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Re: My Wife Is A Cheat. I Need Advice by JudgeOGBUNABALI(m): 4:49pm On Aug 14, 2019 |
pocohantas:Yea I support this ... It will lead the op a quicker 6ft trip 14 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is A Cheat. I Need Advice by zeb04(f): 4:49pm On Aug 14, 2019 |
hurthubby:so right now you are cheating on her too. She is cheating, you are also cheating so what else do you want? If she stops cheating, it is very unlikely that you would too so? 5 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is A Cheat. I Need Advice by missjo(f): 4:49pm On Aug 14, 2019 |
hurthubby:Bless your heart sir. If all you're reporting is true,then bless your heart sir. 6 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is A Cheat. I Need Advice by zeb04(f): 4:52pm On Aug 14, 2019 |
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Re: My Wife Is A Cheat. I Need Advice by hurthubby: 4:52pm On Aug 14, 2019 |
JudgeOGBUNABALI: Your language is rude and crude. You are married for 7 years only. Wait till you get to over 19 years of marriage with teen children before you know that it is another kettle of fish. Thanks anyway 80 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Is A Cheat. I Need Advice by Nobody: 4:52pm On Aug 14, 2019 |
Ok since both of you have cheated on each other, I honestly think this marriage is dead. Too many outsiders, too many issues, and lack of respect. I don’t expect you to leave over night, but please both of you are too toxic for one another, it’s not good for your health. You are getting older and I know you want to see your kids live to do great things. 18 years, you have tried please. Gradually take yourself out, even if it takes one year just prepare yourself as much as possible to leave. Goodluck and I hope you listen to this advice. Men are liable to die before their wives, she will outlive you and continue messing around after your death if you continue to live like this. Are you setting a good example for your children? What do you want to be remembered for? The decision is in your hands. hurthubby: 12 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is A Cheat. I Need Advice by Nobody: 4:56pm On Aug 14, 2019 |
I believe it’s the only way he felt to cope with the situation. The only way to distract his mind from his wife but it’s eating him up even more. The best thing for him to do is to leave. There’s no way around it, this situation will kill him before his time I know what I’m saying. zeb04: 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is A Cheat. I Need Advice by phenzy(m): 4:56pm On Aug 14, 2019 |
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Re: My Wife Is A Cheat. I Need Advice by hurthubby: 4:58pm On Aug 14, 2019 |
LadySarah: She explained it away as a mistake, just fun. Am very good on bed. She just takes it as fun 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is A Cheat. I Need Advice by kapelvej: 4:59pm On Aug 14, 2019 |
hurthubby:Do you know what it means for you to agree that your wife has cheated frequently and you are still there with her. Did you know how angry God is with you right now. 17 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Is A Cheat. I Need Advice by hurthubby: 5:00pm On Aug 14, 2019 |
zeb04: Am not cheating on her. I made up my mind to revenge but i restrained myself 13 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is A Cheat. I Need Advice by Nobody: 5:00pm On Aug 14, 2019 |
Yes but I think this is extreme. I would never advise a woman that has been with her husband for 18 years to stay after constant cheating and disrespect. That’s pure wickedness and torture. If the woman chooses to stay fine, but nobody will condemn her for leaving such a nasty and toxic situation. Everybody has one life to live to make themselves happy with peace of mind. Please. LadySarah: 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is A Cheat. I Need Advice by hurthubby: 5:02pm On Aug 14, 2019 |
Safitu: I have not cheated on her. My reply earlier was incomplete because my computer was hanging. I have modified it 6 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is A Cheat. I Need Advice by hurthubby: 5:05pm On Aug 14, 2019 |
kapelvej: I have always hated a broken home. I just felt that things will be alright 5 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is A Cheat. I Need Advice by Nobody: 5:08pm On Aug 14, 2019 |
Sir, what is stopping you from filling a divorce? kai, this is disturbing 10 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is A Cheat. I Need Advice by Nobody: 5:10pm On Aug 14, 2019 |
Do you think you can have the strength to leave this marriage sir? Maybe not immediately but once you gain financial independence, what do you think? hurthubby: 6 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is A Cheat. I Need Advice by genq(m): 5:11pm On Aug 14, 2019 |
