simonjo:


Not all of us like the regular 8 to 4 jobs. Besides a single contract can cover years of govt paid salaries. My boss made over 40M as profits in contracts. The contract has ended but a wise investor knows what to do.

don't mind him.......he thinks federal job worth it.

Abo123:
I purposely registered a new name because of this story so that many people especially potential husbands can learn from this. I'll like to narrate the story in details so I want you to follow me.

It all started in 2011 when my brother got a contract job in Abuja. Then he met this lady when he went to our home town during a leave but she told him immediately that she can't date him because she's short but he kept persuading her as usual.

As time goes on she started crying that she is unable to pay her 300k school fees because her father is dead and her mum is not buoyant enough to continue the payment and she may withdraw as a result of this. So he offered to sponsor her education from 200level till she graduated and she agreed to date and later married her in 2014.

To make the long story short, he later got her and her two siblings well paid federal government job through his office and later got her a car. Less I forget that their marriage produced two children (a boy and a girl) in five years.

Unfortunately for him his contract job was terminated three months ago and he decided to give her 200k so that they can manage it for four months for food stuff and house keep but she told him that the money has been exhausted after two weeks. This caused a little quarrel and she decided to leave the house with both children and went to spend the week in a hotel.

This spark an annoyance of my family members and we decided to send two of our elderly brothers to her mum in our home town but the woman started sparking that she didn't wanted to marry him in the first place because he's short but she was the one that persuaded her to marry him.

They later had another quarrel last month and the lady took the children to her mum in the home town through a flat without informing the husband and any of our family member. So we decided not to call her and a court letter was issued to him for request of termination of the marriage.

Now the marriage is terminated and my brother is seriously depressed.

I really learnt a lot of lesson from this.

Ending the marriage is normal for Nigerian Ladies but going with the kids? I will send somebody to heaven even if it means Jail..

your brother might not even be the owner of those kids because it's obvious he married a bi*ch

Abo123:
I purposely registered a new name because of this story so that many people especially potential husbands can learn from this. I'll like to narrate the story in details so I want you to follow me.

It all started in 2011 when my brother got a contract job in Abuja. Then he met this lady when he went to our home town during a leave but she told him immediately that she can't date him because she's short but he kept persuading her as usual.

As time goes on she started crying that she is unable to pay her 300k school fees because her father is dead and her mum is not buoyant enough to continue the payment and she may withdraw as a result of this. So he offered to sponsor her education from 200level till she graduated and she agreed to date and later married her in 2014.

To make the long story short, he later got her and her two siblings well paid federal government job through his office and later got her a car. Less I forget that their marriage produced two children (a boy and a girl) in five years.

Unfortunately for him his contract job was terminated three months ago and he decided to give her 200k so that they can manage it for four months for food stuff and house keep but she told him that the money has been exhausted after two weeks. This caused a little quarrel and she decided to leave the house with both children and went to spend the week in a hotel.

This spark an annoyance of my family members and we decided to send two of our elderly brothers to her mum in our home town but the woman started sparking that she didn't wanted to marry him in the first place because he's short but she was the one that persuaded her to marry him.

They later had another quarrel last month and the lady took the children to her mum in the home town through a flat without informing the husband and any of our family member. So we decided not to call her and a court letter was issued to him for request of termination of the marriage.

Now the marriage is terminated and my brother is seriously depressed.

I really learnt a lot of lesson from this.

successmatters:
Moral of the story, never lose your job.

stupi.d moral

God created us and he gave us wisdom and sense to think�, many a times even before we commence somethings we would have for seen that the thing will never work out but because of that thing called love we will think with time things will work out well and may never work out.

The lady is a shame to other ladies...

Shebi na only one side u don talk....let's hear from her too.

And this your story ,u never said how much your brother gave you and even if you quarreled.

U kept bashing this 'girl' to drive ur point home.

Not.a judge but I really feel external input is not needed in marriages.

successmatters:
Moral of the story, never lose your job.

But life is full of ups and down na. The guy will surely rise again and when he does will he takes the lady back if she decides to come back? I have seen it happened a couple of times even though they are divorced.

I hate that statement "i never wanted to marry you in the first place". Thats why i wouldnt beg a girl to marry me, regardless of how good she is. If youre not into me as i am into you, i swerve you sharperly....

