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The pressure was too much now I married the wrong person by Temmywrites(f): 3:05pm On Aug 04, 2019 |
Pressure, can be described in different forms but in this context, it is seen as botheration, fuss, worriment, aggravation, annoyance, pest, perplexity, difficulty, drag, molestation, exasperation. To be pressurized is to be frustrated, to be aggravated, in a lame man's language it's to be disturbed against your own will. The direct opposite of it is to be at peace. This kind of pressure has led many people to be self destruct and it has made them make wrong and odd choices because they were cajoled or forced to do them. When "Marriage", comes to mind, patience is the right word for it but the urge to get into it before preparing for it will always have calamity as the end game. In this article, I'll be describing the different form of pressure that makes people choose wrong maritally. 4 different pressure vices that makes people choose wrongly maritally. 1. Family pressure:- This has always been the main reason why people make the wrong choices either about their marital life, education, occupation. What have you?, parents have a way of poisoning the minds of their children against their will because of their own selfish reasons. Especially extended family members, they too believe they have a say concerning the lives of every member of the family, thereby flaunting themselves as a proper example to make you feel victimized and pressurized to get married so you can attend family meetings and flaunt your children too. That is a very wrong reason to get married. Some parents will say "I want to carry my grandchildren, what are you waiting for? Can't you just get a man and hook him up?". This is very alarming, what if the man is violent?, what if the man is very promiscuous?, they do not want to know they just want a grandchild. 2. Peer pressure:- This sort of pressure can be humiliating, when you have a social gathering with friends and all they talk about is marriage related issues To continue reading click on this link http://www.temmywrites..com/ to read, and view more enlightening topics relationship wise. |
Re: The pressure was too much now I married the wrong person by INTROVERT(f): 3:09pm On Aug 04, 2019 |
Age pressure.. |
Re: The pressure was too much now I married the wrong person by Temmywrites(f): 3:27pm On Aug 04, 2019 |
INTROVERT: If u click on the you will see that I mentioned it.. Thanks dear.. |
Re: The pressure was too much now I married the wrong person by charlsecy(m): 5:53pm On Aug 05, 2019 |
Temmywrites:I don't think Nairaland is meant to be that way. Post the whole article and then put your link at the end. |
Re: The pressure was too much now I married the wrong person by Temmywrites(f): 10:48pm On Aug 05, 2019 |
charlsecy: They will just read and never click on the link. So if u want to know more about it, just click on it |
Re: The pressure was too much now I married the wrong person by Nobody: 6:13am On Aug 06, 2019 |
Temmywrites: it's better people STAY OUT of MARRIAGE if they are FORCED, NOT YET EMOTIONALLY READY or going to bring the WRONG VIBES into it. dating alone cost thousands, if not millions to maintain. eg outings, trips, gifts etc marriage COST even more plus the STRESS. MILLIONS down the drain for just one ceremony called a wedding, then comes the honey moon and then the EXPENSES of a routine marriage. after all this you know DEEP DOWN this ISN'T WORKING for you but you decide you also want a baby?!....what! why not just end it and save the unnecessary spending. anybody who believes marriage isn't for them should just stay clear of it. you will be a BIG HYPOCRITE if you run back to your VOMIT in the GUISE of FAMILY or SOCIETAL PRESSURES, cause I'm sure if that same family or society PRESSURES you into eating POO you definitely will NOT! so NO EXCUSES, everybody should MAINTAIN their LANES, NONSENSE! |
Re: The pressure was too much now I married the wrong person by carter009(m): 8:02am On Aug 06, 2019 |
Nice one dear,,, how are u doing. Temmywrites: 1 Like |
Re: The pressure was too much now I married the wrong person by Temmywrites(f): 7:05pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
carter009: I'm fine dear.. U? |
Re: The pressure was too much now I married the wrong person by carter009(m): 7:56pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
Same dear..... Temmywrites: 1 Like |
Re: The pressure was too much now I married the wrong person by realestniggah: 7:57pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
I thought this was going to be a story from a personal point of view 1 Like |
Re: The pressure was too much now I married the wrong person by Nobody: 8:02pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
Once fallen to a pressure, winning the race requires the Grace of God. 1 Like |
Re: The pressure was too much now I married the wrong person by Funmmyastic: 9:01pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
Nice one 1 Like |
Re: The pressure was too much now I married the wrong person by Temmywrites(f): 11:04pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
Funmmyastic: Funmi you are fantastic which makes you funmitastic. Thanks dear 1 Like |
Re: The pressure was too much now I married the wrong person by Temmywrites(f): 11:04pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
Oluwadamilare118: My brother I'm telling you, it's always stressing |
Re: The pressure was too much now I married the wrong person by Offpoint: 11:29pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
Temmywrites:Laughing my ass out at the bolded... At least they "read" what about people like me who don't even read. |
Re: The pressure was too much now I married the wrong person by Funmmyastic: 10:09am On Aug 07, 2019 |
Temmywrites: You are welcome. |
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