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Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by larryking540: 12:34am On Aug 24, 2019 |
Truthsbitter: nice one bro, every one of line was educative, nice one once again , since the moment I release myself from this relationship with 9ja girls my mind has been at ease, my body and soul is always connect, I tell people wat they will like to hear,to gain my favours and grounds, 9ja girls will just get u twist u will b confused on exactly what she wants, and she will stil drive online to write how a guy is so childish, not knowing they are the ones who are childish in attitude, nothing really important to offer the opposite sex,nothing, more than sex,even d sex day go punish u so Tay u go don weak after all d begging and dragging, what's platonic relationship by the way, if she is the one asking for a platonic relationship op, let her find solutions to her problem, but if u feel giving her money go make her like u, trust me they go manipulate u, last last una go just become enemy of urself, op let that girl b, for real, she will sought herself out, trust me, even if she sleeps with another nigga to get the complete money and then stops talking to u, bro move on, 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by ubunja(m): 12:34am On Aug 24, 2019 |
franchasng:simple The Brotherhood needs to come alive. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by Nobody: 12:35am On Aug 24, 2019 |
To the extent that I can help without struggling. I always tell people, if you can't give without expecting anything in return, DON't GIVE. Sometime ago, a friend came to me for 130k. She needed it to buy some things for her business. When she sent the message, I didn't reply fast, she thought I was probably ignoring. So, she sent a VN join... When I read and listened to her VN, I replied "lol". Not like I was mocking her, but she was almost begging and swearing with her life. I just told her to send her acct number. I couldn't even imagine her begging a guy like that, knowing how lots of our guys reason. Few wks later, she was back again. Don't forget she paid the former right on time. I had to ask her this time, why struggling for working capital, lets see your books. That was how we became partners. I've had another young man ask me for money for his sick mum medical bills, I gave it to him. Way back in uni, I paid the sch fees of a colleague who was crushing and I didn't "love" him enough to date him. Just yesterday, a friend was telling me I am too humane, he is scared people (guys to be specific) might take advantage of me. I told him not to worry, as much as I could be fcking generous- I am also VERY discerning. The good news is, I have never begged my friends for financial help. But they are so nice that they sometimes ask if I have problems at all and I shouldn't hesistate to share when I do have one... The cosmos has a way of settling people that are truly altruistic. When it comes to giving, I like to think I see humans, not a gender. Though I am beginning to reconsider my stand. 15 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by larryking540: 12:38am On Aug 24, 2019 |
Rasbel:why should he give her? Atleast op was mature enough to ask her to define this their relationship, and she confirmed it's a platonic relationship, make I ask u does anyone give out free cash like Dat, or does the term spare money exist? I just have the impression the girl is a kid let's say 18 years to 23 years |
Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by larryking540: 12:41am On Aug 24, 2019 |
AntiBrutus:u get am excess na , y do I feel u schooled in edo |
Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by JoseRaji(m): 12:42am On Aug 24, 2019 |
ubunja: Wow! 1 Like
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Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by sheDD(m): 12:42am On Aug 24, 2019 |
Teejayphillip:in indirectly u are paying a whopping amount of 30k for a fleeting moment of pleasure Some weak guys and their insipid thinking sef 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by larryking540: 12:46am On Aug 24, 2019 |
DonFreshmoney: people don suffer for some girls hand 80% don't appreciate dats just the truth, even after helping them they feel u haven't done enough and if u can't do more, which they term "that small thing way u do" another guy go continue ur race 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by yemi15(m): 12:49am On Aug 24, 2019 |
ubunja: Bikonu, how does konji kill you o? Ubunja, you and this pus.sy you have turn goal, God go helep you o chai! No be everything be puss.y o. The ones that liked and shared, can you say what this guy is saying? Think o, think! |
Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by yemi15(m): 12:53am On Aug 24, 2019 |
ArticleBeast: Thank you o. Refreshing to see a man who is not a he-g.oat like u.b.unj.a. 2 Likes |
Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by luminouz(m): 12:54am On Aug 24, 2019 |
Thegamingorca:Lol, na her maga na |
Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by yemi15(m): 12:55am On Aug 24, 2019 |
Useku: God bless you. This is a refreshing post and Op should heed this advice. |
Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by larryking540: 12:57am On Aug 24, 2019 |
castro316:u just know bro, I almost fell for something like dis, back in campus I just suffery distance myself from the girl, till date if d girl see me she day waka pass me, thank u I like am like dat,,, some girls can b like demons, d moment u accept to b in d friendzone, they will make u regret ur life, nothing like friends zone, u reget me I move on watin b friendzone, I b like small pikin,or tenaanger, na op even Bleep up self, the moment u agree to b friendzone with a girl after u ask her out bro just run for ur life, except u u ready to even give her ur house rent |
Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by ubunja(m): 12:57am On Aug 24, 2019 |
yemi15:.what?? Are you really going after people who liked and shared my message?? 3 Likes |
Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by Amanyanabo(m): 12:58am On Aug 24, 2019 |