Abo123:
I purposely registered a new name because of this story so that many people especially potential husbands can learn from this. I'll like to narrate the story in details so I want you to follow me.

It all started in 2011 when my brother got a contract job in Abuja. Then he met this lady when he went to our home town during a leave but she told him immediately that she can't date him because she's short but he kept persuading her as usual.

As time goes on she started crying that she is unable to pay her 300k school fees because her father is dead and her mum is not buoyant enough to continue the payment and she may withdraw as a result of this. So he offered to sponsor her education from 200level till she graduated and she agreed to date and later married her in 2014.

To make the long story short, he later got her and her two siblings well paid federal government job through his office and later got her a car. Less I forget that their marriage produced two children (a boy and a girl) in five years.

Unfortunately for him his contract job was terminated three months ago and he decided to give her 200k so that they can manage it for four months for food stuff and house keep but she told him that the money has been exhausted after two weeks. This caused a little quarrel and she decided to leave the house with both children and went to spend the week in a hotel.

This spark an annoyance of my family members and we decided to send two of our elderly brothers to her mum in our home town but the woman started sparking that she didn't wanted to marry him in the first place because he's short but she was the one that persuaded her to marry him.

They later had another quarrel last month and the lady took the children to her mum in the home town through a flat without informing the husband and any of our family member. So we decided not to call her and a court letter was issued to him for request of termination of the marriage.

Now the marriage is terminated and my brother is seriously depressed.

I really learnt a lot of lesson from this.

The lady will come back begging no man will want to marry after two woman

You need to congratulate your friend for dodging a bullet. Let her stay gone jare!

I know the hustle well but not after marriage and children are involved. The woman is the kind that will put a life insurance on the man and start counting days to cash it.

I'm sure the man saw the handwriting on the wall before getting involved with a super gold digger but ignored it.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ImAOeJ798CQ

stag:
Is the only problem here losing his job, money?

- No stories of infidelity on her part?
- Had there been relative peace since the marriage?
- Can we then say that, apart from her love of money, she was a good wife?

But bro, how can your brother be in a contract job and he fixed two of his in-laws in ‘well-paying’ Federal Government jobs with job security while he worked in a place without job security?

Good question cause I'm perplexed.

Bich
U be dey do father xmas na
Paid her fees and that of her bastard siblings
Then u married her
So 200k is not enuf,she cant buy proviaions,fuel,at least 40k a month.
Bastard ungrateful bich
Bro abeg move on
Naija women are leeches

successmatters:
Moral of the story, never lose your job.

My mind also

CrazyOptimist:
This kind of case is so rampant nowadays.
Married women leaving their husbands even after having kids for them.
Everyone wan be baby mama.

Many women now want to be mothers and not wives. It's a sad thing, that why as a man Always Always put yourself first, it's not wickedness. It's to avoid stories that touch.

Knowing women for what they are, God forbid I loose my source of income. I will temporarily separate/leave before I am left.

Let me reveal something to you guys. If you have a woman in your life that does not exchange/invest/put in something to you and your life. Cut her loose. She will drain you of your energy time and resources and leave you empty.

Back to the story. Men pls pls pls. Always be on your grind, I know its not easy. A flip side. Woukd she have left if the husband was short but as wealthy as dangote?

Rule number 1. If a girl doesn't like your physical appearance, never I meam Never use Money to win her heart. It simply means money is the foundation for the likeness and marriage. So now that he has no money, what do you expect?

Your brother dey learn BEANS

Just 2 bullets: 1 for the mother, another for the daughter

When men do dem go say we don start.... women, their own worse for Their body.��

Dear nairaland owner and moderators, the level of misogyny and women bashing on this site has increased to an appalling level.
People now come on this site to spin fictional stories just to drum up hatred for the female gender. This is unacceptable.

Please curb this trend before it gets out of hand. You have a responsibility to your readers because you inform minds and opinions.
Thank you.

cc Seun
lalasticlala

Any lady that tries this with me I will kill her before takes away my kids . What nonsense

Abo123:
I purposely registered a new name because of this story so that many people especially potential husbands can learn from this. I'll like to narrate the story in details so I want you to follow me.

It all started in 2011 when my brother got a contract job in Abuja. Then he met this lady when he went to our home town during a leave but she told him immediately that she can't date him because she's short but he kept persuading her as usual.

