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Re: Should I Breakup With My Girlfriend Due To Old Flames? by justine94(m): 2:15pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
I thank you all for your suggestions..advices..knocks on the head etc...if there is any guy that neva feels insecure abt ladies its me...i give my date alot of time and space..i have told her i dont want anymore..she has cried and begged me that she has notin for her ex ,dat notin can go on between them..but i ask her can you say dat in front of him..she said yes..she can..now she says even the call was just for the broda admisn stuff..dt it was just a 45 seconds call which she showed me though..but i kn the message dat call alone has presented to the ex..she still cares dts why she called..u kn how guys think..she feels she has given alot into the relationship with me for it all to end..this girl loves me alot dat i know..som1 here said i sud wait if her brodas get admsn den see how it goes from dia...she promised neva to talk to him again..but it aint abt the conversation only...its abt d feelings..or connection..shes a very emotional lady like very emotional. She once told me a certain time b4 dat if i leave her she dont kn wat she wd do to herself...i dont want to tell her block her ex from callin her...its sound possesive since am not yt married to her...this drama is just too much |
Re: Should I Breakup With My Girlfriend Due To Old Flames? by lollybizzu(m): 2:17pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
justine94:Guy trust your instinct! If it says something is wrong, then it's wrong. Believe me, if you're not careful and vigilant. Things go still happen between between them. They are easily swayed because they can't control their emotions. From experience. |
Re: Should I Breakup With My Girlfriend Due To Old Flames? by danibest001: 2:17pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
[very funny quote author=RuggedArab post=80988110] Bro, a man in love is superstitious. You can’t be in love and still use your senses to decide properly. Sit her down and discuss with her. Tell her you are not comfortable and you DO NOT like her relating with the loser (ex). Play chess mind game on her, intimidate her with actions, keep emotions and love aside for now. Act fast before the nigga gets into her pants again (that’s if he hasn’t started digging the rabbit hole he left). [/quote] |
Re: Should I Breakup With My Girlfriend Due To Old Flames? by Nobody: 2:18pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
justine94:During any of his calls, do they discuss anything personal. Ryt now her ex is just a like any other person. The fact that they re not dating dosent mean the cant be friends if she wants to. Its normal to feel a sting anytime a lover is mingling with an ex. |
Re: Should I Breakup With My Girlfriend Due To Old Flames? by gnykelly(m): 2:22pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
TollaniINC:He seeking where to play it. |
Re: Should I Breakup With My Girlfriend Due To Old Flames? by oruma19: 2:24pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
justine94:She doesn't love u, she loves the other guy and wishes to go back to him. Take away sentiments and don't be deceived, u are the only person in the relationship, she is not there. Let her go back to the guy peacefully because if she doesn't go now, u will end up with a woman another man will be fucking, and he will Bleep her real good. Use ur head not ur heart. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Breakup With My Girlfriend Due To Old Flames? by Platony(m): 2:24pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
So, as u Big like dis,....u believe she n dat guy no dey bleep. LEARNER!! Women hardly forget their ex. Even if it's 5yrs after d break-up. Una fit still bleep anytime una meet. Though it depends on how u guys separated but, from ur story I can swear down she still loves him & there are a thousand & one chances they still love each other. Happy Heartbreak in addy 1 Like |
Re: Should I Breakup With My Girlfriend Due To Old Flames? by drlateef: 2:25pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
Sundrus: I quite agree with you. If he is serioys he should marry. Thats when he can lay claim to her. |
Re: Should I Breakup With My Girlfriend Due To Old Flames? by ttmax09(m): 2:27pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
doris4u:Thanks you just said my mind, only God knows if they are already sleeping with each other and broda here doesn't know. Somebody already advised you up there you are welcome to join the single brothers forum any day anytime. It doesn't hurt. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Breakup With My Girlfriend Due To Old Flames? by Nobody: 2:32pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
AwkaetitiBabe:True. But if I'm the guy I won't even feel pained or jealous self. My mind would just be on his help part. I don't even know the feeling of jealousy or whatever self. I would just thank the guy for his help and stay on my lane. |
Re: Should I Breakup With My Girlfriend Due To Old Flames? by wizod(m): 2:33pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
Believe girls at your own peril. She still loves and interested in her ex and may be having secret sexual relationship with him. Girls don't keep only one partner, it is in their DNA to cheat. My girlfriend was also like that, her phone will always be ringing as if she's a state governor not knowing she was having secret affairs from different guys. I found out one day and she apologised and refused to change. I THEN MAKE HER MY INTIMACY GADGET. I sex her at will and I am even looking for a way to rub aboniki and hot robb on condom for her itchy puna. Also make her your intimacy gadget. That's my wonderful advice 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Breakup With My Girlfriend Due To Old Flames? by RichyRoma: 2:36pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
O will advice you to have some patience and see if the calls persist after her brother gain the admission justine94: |
Re: Should I Breakup With My Girlfriend Due To Old Flames? by razible5384(m): 2:38pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
Issues like this are so easy to resolve, u just need to make use of reverse psychology,by playing her at her own game Stop acting like a sissy that is so desperate in making the relationship work at all costs,you two being together ought to be a blessing rather than a privilege she feels you should be grabbing with both hands, she isn't doing you a favour by dating you. Sit her down an let her know the man you were before you started dating her, let her know there are some of your exes you still do have a soft spot for an there is a reason you letting the whole thing slide. Try acting like an alpha male for once even though you are not one 6 Likes |
