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Girls Are Unpredictable by blazepascal(m): 9:45am On Aug 18, 2019
Hello nairalanders happy sunday to you all ... Keep on reading if you are interested
phew!!! Me and my friend decided to stroll on a tuesday morning and almost reaching at the junction we met this beautiful girl. well , i have a taste for preety girls, i admire them alot i dont really fancy girls with big boobs or heavy ass, i always think of them as sex ... (you know what i mean) for those of you who stiil dont understand what i meant was if you see a girl with big boobs or big ass you will start to think dirty that's guy life, after all no one is holy. well i dosen't matter as long you are preety you've gotten my attention. So back to what i was saying after we saw the girl my friend approached her immediately and i had to stand waiting for them until they finished discussing, but they didnt take much time(take note he didnt woo her they were just friends) she later went to a shop to get something and my guy came back to where i was standing , so i asked him who she was and he told me she's just a girl living close by then i told him i'm gonna approach her he told me to move ahead. While i was going i was thinking of what to say becasue she does not no me an idea struck my mind (facebook) here is our conversation me : hi. her: hello. me:whats up. her:im fine. me : do u know me. her: no me:im pascal i added you on fb but u havent accepted my request her: ohh when i log in will check take note i didnt add her on fb i did it just to spark a conversation later we discussed some other things as we went home i asked her for her number and she gave me later she even showed me her brother her father and her mother i was like thankGod this girl is a good girl i wasn't even thinking about having sex with the girl it was pure love , but unfortunately after 2weeks she started demanding me to buy this buy that for her if i didnt she would indirectly be saying that guys are stingy the worst thing is that i havent even told her to be my girlfriend . i thought she had a good reputation or maybe shes just a gold digger pls whats ur advice how should i handle this i will kindly respect everyone opinion thanks you.
Re: Girls Are Unpredictable by MJBOLT: 10:00am On Aug 18, 2019
next time she asks you to buy her something,tell her to buy it herself and forget that "guys are stingy" line,she wants to use it to manipulate you.it is better if a girl call you a stingy guy than maga/mugu.

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Re: Girls Are Unpredictable by XhosaNostra(f): 10:36am On Aug 18, 2019
Are you sure she's from a good home? Because the thing I don't understand is, if she's making all these demands on you to buy her this & that, how will she explain where she got it from to her parents?

When I was much younger & still lived at home, everything had to be accounted for. You couldn't be in possession of something without your parents giving you the 3rd degree about where you got it from. My parents were so completely against dating, that at age 30, my sister still snuck around like a teenager. It's not only my parents that were like that though. All the parents I knew frowned upon certain things. A friend of mine who's now in her early 30s, has never brought a guy home to this day. She still meets them outside, out-of-sight. That's the cultural aspect of it. You only introduce someone you're sure you're going to marry, otherwise they don't wanna be subjected to that. Also, for as long as you're not married, your parents will still take care of you. You can't ask a boyfriend because as far as he's concerned, your upkeep is the responsibility of your parents. For the life of me, I have a difficult time understanding how someone that still lives at home can be having stuff without being asked where they got it from or asked to take it back. Perhaps we're a little too proud, I guess.

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Re: Girls Are Unpredictable by blazepascal(m): 10:48am On Aug 18, 2019
MJBOLT:
next time she asks you to buy her something,tell her to buy it herself and forget that "guys are stingy" line,she wants to use it to manipulate you.it is better if a girl call you a stingy guy than maga/mugu.
oy thank you for your suggestion
Re: Girls Are Unpredictable by blazepascal(m): 10:49am On Aug 18, 2019
MJBOLT:
next time she asks you to buy her something,tell her to buy it herself and forget that "guys are stingy" line,she wants to use it to manipulate you.it is better if a girl call you a stingy guy than maga/mugu.
ok thank you for your suggestion
Re: Girls Are Unpredictable by blazepascal(m): 10:50am On Aug 18, 2019
MJBOLT:
next time she asks you to buy her something,tell her to buy it herself and forget that "guys are stingy" line,she wants to use it to manipulate you.it is better if a girl call you a stingy guy than maga/mugu.
ok thanks for your suggestion
Re: Girls Are Unpredictable by blazepascal(m): 10:53am On Aug 18, 2019
Pls everyone pardon me for me slight mistake in typing its due to my keypad
Re: Girls Are Unpredictable by blazepascal(m): 11:05am On Aug 18, 2019
XhosaNostra:
Are you sure she's from a good home? Because the thing I don't understand is, if she's making all these demands on you to buy her this & that, how will she explain where she got it from to her parents?