As time goes on she started crying that she is unable to pay her 300k school fees because her father is dead and her mum is not buoyant enough to continue the payment and she may withdraw as a result of this. So he offered to sponsor her education from 200level till she graduated and she agreed to date and later married her in 2014.

To make the long story short, he later got her and her two siblings well paid federal government job through his office and later got her a car. Less I forget that their marriage produced two children (a boy and a girl) in five years.

Unfortunately for him his contract job was terminated three months ago and he decided to give her 200k so that they can manage it for four months for food stuff and house keep but she told him that the money has been exhausted after two weeks. This caused a little quarrel and she decided to leave the house with both children and went to spend the week in a hotel.

This spark an annoyance of my family members and we decided to send two of our elderly brothers to her mum in our home town but the woman started sparking that she didn't wanted to marry him in the first place because he's short but she was the one that persuaded her to marry him.

They later had another quarrel last month and the lady took the children to her mum in the home town through a flat without informing the husband and any of our family member. So we decided not to call her and a court letter was issued to him for request of termination of the marriage.

Now the marriage is terminated and my brother is seriously depressed.

I really learnt a lot of lesson from this.

nice story send it to nolyhood and ur brother will not be the same again.

Smile4mee01:


Many women now want to be mothers and not wives. It's a sad thing, that why as a man Always Always put yourself first, it's not wickedness. It's to avoid stories that touch.

Knowing women for what they are, God forbid I loose my source of income. I will temporarily separate/leave before I am left.

Let me reveal something to you guys. If you have a woman in your life that does not exchange/invest/put in something to you and your life. Cut her loose. She will drain you of your energy time and resources and leave you empty.

Back to the story. Men pls pls pls. Always be on your grind, I know its not easy. A flip side. Woukd she have left if the husband was short but as wealthy as dangote?

Very matured response
Be greedy on yourself more

Abo123:
I purposely registered a new name because of this story so that many people especially potential husbands can learn from this. I'll like to narrate the story in details so I want you to follow me.

It all started in 2011 when my brother got a contract job in Abuja. Then he met this lady when he went to our home town during a leave but she told him immediately that she can't date him because she's short but he kept persuading her as usual.

As time goes on she started crying that she is unable to pay her 300k school fees because her father is dead and her mum is not buoyant enough to continue the payment and she may withdraw as a result of this. So he offered to sponsor her education from 200level till she graduated and she agreed to date and later married her in 2014.

To make the long story short, he later got her and her two siblings well paid federal government job through his office and later got her a car. Less I forget that their marriage produced two children (a boy and a girl) in five years.

Unfortunately for him his contract job was terminated three months ago and he decided to give her 200k so that they can manage it for four months for food stuff and house keep but she told him that the money has been exhausted after two weeks. This caused a little quarrel and she decided to leave the house with both children and went to spend the week in a hotel.

This spark an annoyance of my family members and we decided to send two of our elderly brothers to her mum in our home town but the woman started sparking that she didn't wanted to marry him in the first place because he's short but she was the one that persuaded her to marry him.

They later had another quarrel last month and the lady took the children to her mum in the home town through a flat without informing the husband and any of our family member. So we decided not to call her and a court letter was issued to him for request of termination of the marriage.

Now the marriage is terminated and my brother is seriously depressed.

I really learnt a lot of lesson from this.

things like this makes me believe when luvyaself95 keep telling me not to invest on a lady cos they're so ungrateful

One side of the story.


Can we hear from the other side please.

my own brother had it differently A childhood friend of my brother returned from Finland for a second marriage after his wife who had two kids with him made up stories to get him out of the foreign country, my brother was also not married at the time, they were both preparing for his friend’s wedding, consulting and making arrangements together
When the discussion got to why my brother was still unmarried at the time, he replied that he hadn’t found the right lady and indeed so.
He jokingly asked if his friend from Finland knows any sincere Christian who is homely and have the maturity to raise a family
He responded in the affirmative that he knew a lady in Helenski who was visiting his ex-wife in the heat of their marital crisis, his ex-had said they both got talking after meeting at a train station and have since become friends (Although he did not so much approve of their friendship because his marriage crashed through many of the advice from too many influences and the accused)

He gave my brother the contact of this Lady who at the time had moved to France, my brother sent a quick message on Facebook and the lady replied almost immediately. They both got talking and the desperation to be married was so strong. Within the first two months after their Facebook interaction. She flew into Nigeria from France and even said how she rebuffed her friends who wanted to dissuade her from the marriage.

