pocohantas:


I expected your response. When you push the woman who built with you and marry a younger one to make her first lady or controller of your estate. That isn't abandonment ba?

If I abandon my broke bf who contributed nothing but prick and love. He will run to NL to create thread, telling everyone who cares to listen how I dumped him after getting a good job.

The general consensus would be how women can't handle power and/or how they change when they see small money. It will never be how he contributed nothing besides love and no sane woman would abandon a man who helped build her.

Abandonment is abandonment, be it taking additional wives or total cut off. Neither of them was the initial plan when you had nothing.

thesicilian:
I need someone to roll up the sleeves and work with me, not just to be there standing by me.

1x2x3:


Exactly the point. No sane man would leave a woman that helped them build. They will always leave the one who had nothing to offer.

AstroG:
That was how one girl said that she stood by me when I was still broke. I asked her,what tangible thing did you do for me asides sex(that both of us enjoyed) she started stammering,started crying. I told her these ur tears na crocodile tears ooooh. Besides that,I had earlier told her to go and find something doing yrs back but she declined.

Naija bitches are Leeches,looking for who to perch on.

thesicilian:
I need someone to roll up the sleeves and work with me, not just to be there standing by me.

1x2x3:
So last night a female friend of mine posted this question below.

Who would a guy choose between a girl who loved him while he was nothing and a girl who made him what he is today?

Below is my response to such misconstrued thinking of some ladies who play victims.


Okay let me clarify a bit. When a girl says she loved you when you were nothing I tend to wonder what the girl was at that moment. If you look closer she may be nothing financially and intellectually as well. I mean both of them were nothing while loving each other.

On the flip side there are situations a girl with financial and intellectual capability can be in love with a broke guy. She stays because she believes in him and to help him build till he becomes the person of his dreams.

In both examples.... Both girls stood by the guy while he was nothing right?

In first instance, the girl was just there standing in the relationship with nothing to offer as well besides love. The opposite of this is two people who fell in love while they are both rich.

In the second instance, she is in love with you even when she had the opportunity to go for someone better, she put in her effort and all to build the guy till he became who he wants to be.

Every sane person will choose the second girl. The first girl will only play victim and may not be able to pay the sacrifices the second girl paid if she was richer.

What do you guys think?

donbachi:
Its like the story of two women...one clears the farmland with you,burns it and plants casava with you for days or weeks.goes to the farm to clear the weeds with you,believing oneday you both will go and harvest them in due season.only to be dropped by her farmer bobo..and another woman comes to bake the garri for the man to eat...for me,the both did well...its like one planted and one watered it.

donbachi:
Its like the story of two women...one clears the farmland with you,burns it and plants casava with you for days or weeks.goes to the farm to clear the weeds with you,believing oneday you both will go and harvest them in due season.only to be dropped by her farmer bobo..and another woman comes to bake the garri for the man to eat...for me,the both did well...its like one planted and one watered it.

thesicilian:
I need someone to roll up the sleeves and work with me, not just to be there standing by me.

nairalandposter:
Women matter again?
Se won ti fi oro obinrin sepe fun yin in this place ni?

pocohantas:


So many great men went ahead to pick a second wife after years with women who helped them build. OBJ married Stella and she was his First Lady. Eleganza man married Sade, who wasn't even half his age. Now she controls everything. Ned just married Regina.

Sometimes, men just want a woman that fits the current status. Has nothing to do with sanity.

donbachi:
Its like the story of two women...one clears the farmland with you,burns it and plants casava with you for days or weeks.goes to the farm to clear the weeds with you,believing oneday you both will go and harvest them in due season.only to be dropped by her farmer bobo..and another woman comes to bake the garri for the man to eat...for me,the both did well...its like one planted and one watered it.

1x2x3:


Exactly the point. No sane man would leave a woman that helped them build. They will always leave the one who had nothing to offer.

mezarddinny:
either as a man or a woman, always date people in your financial class so as to avoid stories that touch in the future, remember that the money that is enticing you today may become what you can spend in a day in the future but you are already far too gone in deep shít. financially okay guys should go for financially okay women so there will be less talk of "I spent everything had on her" even if she leaves you, you will know you didn't lose out same goes to women. broke men should hustle and look for a hustling woman so they can both team up and add something to each other's life. don't go and be looking for wretched girls because you are finding submissive woman when there are submissive ladies that are financially okay

thesicilian:
I need someone to roll up the sleeves and work with me, not just to be there standing by me.

pocohantas:


So many great men went ahead to pick a second wife after years with women who helped them build. OBJ married Stella and she was his First Lady. Eleganza man married Sade, who wasn't even half his age. Now she controls everything. Ned just married Regina.

Sometimes, men just want a woman that fits the current status. Has nothing to do with sanity.