There is these general feeling in this part of the world, that it is the duty of a guy to toast a girl, some guys see girls who approach them as been cheap and desperate, which is very bad. if a girl have approached you for a relationship in your life, share your experienced let learn and as well encourage more ladies to come out of their shell and take a shot at the guy they crush on.

My first ever proper job after I left Secondary School was working as a Librarian at a boarding High School for girls from families with money. This school was secluded. Many KMs away from the city.

When I got the job I was broke with no proper clothes and in bad shape. The first school term was pure hell and pure heaven same time. Never before in my life had I seen so many pretty faces in a single place. But never had I felt more invisible. For being new, it really hurt to over-hear the pretty students admire other male teachers who had been there for longer and had better clothes, and were in better shape than me.

But as if by instinct, I did this: by the second school term, I took my salary and improved myself. I cleaned up, got sharp new clothes, ate better. I became the best version of myself. Then I SAT BACK AND CHILLED.

I continued with my Library duties as normal.

Then, sure enough, a few weeks later, a pretty yellow thing started hanging out in the Library far more than was normal. She was very good looking. A solid 9. True many girls were hotter than her, but she was beyond my league out there in the real world.

Eventually this girl asked to enter my office to assist (it was out of bounds for all students except the 3 students who were my assistants whom I had made up my mind not to mess with). After gaining access to the office she would spend the whole afternoon basically doing nothing but laughing at my lame jokes. At last it dawned on me that this girl was throwing green lights! I wasted no time. One fine afternoon I said to her, "You know, I have a crush on you". She giggled.

Long story short, a few days later we were having sex in that same office! And up till she finished Secondary, the following year, we were having regular sex almost every weekend when most teaching staff had gone to the city.

Did I chase the girl? No. I improved myself and she saw, liked and came. It was nice being chosen.

So, so are telling us that you started wearing fine clothes and a secondary school girl opened her legs for you

Ok

ubunja:
My first ever proper job after I left Secondary School was working as a Librarian at a boarding High School for girls from families with money. This school was secluded. Many KMs away from the city.

When I got the job I was broke with no proper clothes and in bad shape. The first school term was pure hell and pure heaven same time. Never before in my life had I seen so many pretty faces in a single place. But never had I felt more invisible. For being new, it really hurt to over-hear the pretty students admire other male teachers who had been there for longer and had better clothes, and were in better shape than me.

But as if by instinct, I did this: by the second school term, I took my salary and improved myself. I cleaned up, got sharp new clothes, ate better. I became the best version of myself. Then I SAT BACK AND CHILLED.

I continued with my Library duties as normal.

Then, sure enough, a few weeks later, a pretty yellow thing started hanging out in the Library far more than was normal. She was very good looking. A solid 9. True many girls were hotter than her, but she was beyond my league out there in the real world.

Eventually this girl asked to enter my office to assist (it was out of bounds for all students except the 3 students who were my assistants whom I had made up my mind not to mess with). After gaining access to the office she would spend the whole afternoon basically doing nothing but laughing at my lame jokes. At last it dawned on me that this girl was throwing green lights! I wasted no time. One fine afternoon I said to her, "You know, I have a crush on you". She giggled.

Long story short, a few days later we were having sex in that same office! And up till she finished Secondary, the following year, we were having regular sex almost every weekend when most teaching staff had gone to the city.

Did I chase the girl? No. I improved myself and she saw, liked and came. It was nice being chosen.

ITbomb:
So, so are telling us that you started wearing fine clothes and a secondary school girl opened her legs for you

Ok

Tell your own story. Thats what is needed.

ubunja:
My first ever proper job after I left Secondary School was working as a Librarian at a boarding High School for girls from families with money. This school was secluded. Many KMs away from the city.

When I got the job I was broke with no proper clothes and in bad shape. The first school term was pure hell and pure heaven same time. Never before in my life had I seen so many pretty faces in a single place. But never had I felt more invisible. For being new, it really hurt to over-hear the pretty students admire other male teachers who had been there for longer and had better clothes, and were in better shape than me.

But as if by instinct, I did this: by the second school term, I took my salary and improved myself. I cleaned up, got sharp new clothes, ate better. I became the best version of myself. Then I SAT BACK AND CHILLED.

I continued with my Library duties as normal.

Then, sure enough, a few weeks later, a pretty yellow thing started hanging out in the Library far more than was normal. She was very good looking. A solid 9. True many girls were hotter than her, but she was beyond my league out there in the real world.

Eventually this girl asked to enter my office to assist (it was out of bounds for all students except the 3 students who were my assistants whom I had made up my mind not to mess with). After gaining access to the office she would spend the whole afternoon basically doing nothing but laughing at my lame jokes. At last it dawned on me that this girl was throwing green lights! I wasted no time. One fine afternoon I said to her, "You know, I have a crush on you". She giggled.

Long story short, a few days later we were having sex in that same office! And up till she finished Secondary, the following year, we were having regular sex almost every weekend when most teaching staff had gone to the city.

Did I chase the girl? No. I improved myself and she saw, liked and came. It was nice being chosen.

someone's daughter..is aiit

Kseafresh:

someone's daughter..is aiit

share your own story

Seems like NL guys are too proud to share.

They should tell you they have a crush on you so that you can chop and clean mouth ehn? I hope women see all these so-called alpha male threads on NL and start putting on poker faces when addressing guys. When everybody is pretending like they are not capable of catching feelings, we'll see what y'all will do.

ebonyggurl:
They should tell you they have a crush on you so that you can chop and clean mouth ehn? I hope women see all these so-called alpha male threads on NL and start putting on poker faces when addressing guys. When everybody is pretending like they are not capable of catching feelings, we'll see what y'all will do.

but you've been putting poker faces since forever.

Seems like Alpha Male threads threaten a lot of people lmfao.

ubunja:
but you've been putting poker faces since forever.

Seems like Alpha Male threads threaten a lot of people lmfao.

Lmao. Please what are you saying? I said since men want to wear poker faces around women, women also should wear poker faces around men. Let us all keep wondering who likes who

ebonyggurl:


Lmao. Please what are you saying? I said since men want to wear poker faces around women, women also should wear poker faces around men. Let us all keep wondering who likes who

and I said but you women have been wearing poker faces since the beginning. So what's new

ubunja:
and I said but you women have been wearing poker faces since the beginning. So what's new

Apparently some women are messing up and catching feelings
But so are guys no matter how all of you want to form, a day will come when y'all will meet the amaka that will press your mumu button.

Mine was far back in ss2, third term to be precise. I was just 14+. I was staying with my sister who was in ss3. She was writing her ssce that time. One time like that Na im this fine classmate of mine came into the house around 8pm. My sis was outside receiving fresh air. NEPA no dey my area for months. I didn't even know she had already fallen asleep when this babe entered. For the record, she is like 3yrs older than i was. Of course I was one of the smallest boys in my class. When she entered, she asked me to give her my notebook so that she will copy what we learnt that day. I was very serious with writing note in class unlike in the university where all you do is stand Infront of the patients and listen to that long talk from the consultants. That said. I gave her my note, she sat on our reading table while I sat on our room chair reading my book. Once in a while she will come to the place I am sitting to ask me to clarify something for her. Of course my poor hand writing didn't start now. She continued doing this until she was excited, i guess. She sat on my lap and asked me to tell her what I wrote. Oh my goodness, my people stood firm. Immediately she sensed it, she started rubbing me and as a sharp guy that I was, I took over the game. We touched each other to a point I started pulling her pant out. Then she whispered to me to get a condom. I was confused, who dash me condom?
Never had anything to do with such. Sensing there was no condom, she gave me one last stroke on my Deek and wore her pant back. Mennn, my "people" was firm for like five minutes before I regained myself.
She gave me my first and only kiss up till date.

Now I thank God she didn't allow that sex to happen because anything could have happened (STDs and/or pregnancy)
In another thought, I blame myself for not being ready to fuuuk her cos now I have developed apathy towards sex -not women oh.

ebonyggurl:


Apparently some women are messing up and catching feelings
But so are guys no matter how all of you want to form, a day will come when y'all will meet the amaka that will press your mumu button.

and do you know what a woman's mumu button is?

Valleys:
Mine was far back in ss2, third term to be precise. I was just 14+. I was staying with my sister who was in ss3. She was writing her ssce that time. One time like that Na im this fine classmate of mine came into the house around 8pm. My sis was outside receiving fresh air. NEPA no dey my area for months. I didn't even know she had already fallen asleep when this babe entered. For the record, she is like 3yrs older than i was. Of course I was one of the smallest boys in my class. When she entered, she asked me to give her my notebook so that she will copy what we learnt that day. I was very serious with writing note in class unlike in the university where all you do is stand Infront of the patients and listen to that long talk from the consultants. That said. I gave her my note, she sat on our reading table while I sat on our room chair reading my book. Once in a while she will come to the place I am sitting to ask me to clarify something for her. Of course my poor hand writing didn't start now. She continued doing this until she was excited, i guess. She sat on my lap and asked me to tell her what I wrote. Oh my goodness, my people stood firm. Immediately she sensed it, she started rubbing me and as a sharp guy that I was, I took over the game. We touched each other to a point I started pulling her pant out. Then she whispered to me to get a condom. I was confused, who dash me condom?
Never had anything to do with such. Sensing there was no condom, she gave me one last stroke on my Deek and wore her pant back. Mennn, my "people" was firm for like five minutes before I regained myself.
She gave me my first and only kiss up till date.

Now I thank God she didn't allow that sex to happen because anything could have happened (STDs and/or pregnancy)
In another thought, I blame myself for not being ready to fuuuk her cos now I have developed apathy towards sex -not women oh.

lol guy you can lie

That was your first and last kiss? Lmfao

ubunja:
lol guy you can lie

That was your first and last kiss? Lmfao

I am telling you the truth about me. And I am approximately 30yrs old. You don't need to believe me but it is the dam truth.

ubunja:
and do you know what a woman's mumu button is?

what is it?

