I was on this forum months back, created a thread searching for a lady for marriage. Some girls here picked interest but when I told them what is involved they all backed out.

Two months ago a lady on this forum called me and ask if I was really serious about searching for a wife, I told her I was more than serious. she asked if I've found a lady and my response was "NOT YET". She said she is interested.

At first, I thought it was a joke but I was amazed when she travelled all the way from Lagos to Kaduna to see me.

Dear fellow nairalanders, I want to use this medium to invitie you all to our wedding coming up on the 31st of this month.

I don't know if my wife to be is a nairaland mod. When I told her about creating a thread and inviting nairalanders to our wedding, she warned me not to mention her moniker on the thread.

As a good husband to be, I obeyed her and when I created the thread I didn't mention her moniker. I only uploaded our wedding invitation card.

I am shocked that that thread was deleted and the moniker @GreatResearcher in which I used in creating that thread is banned.

I've called her and ask her if she's the one who banned me and deleted the thread she hung the call on me.


Guys I need advice

Congratulations to you. Just ask her her reasons and if they're genuine enough, then just comply.

Do you really want to get married to someone you barely know? I don't think 2 months is enough time for courtship. Besides, she's showing her true color. Don't be desperate.

Ishilove and Victorian pls the wedding is on 31st of this month. you all are invited.

the thread in which the wedding venue is has been deleted.
Am thinking if this thread will be deleted as well.

OG1BABY:
Congratulations to you. Just ask her her reasons and if they're genuine enough, then just comply.

She only told me not to mention her username if I create the thread of which I didn't.

I only uploaded our wedding invitation card which has our names, the date and venue of the wedding printed on it.

Am tired. it's because of these wedding I've been offline for months now. just running around to prepare things sing the time frame is short.

Just few months and una wan marry. Wow that was fast. This one u suspect she may be behind ur thread getting deleted, i hope. She won't ban ur family members from seeing u after Una marry.. I wish una a blissful home.

GreatResearcher1:
Isilove and Victorian pls the wedding is on 31st of this month. you all are invited.

the thread in which the wedding venue is has been deleted.
Am thinking if this thread will be deleted as well.

GreatResearcher1:
She only told me not to mention her username if I create the thread of which I didn't.

I only uploaded our wedding invitation card which has our names, the date and venue of the wedding printed on it.

Am tired. it's because of these wedding I've been offline for months now. just running around to prepare things sing the time frame is short.

Anyways I wish you a happy married life.

But sorry I ain't coming. The fear of herds men is the beginning of wisdom.
I no get body wey herdsmen go rape taya.

I have heard gory stories on how they rape and most times slaughter women.

Your bride try travelling such distance to meet with you. For me? I have stopped travelling to other states since Boko Haram and herdsmen stories came into power . Ain't moving an inch out from Lagos.

Both of you fit each other.

Desperate couple.

But this one she's not picking your calls cos of this topic. Make she no bail out on the d day o.

Cause it won't be funny, with all your preparations. Anyways best of luck with your bride.

GreatResearcher1:
She only told me not to mention her username if I create the thread of which I didn't.

I only uploaded our wedding invitation card which has our names, the date and venue of the wedding printed on it.

Am tired. it's because of these wedding I've been offline for months now. just running around to prepare things sing the time frame is short.

If I may ask, why the rush? Please look before you leap. Don't embark on something you'll end up regretting. Take your time please. Let me ask something else, how much do you know her?

I thought only women are desperate, I did not know men are desperate too. How can you be getting married to someone you have only known for 2 months?

She is already banning you, giving you silent treatment and put wed on hold over meaningless issue? Koburu

I will be looking forward to all your post on marital issues

Two month too short for courtship. What do i know some people dated for 10years and still got divorced. So i will say this journey you embarked on be open minded and expectant. You cannot be bringing your personal affairs for us to advice you. The person to ask is there. .
You want people to advice you to leave her ? That is what you will see. You want her to see that people are asking you to leave her? Because she may see that.
Sort your problem with her
She said dont post. You should have listened. You just want to show off and make the ladies who didnt agree feel bad.
Park well oo

It sounds strange, getting married to someone you barely know.

victorian:










Anyways I wish you a happy married life.

But sorry I ain't coming. The fear of herds men is the beginning of wisdom.
I no get body wey herdsmen go rape taya.

I have heard gory stories on how they rape and most times slaughter women.

Your bride try travelling such distance to meet with you.

Both of you fit each other.

Desperate couple.

But this one she's not picking your calls cos of this topic. Make she no bail out on the d day o.

Cause it won't be funny, with all your preparations. Anyways best of luck with your bride.

My bestie long time. How are you? Marriage preparation has kept me offline for long.

The girl is from Akwa Ibom State and the wedding ceremony is taking place in her state.

MJBOLT:

you want us to give you advice so that she will ban us abi?

..

GreatResearcher1:


My bestie long time. How are you? Marriage preparation has kept me offline for long.

The girl is from Akwa Ibom State and the wedding ceremony is taking place in her state.

I'm doing great here.


And I'm not travelling an inch! Out of Lagos.

I'm the one and only lineage remaining from my late mom ,in fact her splitting image . I have to keep myself safe at all cost. Thanks for the invite, I will pass.


I wish both of you best of luck on the wedding. Happy for you.

OG1BABY:


If I may ask, why the rush? Please look before you leap. Don't embark on something you'll end up regretting. Take your time please. Let me ask something else, how much do you know her?

