I am not encouraging cheating here but if you had already gone that far then I can't understand why you didn't finish the job.

Trust me, there's no way she would've told her bf if y'all had gone all the way. But in this instance, she felt that her bf would forgive her so she wanted to get her story in first (and score some points with him) before you do. She probably didn't trust you to keep it to yourself.


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Benblaq:
Hello Nairalanders, Hope you all are having a good day.

I'm about to share my little problem with you, I'd love to get mature response.

I'm a student in a tertiary institution located in Cross River state, but I base in PH.

Last month when I was about coming home for the first semester break, my school mate gave me a package to deliver to his girlfriend who lives here too.

Fast forward to when we met in PH, she came over to get it and in the process of discussing and casual playing, we ended up hugging and kissing.

It ended on an agreement note that her guy shouldn't hear of it. As a matter of fact, we agreed to say we met at the junction.

I thought it had ended and i took my mind off it, only for my guy to start calling me, threatening fire and brimstone.

What happened?

I called the babe and she told me her conscience was heavy, she had to tell him.
Now all my guys are against me.
The problem is that i don't know how I'm going to face my friends when I resume school.
I now look like a Judas.
What steps can i take to ease the tension?

*First step is to call him on phone if possible video call explain everything to him
* Cut any relationship with de gehr If possible block ha cos she can even cause worst shit Dan diz
*Try to find out his reaction and response (after de explanation n apology
*Try not to mk him see yu as a threat
Depending on ur relationship with him yu shd know his kind of pesin (forgiving or hard hearted) to b on a safe side...
If he's hard yu might wanna think of smtn else to do cos such peeps can hurt guys cos of gals
Dats all I hv for now

This little error has led to the death of many people. Delete that girls number from your phone and report what you did to your parents let them follow and beg the boy. You really misbehaved

That is why the fear of God is beginning of wisdom repent

Good point! These folks are probably teenagers. I can't understand why he didn't finish the job … after going that far!

Bizarre people


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Lovelyn451:
Confused girl...girls that don't know what they want in their life...tchew
You, your friend and the girl...how old are you pipu

[quote author=queenxey1 post=80553672]
Boys dat listen 2 John Legend nd Ed Sheeran can never break ur heart,but u see Marlians and kapachumarimarichupako

Fear them[/quo



shut up already with that copy and paste trash foolish harlot

ladiesreject:
Na you create thread, na you still de rush FTC.

All these small small children sef. Mtcheew.

Ok.....
On a serious note..
If I was the friend you did this to, just forget about our friendship, it's gone! It's not gone because you fvcked my bitch, it's gone because you betrayed my trust.
I don't forgive such offense. Fvck me up all you like but never betray my trust, I won't forgive you, that's me!

You are a snitch, a betrayer, a saboteur and a bad friend. Worse thing is you're still in contact with her, even claiming likeness for her. If not because you said you were from the south south, I would have suspected you're from that region that is known for these bad traits I listed above. (You know them)

The way forward is to go to school and face your friends. Apologize to the one you snitched, after that you cut off every communication from him. If he comes back to you, then he has forgiven you, but if not, just move on forever and never look back.

Like it or not, once trust is broken, it's gone.

Next time, if you find your friend's babe attractive, tell him. Who knows, he might allow you have a taste of her if she's just a fvck mate to him, yes, guys do that alot.

Just apologize to him and move on.

Bro, are you talking about the deluded & daft IPIGs from the landlocked region? I'm not scared to mention them if you are! Those things are terrible beings, mehn!

MannieA:


hmmm...Such a long epistle *yawns*

Lol
Hwfa you

Benblaq:
Hello Nairalanders, Hope you all are having a good day.

I'm about to share my little problem with you, I'd love to get mature response.

I'm a student in a tertiary institution located in Cross River state, but I base in PH.

Last month when I was about coming home for the first semester break, my school mate gave me a package to deliver to his girlfriend who lives here too.

Fast forward to when we met in PH, she came over to get it and in the process of discussing and casual playing, we ended up hugging and kissing.

It ended on an agreement note that her guy shouldn't hear of it. As a matter of fact, we agreed to say we met at the junction.

I thought it had ended and i took my mind off it, only for my guy to start calling me, threatening fire and brimstone.

What happened?

