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Re: Misconception Of "I Stood By You When You Were Nothing". by donbachi(m): 5:57pm On Jul 18, 2019 |
Neddyogu:i see u....u b somebody |
Re: Misconception Of "I Stood By You When You Were Nothing". by Nobody: 5:58pm On Jul 18, 2019 |
1x2x3:then when women say they dont want broke men,ya'll be the first to open a thread like whiny brats to slut shame them. Men are unsatisfied creatires 3 Likes |
Re: Misconception Of "I Stood By You When You Were Nothing". by babakb: 5:59pm On Jul 18, 2019 |
I am very happy and free now, I hustled all by myself and GOD elevated me to where I am, no woman can say shiit to me now, in fact my wife is sometimes worried because I pay the bills 100% She is feeling so redundant. You can call me old fashioned I don't care, but that's how I like my life, I don't need a penny from any woman. 8 Likes |
Re: Misconception Of "I Stood By You When You Were Nothing". by 1x2x3: 6:02pm On Jul 18, 2019 |
funmisticqueen: Nope. I dated a girl who got married under my nose while we were still dating. We still talk today, I was hurt but never made a meal over it as I believed she got married to who she felt was better for her. That's how I see life. What I wrote in my original post is applicable to either a guy or a girl. 2 Likes |
Re: Misconception Of "I Stood By You When You Were Nothing". by Adakintroy2: 6:03pm On Jul 18, 2019 |
1x2x3: That's is a completely new direction you are going. Vctimizing those who stood by a man in times of lack. Because they do not have. A broke guy attract no friends. Not even a broke woman. Note a woman can be broke but can still at track rich guys if she is pretty. That means to an extent a woman has one option better off than a man. If she decide to stay put. Judge it from honest intentions of the heart. Not out of the abundance of material offering on the outside. That way you will be giving all equal playing field as long as both intent are honest. No Class disperities 1 Like |
Re: Misconception Of "I Stood By You When You Were Nothing". by Adakintroy2: 6:05pm On Jul 18, 2019 |
1x2x3: That's is a completely new direction you are going. Vctimizing those who stood by a man in times of lack. Because they do not have. A broke guy attract no friends. Not even a broke woman. Note a woman can be broke but can still at track rich guys if she is pretty. That means to an extent a woman has one option better off than a man. If she decide to stay put. Judge it from honest intentions of the heart. Not out of the abundance of material offering on the outside. That way you will be giving all equal playing field as long as both intent are honest. No Class disperities. A good sign you understand the term "standing by a man" in the first place. 1 Like |
Re: Misconception Of "I Stood By You When You Were Nothing". by 1x2x3: 6:08pm On Jul 18, 2019 |
Adakintroy2: I agree with you. What works for you may not work for me depending on the core values we seek in a woman. So going back to the question of who would you choose between those 2, I would like to know your answer. |
Re: Misconception Of "I Stood By You When You Were Nothing". by Nobody: 6:12pm On Jul 18, 2019 |
Jgoldie:Ouch!! Your emotional juice is dried up!! I was just wondering...'this moniker sound like a dude'.. You will be alright las las.... Time heals all wound/Burn |
Re: Misconception Of "I Stood By You When You Were Nothing". by yemmit90: 6:13pm On Jul 18, 2019 |
1x2x3: Why not ignore her and do your thing, this is not only women thing, some friends can discourage you too if they dont have interest in what you are doing. I personally sees any man who is expecting a woman to advise him on his future or helping him built one as weak. Just dont marry a lazy,troublesome,dirty and extravagant lady. 5 Likes |
Re: Misconception Of "I Stood By You When You Were Nothing". by Nobody: 6:14pm On Jul 18, 2019 |
1x2x3:was she building up with you? You seem like an exception to the rule |
Re: Misconception Of "I Stood By You When You Were Nothing". by livingoracle: 6:14pm On Jul 18, 2019 |
Can someone help a brother, please. I need a chat group for matured minds. I mean an extremely naughty platform of every every. Please inbox me the link or the admin's number. God bless you good |
Re: Misconception Of "I Stood By You When You Were Nothing". by Nobody: 6:17pm On Jul 18, 2019 |
pocohantas:I don't believe this |
Re: Misconception Of "I Stood By You When You Were Nothing". by Tessae(f): 6:25pm On Jul 18, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth:This mmadu5 guy should see this post....� |
