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Re: Common sense vs conscience: She Is A Good Girl But From A Poor Background by egoldi01: 4:46pm On Aug 25, 2019 |
You have really tried and gone far with the lady with maturity. I want to make the following inputs if you intend settling with the lady. Seat the lady down and reason together on your present issues - you need to really pour out your mind to her.If you don't address this out now, it may become more complex to sort out later. You need to have multiple investments personally, in money market, landed properties and others that would be regularly returning some monies to your account. Try and establish her as much as your finance and ability could go so you won't be continually bothered about her finances. However, you cannot continue to be the survival means of her mother too - you need to really define this - you man consider regular token or petty business for her. Then, please try and get less engrossed with other people's issues. Make a budget/have in mind how much you can monthly assist people with and be consistent with it. Plz note that U cannot satisfy everybody. Plz don't heavily invest in any lady before you marry her, if not, you may later have reasons to leave her or the other way round. 1 Like |
Re: Common sense vs conscience: She Is A Good Girl But From A Poor Background by jericco1(m): 4:46pm On Aug 25, 2019 |
you're not broke if you can generate 100k plus for fees 1 Like |
Re: Common sense vs conscience: She Is A Good Girl But From A Poor Background by Nobody: 4:47pm On Aug 25, 2019 |
I created this account just for this purpose and I might have to deactivate it and follow this thread with with my main account just for privacy reasons. Thanks for your understanding.This is hard... She is a good person but... You still have to Japa!!! Your progress should be of priority to you.. May you not experience heartbreak in the end!!! |
Re: Common sense vs conscience: She Is A Good Girl But From A Poor Background by Nobody: 4:52pm On Aug 25, 2019 |
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Re: Common sense vs conscience: She Is A Good Girl But From A Poor Background by Ofon0909(f): 4:53pm On Aug 25, 2019 |
I think you should try and empower her so she can start her own business. With the business she can support her mum and siblings. This will take a whole lot of stress off your shoulders |
Re: Common sense vs conscience: She Is A Good Girl But From A Poor Background by UrVillagePpl: 4:53pm On Aug 25, 2019 |
Davash222:morethan hundred thousand |
Re: Common sense vs conscience: She Is A Good Girl But From A Poor Background by Nobody: 4:54pm On Aug 25, 2019 |
Sterope:But she got the money from her "ex" na though she lied that an uncle was sponsoring her!!! Red flag |
Re: Common sense vs conscience: She Is A Good Girl But From A Poor Background by chubbyG(m): 4:54pm On Aug 25, 2019 |
I created this account just for this purpose and I might have to deactivate it and follow this thread with with my main account just for privacy reasons. Thanks for your understanding.I really didn't read and digest the story But you both are already in 400 level, why not teach her how to fish too.. Teach her how to make her own money.. Since when did being poor be a flaw.. Anyway, if the wahala tire you... Break up and move on P. S Both of your families are poor yet your school fees is in six figures... |
Re: Common sense vs conscience: She Is A Good Girl But From A Poor Background by Sterope(f): 4:54pm On Aug 25, 2019 |
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Re: Common sense vs conscience: She Is A Good Girl But From A Poor Background by olagbola45(m): 4:56pm On Aug 25, 2019 |
Hmm Its not age that make you mature, it's responsibility. Responsibility has visited you then, you have to take it up. Do not forget she has also been of help before. Who knows maybe it's because of her that you still have small penny with you. |
Re: Common sense vs conscience: She Is A Good Girl But From A Poor Background by okirewaju(f): 4:57pm On Aug 25, 2019 |
This online thing you do can't you teach her also? |
Re: Common sense vs conscience: She Is A Good Girl But From A Poor Background by EdoBoy90(m): 5:14pm On Aug 25, 2019 |
"I had to do some online stuffs that bring money so that I can pay my bills and assist my family." "hope you haven't come again with fraud with this your online stuffs?" this is how they started with online stuffs before US FBI arrested them in the US. |
Re: Common sense vs conscience: She Is A Good Girl But From A Poor Background by Xtabellah(f): 5:21pm On Aug 25, 2019 |
millions is 7 figures actually. I don't think you should send her away,you guys have come a long way,why not give her money to start a business, could be online..so she too can start making money and supporting her family...she is a lady,so she should know the business to do. |
Re: Common sense vs conscience: She Is A Good Girl But From A Poor Background by Timzky(m): 5:22pm On Aug 25, 2019 |