I called the babe and she told me her conscience was heavy, she had to tell him.
Now all my guys are against me.
The problem is that i don't know how I'm going to face my friends when I resume school.
I now look like a Judas.
What steps can i take to ease the tension?

I once held my cousins gf one day while we where alone, immediately, it dawned on me dat I av f-up, immediately my cousin came bak, I told him wat happened n apologised, 2 days later, he told me his girl has reported me to him and she was telling him m a bad guy. That episode actually made our brotherhood stronger, the girl later came to me and was saying she liked me b4 but it was my cousin dat gisted her first, whilst she talked, I was looking at her like mumu... This one that wants to scatter brothers...

Listen n listen good, that girl does not like u 1 bit, she just wants to get at her bf for some hidden grievances she has against him n u are d collateral damage...

Man up and talk to ur guy b4 u resume, see him b4 resumption n iron tins out properly. Be contrite.

Hmm.
I love life because of it's many complexities: while some people are fighting cancer, some knee deep in poverty, some wondering which is the true religion then finally OP is scared to lose his friend or his friend's ex.

I suggest you shun both of them or get rid of his ex.
The choice is yours.
It's not all your friends who'll stay with you for life.
I just asked one of my friends why we're still on good terms twelve years later, this is despite my first choice of a lifelong friend not staying with me more than two.
He told me I wasn't his first choice also.
Funny enough I was happy we both admitted it to each other.

Whatever you do, do NOT (I repeat DO NOT) date dat gal. I don't care if she finer than mammy_water. Dating dat gal could ruin you forever.

blah! blah!! blah!!! Op u Bleep up sha....u'll only b a betrayer when u get caught..
Similar situation also happened with my guy's babe too, the only difference is that till date, we're still doing our bedromance acrobatics together...cuz i'm scratching the right spot. u no scratch am well that's why she told him...
Dude the did has been done so face the reality...
u have two options:
-U either straighten things with ur friends, shun d babe and win their friendship back
-continue seeing her and expect the worst from ur friends...

[b]Funny! A so called friend also did the same thing to me this year during my service. I already knew the frenemy's game without him knowing it.. He led to the first break-up between me and my ex without both the knowledge of the ex and this guy. Immediately, i systematically stopped him from coming to my place. After I made up with the my ex and started dating again, this guy wasn't happy about it. This is a guy who that literally does everything at my expense. Sometimes I, he stays overly in my place for almost a month while I kept feeding and giving money to him, which he never bothered to return. He'd spend his entire allowee on weed and frivolous spending and run over the to my place when broke. To make matter of worst, we're all in the same PPA ;me, my ex, and the guy. Eventually, he also led to the second breakup apart from the stupidity of the girl herself. To make matters worst, before our second breakup, she wá alway chatting with the guy rather than me. I'd usually send s message in the morning and get my reply probably in the evening while she chatted with away with this guy. It got so disgusting to the level whereby when we eventually broke up the second time, the guy had the nerves to be insulting me via whatsApp status and, not just that, he started posting pictures of both him and my ex on his status.. There was was even a picture we all took together and this guy posted this same picture, only this time, i had been systematically erased and deleted from the the picture.. The guy was attacking me from every corner in Whatsapp and i was just laughing.. When we resumed, i had already made updates my mind. I totally snubbed him, never picked up his calls or read his messages, never entertained him in my place, etc .. The message was clear ;STAY AWAY FROM ME. It got to a point whereby everyone within my PPA were quite angry at me thinking i decided to to just snub the guy for no reason as he himself was going about telling them he did nothing.. I eventually spilled the whole story to the guy in our PPA still,some of these guys were saying "na girlfriend matter jhoor"and immediately after that statement, i made sure i drastically reduced my movement with those guys.. Before we passed out last month, the guy was begging everyone to talk to me so that i could grant him an audience for him to explain himself.. It got to a point whereby teachers in my PPA came to me to bury what everybody hatchet u had with the guy still, i bluntly told them that we had to no beef but i don't want a friendship with him anymore. That done, i went to the Principal and requested to a different staff room away from my ex, frenemy, the Aproko female Corpers and, the other guys till the end of service. they all saw me as some kind of pompous, arrogant boy afterwards . Me i like it that way ooh.. If my assumed friend could start buying things like chin-chin and La Casera for my ex behind the my back without the girl also informing me, if a supposed friend could visit your ex when you she was sick without me the boyfriend even knowing she was sick and she never told me(... The guy even came to my house b4 heading for her place that same day and he claimed he came to purchase charger), if your friend could sleep in the house of your ex without both of them informing you, my brother, RUN FOR YOUR LIFE!! I was lucky it happened to me during my NYSC and that it was close to the end of service year 'cos if not, would have gone ahead with a deadly friendship with the guy and some of my PPA colleagues.. As for me OP, assuming7i was your friend, i won't even entertain a single conversation between us. You're too dangerous to even share greetings with. Lets be realistic, you're are traitor.. A big time one.. [/b]

