to work on and improve. Perhaps the friends you keep and some of your socal habits... I think your wife is reacting this way because you have failed to listen to her when she tries to point them out to you and so out of desperation she goes out to tell other people. Divorce is not the solution.

Work it out with her
Both of you can go for counselling
Listen to her and be willing to make those necessary adjustments
Create an atmosphere of peace, love and respect in your home...what you give has a way of coming back to you
Ask God for the wisdom to deal with the situation

I pray your home finds love and peace again. Remeber that divorce has its own issues. It's certainly not the solotion

Shalom

maybe she's not impressed with your friends or u are living a dull life...step up man

Judges have been informed never to grant divorce again. ..but of you should continue to enjoy your marriage

Nwodosis:
Is it a crime if she joins you to see your friends? There is trust issue in your marriage and you need to restore that trust by letting your wife to have more access to your private life. Mind you, divorce had always being the worst option in marriage.

You made my day, men would always think they have more sense where as we are just another form of goat... Why can't he just let the woman into his.life

Tell her you will divorce her if she does that again. If she continues divorce her.

have you consider a romantic means of solving this?

what are the things you usually do for her in the courtship that you stop doing?


why do you think fast on divorce? She's with you and still telling lies and all sort on you, won't she do more if you divorce her? won't those she been telling vindicate her expressions?


why not get a nice gown of her favourite colour, tell her to prepare for a date at weekend. I think she lacks your attention and she stop enjoying what made her to fall in love you at first


resolve this amicably before concluding, divorce is not worth it.

eezeribe:
It seems your wife was a former journalist working with CNN... Lol
But on a more serious note, didn't you notice this 'reporting' attitude of hers when you were still dating her?

He's NOT ASKING you for help to get ASKED BY YOU why he made the first mistake..Nigerians can't answer simple questions

The devil you know is better than your side angel that about to come in.
You don't need any advice, make your marriage work.

drlateef:
Tell her you will divorce her if she does that again. If she continues divorce her.

Do You Marry?

Once you lose your respect as a man in your house, you are done.

The worst thing to do is to be friends with or get married to a foolish and loquacious woman who is disrespectful. Take the reins and be the man of your house.

are you rich

kayone6237:
Please house don't mind my construction but I will go straight to the point.

My wife always reports me to anybody that can help me spiritually and physically. What I mean by reporting is that, she always tarnishes my image everywhere, she has reported me to my Inlaw, her siblings, to the extent that I have amounted to nothing.

She reported me to my former pastor and now to my present pastor that I am a smoker of which I am not.

Anytime I go out of the house just to stroll or catch fun with my friends, the next thing is for her to tell me that I have smoked.

I am contemplating divorce because I don't see anything good about her anymore. I have corrected her several times but she won't listen.

I am saying this because it is my heart beat. I need a mature mind to give me candid advice.

Every contribution will be highly appreciated.

When a woman nags (If she's not the nagging type), all she wants is affection.

Twice or thrice a week, take her out to eat. At times, tell her to rest that you'll bring food for dinner.

Buy gifts for her and go on outings as a couple such as a park, picnic and so on.

Make her feel wanted. Also, both of you should exercise together. Get back your youthful shapes. Try and do things together.

When she knows she's the apple of your eye, she'll be careful not to hurt you

momove4real25:
I hate wood- pecker

what d’hell is that supposed to mean?

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All women are the same bro,don't even think of divorce do u know if the one you will marry after divorce will be the worst.