My question to you is..... should your mother allow your sister to die of hunger because she is married?

Techfave:
Hello guys, please I need enlightenment on this



My sister got married Last Year, she was pregnant already when she married, the man she married is over 40 years old, my sister got her husband through a religion organization, when the leader of the organization insisted that she must marry that man..

Now my concerns about is that this man she got married too is not financially okay, My mum always send money to my sister..


When my sister was about to give birth my mum finance nearly all the hospital Bill, the funniest thing is that my mum also borrowed the money somewhere..

My question is that,

Is is okay for my mum to send money to my sister after she is married??

Is it okay for the leader of a religion organization to dictate to my sister to marry this man??

Please I need enlightenment on this issues

No it is not, she stopped being your mother's daughter the day she got married. Rather than burn with envy resources is going to your sister, i would recommend you get your hustle going and stop the hating on your sister.


If you were hustling, you won't be paying attention, your mother was supporting your sister in marriage. It shows how idle and unresourceful you are.


Focus on your own life's development and you won't be bothered about the little gestures of love your mum continues to pour on her daughter.



Finally, it's not about the resources but about the show of love that continues even well into marriage, in-laws get to respect such family better, and turn around to treat your sister with dignity. Stop being a busy-body. Go get your own resources, then you can decide whom to give and not to give


Your mum is boosting your family's image


Your mum is help building her daughter's marriage


Your mum is not disillusioned by the perfect man image


Your mum is a good mother.

Techfave:
Hello guys, please I need enlightenment on this



My sister got married Last Year, she was pregnant already when she married, the man she married is over 40 years old, my sister got her husband through a religion organization, when the leader of the organization insisted that she must marry that man..

Now my concerns about is that this man she got married too is not financially okay, My mum always send money to my sister..


When my sister was about to give birth my mum finance nearly all the hospital Bill, the funniest thing is that my mum also borrowed the money somewhere..

My question is that,

Is is okay for my mum to send money to my sister after she is married??

Is it okay for the leader of a religion organization to dictate to my sister to marry this man??

Please I need enlightenment on this issues

Is she not her mother?

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Few minutes!

Let me ask Ifa

pocohantas:
Sebi una say it isn't about money, but love.


Your sister has been misled by one religious leader into marrying a broke man. I don't know why they never connect someone to the rich ones.

How can I marry a poor ancestor?Am I mad?

What did he spend his youth doing, if he didn't make good money?

Nonsense and alfah males.

My friend, go and sit somewhere, let elders talk.

Very ok, nothing bad in it please. Let her send.

Sense is far from the Hoekpe

Life comes at everyone differently. I believe you're up to 18 and there are 18 year olds taking care of their own family.

Your sister is family and your mom cannot sit and see her daughter suffer when she can do something about it.

I guess what I'm saying is, it's not okay, but don't use other people's standards to judge your sister's standards.

So if you are a praying man then pray that her hubby finds financial balance so he can take care of his responsibilities and take care of yourself mom too.

Every responsible man, derives pleasure in taking care of his responsibilities.

Very much OK my dear

Yes and no...
It depends.

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Techfave:
Hello guys, please I need enlightenment on this



My sister got married Last Year, she was pregnant already when she married, the man she married is over 40 years old, my sister got her husband through a religion organization, when the leader of the organization insisted that she must marry that man..

Now my concerns about is that this man she got married too is not financially okay, My mum always send money to my sister..


When my sister was about to give birth my mum finance nearly all the hospital Bill, the funniest thing is that my mum also borrowed the money somewhere..

My question is that,

Is is okay for my mum to send money to my sister after she is married??

Is it okay for the leader of a religion organization to dictate to my sister to marry this man??

Please I need enlightenment on this issues

You lost your right to talk on the issue when you fail to defend your sisters right to choose who to marry.
Besides, do you expect your mum to now watch her daughter starve to death because her husband is not financially OK? If you cant assist dont spoil her chances to be assisted by those that cares.

Fixed marriage,family matters.... The gods are to be blamed

Why bring your sisters family issue to social media? What do u plan to gain? U need the advice to do what? Very daft show of shame. Learn to keep family stuff private and discus it in-house.

