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Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by TOPCRUISE(m): 6:07am On Aug 25, 2019 |
successmatters:Olosho ![]() 1 Like |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by wakkzy(m): 6:07am On Aug 25, 2019 |
in a crisis, be aware of the danger--but recognize the opportunity. |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by wakkzy(m): 6:09am On Aug 25, 2019 |
ubunja:indeed a good lesson! |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by WhoBeThisMan: 6:13am On Aug 25, 2019 |
desvi:it's obvious you are that kind of woman . What do you mean by "tolerate a nabs joblessness" is it wrong for him to go through challenges? |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by uuzba(m): 6:14am On Aug 25, 2019 |
olajizz01:No matter how much money you have, another man has more money A useless lady is a useless lady. Pray to God, use your sense, know on time and run away from such useless ladies. 3 Likes |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by alexvatt(m): 6:19am On Aug 25, 2019 |
BigJoe19:And how are you u sure they are ur children? Have u done DNA test? |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by wellmax(m): 6:20am On Aug 25, 2019 |
Nigerians are very bad with English. Somebody will tell me now that it's not our language. Why don't you type and communicate in your mother's tongue. 1 Like |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by cedeki(m): 6:21am On Aug 25, 2019 |
Never beg a woman to Marry you because in most case you will live to regret your action 2 Likes |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by Bleodon01(m): 6:22am On Aug 25, 2019 |
To much is given ,much more is expected. That is humans. |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by Chukazu: 6:22am On Aug 25, 2019 |
Abo123: Similar lesson ... 1 Like
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Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by suremanpatriot: 6:25am On Aug 25, 2019 |
Unfortunately you have learnt the hard way of falling prey to an evil conscience. Life is beautiful,go on self refresher retreat,pray your way out to find the right partner , pick up your life and move on,because life goes on. ...The world is made of two kinds of people, ONE WITH A GOOD CONSCIENCE AND THE OTHER WITH AN EVIL CONSCIENCE... A good conscience is appealing to God no matter the condition it remains steadfast and endures all odd. But an evil conscience is a heart seared with evil no matter how you show an evil conscience love he or she will always fail you,except they are spiritually delivered. ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by Ejiod(m): 6:25am On Aug 25, 2019 |
AntiBrutus:You just spoke my mind..... Na comment I de like read but you just nailed it. With deep experience especially with what is happening in Nigeria it's better to marry your own social class. Just imagine training and helping people and you haven't trained or helped yourself. These days marriage goes beyond feelings or attractions.Marriage is all about building each other... who feelings help. To me marriage na private partnership company. Na 50:50 the way oyibos they do am.... 1 Like |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by Wallade(m): 6:26am On Aug 25, 2019 |
successmatters: So, you have never lost your job. |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by luvyaself95(m): 6:29am On Aug 25, 2019 |
DateMynd44:I didn't say you shouldn't help her what am trying to say is think it very well before you do it... |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by sisisioge: 6:30am On Aug 25, 2019 |
Hmmm....I don't really blame your brother for he fell in love. We all know that love in it's truest is devoid of common sense, hence the reason he kept following a girl that apparently wanted him for money alone. As for the girl, marrying him for financial gains is not strange. Of all the marriages that happen in naija, most women marry their partners for financial support... someone to take up the rent, feeding, their bills, family support, etc. Look around, men are still the major providers even with the advent of feminism. So, madam didn't entirely act abnormally at the beginning...she was just an unfair person at the end. And her mother...indeed, a fruit does not fall far from its tree! 4 Likes |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by Wallade(m): 6:31am On Aug 25, 2019 |
wellmax: I assume you are not Nigerian. I see a lot of good English written by Nigerians so I would rather you don't generalise your statement. 3 Likes |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by ojonugway(m): 6:31am On Aug 25, 2019 |
successmatters: You no get sense aswear... So of all the things here na wetin you see to learn be this? |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by islandmoon: 6:33am On Aug 25, 2019 |