Go through this thread below, you'll know why am desperate.


https://www.nairaland.com/4994807/female-atheist-needed-relationship-must

OmoAlata1:
I thought only women are desperate, I did not know men are desperate too. How can you be getting married to someone you have only known for 2 months?

She is already banning you, giving you silent treatment and put wed on hold over meaningless issue? Koburu

I will be looking forward to all your post on marital issues

Go through this thread below then you'll get a clue.

https://www.nairaland.com/4994807/female-atheist-needed-relationship-must

You are a big joker. Like seriously what kind of marriage is that? I pity your kind sha.

bethyz:
Two month too short for courtship. What do i know some people dated for 10years and still got divorced. So i will say this journey you embarked on be open minded and expectant. You cannot be bringing your personal affairs for us to advice you. The person to ask is there. .
You want people to advice you to leave her ? That is what you will see. You want her to see that people are asking you to leave her? Because she may see that.
Sort your problem with her
She said dont post. You should have listened. You just want to show off and make the ladies who didnt agree feel bad.
Park well oo

It was on this platform that I came in search for a wife and people here wished me well in the search. won't it be somehow that I found a wife here and refused to invite people here?

She only told me not to post her username.
Honestly am tired.

rosy1992:
It sounds strange, getting married to someone you barely know.

Sometimes we take risk.

victorian:












I'm doing great here.


And I'm not travelling an inch! Out of Lagos.

I'm the one and only lineage remaining from my late mom ,in fact her splitting image . I have to keep myself safe at all cost. Thanks for the invite, I will pass.


I wish both of you best of luck on the wedding. Happy for you.

Is your God not that cable to protect you? Didn't he say you shall step on a serpent and it shall by no means harm you? Why the fear?

People like us who don't have a God or something that protects us should fear.

Dear, the earlier you realize that there's no supreme being anywhere watching over you the better.

GreatResearcher1:

It was on this platform that I came in search for a wife and people here wished me well in the search. won't it be somehow that I found a wife here and refused to invite people here?

She only told me not to post her username.
Honestly am tired.

Nairaland boys have had their share of that NUNU

GreatResearcher1:


Is your God not that cable to protect you? Didn't he say you shall step on a serpent and it shall by no means harm you? Why the fear?

People like us who don't have a God or something that protects us should fear.

Dear, the earlier you realize that there's no supreme being anywhere watching over you the better.

There is a supreme being watching over me, don't even start on my God.

He's sacred to me and i love Him so dearly.


So don't start o! I wont argue with u about God. He's the reason I'm alive with peace of mind. None can be compared to my God and Creator.

He's off limits here.

GreatResearcher1:


Go through this thread below, you'll know why am desperate.


https://www.nairaland.com/4994807/female-atheist-needed-relationship-must

What if after the marriage and you finally get your inheritance and you don't find happiness, what are you going to do then? Just asking

Apination:

Nairaland boys have had their share of that NUNU

What do you mean? That boys are part of that thread being deleted? I don't think so. Though people who commented on the thread before it was deleted were much of boys. And they didn't say anything bad. They saw the wedding invitation card and they wished us success.

victorian:










There is a supreme being watching over me, don't even start on my God.

He's sacred to me and i love Him so dearly.


So don't start o! I wont argue with u about God. He's the reason I'm alive with peace of mind. None can be compared to my God and Creator.

He's off limits here.

U told me I won't get a wife until I accept your God. but I've not just gotten a wife, I've gotten a Queen.

OK I wish u success in ur belief. 31st is the date oo.

GreatResearcher1:

What do you mean? That boys are part of that thread being deleted? I don't think so. Though people who commented on the thread before it was deleted were much of boys. And they didn't say anything bad. They saw the wedding invitation card and they wished us success.

Lol..... Go back and read what I said.

OG1BABY:


What if after the marriage and you finally get your inheritance and you don't find happiness, what are you going to do then? Just asking

We derived happiness in different things. What might brings you happiness might not brings others.
That inheritance fuckenly brings me happiness.

Also, the marriage is for a moment.

Apination:
Lol..... Go back and read what I said.

Hmmm.

GreatResearcher1:
I was on this forum months back, created a thread searching for a lady for marriage. Some girls here picked interest but when I told them what is involved they all backed out.

Two months ago a lady on this forum called me and ask if I was really serious about searching for a wife, I told her I was more than serious. she asked if I've found a lady and my response was "NOT YET". She said she is interested.

At first, I thought it was a joke but I was amazed when she travelled all the way from Lagos to Kaduna to see me.

Dear fellow nairalanders, I want to use this medium to invite you all to our wedding coming up on the 31st of this month.

I don't know if my wife to be is a nairaland mod. When I told her about creating a thread and inviting nairalanders to our wedding, she warned me not to mention her moniker on the thread.

As a good husband to be, I obeyed her and when I created the thread I didn't mention her moniker. I only uploaded our wedding invitation card.

I am shocked that that thread was deleted and the moniker @GreatResearcher in which I used in creating that thread is banned.

I've called her and ask her if she's the one who banned me and deleted the thread she hung the call on me.


Guys I need advice

wish you all the best in your contractual marriage.

OP, i wont type much so d@ ur "fiancee" no go ban me. I just hope and pray for you that it is NOT AMATARASHA or FUNMINISTIC_QUEEN u want to marry. If na either of d two , just know your Village people have fvcked ur Anus hardcore without giving u a chance for a reach around.

Meanwhile,if true just accept my condolence in advance