Naija economy na to feed one another bros...

The question is; do you want your sister to die of hunger?

You sister accepted the dictation..For your mummy "Omo eni ki buru kafi fun ekun paje"..Let her support continue tommorow maybe better than today.The religious husband should go out to support his family..leave prayer out this ..

Just tell us you want your mum to be giving you the money.

By the way, what are you still doing at home? No go find work. De there de monitor your Mumsy.

Mom did same for my elder sis for over 5years, in fact everyone in my family also supported them with little we ve not much..... Today after over 10 years mom is beginning to reap from where she sowed. God is blessing my in law now.... Dude be patient with your sister life is not always smooth for everyone

Lemme wait for the professionals

The only unconditional love is a mother's love. That much I know.

Safitu come and give your opinion

Techfave:


My sister is my business sir

If she is your business you should have guide her properly before she get into this.

Why are you complaining is it your money she is sending to her you can't stop her from doing so. mothers are the most caring creatures Allah ever created, even if your sister is doing well in her husband house i believe she will still send her money or food...case closed

Omudia11:
How can you say the leader of the organization insisted she must marry the man? Is your sister a child? What concerns him with whoever your sister chooses to marry? I have never heard of such before in my life.

You don't know what goes on in some of these "churches". My friend was complaining how her younger sister brought one old man home. First question I asked was if her sister attends that kind church, she said yes. I know say na them. The kind brain-washing they give them there ehn, it is on another level.

Bro don't mind Di's nairaland e warriors ...
There is nothing u can do about ur mum helping ur sister and from d way it seems I don't there is anything wrong.
Ur elder sister which I presume has already made a mistake and so wats done is done.

But the best you can do is to advice ur mum to advice ur sister to get something doing no matter how small and from der she can help her self and also reduce ur mum spending....

Now to another news....if nah me b u by now I for don day beat DAT religion leader wey deceive my sis but I no b u sha

slowice:
Mom did same for my elder sis for over 5years, in fact everyone in my family also supported them with little we ve not much..... Today after over 10 years mom is beginning to reap from where she sowed. God is blessing my in law now.

That's it. Unfortunately, many people don't understand this unsteady and unpredictable journey called life. It's never one plus one. Wetin man eyes never see.

Techfave:
Hello guys, please I need enlightenment on this



My sister got married Last Year, she was pregnant already when she married, the man she married is over 40 years old, my sister got her husband through a religion organization, when the leader of the organization insisted that she must marry that man..

Now my concerns about is that this man she got married too is not financially okay, My mum always send money to my sister..


When my sister was about to give birth my mum finance nearly all the hospital Bill, the funniest thing is that my mum also borrowed the money somewhere..

My question is that,

Is is okay for my mum to send money to my sister after she is married??

Is it okay for the leader of a religion organization to dictate to my sister to marry this man??

Please I need enlightenment on this issues

There is absolutely nothing wrong with it, from my own point of view all fingers are not equal, in otherwords your mum has to do what she is doing to encourage her daughter to stay in the marriage, my own sis was having similar issues way back in 2001, her husband lost his job in the banking sector, and my mum has to finance the hospital bills for her to give birth and even send feeding money to them, but today the husband has gotten a good job in an oil and gas sector and they are doing very well now, so sometimes life can be up and down.

Young man it's not fair bringing this type of matter here.

She is your sister for goodness sake here is not the right place for this.

Where are your other older ones, uncles, aunties, village elders etc. Pls don't do this to your sister here is not the right place.

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[quote author=pocohantas post=80736387]Sebi una say it isn't about money, but love.
Your sister has been misled by one religious leader into marrying a broke man. I don't know why they never connect someone to the rich ones.

How can I marry a poor ancestor? What did he spend his youth doing, if he didn't make good money?

Your sister should better go look for a job and fenf for herself. Maybe her husband too You Sister got pregnant before their wedding... It meant that no religion leader force your sister on the old man but foolishness of your sister... How could she be sleeping with man she wasn't intend to marry? Your sister got what deserve so...don't blame any religion leader for your sister predicament