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Is It Okay For My Mum To Send Money And Food To My Married Sister ?? by Techfave(m): 8:54am On Jul 29, 2019 |
Hello guys, please I need enlightenment on this My sister got married Last Year, she was pregnant already when she married, the man she married is over 40 years old, my sister got her husband through a religion organization, when the leader of the organization insisted that she must marry that man.. Now my concerns about is that this man she got married too is not financially okay, My mum always send money to my sister.. When my sister was about to give birth my mum finance nearly all the hospital Bill, the funniest thing is that my mum also borrowed the money somewhere.. My question is that, Is is okay for my mum to send money to my sister after she is married?? Is it okay for the leader of a religion organization to dictate to my sister to marry this man?? Please I need enlightenment on this issues 5 Likes
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Re: Is It Okay For My Mum To Send Money And Food To My Married Sister ?? by thorpido(m): 8:57am On Jul 29, 2019 |
These are questions to ask before this present situation. The deed is done already. The question should have been,'Should my sister marry a man she really doesn't know because a religious leader is asking her to?' Well na your sister mumu herself(no offense intended). As it is now,your mom does not want her daughter to suffer so she has to still give assistance. 388 Likes 14 Shares |
Re: Is It Okay For My Mum To Send Money And Food To My Married Sister ?? by Imoh555(m): 8:57am On Jul 29, 2019 |
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Re: Is It Okay For My Mum To Send Money And Food To My Married Sister ?? by Imoh555(m): 8:58am On Jul 29, 2019 |
the man she married is over 40 years old, my sister got her husband through a religion organization, when the leader of the organization insisted that she must marry that man. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ill comment later 67 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Is It Okay For My Mum To Send Money And Food To My Married Sister ?? by wahles(m): 9:05am On Jul 29, 2019 |
I personally don’t think you have the right to speak for your sister or seek opinion for her about her choice. Mind your business If your sister isn’t working yet, channel this enquiry towards helping her find a job, so she could be independent. 278 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: Is It Okay For My Mum To Send Money And Food To My Married Sister ?? by Techfave(m): 9:08am On Jul 29, 2019 |
wahles: My sister is my business sir 324 Likes 16 Shares |
Re: Is It Okay For My Mum To Send Money And Food To My Married Sister ?? by wahles(m): 9:12am On Jul 29, 2019 |
Techfave:I understand! But keep family business within, talk to your mum or any oda relative on possible solutions or advice 65 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Is It Okay For My Mum To Send Money And Food To My Married Sister ?? by Kneephy(m): 9:17am On Jul 29, 2019 |
Tomorrow geh belle.... Nobody sabi wetin e go born ooo... You are asking If it is OK for ur MUMMY to send FOOD and MONEY to her DAUGHTER who happens to be ur ELDER SISTER ..... No ooo it's not OK at all, let her leave her dere and let her suffer sogbo.... Wait are you here to mock your sister or what?? Cos if not for HYPOCRISY, why should you bring it here in the first place..... You are letting us know that your sister is a fool who can't decide what she wants with her life, and she's your sister, not mine.... So I would treat your sister just the way I see u treat her 232 Likes 11 Shares
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Re: Is It Okay For My Mum To Send Money And Food To My Married Sister ?? by madridguy(m): 9:20am On Jul 29, 2019 |
the man she married is over 40 years old, my sister got her husband through a religion organization, when the leader of the organization insisted that she must marry that man. Is your sister that desperate for marriage or how come a religion organization forced the man on her? Or probably she's old? I pray God Almighty pave way for every struggling guy. 51 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Okay For My Mum To Send Money And Food To My Married Sister ?? by Abuhafs01(m): 12:05pm On Jul 29, 2019 |
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Re: Is It Okay For My Mum To Send Money And Food To My Married Sister ?? by pocohantas(f): 12:06pm On Jul 29, 2019 |
Sebi una say it isn't about money, but love. Your sister has been misled by one religious leader into marrying a broke man. I don't know why they never connect someone to the rich ones. How can I marry a poor ancestor? What did he spend his youth doing, if he didn't make good money? Your sister should better go look for a job and fend for herself. Maybe her husband too ![]() Nonsense and alfah males. 42 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Is It Okay For My Mum To Send Money And Food To My Married Sister ?? by wiseone28: 12:06pm On Jul 29, 2019 |
greedy brother make only u chop 67 Likes
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Re: Is It Okay For My Mum To Send Money And Food To My Married Sister ?? by Emily22(m): 12:06pm On Jul 29, 2019 |
It's normal cuz the present situation in this country ain't funny. Lemme burst Ur bubble, as at last year...as at last year(July), my mum was the one feeding my sister and her family but luckily around December,the husband got a nice contract and since then...na faaji galore for them.. In summary,Ur sister's present situation is d cause...mabinu Although I don't support that religious trash 66 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Okay For My Mum To Send Money And Food To My Married Sister ?? by helinues: 12:06pm On Jul 29, 2019 |
