Come to think of it some guys don Bleep the girl tired

First, list is not drawn by a family but the community elders. List is to test the resolve of a man to get married, when some guys don't take the extra pain to get married, they don't tend to respect and appreciate the marriage institution. Most people who complain are those who have no knowledge of how to go about it. When a list is given, get people who understand traditions and they will tell you how to go about it. It is never compulsory to do exact, Some of our parents get lost in the city and their children too loose touch with traditions.

Am out...

Michelle55:
That's not an issue na... I'll simply carry belle for hubby, Infact na dem go dey beg hubby to bring the one wey im get sef.. My people can't try this shiits with me else na dem go suffer am.. So if dude give them all his life savings, Wetin im go use take care of me biko? To make matters worse, I no dey hear word(if dem do anyhow, I show dem anyhow )at the end of the day, shame na dem get am.wetin consign Agbero with overload

Supportive and understanding wife. I like this but on side note, accumulatively, those stuff are not as expensive as painted here just that they are mostly dispersed hence the fear factor.

maxiuc:


What do you expect from people that share boundary with Mbaise people

Dem nearly finished my brother, the first day my brother went to his in-laws house he went there with his Sienna car next he went again with his Lexus car then finally he exposed himself he went again with his Venza case closed Naso his in-laws and kinsmen go amend list ooooo because they have seen the boy is loaded my papa no gree see arguments my dads list was different from the one they brought out why we ask why wasn't the list corresponding with the one they gave us earlier why this new one that was how they started saying that the gave the outdated list that we should work with the present one they just brought no be small quarrel my brother was saying that my dad should forget about the stuff that it is nothing no be money e go cost Naso my dad give am better slap and sent him out after several arguments we finally used the old list they gave us initially it got to the extent that we were prepared to go that they should take their daughter and eat we are no longer interested in the marriage na so their daughter run come outside threatening her parents that if anything should happen to her marriage today that they will definitely see her dark side like play like play the girl pack her bags ooooo her senior brothers supported her serious quarrel between the children and parents, Hehehehehe we the in-laws that came to marry was laughing loud because they are exposing themselves how the uttered the list, las las after the quarrel everything went successful

Hyper-compound sentence...

Angelfrost:


That first question goes both ways, sir... How many did you witness that formed the basis of your consistent emotional rebuttals?...

Your second question was clearly poorly thought out... Did our parents bear such financial burdens? If they did, were the cost and standard of living in their time identical with what pertains today?... Isn't culture a dynamic thing that should be subject to generational review?...

well said brother!! Spot on

virgoquin:
Hmmm

Why is a part of me suspecting that the list was made by a failed blogger

Because those guys can do and undo all for traffic

it's true, I'm originally from obiangwu though another village, and my sister wedded four years ago, the list is almost the same with this one but where they got it wrong was where they mentioned the father, the father doesn't write a word on that list, he goes to the kinsmen to collect the marriage list, every marriage to any girl in that kindred will use that exact list but all those things can be negotiated to half or lesser than half

maxiuc:
oga in traditional marriage list stuff you are not allowed to talk yes my dad slapped him for trying to expose himself more that Money is not problem for him, it seems you have not gone for marriage rites the groom doesn't talk in the matter is non of his business,

Why am I even explaining to you

u too funny, so cuz d groom isn't allowed to talk,ur dad slapped him abi?bros me no believe dat slapping side abeg

[quote author=IceColdVeins post=80401656]cheap[/quotmy man is like u ar. Ngor oakpala that is why u call it cheap.

I only do it when I want to use their daughter for money ritual

chiommy123:
If you really love your bride you look beyond the list

So he should go bankrupt because he loves the bride. Let me just use your do for you .

SirBunky85:
u too funny, so cuz d groom isn't allowed to talk,ur dad slapped him abi?bros me no believe dat slapping side abeg

no worry on own marriage day try to interfer in the procedures like telling your dad or kinsmen what he should do

My dad slapped him for a reason and we all know the reason

Valkaycelestino:



Hyper-compound sentence...

english teacher which one is hyper compound sentence

Abeg teach me

doublecross:
f00lishness

:::;;--- Truth is bitter, learn how to swallow it. Thanks.

It means for the title holder.
At first I thought it was my eyes lol so igbos Dey eat Amala secretly and they will come nairaland disturbing Yorubas [/quote]