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Re: My Wife Is A Cheat. I Need Advice by genq(m): 6:32am On Aug 15, 2019 |
hurthubby: This response you gave to JudgeOGBUNABALI tells me all I need to know about you. Do you have sons? (that's if they are even yours) Would you rather they turn out spineless like you? Why shout "19 years of marriage" like it's some achievement? When you only stayed in an abusive and useless marriage for this long because you are WEAK! It is simps like you who have allowed women emasculate men to the point of no return - this is why more of us younger dudes are joining the MGTOW movement. You've already put in 19 years of hard 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is A Cheat. I Need Advice by crackhouse(m): 6:39am On Aug 15, 2019 |
missjo:because I am not cheating on her as a husband so it will be very hurtful emotionally seeing her cheat and I can't take it. If I cheat too then I won't bother much. |
Re: My Wife Is A Cheat. I Need Advice by frostylook: 6:56am On Aug 15, 2019 |
GreatDad19: This is the aftermath of the Loose Vagina series? Truly sad you guys couldn't come back from it. Hope you continue to care for your daughter. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is A Cheat. I Need Advice by tiswell(m): 9:32am On Aug 15, 2019 |
LadySarah:Just stfu 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is A Cheat. I Need Advice by larryking540: 9:44am On Aug 15, 2019 |
rosy1992: is divorce a sin as a Christian? , don't u think it's better both parties go separate way to avoid the after maths of, wife kill husband becus of her new lover, or husband kills wife because of extra marital affair? and hope u will b there at the court when they judge d case, since u say as a Christian he shouldn't divorce, let me tell u a story? there is a story here on Nairaland of a female lawyer who killed his husband with, new set of knifes she bought at the market, all becus the lady said the husband was having another affairs outside d marriage, she dissected d man's stomach cut of the his prick and placed it on his own hand while he was gasping for his life, and after dat she had already packed a traveling document to move out immediately to London b4 police cut up on her, so bro, put Christianity alside and do d needfull,divorcing a wife or a husband is not a worldly thing, it's for peace to rain, and for d kids to grow in a healthy environmental both mentally and physically, am 100% sure she doesn't have time for d kids or d home because she travels regularly to work (see her extra marital affair people) , like i told op earlier declare a family meeting of both families present and a video coverage of the whole incident for future reference should incase one of d kids feels their father abandoned their mother, the video and discussion will speak for it self, am speaking from experience, and to the female lawyer who killed his husband, his pastor also gave him same advise just like d advise u are given to the op,dat he shouldn't divorce becs na Christian he be ,hope u are aware ur wife fit make u miss heaven? and the dead man who is in 6feet already is my uncle 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is A Cheat. I Need Advice by LilMissFavvy(f): 9:51am On Aug 15, 2019 |
Husband and ''inlaws''? ...... I never mentioned in-laws in my message. If you think you can find a successful woman who subjects to you and also becomes a slave to in-laws then you are a big joke. If you are a mature man you will know that in-laws breed different problems, I don't know why a good husband should allow unnecessary interferences between his wife and in-laws. Did she marry the inlaws ? larryking540: |
Re: My Wife Is A Cheat. I Need Advice by larryking540: 9:59am On Aug 15, 2019 |
LilMissFavvy:I have gone Tru ur comments more than twice and I still don't understand, just try make it more clear, I never mentioned in-laws in any of my quote |
Re: My Wife Is A Cheat. I Need Advice by LilMissFavvy(f): 10:15am On Aug 15, 2019 |
Go back to the first comment you sent to me and read the 4th line. larryking540: |
Re: My Wife Is A Cheat. I Need Advice by larryking540: 10:19am On Aug 15, 2019 |
LilMissFavvy:OK his laws not in- laws |
Re: My Wife Is A Cheat. I Need Advice by Zoroaster: 10:54am On Aug 15, 2019 |
What kind of men are we having these days?.. Jizuz crais 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is A Cheat. I Need Advice by LadySarah: 11:12am On Aug 15, 2019 |
tiswell: 1 Like
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Re: My Wife Is A Cheat. I Need Advice by Olorunnim: 12:40pm On Aug 15, 2019 |
Divorce that LovePeddler right now and Do a DNA test I'm sure one or all of them is not yours. you'll have peace of mind. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is A Cheat. I Need Advice by Olorunnim: 12:51pm On Aug 15, 2019 |
pocohantas:This same you would advise to divorce their husband if genders were switched, your double standards irritates me What kind of creature are you how do you sleep at night? 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is A Cheat. I Need Advice by djon78(m): 12:57pm On Aug 15, 2019 |
People will just be shouting divorce divorce like its easy. A woman you ve lived with over 20yrs. Op since you have already endured long, I will advice you don't leave because of your children. A childhood friend of mine, the mother was something else. In fact I entered one joint and saw a young man carrying the woman on his laps. I was so ashamed, I dodged for her and her lover not to notice me. The husband didn't divorce the woman. I later heard she repented and joined either deeper life Church or SU. As in completely changed and turned new leaf. I believe your wife will change with time, as she gets older. Even we men talking, many cheating and LovePeddler mongering men as some get older they turn a new leaf. There wives were patient with them. Take your problems to God in prayer, you will be shocked how your wife will turn a new leaf. Just be Strong. 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is A Cheat. I Need Advice by Olorunnim: 12:59pm On Aug 15, 2019 |