My brother felt pressured in by her haste and they both planned a wedding at the Ikoyi registry. When my brother was hesitant about the timing for the wedding, she sent some cash to pay at the registry.
She insisted that she wanted to keep the wedding plan away from her family who are in a separate part of the country. Although she invited one of her family and they both agreed to keep the other member of the family out of it.
She sneaked into Lagos sometimes in May of 2013 and they both had a marriage done after sex on her first arrival, they both did not wait for the oath at ikoyi, she hoped to be pregnant on returning to France because age was indeed ebbing to a disadvantage. She did the estimation by the online device but nothing happened when she returned.
My parents were a bit worried because of a character flaw which she began to manifest on meeting them within the short space. They could sense the eagerness
She succeeded in keeping the marriage away from her family members and waited for my brother to join her in France after all documentation and visa was granted.
It was when my brother arrived in France that the same Lady began to pressure my brother to go and pay her dowry and that he should lie or give the impression that they met in France so that she can hide the fact that she sneaked into Lagos
The marriage was bedevilled with turmoil because the lady my brother married turned out to be a domineering person, she kept several male friends even after my brother arrives in France and they were practically in charge of the home. They advise her secretly
She was having a diurnal and surreptitious close relationship within the first few months of their coming together
Her attention was so much diverted to these other men and they ruled her mind until the marriage crashed.
She became an angry fellow, very touchy, she called the cops on my brother on several occasion and as we heard, my brother on several occasion was sent out of the house they bought in the marriage. She wanted the house so she cunningly had the document in her name after making a paltry sum while the house was in build, she turned out to be a violent selfish partner who wanted virtually everything. Her only plan was to get semen to be called a mother
They had a child. She wanted to name the child. She did, but no sooner the child began to be ill
The first child of the marriage was stricken with illness but before the death of the child, she was comfortable to discuss the illness of the child in the marriage with her friends and alliances and her male loyalist before her marriage while despising my brother the owner of the child. she was not rid of males before being married. It was these divisive disruptions mainly that brought the marriage to her knees
Unfortunately, the loss was a good ground to let her go, but my brother wanting to pacify her over the loss supposing that another child will ease her pain, went ahead to impregnate her the second time.
She waited to have the baby and ended the marriage on from the hospital and had filed for divorce as my brother made to pay her child support from which she assigns funds to men

livebullet:




Ending the marriage is normal for Nigerian Ladies but going with the kids? I will send somebody to heaven even if it means Jail..

He might not be the father of those kids you know?

Moral lesson : if you are going to use money to entice a woman for marriage, just make sure the money never runs out.

If a woman says "you are short" its different from "i cant date you because you are short" ,it means his shortness was her deal breaker but he thought his money would distract her from it.It did for a while ,but when the money stopped the same deal breaker was still staring at her and she got irritated by it.

There are things you can improve on to become more appealing to your partner and height is not one of it. Money doesn't take that flaw away, no surgeon can add to your height. So i dont see why any grown ass man will think his money will be a perfect distraction to something a woman considers "deal breaker".

What most people dont know is love is subjective to external factors which is why people 'fall out of love" ,but loyalty,that is the real deal. Unfortunately most men dont know to pick the latter before the former. I have seen men make this mistake time and time again. I am sure there must have been a lady that stuck with him when chips where down, but hey ,i hope he learnt his lesson ,peace to us all.

zeb04:


“Your family sent a letter by court asking for divorce “ is the problem here. After 2 quarrels?okay oh.

Who is depressed now, abi are you guys sharing in the depression abi it is only to issue letter y’all know.

He is not depressed because of the divorce, he is only depressed because he just realized he married a wrong woman

see brother wey mum... nah ur brother name, with his money he will marry someone who love him, d lady told him that he's short and he married her.

I blame the guy and don't blame hi cos he was blinded by love but never ever date a woman on a runway of I have a problem u solve it then she agrees to date u. Date a woman who agrees to date u has problems but refuse to allow u help her.. When u open your eyes u ll know true love and fake one... Love us no longer blind