I don't gender should be an issue here.... You should ask ur self this question, if u were to be in her shoes, will she help out? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by Harddiskng(m): 12:58am On Aug 24, 2019 |
ubunja: This man ehn Lmao But seriously once a babe you ask out mention platon... The guy-man thing to do is to give her madt spacing. Hello-hello na once in like 2/3 months. I no no wetin they are still dey discuss to the extent she feels so comfortable discussing her problems with him when her parents are still alive. 7 Likes
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Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by larryking540: 1:00am On Aug 24, 2019 |
Useku:guy make I tell u ,na man u fit tell say there is life after school, no b woman o, u think say they send u after graduation, even the ones way they melt for exam hall during university days, day don even kw u exist again after graduation, guy some ladies don't appreciate e just day their gene no vex, 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by greggng: 1:01am On Aug 24, 2019 |
DateMynd44: You are a selfcentred person. You can only get blessed when you help without expecting anything. Infact I visited my ex in her school ...as I was driving out I saw a lady crying and I requested to know why she was crying ...I was able to find out from some students that she will not be allowed to sit for exam the next day...I took her to the nearest atm and withdrew the whole cash plus additional cash for her personal need....she was so happy ...seeing that happiness in her face made me happy...atleast I have done something nice. There is a difference btw you not having and having and not helping. Help without any strings attached and you will reap the reward in a great way. That lady might be your saviour tomorrow. I practice what I preach. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by Rasbel(m): 1:02am On Aug 24, 2019 |
larryking540:I typed that because I felt the op didn't actually need the advice as it was obvious from his write-up that he wasn't going to give her anyway and I have no problem with that. |
Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by yemi15(m): 1:02am On Aug 24, 2019 |
bezimo: They forget but God does not forget. Remember that! |
Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by Mydazz(m): 1:02am On Aug 24, 2019 |
OP you stated what the girl wanted(platonic friendship) but forgot to state what you want or wish,...... that aside how close are you guys in this platonic level? If it's one of your male friends is in this predicament will you be willing to do the same? The answers to the above should give you a better perspective, just so you know if you decide to give her the money it won't be a one time thing, there will always be one need or two that will always be there to be met,and guess what, she doesn't even need to ask you for it. But if the money is not a big deal for you at all, then just give her. |
Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by larryking540: 1:03am On Aug 24, 2019 |
Harddiskng: I tire for the op o, watin their two day discuss since the girl tell am say na platonic abi na maltonic relationship day day, some day like use their hands attract wahala |
Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by yemi15(m): 1:04am On Aug 24, 2019 |
ubunja: So you are still online? Why would I not? Your way of thinking, God help you is all I can say! I can see a deep hurt by the opposite sex, you have not resolved that is bringing this warped thinking and mindset! Have a great night. 1 Like |
Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by Nobody: 1:10am On Aug 24, 2019 |
larryking540: I don't have excess, if you can't give from the little you have, you can't give when you have much. I had this guy that was a thing to me, I remember asking him to donate to a cause. He said he would never do that, that if I were the one in need of money, he will give and know he is gaining. But he would never do philanthropy... Pheew! That singular statement changed a lot on how I view him. If you can't be good by people who owe you nothing, people you assume are below you- then you are not good!!! 1 Like |
Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by ubunja(m): 1:10am On Aug 24, 2019 |
yemi15:Light doesn't curse darkness. Light simply shines, and darkness goes away. If I'm talking trash then talk your own truth. and people will see and follow it. Otherwise find the nearest lagoon and jump into it. For you have nothing original to say. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by Nobody: 1:12am On Aug 24, 2019 |
DateMynd44: An amount u can afford to lose |
Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by ubunja(m): 1:12am On Aug 24, 2019 |
Harddiskng:men are used to being used that they don't see a problem being used. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by Nobody: 1:14am On Aug 24, 2019 |
I help people... Full stop. If you can do and if you can't then move and create space for a helper to enter. |
Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by ubunja(m): 1:14am On Aug 24, 2019 |
PrecisionFx:meaning women as platonic friends are a risky investment am I right? 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by yemi15(m): 1:16am On Aug 24, 2019 |
ubunja: Ig.nore button! You have brought a gift of anger I won't accept and therefore it belongs to you! Have a great night. |
Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by larryking540: 1:17am On Aug 24, 2019 |
AntiBrutus:u and I kw very well that op needs a relationship from that girl, from his write up you can smell it, dats y most advise u see here are just warning him to reconsider the help he is given out and forget it b'cos, he might b expecting the lady to jump on his shoulder after doing it, , and he should nt b surprise if he sees the girl in another guys hux d next day, actually the girl don define d relationship already for op, so it's left for op |
Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by larryking540: 1:19am On Aug 24, 2019 |
Guest007: no b only helper. Messiah |
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