Guys,

Three different times I had invited girlfriend to my crib we've always had romantic play (thou she dislikes) but just cant bear seeing her without wanting to bang.

Fast forward lately I notice she declines most often my requests for her to visit even when I never had mindset of sex.

How can I change this to the latter pls ?

if the only reason for having her is SEX then get a prostitute.


The girl does not WANT, yet your SELFISH hormones does not care, you come here wanting tips and tricks to have your way with her... SEE, MARRY HER or leave her.


This generation is so cursed with SEX SEX SEX SEX.... is there nothing else you both have to offer each other?? ehnh?


The lady does not TRUST you with her body, she may chop your money but her body is different o. Ladies do not just have sex based on hormones... they think far before allowing it. She may be afraid you will raaapee her.... because it is clear your ERECTION is controlling your DIRECTION.


Another thought is she may be deceiving you while getting sex from someone else... you may not be the only boyfriend she has.

yetunsbay:
Guys,

Three different times I had invited girlfriend to my crib we've always had romantic play (thou she dislikes) but just cant bear seeing her without wanting to bang.

Fast forward lately I notice she declines most often my requests for her to visit even when I never had mindset of sex.

How can I change this to the latter pls ?

yetunsbay:
Guys,

Three different times I had invited girlfriend to my crib we've always had romantic play (thou she dislikes) but just cant bear seeing her without wanting to bang.

Fast forward lately I notice she declines most often my requests for her to visit even when I never had mindset of sex.

How can I change this to the latter pls ?

......do u love her

Phenomenal16:
......do u love her

Nonsenses


U xpt him to say no?

yetunsbay:
Guys,

Three different times I had invited girlfriend to my crib we've always had romantic play (thou she dislikes) but just cant bear seeing her without wanting to bang.

Fast forward lately I notice she declines most often my requests for her to visit even when I never had mindset of sex.

How can I change this to the latter pls ?

The girl is very sensible......... She cannot read your mind, hence her avoiding temptations.....

So the problem is not from her, but from you.....

She no longer trusts you ...... Trust can never be bought, but earned............

Phenomenal16:
......do u love her

I swear to God I do. How can I change things fast ?

Lexusgs430:


The girl is very sensible......... She cannot read your mind, hence her avoiding temptations.....

So the problem is not from her, but from you.....

She no longer trusts you ...... Trust can never be bought, but earned............

I understand it's my fault and same time not mine.


We all know how spoilt this country is abt relationship. That's where you see a dedicated guy spoiling his babe while someone else is digging her.


What do we call the fate of the boyfriend !




How can I rectify this pls ?

blackpanthar:
if the only reason for having her is SEX then get a prostitute.


The girl does not WANT, yet your SELFISH hormones does not care, you come here wanting tips and tricks to have your way with her... SEE, MARRY HER or leave her.


This generation is so cursed with SEX SEX SEX SEX.... is there nothing else you both have to offer each other?? ehnh?


The lady does not TRUST you with her body, she may chop your money but her body is different o. Ladies do not just have sex based on hormones... they think far before allowing it. She may be afraid you will raaapee her.... because it is clear your ERECTION is controlling your DIRECTION.


Another thought is she may be deceiving you while getting sex from someone else... you may not be the only boyfriend she has.

to an extent, am sure am the only guy she is seeing.


What do you think I can do ?

yetunsbay:
I swear to God I do. How can I change things fast ?

...stopping asking her to come around for now.

Emmm ,,,,,apologize again to her sincerely n promise it won't happen again.

Don't ask her to come around for now....prove to her that u av changed....

With time she will come


Pressing her to come now is somehow ...even me self I dey suspect u sha

yetunsbay:
I understand it's my fault and same time not mine.


We all know how spoilt this country is abt relationship. That's where you see a dedicated guy spoiling his babe while someone else is digging her.


What do we call the fate of the boyfriend !




How can I rectify this pls ?

By earning her trust...........

Hehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehe



Oga,that girl u claim to be your girlfriend that is denying u sex always is busy giving to another guy for free without stress.
Ah can assure u their is a reason she's not giving in to u,just knw that another man is servicing her Engine



ONE MAN'S OLOSHO IS ANOTHER MAN GIRLFRIEND

yetunsbay:
Guys,

Three different times I had invited girlfriend to my crib we've always had romantic play (thou she dislikes) but just cant bear seeing her without wanting to bang.

