highcollide:
agreed!

fireback:
Pure love only exist between MOTHER and CHILD.
No woman loves any man. It's either they love your money or your life style or they pretend to love you in order to gain marriage from you. So there's no pure love between man and woman. Pls stop deceiving yourself. Marriage itself is NOT purely for love, it's for legal Sex and pro-creation.

Biggty:
Imagine the one i just met, just barely 2 days into the "relationship" she asked me for money to buy foodstuffs. After the disturbance was too much i asked her that i will like to spend a night in her place, she told me it was too early that she doesn't know me that well.

pocohantas:
This one done turn Nairaland alpha male.

Association of heartbroken men.

Pcguru1, see your people o.

Biggty:
Imagine the one i just met, just barely 2 days into the "relationship" she asked me for money to buy foodstuffs. After the disturbance was too much i asked her that i will like to spend a night in her place, she told me it was too early that she doesn't know me that well.

Biggty:
Imagine the one i just met, just barely 2 days into the "relationship" she asked me for money to buy foodstuffs. After the disturbance was too much i asked her that i will like to spend a night in her place, she told me it was too early that she doesn't know me that well.

ubunja:
lmfao that guy has zero game. He's a loser. But can't blame him for trying.

Problem with najja guys is the thirst. Too much.

In any case personally I have women I fvck for free coz I know how to find the generous ones. Plus I know how to ask for it.


But your FB friend is hilarious

TheOdd1sOut:
I used to think Nigerian girls will love you if you love them back. I believed in this cause when I was young, my older brothers and nephews usually told me that love conquers all. And their love escapades shows that (an uncle of mine married a girl he had dated since JS1).
But alas, my eyes are open. Although what I've said above is true, it doesn't work for the current generation of girls we have now. The previous generation followed that cliche, but the present generation doesn't.
All they want is money and they will give you mechanical love in return.
IM NEVER DATING A GIRL FOR LOVE AGAIN. ALL IM GOING FOR NOW IS THE KNACKS AND SEX AND PLEASURE.
Date a Nigerian girl for "love" and watch as she frustrates you.
Truely....
Romance is sweet with Finances.

*Swallows Red Pill*

ubunja:
Guys are finally learning...

J4JUVENTUS:
Gudmrn boss,i need you to help me . Can i pm you,or ask here?

ubunja:
you can ask here. But I'm bad at dating advice

J4JUVENTUS:
Thanks...All I need from you is that book by Charles..The bang rule. I was going through your write up before now,and I must say that, you're doing a great job. Can I drop my email plz?

J4JUVENTUS:
Thanks...All I need from you is that book by Charles..The bang rule. I was going through your write up before now,and I must say that, you're doing a great job. Can I drop my email plz?

TrollKiller:
bros, run as fast as your legs can carry you
that girl na scam

victorian:












As in ehn? I was first shocked, then dismay and dissapointed..

For me, its not as if i dont like sex but that shouldnt be the basis of any new relationshup. Since when i was a teenager growing up , there has always been this lustful look and suggestions from guys towards me until i became an adult and as the years went by, i found it so boring . Its just all about sex.

An igbo guy, sorry i mentioned igbo But he is . He saw my profile on fb and inbox me, we got chatting. He asked of my location, i told him , he was like wow! Im not far from him . And can he see me like right now before he goes to his shop on the island . That he cant believe im real. I laughed and said no problem come to my office , im just entering my office nw. He replied for real? I said yes nah. Im not hiding anything . He then came within 25mins. His place is not far . When he saw me , he was wow! He was filled with all smiles and he walked quickly to me hug me and said happily u are real and so pretty! Oh wow! I said wait guy! Chill! Wait , wait. He said ha! No o.
Mehn he cant believe his luck! That ok baby! Where do u want us to go for shopping? Shoprite? As he smiled still holding onto me . I sighed , and replied why do u want to tske me shopping?
He said baby, i love what im seeing ! You are too much!

I can see the desire and huge lust in his eyes .

I said look, loosen your hold ,please this is an office . I dont need my clients seeing me like this . He then remeembered he is an office and he removed his hands off me.
He said look babe! I want to make you happy and i know with shopping u will be all mine .

I burst into laughter , shook my head , i said guy! Im not interested in shopping for now. Lets be friends . He said ha! No o.. That i must be his babe and hes ready to make me happy . I said look we will chat, i need to get back to work. But please im not yoir babe yet. He said no o, you are my babe ! I was like which kind wahala be this one early mo mo. I got angry, i said look we will chat. Before he left ehn? Was even he saw a client walk in.

So u can imagine? He feels with shopping for me in shoprite i will open legs ,yaaaaaa.

Its all glaring in his eyes .

Its all about sex i had to use harsh words to cut him off eventually.



Although have met two cool guys on nairaland who are not all about sex .One is based in the Uk,the other one in lagos . Very sensible guys ,drop dead gorgeous guys o! The one in Uk gives freely without holding back and he has not seen me face to face, he has not said babe i want us to date, but he sends pounds when im strappd for cash( very cute frosh guy, as in over frosh! He knows himself ) and we chat most times.

The second nairalander who is based in lagos , cute tall guy with 6packs ,matured in thinking ,focused and easy going too. Perfect gentleman. We chat as well and no talk about sex. Thats more like it . Lets understand our personalities well before delving into anything sexual.

Just leave sex behind and focus on how similar or different are both of your goals, in career , family and all. As long as we both know the chemistry is there .

Thats my take on it.

tooawesome:


I have it. The bang rule and the advanced bang rule

Hit me up on whatsapp 09019732275

ubunja:

i don't know that book. only heard of it.

iLegendd:
Love exists. Sadly, most men don't know how to love. Now, your question will be, "How do I love?"

ANSWER

You love by not professing love until you're married to her. Even after that, don't be a nice man, but a wise man.

RiyaGoddess:
You should stay off Sex. Once Sex is involved in a relationship, genuine love becomes difficult. You will find someone who will love you without money. You might even need to pretend to be a poor person in order to test the lady(s)
Read my signature

bogdaddy:
Question no 1: have you dated a poor guy?
Question no 2: have you given a poor guy your attention without complaining about something... we shouldn’t say what we can’t do pls

Victarion: