naturalwaves:

So it is money that makes you chat well. I think you guys need to go out more and see successful young girls doing well and being independent. If it is money that will make you chat, then you must have a very low self esteem. Is it bad if at your age you have a car and you are successful career wise? Stop having a very low self esteem.

Pascopele:
That's the stupidity we are talking about, even those pretending not to be sending their contact to anyone I just pity you... Imaging, after a conversation I ask a girl for her contact she refused bt I ask if we can still be friends she agreed but on other hand I chatted the same girl with a friends account that has Lexus latest model but to my surprise even without asking he deliberately send her contact that I should call her so that she can save my cont, I MEAN WHAT IS THE MEANING OF THAT?

Ryan03:
And you classified her as "Nigeria girls"? Now this is the real sick mentalily.

Pascopele:
what are you saying?

adeboi1:



You dey vex oo abeg chill jare

lilwetdick:


this write up sum it up

and the highlighted is a confirmation that many nigerian men are losers.. i got cousins who are female and they always show me the highlighted message sent to them by men, even grown up men do send this message to them, what a disgrace....when does toasting becomes waec questions

phintohlar:
Na by force to reply, you chooses to tell me how your days went, so wetin make we do. The most annoying question you guys asked is " i've you eaten"

FreeMejoor1:
you got yourself a fun gal i like that..

Pascopele:
MOST NIGERIAN GIRLS ARE BORING, I MEAN VERY BORING.

When it comes to chatting, Nigeria girls are the most boring creatures on earth. I can't deal with them. They chat with u like they are doing u a favour. You talk to them online and they chat like its 100 questions game quiz, they act like u should just do the chatting while they do the replying.
The funniest thing is that some of these girls may even be crushing on u and wishing u were their boyfriend yet they kill the vibes while chatting.
For example, I may be telling you in details how my day went, I expect u to be like, oh are u serious, oh my gosh, I believe u must have been so tired after everything, so what really caused the whole thing, or u could want to be inquisitive on the details but on the other hand, u just reply with words like, ok, k, hmmmm. If u meet a person online give them a benefit of doubt. Later u girls would be complaining that Nigerian guys are not romantic when u can't keep a conversation going without being self engulfed.

If I say Hi, how are u, what stops u from saying fine and u? But no 90% will just say fine and expect u to keep the conversation going.

For example,
Me: Hello, how are u doing?
Girl: fine
Me: how is your day going?
Girl: fine
The worst part is when u are being k-ed
E:g........
Me: hello
Girl: k
This is why sometimes I don't chat. I can't be stressed the whole day then u will come online nd stress me again. Some of u girls are proud to say that in every girl's inbox, there is a guy chatting with himself. Today he will say Hello, tomorrow he will answer himself Hi...

Very annoying

LillyVal:

lilwetdick:


arent you seeing that your chat is boring, you blame the problem on nigerian girls instead of yourself, you dont know how to communicate upon all the nonsense you read here.

imagine you are a sales man and the girl a potential customer, do you think, this chat up will get you sales?

phintohlar:
Na by force to reply, you chooses to tell me how your days went, so wetin make we do. The most annoying question you guys asked is " i've you eaten"

nuelsam:
this one will come here disguised as a male..... Then pouring out her frustrations towards nl men......... Woss! We aint the reason for your gaddam bleeped up life, direct your frustrations to the right channel abeg....... Nl this nl that yen yen yen........

adeboi1:
iLeg.endd

Skmoda:

Wetin be your own? Are you pained?

LillyVal:
Most Nigerian men are boring and very annoying. All this broke ass niga ranting here, the only thing you guys is good at is to ask senseless questions? Imagine ansering 400+ msgs of "How are you? have you eaten? where are you?"which school? did you graduate?, Where are you from? what do you do for a living? from?what do you do for fun?"

Meanwhile some of you guys didn’t write jamb while some can’t buy monthly data for themselves but they are online looking for serious relationships, the best way to discharge those fools is demand for money. My sister I repeat demand for money , so that the idiot will free you and get serious with his life. Some are even under age but because there auntie bought phone for them they will not have respect.

Some guys so annoying, when u become too nice dey start asking for you number, ifyou say no it's a problem o if u send it another problem... Me like dis I can be very nice buh once you send me ur number I stop chatting wit you dat how annoying I can be..... Thank you

Advice
As soon as a girl begins to give you these attitude, just know that, she is not interested in your chats

Fgbread:
OP is bleeping right. Those suckas aren't fun; ya see? but I've got one who is entirely different.. chatting with her was a fun thing to do.. I'm mad at myself for deleting her cell #.

phintohlar:
Na by force to reply, you chooses to tell me how your days went, so wetin make we do. The most annoying question you guys asked is " i've you eaten"

theButterfly:
Nigerian men and that "Have you eaten?" question.

Pascopele:
That's the stupidity we are talking about, even those pretending not to be sending their contact to anyone I just pity you... Imaging, after a conversation I ask a girl for her contact she refused bt I ask if we can still be friends she agreed but on other hand I chatted the same girl with a friends account that has Lexus latest model but to my surprise even without asking he deliberately send her contact that I should call her so that she can save my cont, I MEAN WHAT IS THE MEANING OF THAT?

Davash222:
No sane Nigerian man would stoop too low to engage chats online with a Nigerian girl. Very annoying set of people when it comes to chatting.


Then, I used to think girls generally are this way, but after chatting with girls outside this shore, I realized Nigerian girls are way on another level. Very anyhow human beings!!!

Davash222:

The way you appear determines the type of guys you attract. You keep attracting “I’ve you eaten” (not even ‘Have you eaten’) type of guys shows you need to up your game.

computergeek:
Sharrap Oga. Even a successful woman will not give her energy to a broke ass looking for what he cannot maintain.

This ain't about low self-esteem or comforming to a broke man's expectation. Go and make money and stop lamenting.

And only a broke ass will waste his time whining that women are not chatting him. Tueh!

cezarman:


Their favorite is... "can you DO me a favor"?

theButterfly:
Nigerian men and that "Have you eaten?" question.

Safitu:
That have you eaten is the most annoying question, I’ve never met a guy in naija that doesn’t ask that question. Very annoying. If I’ve not eaten nko, are you going to feed me, I mean what’s the essence of asking that question 3 times a day?