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Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by DesChyko: 6:45am On Aug 23, 2019 |
stag: See brother. Brother wey ![]() 6 Likes |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by desvi: 7:04am On Aug 23, 2019 |
I want to hear from the other side bet it will be a different story 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by LordKO(m): 7:54am On Aug 23, 2019 |
This occurrence is a perfect representation of the figure of speech (phrase) "when the chips are down." It's only when the chips are down like this that one will accept the reality that only ethical class is the real class and that there's no need for marriage where interest isn't mutually altruistic between both parties directly involved. Altruism isn't just the soul of love/friendship/oneness, it's equally the hallmark of good ethics. The inconsequential immaterial thing that matters the most - the best of attributes. Only an altruistic person (a selfless woman/thoughtful man) can give another (person) faithfulness which is required in a situation like this. Loyalty will always end where self-serving benefits stop or become unappealing - the evil of prioritizing social/economic class and consideration mainly/solely based on physical beauty/handsomeness - but faithfulness will not because it's the major hallmark of altruism, it doesn't expect/depend on self-serving benefit. Faithfulness remains superior to loyalty, so immaterial things (good attributes) over material things (money/physical possessions) as first/main consideration, any day and any time. Your brother married a woman who had no altruistic interest towards him. It's possible that he too didn't have altruistic interest towards her. Any marriage that material and/or physical thing is the bond that brought/holds the couple can't be a peaceful and happy one mutually, whether it lasts or not is irrelevant. Materialism is as bad as parasitism - say no to parasitism, say no to materialism. 42 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by Nobody: 8:07am On Aug 23, 2019 |
Go and make money, hustle my brother once you make money any woman of your choice you can have.. this is the anthem of most young men these days. una see una life bah,if you like make money and go for the woman of your choice if you are not her choice too she will just use your money as compensation. Most men these days have extremely low self esteem, their worth is tied to money and when the money dwindles down their wives also disappear too. 55 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by womenareapes: 8:08am On Aug 23, 2019 |
Abo123:naija women are group of useless species ![]() The day I made up my mind that never to associate myself with naija women! Things that working better for me! If you are looking for love, our black women can't give it to you except you add money into it and when that money is gone, the ape will leave you ![]() Find a foreign woman and your life will be wonderful 36 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by desvi: 8:19am On Aug 23, 2019 |
womenareapes: and you think foreign women will tolerate your joblessness? ![]() 29 Likes |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by womenareapes: 8:24am On Aug 23, 2019 |
desvi:is joblessness a permanent stage of life? ![]() When the going is rough! A foreign woman will support you both emotional and physical still you rise up again 40 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by palmshots: 8:24am On Aug 23, 2019 |
ubunja: But still they won't Listen...How are they even certain the guy Really fathered those kids... Smh ![]() 26 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by desvi: 8:25am On Aug 23, 2019 |
womenareapes: no woman will tolerate permanent joblessness there is more to this story your brothers are not telling 4 Likes |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by desvi: 8:30am On Aug 23, 2019 |
LordKO: welcome to la la land |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by womenareapes: 8:31am On Aug 23, 2019 |
desvi: ![]() A man will fall 1000 times and still rose back up again! There is no such thing as permanent joblessness except you refuse to get back up! A fish have more reasoning capacity than you! 29 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by desvi: 8:32am On Aug 23, 2019 |
womenareapes: you have made zero sense 12 Likes |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by ruggedtimi(m): 9:02am On Aug 23, 2019 |
He paid her school fees when him never marry her ![]() 9 Likes |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by etrange: 9:12am On Aug 23, 2019 |
The dangers of a one sided story... 9 Likes |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by PatrickOkunima(m): 9:32am On Aug 23, 2019 |
stag: The thing surprise me too o. 10 Likes |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by Raalsalghul: 9:54am On Aug 23, 2019 |
LordKO: I know you are wise and mature, but kindly tone down on the grammar please. 20 Likes |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by bluefilm: 10:24am On Aug 23, 2019 |
So what or where's the lesson in this nonsense narration of yours, guy? ![]() |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by Gloriagee(f): 10:58am On Aug 23, 2019 |
See JAMB qweshion... OKOATA: 1 Like |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by OKOATA(m): 11:06am On Aug 23, 2019 |
Gloriagee:You should have answered that madam instead of saying Jamb question. In his story it was never stated if both parties went to court to formalize a divorce. 4 Likes |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by Nobody: 12:03pm On Aug 23, 2019 |