When I was much younger & still lived at home, everything had to be accounted for. You couldn't be in possession of something without your parents giving you the 3rd degree about where you got it from. My parents were so completely against dating, that at age 30, my sister still snuck around like a teenager. It's not only my parents that were like that though. All the parents I knew frowned upon certain things. A friend of mine who's now in her early 30s, has never brought a guy home to this day. She still meets them outside, out-of-sight. That's the cultural aspect of it. You only introduce someone you're sure you're going to marry, otherwise they don't wanna be subjected to that. Also, for as long as you're not married, your parents will still take care of you. You can't ask a boyfriend because as far as he's concerned, your upkeep is the responsibility of your parents. For the life of me, I have a difficult time understanding how someone that still lives at home can be having stuff without being asked where they got it from or asked to take it back. Perhaps we're a little too proud, I guess.
hmmm thanks for your contribution the funny part again is that i wooed her in front of her mom her mom didnt even say anything boys are always flocking around her and her mom would remain speechless so if shes demanding alot from me her parent would even not mind to know where she got those thing.
Re: Girls Are Unpredictable by XhosaNostra(f): 11:06am On Aug 18, 2019
blazepascal:
hmmm thanks for your contribution the funny part again is that i wooed her in front of her mom her mom didnt even say anything boys are always flocking around her and her mom would remain speechless so if shes demanding alot from me her parent would even not mind to know where she got those thing.

Wow ok lol. Interesting.
Re: Girls Are Unpredictable by Nobody: 11:15am On Aug 18, 2019
Sometimes I wonder how you lots reason, upon all the brown yellow pink green pills you have been swallowing on Nl you still never heal.Your mumuness just dey skyrocket every day. Hain!

So you saw a girl, a beautiful one and automatically your brain and diick switched functions. Must you approach every beautiful lady you see immediately? I mean where's your value? Your pride? Your brain? How about turning the situation other way round for once?! is there a crime if she appreciates you?


Most of you are the cause of your predicaments because you belittle yourselves by chasing after any thing in skirts.Please be valuable, ladies love men who aren't easy to get.

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Re: Girls Are Unpredictable by luminouz(m): 11:20am On Aug 18, 2019
XhosaNostra:
Are you sure she's from a good home? Because the thing I don't understand is, if she's making all these demands on you to buy her this & that, how will she explain where she got it from to her parents?

When I was much younger & still lived at home, everything had to be accounted for. You couldn't be in possession of something without your parents giving you the 3rd degree about where you got it from. My parents were so completely against dating, that at age 30, my sister still snuck around like a teenager. It's not only my parents that were like that though. All the parents I knew frowned upon certain things. A friend of mine who's now in her early 30s, has never brought a guy home to this day. She still meets them outside, out-of-sight. That's the cultural aspect of it. You only introduce someone you're sure you're going to marry, otherwise they don't wanna be subjected to that. Also, for as long as you're not married, your parents will still take care of you. You can't ask a boyfriend because as far as he's concerned, your upkeep is the responsibility of your parents. For the life of me, I have a difficult time understanding how someone that still lives at home can be having stuff without being asked where they got it from or asked to take it back. Perhaps we're a little too proud, I guess.
shocked
Rushing to SA to pick a wife.

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Re: Girls Are Unpredictable by luminouz(m): 11:21am On Aug 18, 2019
MariaLavina:
Sometimes I wonder how you lots reason, upon all the brown yellow pink green pills you have been swallowing on Nl you still never heal.Your mumuness just dey skyrocket every day. Hain!

So you saw a girl, a beautiful one and automatically your brain and diick switched functions. Must you approach every beautiful lady you see immediately? I mean where's your value? Your pride? Your brain? How about turning the situation other way round for once?! is there a crime if she appreciates you?


Most of you are the cause of your predicaments because you belittle yourselves by chasing after any thing in skirts.Please be valuable, ladies love men who aren't easy to get.
Easy tigress!!!
It's Sunday,you know
Re: Girls Are Unpredictable by XhosaNostra(f): 11:23am On Aug 18, 2019
luminouz:

shocked
Rushing to SA to pick a wife.