Your mum is only playing the role of a good mum.. Your sister made her decisions not that anyone forced the man on her unless if the said sister is 11 years old. Btw would you have watched your sister starved to death? I am sure she must be regretting her decisions.. She's probably going through hell. Love is blind but Na for marriage eyes dey open 23 Likes |
Re: Is It Okay For My Mum To Send Money And Food To My Married Sister ?? by Automatic3444(m): 12:06pm On Jul 29, 2019 |
Yea.. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Is It Okay For My Mum To Send Money And Food To My Married Sister ?? by nephemmy(m): 12:06pm On Jul 29, 2019 |
especially for this present day naija...it's very well OK... ![]() ![]() ![]() 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Okay For My Mum To Send Money And Food To My Married Sister ?? by babyfaceafrica: 12:07pm On Jul 29, 2019 |
yes and no 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Okay For My Mum To Send Money And Food To My Married Sister ?? by YOUNGELDER1(m): 12:07pm On Jul 29, 2019 |
How old is she? Is she that desperate for marriage? |
Re: Is It Okay For My Mum To Send Money And Food To My Married Sister ?? by lekbel09(m): 12:07pm On Jul 29, 2019 |
Over to the elders ,cos if I talk you won't like what am gonna say 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Okay For My Mum To Send Money And Food To My Married Sister ?? by Omudia11: 12:07pm On Jul 29, 2019 |
How can you say the leader of the organization insisted she must marry the man? Is your sister a child? What concerns him with whoever your sister chooses to marry? I have never heard of such before in my life. 12 Likes |
Re: Is It Okay For My Mum To Send Money And Food To My Married Sister ?? by storageboy: 12:07pm On Jul 29, 2019 |
Op if your sister is happy with her husband its OK 1 Like |
Re: Is It Okay For My Mum To Send Money And Food To My Married Sister ?? by Dpharisee: 12:07pm On Jul 29, 2019 |
Its okay for her to spend on her daughter until the young family finds their feet. Your concern should be that the man gets something reasonable to do to take care of his family on his own, as long as they are living in peace despite their current financial challenge dont interfere negatively in order not to aggravate their situation if you dont have solution for them. Your sister has made her choice so keep off if you have nothing to contribute to them. Never castigate the man openly, give them ideas that can help them to come out of the financial situation if you have any and leave your mum to do what pleases her for her daughter and her son in-law. 27 Likes |
Re: Is It Okay For My Mum To Send Money And Food To My Married Sister ?? by martowskin1(m): 12:07pm On Jul 29, 2019 |
EVERYTHING ABOUT THIS ISSUE IS WRONG..... THE MARRIAGE IT SELF IS WRONG, SO EXPECT EVERYTHING THAT FOLLOWS TO BE SAME WAY 6 Likes |
Re: Is It Okay For My Mum To Send Money And Food To My Married Sister ?? by bkool7(m): 12:07pm On Jul 29, 2019 |
Of cos now We all run thru some challenges now and then. My mum once borrowed me money to complete my rent when I quit my job two years ago 18 Likes |
Re: Is It Okay For My Mum To Send Money And Food To My Married Sister ?? by qualityovenbake(m): 12:08pm On Jul 29, 2019 |
Is it okay for the leader of a religion organization to dictate to my sister to marry this man??it's not ok, but they're married already. You fail to mention how old is your sister, am sure she knew what she was getting into and was also aware of the man financial situation. You all failed to mention your dad's role in all this. Is is okay for my mum to send money to my sister after she is married??No it's not right. Na who no go, no know, if I tell you calls I receive from blood relative and extended family, you go weak. What am trying to say is that the country is rough for most people, so most times they call on family for help. 6 Likes |
Re: Is It Okay For My Mum To Send Money And Food To My Married Sister ?? by Chiedu4Trump: 12:08pm On Jul 29, 2019 |
Why not, if she needs it 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Okay For My Mum To Send Money And Food To My Married Sister ?? by Toscarele: 12:08pm On Jul 29, 2019 |
No, she should leave her to starve 1 Like |
Re: Is It Okay For My Mum To Send Money And Food To My Married Sister ?? by ichidodo: 12:09pm On Jul 29, 2019 |
Your sister must be on the very wrong side of matrimonial age and suffering low self esteem to find herself all shacked up with a near dead beat middle-aged fellow...Don't worry about your mother,she's an angel... 7 Likes |
Re: Is It Okay For My Mum To Send Money And Food To My Married Sister ?? by crazygod(m): 12:09pm On Jul 29, 2019 |
Its OK na. A little help is not bad. Infact which kain question is this? Is ur mum complaining? ![]() 15 Likes |
Re: Is It Okay For My Mum To Send Money And Food To My Married Sister ?? by greenprince(m): 12:09pm On Jul 29, 2019 |
which dirty religious organisation permitted her being already pregnant before marriage and still having guts to dictate her life? If your mum can afford it, it's better she helps the man get on his feet and work. Sending support every time is extremely unhealthy for everyone involved, especially when all parties accept it as a normal thing. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Okay For My Mum To Send Money And Food To My Married Sister ?? by Authoreety: 12:09pm On Jul 29, 2019 |
Don't be stingy bro 3 Likes |
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