Fast forward lately I notice she declines most often my requests for her to visit even when I never had mindset of sex.

How can I change this to the latter pls ?

Phenomenal16:
...stopping asking her to come around for now.

Emmm ,,,,,apologize again to her sincerely n promise it won't happen again.

Don't ask her to come around for now....prove to her that u av changed....

With time she will come


Pressing her to come now is somehow ...even me self I dey suspect u sha

lol. Thks ma'am advice taken note

Phenomenal16:
...stopping asking her to come around for now.

Emmm ,,,,,apologize again to her sincerely n promise it won't happen again.

Don't ask her to come around for now....prove to her that u av changed....

With time she will come..Pressing her to come now is somehow ...even me self I dey suspect u sha

yetunsbay do not apologize. I repeat do not apologize to her. The worst advice you will take regarding a female is from a female.

What is he apologizing for? For inviting her for a visit?

OP do you want to be seen as a high value guy? Then pull away. Yes you read me right, pull away completely. Go on YouTube search for "MindfulAttraction.Org" , Tripp Advice, TheSingleGuy and watch those guys videos. Especially that MindfulAttraction. Those guys will shape your perceptions with women.

Tell yourself the gospel truth not us. Are you not trying to f**k the gal and run away? Do you have plans to Marry her? Wonder why folks think every relationship must be centered on sex abi has the society become so corrupt that Sex is now a norm in a relationship?? Oga face front and look for productive things to engage in.

Lexusgs430:


The girl is very sensible......... She cannot read your mind, hence her avoiding temptations.....

So the problem is not from her, but from you.....

She no longer trusts you ...... Trust can never be bought, but earned............

hi bro..i got the gs430 but well i got a warning sign recently it Check VSC Chech System..got any idea of how to take off the signs or what needs to be done.

Op DONT PULL AWAY. DONT APOLOGIZE. JUST STOP ASKING AND ACT NATURAL. SIMPLE.

FreeMejoor1:
hi bro..i got the gs430 but well i got a warning sign recently it Check VSC Chech System..got any idea of how to take off the signs or what needs to be done.

Have your vehicle scanned....... Traction control is faulty.... Did you recently have any work done on your wheels or had a major impact on your wheels?

Lexusgs430:


Have your vehicle scanned....... Traction control is faulty.... Did you recently have any work done on your wheels or had a major impact on your wheels?

not really but my driver told me the breakpad is faulty that i should change it..

FreeMejoor1:
not really but my driver told me the breakpad is faulty that i should change it..

Brake pad faulty or low? Have you physically inspected it? Scan vehicle to get possible fault codes......

Lexusgs430:


Brake pad faulty or low? Have you physically inspected it? Scan vehicle to get possible fault codes......

thanks i will..

Blackivy27:
Op DONT PULL AWAY. DONT APOLOGIZE. JUST STOP ASKING AND ACT NATURAL. SIMPLE.

I don't think he'll be able to get out of that situation. When a guy's has and maintains his prestige, he'll never meet himself in that. He'll command his respect and even his silence alone will make the lady get bothered.

Talk about the issue SEX.
Tell her your mind, listen to hers then come to an agreement together.

booksrite001:


I don't think he'll be able to get out of that situation. When a guy's has and maintains his prestige, he'll never meet himself in that. He'll command his respect and even his silence alone will make the lady get bothered.

true.

yetunsbay:
Guys,

Three different times I had invited girlfriend to my crib we've always had romantic play (thou she dislikes) but just cant bear seeing her without wanting to bang.

Fast forward lately I notice she declines most often my requests for her to visit even when I never had mindset of sex.

How can I change this to the latter pls ?

Go on a date outside your house... Talk about it between yourselves... Know what she want and not want in the relationship... Communication is key.. Its what you need right now.. Communication ....

yetunsbay:
to an extent, am sure am the only guy she is seeing.


What do you think I can do ?

And again you said she didn't like the romantic gestures... Its a two way street, it's either she doesn't want to have sex yet or she's seeing somebody else... I think it's normal to do romantic stuff in relationships ...