bluskyee:
Looooooollllllllllllll f***k....it is not beer parlour logic that is reality. I think I remember this moniker from a thread I created about how difficult it is getting a partner. If he is using you to hedge...he is giving you something in return " happiness". As sacarstic as this might sound, happiness is greater than whatever you are bringing to the table. For the room, with 300k the aesthetics of the room will be given a rebirth. Agreed, you won't date or marry a broke brother, case closed.

ImaIma1:


Do you guys on this forum not have examples of rich guys who married and are successful and happily married?

So because your SIL married a struggling you means every lady should. Not every lady will marry a poor guy. And there should be no issue there.

ikechukz:
Truth be told, I won't even allow my sister to marry a guy that lives in a place like this. The guy should be thinking of how to better his condition not making it worse by getting married. And for the ladies saying yes, we know it's just to get likes and praises from guys.

AntiBrutus:


Happiness doesn't only come from broke men.

I have happiness to give too, I will go give it to someone in my class.

Thank you.

bluskyee:
We have used this class thing and I am getting confused, what is your class? how do you even know your class? What metrics did you use to place yourself in a particular class? What percentage of Nigerians earn 1000usd monthly? which is not even up to a standard wage? A country where more than 60% are poor. please educate me on this class thing because the data I once got from a kpmg survey was tearful. I will really love you to explain this class thing cos there are only 2 classes in this country. The upper class (part of the political class, wealthy pastors ceos MDs line and group executives, Group/regional heads of industries and senior staff of multinational coys) and the Elite class ( top politicians, business moguls MD/GMD/ed of multinational coys) if you are not in any of the two classes, I wonder what class you are talking about....100-300k per month class?...

ornicus:


So basically you were stone poor. Your dad was a nurse and your mum was a trader. Your only stroke of luck was that your dad managed to get a job as a nurse in Saudi Arabia. If not for that you would still be in the face me I face you.

As a guy from a medical family, whose dad was in Saudi Arabia for 10 years from 1990 to 2000, I say your story is bullsheeet. Oya tell me where your dad worked and how many times you visited him. My old man was in tabuk at one time and dhuba at another.

You never disappoint!
I don't get excited when you make sensible comments cos a stupid one is close by.
The above is a good example.
Nevertheless, my faith in you stands tall!

Godoverevery:

like I should explain my family life to u in details....I didn't tell you so u can believe ...I don't no u motherfucker and don't give a shit about wat u think.....

AntiBrutus:


Such a hypocritical question coming from someone who didn't consider a NAFDAC worker his class. Four fingers are pointing back at you

2 classes indeed.

Anyway, you might like to stick to this part of your last post bro... while you keep wondering.

Agreed, you won't date or marry a broke brother, case closed.

Raalsalghul:

You never disappoint!
I don't get excited when you make sensible comments cos a stupid one is close by.
The above is a good example.
Nevertheless, my faith in you stands tall!

ornicus:


poor wretch. keep stalking me. its sha better than wasting your youth on comic books

As usual insults.
Tell me something new

jibrilELsudan:




SAYING NIGERIAN WOMEN HAVE GENUINE AND TRUE LOVE FOR A MAN IS LIKE SAYING PRESIDENT TRUMP LOVES BLACK PEOPLE AND ILLEGAL IMMIGRANTS.



EVEN HERE ABROAD IN AMERICA AND CANADA, THERE'S A NAME THEY CALL WOMEN WHO LOVES A MAN BASED ON THE CONDITIONS YOU STATED.

THAT NAME IS CALLED H0E. FULLNAME IS STANK H0E.

bluskyee:
We have used this class thing and I am getting confused, what is your class? how do you even know your class? What metrics did you use to place yourself in a particular class? What percentage of Nigerians earn 1000usd monthly? which is not even up to a standard wage? A country where more than 60% are poor. please educate me on this class thing because the data I once got from a kpmg survey was tearful. I will really love you to explain this class thing cos there are only 2 classes in this country. The upper class (part of the political class, wealthy pastors ceos MDs line and group executives, Group/regional heads of industries and senior staff of multinational coys) and the Elite class ( top politicians, business moguls MD/GMD/ed of multinational coys) if you are not in any of the two classes, I wonder what class you are talking about....100-300k per month class?...

pocohantas:
We can't date, let alone acceptance.

We are not even the same circle...
He should pick a wife from his circle. Guys should learn to pick a wife from their social class and stop disturbing SM.

czarina:
Beautiful, I like when males get like this:

"if you can't suffer with me, don't expect to be part of me when things are right"

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What do you think I'll be doing with my life while you're improving yours?

Wankking? No, honey.

You can threaten lazy "beaches"/leeches with that. Not me, and not the females I've grown to look up to OR the ones who inspire me everyday.

I know females who work harder than most males and they will never settle for less.