virgoquin: Will they listen? Forget all the attacks on ladies online, the men are same and worse than the women they so denigrate. The dating dynamics in Nigeria is so fcked up and parasitic from both sides. I said it the other day that if not for ego and god complex, I do not see why lots of Nigerian men will be looking for one small girl to confuse with money. Marry within your social class and stop disturbing SM. They wanted to blow up my mentions. They see no need to work on any aspect of their lives. They just convince themselves that they can make money and get any woman they WANT. But as with any human devoid of common sense, they forgot the difference between a WANT and a NEED. Money will sure get you the woman you want in a 3rd World Country where food is still a problem. Would it get the woman you NEED? 56 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by LordKO(m): 12:03pm On Aug 23, 2019 |
Raalsalghul: No mind me, na my weird way of recharging and/or unwinding. 1 Like |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by Nobody: 12:06pm On Aug 23, 2019 |
AntiBrutus: +1 7 Likes |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by Acidosis(m): 12:09pm On Aug 23, 2019 |
While the lady was complaining about his height, dude was flaunting ego (money) and more ego. Your money is the last thing you should flaunt when it comes to marriage. Allow the woman fall in love with YOU, your persona, your worldview, and those things that are hard to depreciate in value. Unlike money, your character and your worldview hardly depreciate. 45 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by BBBmall25: 12:19pm On Aug 23, 2019 |
Am Learning 2 Likes |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by Nobody: 12:28pm On Aug 23, 2019 |
AntiBrutus:Are you minding them,these days it hurts to see how young guys are being advised wrongly especially on Nairaland. He narrates the problem he is having with his girlfriend and the replies will be as follows "my brother go and make money jor and you can have the pleasure of choosing any hoè you like" Their brain has now been formatted to think that money is the only thing they need to attract and keep a woman neglecting other qualities they are supposed to work on to make the equation balance. And as for the lady sef how can money be the only driving factor that made you go into marriage with the man,the both of them complements each other sef Never you trust the loyalty and submission of a broke girl or woman 34 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by larryking540: 12:35pm On Aug 23, 2019 |
AntiBrutus: yeah I feel u my person no matter how u understand estimate it marriage between equal social call is the best, my own little short story, my mom also quite her marriage exactly like dis, after my p man don sponsor her tru school, she got a job and started working na so she move out, thank God we still stood with my old man,till date,few weeks ago I got angry and asked my mom watin make her leave she said man father was treating her like a slave, and I asked but he sponsored u tru school and my mom said I quote he should tell me how much he spent and I will pay him back, my dear I weak, I only now understand she was actually looking for freedom, I pray for her to have a long life and a prosperity career my brother but she messed up 2 lessons I learnt, never marry a lady outside ur social class, ur family first before u sponsor anybody, if it's a female pls hustle to assist ur family, and not after getting married u will start diverting ur husband money to ur family members, I wouldn't b surprise if the op wife don buy land already 35 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by larryking540: 12:45pm On Aug 23, 2019 |
PatrickOkunima:me self weak o and the op day there, am not sure if e even get better paying job, some guys sha really think with their dick not their head, my family first o, the op brother even try, he sponsored the girl tru university, con give am car, con give e two brothers job, bro the moment a lady rejects me, I just move on with my life, that's me o,,,i kw sabi day beg up and down, becus u go still continue to beg her even on top bed, which is irritating, it's a pity, a lady tells u openly u are too short, meaning u can't walk with me in public, and she is the one who is even broke to sponsor herself tru education, and d best compliment to give the guy way help her career is he is too short, women sha are really ungrateful elements 33 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by larryking540: 12:50pm On Aug 23, 2019 |
desvi:and who told u a 9ja man is lazy, ask south Africa's, ask the foreigners, we do anything to make money, though I am not in support of crimes, u ladies over here in 9ja don't just appreciate, many of u are broke to even get a body Cream but still wants mr perfectionist, ,keep on searching while menopause rings it's coming bell 21 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by larryking540: 12:53pm On Aug 23, 2019 |
Acidosis:most times u just need to hide ur money, spend little and watch their reaction for the next couple of weeks or month, the inpatient ones will definitely break up with u, no b our boys fault,when most of our money is ill gotten wealth, u never sweated for u, u go wan shoe ur self, (poverty metality) 17 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by Capitano1(m): 12:54pm On Aug 23, 2019 |
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Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by desvi: 1:41pm On Aug 23, 2019 |
larryking540: God bless your hustle ![]() 1 Like |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by womenareapes: 2:10pm On Aug 23, 2019 |
larryking540:abeg tell those fish brain! As you said! Hid your money and watch those low profile girls running away from you! 8 Likes 2 Shares |
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