he probably lost his Yahoo Yahoo job huh? tell us the true story, no court will approved divorce in two weeks if the man is not an illegal man |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by kingkuntaval: 6:33am On Aug 25, 2019 |
GrabHisBalls: WTF are you even saying, what makes you assume that his brother had no investments under his belt, you think investments are fool proof and a surefire path to financial sufficiency, a single policy change or even minute shift in geopolitics can send billions of naira worth of investments crumbling in a short time. Sometimes y'all just come online and spew trash to sound chic, trendy or socially correct. How large is your own personal investment portfolio? Guess what, that mentality ain't flying in 2019. I only blame the brother for being too desperate and marrying a gold digger. Meek Mill aptly put " a hoe will be a hoe, so there's no use for any advice ". 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by Wallade(m): 6:38am On Aug 25, 2019 |
GrabHisBalls: You and a number of ladies responded to this story like inexperienced adults or babies. Have you not seen people that invest and lost their investment. Don't you know some people can't even be entrepreneurs. You must understand that challenges are part of of life. As you grow older, you will realize that we can never really avoid challenges, we simply have to face them and manage. That is life. 1 Like |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by ubanigrant15: 6:38am On Aug 25, 2019 |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by affinity77(m): 6:39am On Aug 25, 2019 |
I'm sorry for your brother.....let him try and put himself together. The deed has been done already. For more info about fohow international, check my signature below. |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by mondayaudu(m): 6:41am On Aug 25, 2019 |
Your brother made a mistake and he is making that same mistake again. 1. His very low self esteem pushed him into this marriage. There is nothing wrong with been short what is wrong is his inability to believe that he is wonderfully and carefully made! The moment that bitch told him he is short, he was soppose to let her go but he keep begging and begging because he want to be boasting that his wife is beautiful. See the result! 2. Your brother is empty inside. I am very sure he has not read any personal development book in in the last five years? He had that kind of opportunity but he spent all his money? No single investment? He fails to know that even the so call permanent job are not permanent? Let alone a temporary job. Some women hate vision less man. He gat no vision! 3. My one cent to him. Let him leverage on his social capital for now and forget about that girl. If he could use his influence to get federal job for 2 people, that is the only positive I see in him. He could leverage on his contact for now. He will be fine last last. 2 Likes |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by Wallade(m): 6:41am On Aug 25, 2019 |
Thermodynamics: All Nigerian women are not selfish. Stop generalising. |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by Wallade(m): 6:42am On Aug 25, 2019 |
zeb04: Shut up and pass if you have no sensible contribution. |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by Rubbiish(m): 6:43am On Aug 25, 2019 |
greggng:Are u truly a lady? Thought u are a man |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by Omega30(m): 6:44am On Aug 25, 2019 |
successmatters:Tai, kip kwayet. Moral of the story: Never buy love. Always listen to the first excuse a girl gives. When it comes to marriage, never convince, coerce or force her to marry you cos you will never enjoy it. It is better to marry later but right than marry early but wrong. Selah!! 2 Likes |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by JoseRaji(m): 6:44am On Aug 25, 2019 |
GrabHisBalls: You point out two shortcomings of the woman. And the OP's brother is still to blame? Na wa o! |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by pretteemee(f): 6:46am On Aug 25, 2019 |
sorry about that bro.... life continues |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by Xpress24(m): 6:46am On Aug 25, 2019 |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by santakris(m): 6:50am On Aug 25, 2019 |
stag: As in en. d matter taya me. Too many questions to ask. I guess this story is not complete. No comments sha until I hear the other side of the story. 2 Likes |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by Nobody: 6:51am On Aug 25, 2019 |
Your brother should go and do thanksgiving, he just dodged a bullet. Could have been if the woman decided to stay back and torment his life psychologically. He for die from HBP and start drinking and smoking. He got out the easy way. He should thank God. And move on with his life, though it's easier said than done. 1 Like |
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