Post No Bill..

This is what happens when a Judas meets a Jezebel. Op, you are a very bad and disloyal friend.

Lesson: people should watch the friends they keep, keeping numerous friends is not profitable, it would be difficult to quickly identify a bad one.

X is disappointed, X is really disappointed

Real guys don't have issues with there fellow guys over a babe he ain't married to

Benblaq:
Hello Nairalanders, Hope you all are having a good day.

I'm about to share my little problem with you, I'd love to get mature response.

I'm a student in a tertiary institution located in Cross River state, but I base in PH.

Last month when I was about coming home for the first semester break, my school mate gave me a package to deliver to his girlfriend who lives here too.

Fast forward to when we met in PH, she came over to get it and in the process of discussing and casual playing, we ended up hugging and kissing.

It ended on an agreement note that her guy shouldn't hear of it. As a matter of fact, we agreed to say we met at the junction.

I thought it had ended and i took my mind off it, only for my guy to start calling me, threatening fire and brimstone.

What happened?

I called the babe and she told me her conscience was heavy, she had to tell him.
Now all my guys are against me.
The problem is that i don't know how I'm going to face my friends when I resume school.
I now look like a Judas.
What steps can i take to ease the tension?

RIP to another idiot that is about to be killed because of common pvssy. You thought you are smart by seduding the girl, but she's probably "remote controlling you. Girls that cause fights between guys are possed. The demon in them make them feel like Superstar when they cause niggis to H.I.T. themselves.

The reason why she decided to report you to her boyfriend is because she is afraid you will report her first.

No my man. They don't see you as Judas, You are actually worse than Judas. You broke the guys code. You must have been eyeing the girl before you pounced.
Take it or leave it, You will never be trusted by your guys again because when trust is broken it's hard to mend.

IamSoProlific:


He has been consistent here this passed few days.

he was banned yesterday

Guy cut all ties with the girl and your "friend".If he is angry with u that is a good sign but when he starts forming buddy buddy with u nigga run faster than usain bolt and avoid the girl like unwanted pregnancy

Please write names and addresses of all the friends affected, in case we never hear from you again.

Ijaycool:
Please write names and addresses of all the friends affected, in case we never hear from you again.

lol.

Mrjo:
he was banned yesterday

Lolz. That guy sha

Because of your guys chick?


Man, you are a traitor and i will never trust you if you are my friend forever.

How could you do that. You friends girlfriend.!!!!!!!


Snitch

this is what you deserve. why should you eye your friends girlfriend. now that you look like judas iscarrot in the eyes of your friends do you like it? you deserve worse than death itself... #Arabanku!

This guy is not at fault

Stupid gay kissing someone the first time you are staying alone.

ladiesreject:

Lol Hwfa you

LMAO!!I dey oooo

Greatfullheart:
this is what you deserve. why should you eye your friends girlfriend. now that you look like judas iscarrot in the eyes of your friends do you like it? you deserve worse than death itself... #Arabanku!

Worse than death?Smh

spiceadole:
I'm surprised this is an issue.
I thought guys don't feel bad if their friends get involved with their babes.

I thought the guys usually cheer each other over bottles of beer while rubbishing the girl and calling her a who.r.e.

Or are things changing in this Next level?

Abi na ordinary bragging una dey do?

I have never seen a guy who loves his babe and allows his friends rubbish her!It's only in a situation where the girl is just a fuckbuddy.

Your friend will never trust you again...even if he forgives you. That’s the major damage...

For the girl, just bleep her! Damage is done already

You just Damaged a relationship with a brother for life........over bullshit