Not a South African culture, but Xhosa culture lol. We're NOT perfect though. Apparently we're too bossy tongue
Re: Girls Are Unpredictable by Nobody: 11:24am On Aug 18, 2019
luminouz:

Easy tigress!!!
It's Sunday,you know
I hate how these guys just come here to paint ladies bad, when they are the reason , they are milked. Does he even know the babe to start with? They will just come here to form saints without looking into their mistakes.



Nonsense!
Re: Girls Are Unpredictable by luminouz(m): 11:25am On Aug 18, 2019
MariaLavina:
I hate how these guys just come here to paint ladies bad, when they are the reason ,why they are milked. Does he even know the babe to start with? They will just come here to form saints without looking their mistakes.



Nonsense!
Lol..I get you
Re: Girls Are Unpredictable by luminouz(m): 11:26am On Aug 18, 2019
XhosaNostra:


Not a South African culture, but Xhosa culture lol. We're NOT perfect though. Apparently we're too bossy tongue
Oh, A Xhosa babe then.
Too bossy? If you see my muscles, you will prefer being bossed! wink

tongue
Re: Girls Are Unpredictable by AstroG: 11:31am On Aug 18, 2019
GUYS TAKE NOTE OF THIS








MJBOLT:
IT IS BETTER IF A GIRL CALL YOU A STINGY GUY THAN MAGA/MUGU.

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Re: Girls Are Unpredictable by AstroG: 11:33am On Aug 18, 2019
undecided






MariaLavina:
I hate how these guys just come here to paint ladies bad, when they are the reason , they are milked. Does he even know the babe to start with? They will just come here to form saints without looking into their mistakes.



Nonsense!

Re: Girls Are Unpredictable by XhosaNostra(f): 12:13pm On Aug 18, 2019
luminouz:

Oh, A Xhosa babe then.
Too bossy? If you see my muscles, you will prefer being bossed! wink

tongue

Loooool. No comment.
Re: Girls Are Unpredictable by blazepascal(m): 1:24pm On Aug 18, 2019
MariaLavina:
Sometimes I wonder how you lots reason, upon all the brown yellow pink green pills you have been swallowing on Nl you still never heal.Your mumuness just dey skyrocket every day. Hain!

So you saw a girl, a beautiful one and automatically your brain and diick switched functions. Must you approach every beautiful lady you see immediately? I mean where's your value? Your pride? Your brain? How about turning the situation other way round for once?! is there a crime if she appreciates you?


Most of you are the cause of your predicaments because you belittle yourselves by chasing after any thing in skirts.Please be valuable, ladies love men who aren't easy to get.
so i cant approach girls again reason well joor
Re: Girls Are Unpredictable by blazepascal(m): 1:25pm On Aug 18, 2019
AstroG:
GUYS TAKE NOTE OF THIS







i guess so
Re: Girls Are Unpredictable by Mekenz(m): 2:59pm On Aug 18, 2019
I don't think that I have ever stop an unknown lady on the way and started wooing her,if I saw you and I like you, I will create an environment that will allow our part to cross once again, until there's familiarity between both of us.

my last girl,we exchange contacts inside the bus while I'm heading back to my base,first she asked me about a particular location and the exact bus stop that she will alight in other to get to her new place, we started our discussion from there till she reached her location. I got her number but didn't care to call,she later called me to inform me that she has reached home, and started telling me how she is new in town,I still maintain my cool till one day,she called to greet me,then she started telling me about her self and asking to know me more,that she notice how comported I was that very day we met, we then suggest a place to meet,the rest is history.

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Re: Girls Are Unpredictable by niceguy555: 3:01pm On Aug 18, 2019
MariaLavina:
I hate how these guys just come here to paint ladies bad, when they are the reason , they are milked. Does he even know the babe to start with? They will just come here to form saints without looking into their mistakes.



Nonsense!

I disagree with you. It is you girls that make things difficult for yourselves. You girls pretend alot even when you have emotion for a guy. Your type will like a guy but will ask someone else to talk to the guy on your behalf. Nonsense!

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Re: Girls Are Unpredictable by Skmoda360(m): 3:08pm On Aug 18, 2019
XhosaNostra:
Are you sure she's from a good home? Because the thing I don't understand is, if she's making all these demands on you to buy her this & that, how will she explain where she got it from to her parents?