CanadaOrBust:

Aha, but not God. She is Goddess

ImaIma1:


Most of the guys are commenting with the current state of their pockets and bank accounts. If they get good jobs and are staying in decent apartments, won't they expect ladies to marry them?

They think that its only when they are poor that they should be considered for marriage

loswhite:
but men keep settling for less and they don't make noise. The problem with alot of women is just pride...smh.

Quorax:


LOL, don't mind them. Class... Funny lots

bluskyee:
hypocritical indeed! I thought I said " not my type" ...

ericsmith:



women aint capable of logical reasoning ... am not surprise you are missing the point.
Most men won't even consider marriage when they are poor, The most appropriate time for a guy 2 find true love is when they're poor n hustling becos when guys get rich its fvckinc hard to find love.
It gives me so much pleasure to know gurls like imalma,pocohantas, antibrutus & co. aint different from any typical naija gurl am not askin any babe to consider poor guys buh make una stop to form different.

loswhite:
but men keep settling for less and they don't make noise. The problem with alot of women is just pride...smh.

Samakus:
A Facebook user asked ladies if they will accept marriage proposal from a man living in this condition, the responses can kill for sure. Lolz.

AntiBrutus:
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Go and marry him na!!!

I refuse to be different for a typical Naija man.
Emotional blackmailers, disguising their wishes and imposing it on women as logic.

It is now they have agreed there is poverty in the land. I thought most naija girls go for made men. The made men have finally disappeared.

Quorax:


Are you married? It's very obvious you are not, reason why you are quoting every comment, including one's that does not concern you.

Will every girl get a rich guy? How many Nigerians are rich in this poverty HQ? You are allowing the cars you see to deceive you. I know a lot of guys with car but are broke.

Like I said, you know nothing.

I have made money and I have lost money. Few days ago, I lost 200k and within 3days I made back that money.

You are using "struggling" to describe my bros? Na Amadioha go bend that hand wey use type that thing. I learned not take you Nigerian Girls serious cos if we check well now, you don't have a car, u don't have a land, u don't have anything except your pusssy, boobbs and rapidly aging face.

That is how one idiot from nairaland I took serious thought she could make terms, despite the fact that she got nothing, absolutely nothing...just the aforementioned herein.

Never in your life try to make terms when you can't match same terms.

Madam, the worst thing that can even happen to you is u is marrying someone who doesn't like your siblings or family, that time u go know say u jam rock, that is if you even know the gravity of what that means.

You know freaking Nothing...

ericsmith:



women aint capable of logical reasoning ... am not surprise you are missing the point.
Most men won't even consider marriage when they are poor, The most appropriate time for a guy 2 find true love is when they're poor n hustling becos when guys get rich its fvckinc hard to find love.
It gives me so much pleasure to know gurls like imalma,pocohantas, antibrutus & co. aint different from any typical naija gurl am not askin any babe to consider poor guys buh make una stop to form different.

AntiBrutus:
And for the ladies, if you are earning something and can give yourself a life better than this...do not be blackmailed into settling down for this.

If you want to do it, let it be totally because you want to.

There are few Nigerian men that are not driven by their egos, the majority are. So, know that a man's ego will always get in the way. Even in the way of his blessings.

There are also four identified classes in Nigeria. Don't let any statistician deceive you into thinking they are just two and as such you shouldn't have a choice if you don't belong to those two. We have the LOW, WORKING, MIDDLE CLASS and ELITE CLASS.

Forget Nigerian film, you will hardly see the elite come down to the middle, let alone the low. Same way the middle don't jump to the low.

If a man chooses to marry you from your one room, the idea of being your knight in shining amor is what appeals to him and his ego, not that love going on in your head.

That is why a man would most times go for a woman he is financially superior to, while ensuring other things he wants in a wife are fully covered. Things like youthfulness, looks, domestication and submissiveness. If you tell him you have the POTENTIALS to be these things, don't be surprised when he breaks up with you, stating you are not WIFE MATERIAL.

Men are not fools. If they want a woman at par with them, they will very well go for her. But they know it doesn't help their god complex. In fact, it frustrates them when you are not blown away by the money, despite wanting a man with financial capability.

Think like a man.

An Ondo State High Court sitting in Akure, on Wednesday, sentenced one Adeyemi Seidu to death by hanging for killing his girlfriend, Khadijat Oluboyo. Khadijat, the daughter of the immediate past deputy governor of the state, Alhaji Lasisi Oluboyo, was killed by the convict at his house in July 2018. It was reported that after killing the deceased, Adeyemi buried her corpse in his room for five days but the deed was later exposed by his father, who reported the incident to the Ondo State Police Command.

ornicus:


when people do date outside of the boundaries of their social class [in Nigeria] - this is what happens
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i'm sure we remember this bizarrre story



the wonders of how poverty can scatter a person's brain. all the guy had to do was give the girl belle and he would have been on easy street. instead he chose to kill her for ritual.