If we see a pic of the so called wife now, i can bet my balls she's some local, old, haggard looking thing. 19 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is A Cheat. I Need Advice by zeb04(f): 5:15pm On Aug 14, 2019 |
Safitu:leave, leave and go to where? to marry another instagram Thot or what? The young girl you want him to marry how do you know she is not a bigger cheat? I will advise you report to her parents and call a meeting 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is A Cheat. I Need Advice by CsRockefeller(m): 5:15pm On Aug 14, 2019 |
zeb04: An unintelligent comment. 29 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is A Cheat. I Need Advice by CsRockefeller(m): 5:19pm On Aug 14, 2019 |
Give me a woman of values any day over a masquerading Christian. Woe betide any man who gets it wrong in marriage, your suffering is going to be forever, till death do u part. Especially if you still stick to the woman. 8 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is A Cheat. I Need Advice by Nobody: 5:20pm On Aug 14, 2019 |
pocohantas:what is this now? This is a very serious matter, everything on nairaland is not about gender bruhaha. this stuff really enter my bone marrow like say ooop nah my relative, I no just won pull trigger on you ni o 28 Likes
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Re: My Wife Is A Cheat. I Need Advice by Nobody: 5:22pm On Aug 14, 2019 |
rosy1992 please come and say something |
Re: My Wife Is A Cheat. I Need Advice by Nobody: 5:28pm On Aug 14, 2019 |
Right now I don’t even think he’s in the right mental frame to start a new relationship. I think this man needs to work on himself, his self esteem, his finances and if a woman comes along later in life than so be it. But right now staying in this marriage will lead to an early death for him. zeb04: 21 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is A Cheat. I Need Advice by babyfaceafrica: 5:29pm On Aug 14, 2019 |
you forgave a wife who cheated on you?....if you have any spine in you,leave that marriage and start all over..he do you even sleep at night,knowing your wife is diicked by another man...smh 10 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is A Cheat. I Need Advice by pocohantas(f): 5:34pm On Aug 14, 2019 |
missjo: No. He obviously doesn't want to leave. What will anyone say here that he doesn't know already? He should keep forgiving her. 13 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is A Cheat. I Need Advice by ekitimanalways(m): 5:43pm On Aug 14, 2019 |
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Re: My Wife Is A Cheat. I Need Advice by Nobody: 5:50pm On Aug 14, 2019 |
Your wife has the runs girl attitude of going to men for financial help. Op you've simply lost the respect you deserve as the husband. Kindly do something fast before she infects you with a deadly disease. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is A Cheat. I Need Advice by Nobody: 5:56pm On Aug 14, 2019 |
hurthubby:Sir your wife simply has no love or respect for you. I'm sure she's sleeping with those men for the financial benefits which is simply low. Involve a marriage counselor and if things don't change, kindly leave her. A wise woman keeps her home and not scatter it. I pray your business bounces back. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is A Cheat. I Need Advice by hurthubby: 5:56pm On Aug 14, 2019 |
Safitu: I quite agree with you. My financial situation actually escalated her disrespectful attitude 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is A Cheat. I Need Advice by GreatDad19: 5:56pm On Aug 14, 2019 |
My wife has put me through hell in just such a short time. I understand what this man is going through, it takes the grace of God to leave these olosho women we call wives. My wife will get the shock of her life in December, I’ve already furnished my new apartment and I will be moving there leaving my wife to suffer on her own. I will sell that house that she’s living in, let her go and collect money from her customers to take care of her. Bros I will advise you to get your finances up and leave her ASAP. Got no time for these useless parasites that will come and ruin your life. 58 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is A Cheat. I Need Advice by kapelvej: 5:59pm On Aug 14, 2019 |
hurthubby:We all do, but with this kind of woman, a broken is better than a dead husband. I will send you a link later. These people do not change. 9 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is A Cheat. I Need Advice by hahn(m): 6:03pm On Aug 14, 2019 |
pocohantas: I swear I was just thinking the same thing 4 Likes
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