I'm currently in this situation. even though my friend is totally OK with it but I still feel along the line they might discover the spark they once had.

The girl has assured me that on no circumstances will she go back to my friend though.

Just imagine that awkward moment when you are hanging with your girlfriend and your friend who had seen all there is to see about your girlfriend happens to come around..

Please nairalanders I need your input on this matter.

My friend currently has a new girlfriend though.

Op I'm not a relationship expert
Buh if I like u,anything uve done in d past is not my business..I don't care if u once dated d pope....
Our problem is sometimes we over think things

Ajoboss:
Op I'm not a relationship expert
Buh if I like u,anything uve done in d past is not my business..I don't care if u once dated d pope....
Our problem is sometimes we over think things

would you be comfortable leaving your girlfriend alone with your friend knowing their history? That's where my worries lie

GutsOverFear:

would you be comfortable leaving your girlfriend alone with your friend knowing their history? That's where my worries lie

bro truth is wot would both of dem b doing alone in d first place?

For me i think you should leave her

There are many fish in the river nao

So why can't you look for someone else that wasn't involved with one of your friends?

Ajoboss:
bro truth is wot would both of dem b doing alone in d first place?

OK I'm gonna give it a try then

vincentjk:
For me i think you should leave her
There are many fish in the river nao

OK thanks

XhosaNostra:
So why can't you look for someone else that wasn't involved with one of your friends?

my sister, sometimes we don't decide were love takes us

GutsOverFear:


my sister, sometimes we don't decide were love takes us

True but this seems like an unnecessary complication. To each their own.

Don't do it is not pleasantness and for future purpose...

XhosaNostra:


True but this seems like an unnecessary complication. To each their own.

Well said

XhosaNostra:


True but this seems like an unnecessary complication. To each their own.

she said if she asked her out first she wouldn't have dated my friend.

she said she dated my friend to get close to me. I have always been her target that's what she said..

I can also remember vividly my friend telling me while they were dating that she said even though they were dating, she liked me more than him.

luvyaself95:
Don't do it is not pleasantness and for future purpose...

Exactly, the future that's what I'm thinking about

GutsOverFear:

she said if she asked her out first she wouldn't have dated my friend.

she said she dated my friend to get close to me. I have always been her target that's what she said..

I can also remember vividly my friend telling me while they were dating that she said even though they were dating, she liked me more than him.

Wow okay.

XhosaNostra:


Wow okay.

yeah that being said.. will it be OK if I told you that she also lost her virginity to my friend?

GutsOverFear:

yeah that being said.. will it be OK if I told you that she also lost her virginity to my friend?

How does that make YOU feel? She's your girl after all.

XhosaNostra:


How does that make YOU feel? She's your girl after all.

I feel for the fact that she lost her virginity to him they are always going to be connected.. isn't that what the famous Ubunja normally preaches?

You can never understand a woman.

GutsOverFear:

she said if she asked her out first she wouldn't have dated my friend.

she said she dated my friend to get close to me. I have always been her target that's what she said..

I can also remember vividly my friend telling me while they were dating that she said even though they were dating, she liked me more than him.

GutsOverFear:

I feel for the fact that she lost her virginity to him they are always going to be connected.. isn't that what the famous Ubunja normally preaches?

What's your next move?
Personally, I think you should let this one pass. It's easier for me to say that though because my own feelings aren't on the line. But do yourself a favour & think about it without using emotions to cloud your judgment.

Damn...

your friend's leftover, you can do better my guy.

No, though only if I know.

XhosaNostra:


What's your next move?
Personally, I think you should let this one pass. It's easier for me to say that though because my own feelings aren't on the line. But do yourself a favour & think about it without using emotions to cloud your judgment.

Thanks

GutsOverFear:

Exactly, the future that's what I'm thinking about

therefore don't have anything with her...