Freehuman:
You're a pain in the ass. Go and make money!

Finnese001:


No bro I'm not pained, just that i don't want to make a promise i might not fulfill in future, besides I'm not yet ready to settle down

She asked an indirect question.....

Blackivy27:
Nothing to say. op doesnt get women.

Amakavula:
You don't know it already, you no longer have a girlfriend. Someone else's wife

Finnese001:

Lol, my dear I don't want to break anybody's heart in future

LordKO:
Her action is in order, although she ought to/has to courteously tell you off - of course, kudos to you for being sincere with her about your intention. You don't want/think you want anything serious with her (which is not a crime), while she's in need of a serious relationship that will lead to marriage. She has her priority right, so let her be. No victor, no vanquish.

IceColdVeins:
Its apparent that op and peepz dropping comments don't understand women's school of thoughts and motives behind questions they ask.

Three scenarios might have triggered the question in no specific order;

1. Judging by her overkilling use of love/heart and emojis unneccessarily after the question, it might owe to the fact that she is already weighing options of leaving you for another guy ready to settle down which is unlike you and just wanted to document your reactions by tipping you off.

2. She's just trying to see how far you are willing to take the relationship, hence, she expects you to encourage her to ward off other potential suitors in a manner of territoriality.

3. The love is just turning her head and she was trying to create a delusion to spice up the relationship, yeah some girls her crazy like that....and I love them.

Your response to the question would prick her emotions in any of the assumptions above, try to work around these scenarios and do the needful.

Finnese001:



Bro I'm kind of confused here seriously, are u saying i should have asked her to Wait for me when I'm not yet thinking of settling down, what if after asking her to turn down all her potential suitors just because of me and later it didn't work out for us, what do you think that will happen??

YorubaKing:


OP, you're indeed too immature for a relationship. Focus on your life, abeg.

Finnese001:


No bro I'm not pained, just that i don't want to make a promise i might not fulfill in future, besides I'm not yet ready to settle down

pansophist:
Oga you de learn work? Your girlfriend don migrate to another dude lap. The message na to see your reactions, and most probably, use am against you if make her feel guilty or responsible for breaking your heart

You sef come F up join, you de tell her make she no turn anybody proposal down, unless she no like the person. Good then, she like the guy so make you park one side.

Take heart eh?

Finnese001:
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Ryan03:
why go into a relationship with a girl when you know you are not sure of marrying her?

iClef:
Nice chat. I wish I can chat like you.

Finnese001:


Lol, I'm just being real

iClef:
Your reply is lit. I know the mind game she was trying to play. Luckily, you escaped it.

She wants to act as if lots of men are lined up asking for her hand in marriage, but you're the one stopping her.

In the future, if you don't marry her, she'll curse you by saying, "God will punish you. You are the reason I'm not married till today. When men were asking for my hand in marriage, I rejected them because of you and now you've wasted my years in life."

With your reply, you've bypassed it. Though, she will use it as an opportunity to cheat.

From today, have it in mind that she'll cheat, but you don't need to worry. Get yourself a new girlfriend and keep her as "just friend."

From today, she'll shower you with lots of love, but it's fake love just to keep you on the side while trying the other options. Whichever clicks for her first, she'll marry that one.

The good news is: no one will blame, curse, or blackmail you in the future.

The bad news is: she may infect you with an STI one of those options or admirers will give her.

Starting from today, use condom or abstain.

That's all.