Re: Misconception Of "I Stood By You When You Were Nothing". by 1x2x3: 6:26pm On Jul 18, 2019 |
yemmit90: Don't you think this is wrong? Your mother or any woman can be your mentor. Well for me I wasn't seeking her validation else I would have stopped I simply needed that support since it is a woman related product.......So now that it is successful you agree she should feed off it and enjoy the benefits? 1 Like |
Re: Misconception Of "I Stood By You When You Were Nothing". by Adakintroy2: 6:41pm On Jul 18, 2019 |
1x2x3: Like you rightly pointed, it comes down to each and everyone's subjective core values. Who would a guy choose between a girl who love him while he had nothing v a girl who made him what he is today. It's not an intellect thing. Conviction expecially strong convictions exist deep down in the spirit. Some may not have but are playfull, humbles, kind..will give from the little they have and know you indept. That's is not to say the one that have does not share these qualities as well. But if your site is limited to the material you will see only what you wish. I will pick a person that loves me for a true and honest reason. And that is a heart decision. Not material informed for me. 2 Likes |
Re: Misconception Of "I Stood By You When You Were Nothing". by Youngjohnosas: 6:44pm On Jul 18, 2019 |
yemmit90:yea even though u r going to leave such persons be sincere enough to do it the right way. sometimes some persons say I am weak but I just don't see it as weakness.when people have good intentions towards you,its humane to reciprocate. 1 Like |
Re: Misconception Of "I Stood By You When You Were Nothing". by mmadu5(m): 6:45pm On Jul 18, 2019 |
Re: Misconception Of "I Stood By You When You Were Nothing". by seanwilliam(m): 6:49pm On Jul 18, 2019 |
ADAMUdaCOWBOY:did she contribute anytin to beta the guy's life? |
Re: Misconception Of "I Stood By You When You Were Nothing". by 1x2x3: 6:54pm On Jul 18, 2019 |
Adakintroy2: Bingo!!! That inner conviction is my key point. Thanks man. |
Re: Misconception Of "I Stood By You When You Were Nothing". by Adakintroy2: 6:55pm On Jul 18, 2019 |
1x2x3: You welcome. Have a nice day. |
Re: Misconception Of "I Stood By You When You Were Nothing". by seanwilliam(m): 6:59pm On Jul 18, 2019 |
that is why no matter wat i become,i cant forget my mother because of 'sacrifice' she has made for me. i will dump any ladies that dont contribute to my success straightup. because aside sex, i no no ur importance 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Misconception Of "I Stood By You When You Were Nothing". by LordAdam16: 7:01pm On Jul 18, 2019 |
robinsoncrosoe: Logged in to give you a thumbs up for this! This is the primary reason why I don't take sides on this and similar matters. The major problem is that people know they're inherently selfish and that it's a natural trait (sometimes understandable), but like to make up excuses or reasons to somehow feel good about themselves or deflect judgement. Your ex-friend would defo not find it funny if he'd been at the receiving end of same treatment; but he has no problem dishing it out because he's selfish. Most people are: Both genders. Now, if folks owned up to their selfish and self-centered misgivings, it'd be swell; but they wouldn't. I mean look at the OP's question! What logical explanation does he have for not helping out the first lady if he has the means to do so? How hard could it f*cking be to do sth tangible for the individuals who in one way or the other had your back when the going was tough? Not because they're entitled to it, but because you're a decent human being. But it's unsurprising. I mean there's a good reason there's a saying, you only know your real friends when things are rough. And that power intoxicates. -Lord 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Misconception Of "I Stood By You When You Were Nothing". by LOVELYSKINZNEW(f): 7:07pm On Jul 18, 2019 |
abeg abeg if u no get money do you love yourself talkless of loving someone else |
Re: Misconception Of "I Stood By You When You Were Nothing". by yemmit90: 7:08pm On Jul 18, 2019 |
