vincentjk:


You left the other guy interested in your contact just to give another guy your number via dm

Not a good thing to do

vincentjk:


she likes you bro, she's just forming hard to get

XhosaNostra:


Lol, you don't even know what it's about

nisai:
May God prosper your intellect bro. Shey u dey see women magomago?

nisai:
Really? How do I get her to comply?

DaySpringer:
There is this general saying... That you can meet a man in two months and he can have good intentions and marry you and there are men that can pretend for as much as year just to have sex with you and still leave after he has gotten what he wanted.

I don't believe in "A man will be loyal for who he wants to be loyal for". That is just a platitude that many ladies use to placate themselves after making poor judgements in character. They also use this to stop themselves from going into more detailed analysis of what they have missed during the relationships and the red flags that they may have ignored.

Loyalty is a core character trait that is not turned off or on depending on the person that the man is involved. Loyal men would rather break up than cheat.

So How can a lady Identify a Good man that is serious and has good intentions for her.
Ladies you are invited to share your opinion based on your experience.

What are the red flags that give you advance warning that at the midst of all the pretence that this guy might not be whole he really seems.

I have a belief that no matter how someone pretends, they cannot do a 100% perfect pretence game just the same way no football team can maintain 100% possession in a 90 mins football game, that is the same way that a pretended will at one time inadvertently reveal his true intentions.

So Ladies, based on experience what are the tell tale signs and

Guys, give the ladies a sneak peak in the way we think, what are the ways that a guy might drop the ball in his pretence game , that a lady might be tempted to just ignore as part of relationship issues that she absolutely must not

DaySpringer:
There is this general saying... That you can meet a man in two months and he can have good intentions and marry you and there are men that can pretend for as much as year just to have sex

DaySpringer post=81036937:
with you and still leave after he has gotten what he wanted

higher

XhosaNostra:


Because it's about something more important.

vincentjk:


Be funny to her and keep on quoting her, she'll give you the number. But use your head in order not to appear stupid bro

Sometimes when a girls tells you no to something, she actually means yes. Girls use irony a lot

nisai:
Chai, so I am not that important! I know now but you don't have to make it public and official at least.

XhosaNostra:


Hahaha.

He's funny, I'll give him that. I don't think he's stupid either. In fact, I think he's quite the opposite & very likeable. However, as anonymous as the forum may be, we're still real people with lives outside of this place. I'm sure he doesn't go home to hump his pillow when he logs out & neither do I So I'm simply respecting existing relationships, not playing any hard-to-get. Why wouldn't a charming guy like him not have someone out there? That wouldn't make sense!

vincentjk:



He didn't ask you to be his girlfriend. Or did he?

XhosaNostra:


Hahaha.

He's funny, I'll give him that. I don't think he's stupid either. In fact, I think he's quite the opposite & very likeable. However, as anonymous as the forum may be, we're still real people with lives outside of this place. I'm sure he doesn't go home to hump his pillow when he logs out & neither do I So I'm simply respecting existing relationships, not playing any hard-to-get. Why wouldn't a charming guy like him not have someone out there? That wouldn't make sense!

nisai:
Chai, so I am not that important! I know now but you don't have to make it public and official at least.

nisai:
I Don suffer!

XhosaNostra:


Even importance has...

nisai:
I know I know, the guy pocket full pass mine

Henceforth I start saving to wrest you from him.

XhosaNostra:


Looool wow. Have you told me how much you got because he hasn't? It's not even about any of those those things, you just have a very active imagination.

nisai:
First picture-- my job

Second-- I live on garri (cassava flakes).

Third-- My duplex has air conditioner installation. No electricity though but I have enough hand fan in my inner room.

Last-- income? Oh non for now but I do not mind doing almajiri (begger) just to win your love.

XhosaNostra:


If you're single, then Naija girls must be blind

nisai:
Yes I am single. I got no time for romance, just do not know why am drawn to you.

Seems you are the one

XhosaNostra:


Lol, should I tell my family to start wedding preparations?

nisai:
of course yes

XhosaNostra:


My Shiloh days are over

nisai:
I...... you.

XhosaNostra:


Hahahaha

nisai:
Are you married?

XhosaNostra:


Didn't we just get engaged?

nisai:
Joking apart