When I was much younger & still lived at home, everything had to be accounted for. You couldn't be in possession of something without your parents giving you the 3rd degree about where you got it from. My parents were so completely against dating, that at age 30, my sister still snuck around like a teenager. It's not only my parents that were like that though. All the parents I knew frowned upon certain things. A friend of mine who's now in her early 30s, has never brought a guy home to this day. She still meets them outside, out-of-sight. That's the cultural aspect of it. You only introduce someone you're sure you're going to marry, otherwise they don't wanna be subjected to that. Also, for as long as you're not married, your parents will still take care of you. You can't ask a boyfriend because as far as he's concerned, your upkeep is the responsibility of your parents. For the life of me, I have a difficult time understanding how someone that still lives at home can be having stuff without being asked where they got it from or asked to take it back. Perhaps we're a little too proud, I guess.
You are talking like this because you are a southie, go and ask your naija counterparts, you will understand. grin....they have entitlement spirit.

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Re: Girls Are Unpredictable by ubunja(m): 3:09pm On Aug 18, 2019
blazepascal:
so i cant approach girls again reason well joor
don't approach


































































Unless given permission to approach


























































Through green lights
Re: Girls Are Unpredictable by carter009(m): 3:16pm On Aug 18, 2019
Lol, please don't start, u better Calm down, this is Sunday oooo.
MariaLavina:
I hate how these guys just come here to paint ladies bad, when they are the reason , they are milked. Does he even know the babe to start with? They will just come here to form saints without looking into their mistakes.



Nonsense!
Re: Girls Are Unpredictable by Martinez39(m): 3:28pm On Aug 18, 2019
Why did you bring this to nairaland? What do you want us to do? Was it necessary to bring it here?
Re: Girls Are Unpredictable by Headlesschicken(m): 3:32pm On Aug 18, 2019
undecided Stupid kid..
Re: Girls Are Unpredictable by MannieA(f): 3:51pm On Aug 18, 2019
Skmoda360:

You are talking like this because you are a southie, go and ask your naija counterparts, you will understand. grin....they have entitlement spirit.



I am a Naija girl and I was brought up here. My upbringing was really strict and proper. My mum knew everything she bought for us and would question us if she finds out we bought something new that she doesn't know about from our savings. We weren't allowed to collect anything from strangers.
It is good to be disciplined. I'm going to give my children a proper and disciplined upbringing.

Please don't assume that every girl in naija has an improper upbringing. I have lots of female friends with proper upbringing!

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Re: Girls Are Unpredictable by TerryMcGinis(m): 4:19pm On Aug 18, 2019
XhosaNostra:
Are you sure she's from a good home? Because the thing I don't understand is, if she's making all these demands on you to buy her this & that, how will she explain where she got it from to her parents?

When I was much younger & still lived at home, everything had to be accounted for. You couldn't be in possession of something without your parents giving you the 3rd degree about where you got it from. My parents were so completely against dating, that at age 30, my sister still snuck around like a teenager. It's not only my parents that were like that though. All the parents I knew frowned upon certain things. A friend of mine who's now in her early 30s, has never brought a guy home to this day. She still meets them outside, out-of-sight. That's the cultural aspect of it. You only introduce someone you're sure you're going to marry, otherwise they don't wanna be subjected to that. Also, for as long as you're not married, your parents will still take care of you. You can't ask a boyfriend because as far as he's concerned, your upkeep is the responsibility of your parents. For the life of me, I have a difficult time understanding how someone that still lives at home can be having stuff without being asked where they got it from or asked to take it back. Perhaps we're a little too proud, I guess.
your parents trained you well..I can relate.

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Re: Girls Are Unpredictable by Skmoda360(m): 4:27pm On Aug 18, 2019
MannieA:




I am a Naija girl and I was brought up here. My upbringing was really strict and proper. My mum knew everything she bought for us and would question us if she finds out we bought something new that she doesn't know about from our savings. We weren't allowed to collect anything from strangers.
It is good to be disciplined. I'm going to give my children a proper and disciplined upbringing.

Please don't assume that every girl in naija has an improper upbringing. I have lots of female friends with proper upbringing!
I wasn't talking to you.....that's how all naija girls dey talk.... entitlement spirit ti take over....let XhosaNostra reply me.
Re: Girls Are Unpredictable by MannieA(f): 4:41pm On Aug 18, 2019
Skmoda360:

I wasn't talking to you.....that's how all naija girls dey talk.... entitlement spirit ti take over....let XhosaNostra reply me.


Okay

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