Re: Should I Breakup With My Girlfriend Due To Old Flames? by TerryMcGinis(m): 2:39pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
Slimpotter:batman of the future aktuali |
Re: Should I Breakup With My Girlfriend Due To Old Flames? by AarewaMafia: 2:39pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
justine94: Do me one favour.Try goin through her chats with her ex on whatsapp or any social platform.You'll get your answer there. |
Re: Should I Breakup With My Girlfriend Due To Old Flames? by Nobody: 2:44pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
Oga allow her go no come here dey disturb us if u get married o |
Re: Should I Breakup With My Girlfriend Due To Old Flames? by justine94(m): 2:48pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
I have not seen any chats between them on whatsapp b4...am not sure dey do... AarewaMafia: |
Re: Should I Breakup With My Girlfriend Due To Old Flames? by Adarrel(f): 2:52pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
justine94: And the bolded should be the most important thing to you because at the end of the day you have to look out for yourself and your sanity as there appears to be a kind of triangulation going on. It might be innocent from your girl's end but her inability to have a complete emotional detachment from her ex is not a very good sign. You could give time to see if she's able to detach emotionally. And I'm wondering is the ex still single? 1 Like |
Re: Should I Breakup With My Girlfriend Due To Old Flames? by innobarca(m): 2:52pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
Serious minded people always care for their new relationship or marriage. I have no business with my Ex(Loser). 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Breakup With My Girlfriend Due To Old Flames? by Sundrus: 2:56pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
justine94:na ur head dey put doubt for ur mind, so use ur head b4 sorry go become ur name. One thing u must know na say boyfriend & girlfriend relationship different from marriage. |
Re: Should I Breakup With My Girlfriend Due To Old Flames? by Heineken(m): 2:56pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
justine94:bro I advise you not to check. You won't be happy. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Breakup With My Girlfriend Due To Old Flames? by justine94(m): 2:56pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
She says she has done dat..dt she has no attachment for him..but i dont blv dat completely Adarrel: |
Re: Should I Breakup With My Girlfriend Due To Old Flames? by Trizyd(m): 2:59pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
justine94: Ahaa Bros, that's suspicious ooo... |
Re: Should I Breakup With My Girlfriend Due To Old Flames? by Heineken(m): 3:00pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
justine94:you're very funny man |
Re: Should I Breakup With My Girlfriend Due To Old Flames? by Danwakae(m): 3:00pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
justine94: This issue is not new... Just to give her a benefit of doubt, was she in contact with her ex before her brother's admission came up ??, If yes take action now...if no, allow the admission process to come and go and see if the links btw both still continues...Is her brother a kid that her ex can't relate admission issue with ...Is her brother admission more valuable than your feelings , even with this SNIPER period ??...seat her down and ask questions to know what shes still missing in her ex that u don't have tell her to be frank with u, that u would be ready to do it...What kinda admission be require calls ??, Is her ex the VC ??, So her brother can't read to pass PUTME ??...what about if he is doing it to get a pay back ??, and maybe it would be to.drill something ??...I understand how.u feel, but if u r not.man enough to think and take action , u may just be floating because women r to secretive, maybe that her ex is now doing well financially, and he is begging her to come back , while she can't forget the pain she went through with him, she still remember that u r not yet married which her ex may be promising her trying to prove a changed person via trying to help her brother with admission which may be the final stroke on u...wake up bro and be man, u know better, be frank to yourself and act now 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Breakup With My Girlfriend Due To Old Flames? by Emily22(m): 3:22pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
TerryMcGinis: Ma nigga 1 Like
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Re: Should I Breakup With My Girlfriend Due To Old Flames? by yaki84: 3:22pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
justine94:The summary of this post incase u r not fan of over-reading.... Is that local man is studying a girl. |
Re: Should I Breakup With My Girlfriend Due To Old Flames? by Nobody: 3:23pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
pcguru1:As long as I am confident that he loves me and can't go back to his ex, I'll leave matter. I won't be bugging him about her always. Personally I detest stress abeg, if he's helping her, fine. |
Re: Should I Breakup With My Girlfriend Due To Old Flames? by Nobody: 3:26pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
deltateam:This is where self worth and value comes to play. Personally, I block and delete exes. Don't be friends with me ni |
Re: Should I Breakup With My Girlfriend Due To Old Flames? by Nobody: 3:32pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
Chukapage:Mind you it's the man that is contacting the lady so if you wanna twist it, it will be the lady disturbing my boyfriend.... Personally I wouldn't lose sleep over anything as long as I'm aware of that's going on. If he decides to go back, tor. I'm simply fatalistic. |
Re: Should I Breakup With My Girlfriend Due To Old Flames? by Myhusband(m): 3:36pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
this is why I can't marry a non Virgin in my house I can bet it that your gf gave her Virginity to that dude. my ex despite pleading and convincing her I'm for real but she left me with broken heart, till date I still dey enter her center of excellence anytime I want despite she's in a serious relationship when I'm done with her I'll throw her thrash back to the final consumer 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Breakup With My Girlfriend Due To Old Flames? by wiseone28: 3:37pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
TaminaliaCatapa:abeg share the link to that story for me.. I don go romance section i no see |
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