1x2x3: Yes, but there is limit to the advice a woman can give you before she got tired of you. An average woman created by God is expected her man to be head and not the tail or manipulated tool in her hands. They want a man who can always protect them both financially and intellectually even if they possessed the same quality. To your question sir, the only situation i will think/feel she wont enjoy the benefit is if she had tried with every wicked means to stop me and not just her non supportive attitude. Some people are like that,but once you get what you want and be successful in that particular thing, they will start respecting and supporting your ideas the next time. Let me tell you this brief story about myself, i dated a lot before i got married [both intimate and platonic relationship], then i came to realization that women are virtually the same. They only reacts to what you throw at them and what you want them to become. Some can be easily molded into your taste,but to mold some, you will need more time and patient. In marriage, even the angel you think she is good for you can do some unimaginable thing that you will feel you made mistake by marrying her. That is women for you, all of them are unique and good in their respective ways, it depends on how intelligent you are in handling a relationship with them. 5 Likes |
Re: Misconception Of "I Stood By You When You Were Nothing". by Nobody: 7:09pm On Jul 18, 2019 |
PoliticalChinex:You are materialistic!! The first is better, provided that she is also developing herself tho!! |
Re: Misconception Of "I Stood By You When You Were Nothing". by Nobody: 7:15pm On Jul 18, 2019 |
babakb:In this "Next level"?? You dey try oo.. Bills are not smiling oo especially Tuition fees of Kids.. |
Re: Misconception Of "I Stood By You When You Were Nothing". by victorian(f): 7:16pm On Jul 18, 2019 |
Ryan03: I didnt feel like airing any view today but lemme just chip in this . Any broke guy out there , who has a girl friend fucvking him daily is very very very very and i mean extremely lucky . Such men should thank their stars , all women in nigeria are not like me I will simply tell you guy! Having sex is the least of my problems as we are like this . Instead of you to be fasting ,.praying and keep yourself holy for blessings to locate you. You are talking of u need sex to keep the brain and body intact. First, have u given your life to Christ? If not ? U better be a born again christain. Shelve sex aside and focus on making it . For me , i dont get turned on , if im broke and a broke guy is wooing me. Biko please stay your lane, dont add to my stress . Lemme make it first , then u can come back and talk about sex in a relationship, all in the guise of boyfriend.and girlfriend . Well broke guys are lucky sha, having sex with their babes . For me , i dont get turned on in poverty , thats the plain truth . Mutual success and comfort is like an adrenaline that turns me to a very high climax While my greatest fear is poverty and lack. I dont joke with making it or being comfortable. Its a Must ! In my dictionary. So Sex! Swerve! 5 Likes |
Re: Misconception Of "I Stood By You When You Were Nothing". by loswhite(m): 7:22pm On Jul 18, 2019 |
1x2x3:so what if she is poor and a richer guy is coming for her and she decides to leave you, why do you ppl come and cry afterall who is sticking with who? Your point is very wrong. A beautiful girl that is wise can use her beauty to climb up the ladder. 2 Likes |
Re: Misconception Of "I Stood By You When You Were Nothing". by Biglittlelois(f): 7:29pm On Jul 18, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth: Apt!!! 1 Like |
Re: Misconception Of "I Stood By You When You Were Nothing". by Biglittlelois(f): 7:35pm On Jul 18, 2019 |
Jgoldie: Honestly ehn, if we should dwell on all the heart breaks we get for staying loyal to a man regardless of not been boxed up, some of us would never love again, we'd just go for guys strictly for money, and if you notice all the type of guys that are ungrateful, it's the ones that has never tasted real money before. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Misconception Of "I Stood By You When You Were Nothing". by PoliticalChinex(m): 7:36pm On Jul 18, 2019 |
eni4real: She is not developing herself. Her only contribution to my life is the promise to wait and pray for me as if i have not been praying for myself. Meanwhile, i am not poor myself coz i have been working hard to work myself to full-time masters degree in a top university with top grades. So get the gist beta b4 u judge wrongly |
Re: Misconception Of "I Stood By You When You Were Nothing". by seniorgozman(m): 7:37pm On Jul 18, 2019 |
pocohantas:When OBJ was in prison, it was only Stella that visited him through out that period 2 Likes |
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