Valleys:

I am telling you the truth about me. And I am approximately 30yrs old. You don't need to believe me but it is the dam truth.

I can believe you but even you have to admit it's not easy to believe

So you now a hermit

ebonyggurl:


what is it?

Start with a P and end with a Y

ubunja:
I can believe you but even you have to admit it's not easy to believe

So you now a hermit

No it's not like that. It has no religious connotation. When I was in the university I had female friends who thought I didn't reason them because I had other girls that I was dating. In fact one babe once confronted me in night class saying, I am wicked, I am this and that. When I sought to know why she said so, she told me point blank that the cold she is feeling is because i don't want to help her out- that is by warming her body in the midnight. After that day I promised myself not to go to night class pass 10pm No matter what.

ubunja:

Start with a P and end with a Y

Unfortunately not all of you 'alpha males' succeed in pressing it so....

ebonyggurl:


Unfortunately not all of you 'alpha males' succeed in pressing it so....

yar all it takes is one man to press it and you're gone. Just one.

Valleys:

No it's not like that. It has no religious connotation. When I was in the university I had female friends who thought I didn't reason them because I had other girls that I was dating. In fact one babe once confronted me in night class saying, I am wicked, I am this and that. When I sought to know why she said so, she told me point blank that the cold she is feeling is because i don't want to help her out- that is by warming her body in the midnight. After that day I promised myself not to go to night class pass 10pm No matter what.

just fvck these whôrés bro.

YOLO

ubunja:
just fvck these whôrés bro.

YOLO

I am working on changing that mentality. Tbh it has saved me a lot, judging from the place I lived- Benin city. There, sex is rampant. You call a girl, the next thing, she is asking you "is it just sex you want"?

ubunja:
yar all it takes is one man to press it and you're gone. Just one.

Yep. All it takes for y'all is one woman too and y'all are gone

ubunja:
and do you know what a woman's mumu button is?

do women have mumu button?

ebonyggurl:


Lmao. Please what are you saying? I said since men want to wear poker faces around women, women also should wear poker faces around men. Let us all keep wondering who likes who

men go for who love us for keep & the one we like for d.i.c.k, as say by ubunja

fcdgrand:
men go for who love us for keep & the one we like for d.i.c.k, as say by ubunja

women will learn the tricks too and wear poker faces.

ubunja:
My first ever proper job after I left Secondary School was working as a Librarian at a boarding High School for girls from families with money. This school was secluded. Many KMs away from the city.

When I got the job I was broke with no proper clothes and in bad shape. The first school term was pure hell and pure heaven same time. Never before in my life had I seen so many pretty faces in a single place. But never had I felt more invisible. For being new, it really hurt to over-hear the pretty students admire other male teachers who had been there for longer and had better clothes, and were in better shape than me.

But as if by instinct, I did this: by the second school term, I took my salary and improved myself. I cleaned up, got sharp new clothes, ate better. I became the best version of myself. Then I SAT BACK AND CHILLED.

I continued with my Library duties as normal.

Then, sure enough, a few weeks later, a pretty yellow thing started hanging out in the Library far more than was normal. She was very good looking. A solid 9. True many girls were hotter than her, but she was beyond my league out there in the real world.

Eventually this girl asked to enter my office to assist (it was out of bounds for all students except the 3 students who were my assistants whom I had made up my mind not to mess with). After gaining access to the office she would spend the whole afternoon basically doing nothing but laughing at my lame jokes. At last it dawned on me that this girl was throwing green lights! I wasted no time. One fine afternoon I said to her, "You know, I have a crush on you". She giggled.

Long story short, a few days later we were having sex in that same office! And up till she finished Secondary, the following year, we were having regular sex almost every weekend when most teaching staff had gone to the city.

Did I chase the girl? No. I improved myself and she saw, liked and came. It was nice being chosen.

You a school staff having sex with a student... I hope you know what that is?

ebonyggurl:


women will learn the tricks too and wear poker faces.

you can only wear poker face when you love the man but not when the man love you and beside, men are not putting poker face's, we only keep (wife) the one that love us and chop (intimacy mate) the one we love, that you ubunja!

ebonyggurl:


women will learn the tricks too and wear poker faces.

Sorry for interrupting the elders.
If women continue to wear their poker faces and by the time they turn 30 and above, they begin to feel the pressure, running from church to church. But for men at 30, they are just getting started. You see the difference?
I am not trying to imply that women should stop "forming", all I am saying is let's keep "forming" till age 40 and see who wins.

ebonyggurl:
They should tell you they have a crush on you so that you can chop and clean mouth ehn? I hope women see all these so-called alpha male threads on NL and start putting on poker faces when addressing guys. When everybody is pretending like they are not capable of catching feelings, we'll see what y'all will do.

come out of shell and live your life, they still exist honest men, ladies approach me on a daily basis because of my look, in most cases i will tell you upfront, whatsup so you will know what you are in for, live your life, it is not a must that every relationship will lead to marriage.