Okay, so here's the matter.
Being just an 'average young man' for the time being. I have a rich girlfriend who's always willing to give me money, do stuff for me and all. But I refuse her doing these things for me, and I do my best to do for her and get for her what I can, when I can, even though she's more than capable to do or get whatever she wants for herself, and tho I'm not even finacially boyant for the time being.
I think accepting stuff from her is just gonna make me look cheap and downgrading in her eyes. And I love her so much that I just want to give to her, even if I get nothing in return I always want to be on the giving side with her. Besides, even the Bible says 'it is more blessed to give than to receive'.
So my question is, am I doing the right thing or am I hurting the relationship?

All the while you've been praying, asking God for open doors and now you finally have one yet still complaining.

Don't let nairaland ladies to descend on you this cold morning

vincentjk:
All the while you've been praying, asking God for open doors and now you finally have one yet still complaining.

Hmm... Duly noted!

vincentjk:
All the while you've been praying, asking God for open doors and now you finally have one yet still complaining.

Don't let nairaland ladies to descend on you this cold morning

See me see wahala with this kind person.
Blessing just waka con meet u on a platter of Gold and u dey ask question.

Something wen people dey do juju 4?

Guy,no fall our hand for here o.

Am not saying u shld take advantage of her or extort her but at least u re not carrying any burden of buy me phone,clothes,human hair or take me on a trip to Dubai.

U don't know d relief u re enjoying o!

Thank God daily!

Logunyakata:

See me see wahala with this kind person.
Blessing just waka con meet u on a platter of Gold and u dey ask question.

Something wen people dey do juju 4?

Guy,no fall our hand for here o.

Am not saying u shld take advantage of her or extort her but at least u re not carrying any burden of buy me phone,clothes,human hair or take me on a trip to Dubai.

U don't know d relief u re enjoying o!

Thank God daily!

Bro i tire sef. Guys dy do fasting dy pay tithe for church for dis kyn luck

To me this is the real meaning of wife material

vincentjk:


Bro i tire sef. Guys dy do fasting dy pay tithe for church for dis kyn luck

To me this is the real meaning of wife material

Over wife material dey worry d babe.
Make d guy just dey respect himself as he dey respect himself so.

Make he no dey tax d girl,make he no cheat on her and make him just love her as a wife and do d little wen him fit dey do for her with him little income.

I appreciate d fact that d OP recognises his dignity as a man.

Make he ask people wen do hear am for d hands of all these hungry, jobless and greedy babes them.

Big relief for u my brother!

if there are other ways that she is committed or investing to the relationship you dont need to collect money from her, if not, please let her be committed and investing in the relationship, dont let it be only you

if you dont allow her, it will be easy for her to let go anything
but if she invested much, both of you will be working hard to make it work since it both of you that is investing in it
'what you dont work for cant last in your hand' so let her also contribute her quota

Logunyakata:

Over wife material dey worry d babe.
Make d guy just dey respect himself as he dey respect himself so.

Make he no dey tax d girl,make he no cheat on her and make him just love her as a wife and do d little wen him fit dey do for her with him little income.

I appreciate d fact that d OP recognises his dignity as a man.

Make he ask people wen do hear am for d hands of all these hungry, jobless and greedy babes them.

Big relief for u my brother!

On point

preserve ur ego. if u loose ur ego u ve lost everything. if u love the lady marry her asap !!!

What Is Killing You Is The Mentality You Have, that Women Should Not Do For You...


She Is Helping You Better Accept It And Use The opportunity To Make Your Life Better, become Richer Than Her then Marry Her. This Life Is Not Hard

Well, it's not all lady that take cares of you that will used it against you, some are born that way.

You only need to be sensitive!

Oluwadamilare118:
Well, it's not all lady that take cares of you that will used it against you, some are born that way.

You only need to be sensitive!

True... And I know this one wont use it against me.
Thanks all the same!

Dan1cole:

True... And I know this one wont use it against me.
Thanks all the same!

I believe also, it is my pleasure.