LadySarah:You think you can live life based on a movie?� 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is A Cheat. I Need Advice by Elouise: 1:10pm On Aug 15, 2019 |
rosy1992:in a case involving infidelity, divorce is an option even in Christianity. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is A Cheat. I Need Advice by Olorunnim: 1:16pm On Aug 15, 2019 |
LadySarah:You're one of the few people telling this man the truth, other women wants to turn it to a gender war. |
Re: My Wife Is A Cheat. I Need Advice by keepingmum: 1:35pm On Aug 15, 2019 |
GreatDad19: This is what happens when a man has a small blokos and rather than the women in his life tell him the truth about the size of his blokos, they boost his ego by "praising his mandingo" and then men dem now start feeling like king kong and wants to demand a "farrgin" sized ponyor even after child birth Oga if you like sell your house and pack to a new continent, the next lady would still tell you of your dinky winky because thats the truth about your anatomy 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is A Cheat. I Need Advice by Olufemiolaolu(m): 1:41pm On Aug 15, 2019 |
hurthubby:You just have to get your acts together and kick that slut out of your life for good. She can get you infected with terrible disease you know. You messed up by tolerating her sexual looseness. She isn't even a good role model for your kids. I guess your financial situation is making you act unmanly. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is A Cheat. I Need Advice by pocohantas(f): 2:51pm On Aug 15, 2019 |
Olorunnim: Sweetie, don't be angry like this. That must have been in the past, now I am very anti-divorce. He should fight for his marriage. How do you want the kids to sleep at night knowing their mum is an adulteress and was divorced for that? He should do this for those innocent children. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is A Cheat. I Need Advice by revolt(m): 3:01pm On Aug 15, 2019 |
Your kids are old enough. I wouldn't say leave the marriage now since shes sole provider. Be ready to take a lot of shit. If she's not stressing you out....go and concentrate on your biz. Have your own babe outside if need be. Be weary of what you eat at home. Draw closer to your children now in their teens. Ofcos marrying another woman now is not an option 18 years is a lot. A new woman will come with new problems ie kids etc so get a babe outside. The problem with women like that is they're very jealous sef. Be careful. You're with a potential widow. 6 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is A Cheat. I Need Advice by Olorunnim: 3:01pm On Aug 15, 2019 |
pocohantas:I don't see anything wrong in the kids knowing their mum is an Adulteress, The man is clearly not happy with his marriage he shouldn't compromise the children would understand when they grow up, and she's settings a bad example for the kids too. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is A Cheat. I Need Advice by Nobody: 3:24pm On Aug 15, 2019 |
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Re: My Wife Is A Cheat. I Need Advice by oyatz(m): 3:59pm On Aug 15, 2019 |
You very correct ma. The world has gone upside down and contrary to what I used to think 15-20 years ago that women will change after marriage, it not totally true. The issue of feminism, modernization and the advent of the social media has increased adultery rates for married women beyond imagination. One should just pray that his wife doesn't fall into temptations. zeb04: 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is A Cheat. I Need Advice by oyatz(m): 4:19pm On Aug 15, 2019 |
My dear, many people don't understand this marriage issues very well. zeb04: |
Re: My Wife Is A Cheat. I Need Advice by oyatz(m): 4:27pm On Aug 15, 2019 |
I empathize with the OP. My advise : work on your finances. Increase your wealth and marry a second wife. Don't divorce your current wife, just neglect her and relocate to Bodija Estate or Akobo with your new wife and continue your life. The two of you can even relocate to Canada, Ireland or S/, Africa. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is A Cheat. I Need Advice by missjo(f): 4:35pm On Aug 15, 2019 |
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Re: My Wife Is A Cheat. I Need Advice by generationz(f): 8:15pm On Aug 15, 2019 |
GreatDad19: Shuooo, I thought loose vagina after child birth was the problem? |
Re: My Wife Is A Cheat. I Need Advice by drmikeadams(m): 8:23pm On Aug 15, 2019 |
getting à new wife Will not solve the problème but complicate it just stay away from those demons |
Re: My Wife Is A Cheat. I Need Advice by Ishilove: 9:00pm On Aug 15, 2019 |
hurthubby:Oga, i can bet my left buttock that one or two out of your children don't belong to you. Continue condoning adultery. One day she will bring a disease or worse to come and dash you at home. Na dia your eyes go clear. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is A Cheat. I Need Advice by Ishilove: 9:09pm On Aug 15, 2019 |
GreatDad19:Oh dear, it got worse? It seems your marital problems run deeper than the issue of loose vaginas. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is A Cheat. I Need Advice by Olastep1(m): 11:02pm On Aug 15, 2019 |
That's bad 1 Like |
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