AntiBrutus:
People break up everyday.

People fall out of love everyday.

Maybe I am weird, but I wonder why some think anyone owes them everlasting love.


Such that when they don't get it, they come online and start crying "love is scam" "men are scum"... blablabla

DanDeeBoss:
Clear case of one sided love..... You're gonna heal with time, love is always scam with the wrong person..... You shouldn't have gone deep seeing that she wasn't that interested...

BlueAir:
normally everlasting love isnt a big deal for someone u are convinced can give u the same

BlueAir:
he overlooked the perils of numerous friends and social activities from her side

AntiBrutus:


Of course that is all the mushy mushy things people tell themselves at the beginning till life begins to fck them from all orifices.

I don't expect much from people. In fact, my attitude (sometimes) can make a guy think I don't love him. But that is because I do not like to bother myself over any "everlasting love".

XhosaNostra:
Is it the end of the world? No, it isn't. Move on.

I don't understand why people have such a hard time moving on from a relationship with a shìt person. They're who they are, but not exactly what you're searching for going by their actions, so why are you complicating matters for yourself? Snip & split. Life is too precious & short to allow someone make it stressful for you with their bull.

emmaphy22:

You are absolutely right. I guess her friends contributed much to all this. I never like their friendship for onces because their movement is not pure at all

BlueAir:
dont u think it's ur non chalance towards the other person that makes them not try to give u that love? Like u said ur attitude makes a guy think u dont love him. ..people only go extra length for people they are sure will do the same...

And when u say life fuccks them from all orifices At the end..u push the blame outside but not check urself....from the beginning were u sure the person u hooked up with is the one u truly deserve? ? Because the surest thing about intimacy is no matter now much is overlook ur paetners flaw and keep loving u will always see high danger indications.or is it just me who sees danger for what it is and disappear?

AntiBrutus:


At no point did I say they don't give me love. I wonder where you generated that from. He might think I do not love him because I still maintain a great degree of logic in my doing. I would go lengths but I don't do things that conflict with my ethics.

I also do not take it as anything, it is perks of a relationship. That makes it hard, maybe impossible to see me pushing blames or whining over a failed relationship. I don't even think I have any ex that I badmouth. I have better things to do with my energy and time.

AntiBrutus:
People break up everyday.

People fall out of love everyday.

Maybe I am weird, but I wonder why some think anyone owes them everlasting love.


Such that when they don't get it, they come online and start crying "love is scam" "men are scum"... blablabla

You haven't broken up with anyone before?

The only difference is how different people go about breakups, doesn't change the fact that we've all hurt someone somewhere sometime.

AntiBrutus:
People break up everyday.

People fall out of love everyday.

Maybe I am weird, but I wonder why some think anyone owes them everlasting love.


Such that when they don't get it, they come online and start crying "love is scam" "men are scum"... blablabla

You haven't broken up with anyone before?

The only difference is how different people go about breakups, doesn't change the fact that we've all hurt someone somewhere sometime.

emmaphy22:
Hey guys, I feel like sharing my experience with you guys since nobody understands me in real life.
I'm from Kaduna state and I was posted to Ondo state for my youth service last year. I met this Igbo lady in Ondo around November last year and we decided to hookup. It was as if I've never met a girl in my life with the way I love her so much. We started dating but she wasn't that free with me, and I wasn't OK with that. With time we got used to each other including all her family members. I showed her love so much that people around her including her sister and friends began to envy our relationship. I planned on getting married to her in which she was also aware of but despite the fact that her family members are against our union as a result of tribal differences, she was still ready to take the risk because her mum was in support. Fast forward to 2019, she loves to go out with her friend to visit people mostly boys and I've warned her about it several times and she promised to change. Despite some challenges in the relationship, we still settle within short period of time. Two months ago I rounded up my service and decide to move down to abuja, but to my surprise, this lady in question suddenly changed towards me. If I call she hardly pick and when she pick she will give the phone to her friend to speak to me that she is not around. Two days ago I called her and she picked and started telling me everything that is wrong. She gave the excuse that we are not married yet and I'm telling her not to go out and visit people that it won't work. And that I placed someone that will be monitoring all her movement which is a lie. She was just giving excuses and wrong accusations.
The way she spoke to me that day make me belief that she as move on. Meanwhile someone very close to her already told me that she is seeing someone else. This is a girl that we plan on getting married in the next two years but now I don't think its possible because she no longer pick my call again.
I love her so much and she knows that. I've never for once show love like that to anyone. I can't afford to loose her just like that but I think she doesn't think the same way. I've decided to let her go but her thought is weighing me down and I don't know what to do now.

emmaphy22:

My sister it is not easy to go by just like that most especially if you are deep into that person and you are already seeing the possibility of getting married to that person except you don't love that person.

BlueAir:
u misinterprete me...love is different from everlasting love. .u get love not everlasting love.thats my source of generation.and I still stand my point. .people only go extra length for those they are sure would do the same. .how can u claim to have gone length without breaking ur ethics? ? Obviously u keep one leg in one out emotionally and by actions and ur partner does the same.oh tthey definitely know ..no natter howmuch u love some one u will always see the flaw and only choose to overlook it..no big deal if u keep jamming "perks of relationship" with this mindset...its only results

Blackivy27:
We know.

carter009:
Lol, you know what, when will you girls stop breaking a guys heart.

AntiBrutus:


[b]I mustn't break my ethics to go the extra length. [/b]If murder is against my ethics, I should do it to prove I love and can go the extra length for him? That anyone would even expect me to break my ethics to prove I love him is the exact reason such a person should be "dumped". That isn't love, that is a subtle manipulative person.

I don't even care if he will do same, if it is the ideal thing to do at that time, I will do it and move on.

Using my head doesn't mean one leg is in. Women are the only ones who are deluded enough to think that is the way and men only bring that up to blackmail them into laying all cards on the table.

Stop assuming you know me and my relationships. I am not the one creating threads that love is scam...

I don't expect much from people, I don't know disappointment when it comes to humans.

Life has never been sweeter...