I really appreciate your advice but the thing is that you don't get the full picture because I didn't go into details. The school fees was increased when we were already in school. I did not want to go to another school and start from scratch because I really don't believe in school I was begged and persuaded by my family, including her to go to university because my jamb score was insanely high that time. The thing is that all the people who stood by me then and supported me are all completely dependent on me now and I feel I'm too young for that kind of weight so I'm having a serious conflict between my conscience and common sense. I can't leave my family so that's completely out of the question.sounds like someone schooling in AAU.?? |
Re: Common sense vs conscience: She Is A Good Girl But From A Poor Background by ubanigrant15: 5:43pm On Aug 25, 2019 |
Wisdom will come to play.. From the above I think he loves her. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=orjZjY7kp-Q |
Re: Common sense vs conscience: She Is A Good Girl But From A Poor Background by divineuk(m): 5:50pm On Aug 25, 2019 |
If you can just continue and hope for a better tomorrow after all you are almost done. Maybe forget about the side of her parents and concentrate on her school only 1 Like |
Re: Common sense vs conscience: She Is A Good Girl But From A Poor Background by abdulazeez1002(m): 6:07pm On Aug 25, 2019 |
sanusi44z:What's that? |
Re: Common sense vs conscience: She Is A Good Girl But From A Poor Background by Nobody: 6:09pm On Aug 25, 2019 |
You don't know there are women you will meet and a higher level of poverty will creep into your life. Any woman who you meet and things start getting better for you has a future with you, though not all. But it follows the passage, " He who findeth a wife findeth a good thing and obtaineth FAVOR from the Lord. You met the girl and started seeing favor.and you now want to dump her. I laugh. You don't know some women come with poverty. Don't ever compare yourself with anyone. 1 Like |
Re: Common sense vs conscience: She Is A Good Girl But From A Poor Background by Obynolee(f): 6:44pm On Aug 25, 2019 |
I honestly don't know because we were together for over a year while I was completely broke. Bros if I were you and i have the means,I will keep supporting her not because I am expecting anything from her but because I derive joy knowing that I was able to put smile on someone face.We get our rewards in this life one way or the other. Have you asked yourself why you were able to make it online? or even alive?,many started the same business but failed.A lady who works in a mama put in one of markets with a wage of 500 naira is now in Canada. Nobody knows tomorrow, if man didn't reward good deeds,God will surely do. 3 Likes |
Re: Common sense vs conscience: She Is A Good Girl But From A Poor Background by Zuriel100(m): 7:04pm On Aug 25, 2019 |
big man!!! u guys are almost done from school na...if u love her keep her...stop giving d family money |
Re: Common sense vs conscience: She Is A Good Girl But From A Poor Background by kennyok(m): 7:57pm On Aug 25, 2019 |
Gone through your message But, my little contribution is to beg you to see her through school since you got the capacity right now to do that without having any payback mentality from her.. Don't abandon her now, but stay with her through this, because u said u guys are already in 400l..after then u cud disengage and move on with your life n family if you feels so.. Goodluck 1 Like |
Re: Common sense vs conscience: She Is A Good Girl But From A Poor Background by BamiTii(f): 7:58pm On Aug 25, 2019 |
There are a lot of ladies out there doing things for themselves, I'm also a lady and I work hard to feed myself in school, can't remember the last time my parents sent me money cos they are also managing, to an extent I can say I'm okay. Let her find something to do cos the burden is going to be too much for you. Check my signature 1 Like |
Re: Common sense vs conscience: She Is A Good Girl But From A Poor Background by Fidelarinze9(m): 8:31pm On Aug 25, 2019 |
I really appreciate your advice but the thing is that you don't get the full picture because I didn't go into details. The school fees was increased when we were already in school. I did not want to go to another school and start from scratch because I really don't believe in school I was begged and persuaded by my family, including her to go to university because my jamb score was insanely high that time. The thing is that all the people who stood by me then and supported me are all completely dependent on me now and I feel I'm too young for that kind of weight so I'm having a serious conflict between my conscience and common sense. I can't leave my family so that's completely out of the question. Thank God that people depend on you and you can actually help them, its a privilege. On the girl, if you think you can't cope anymore, politely explain things to her and do the ones u can leaving out the ones u can't. |
Re: Common sense vs conscience: She Is A Good Girl But From A Poor Background by crafteck(m): 9:50pm On Aug 25, 2019 |
Cocotrendz: Been there, she would leave him later |
Re: Common sense vs conscience: She Is A Good Girl But From A Poor Background by Nobody: 10:59pm On Aug 25, 2019 |
stupid post..... you no get anytin and u dey pursue woman.... Nawa o, you knw even knw ur level at all.... just for d sake of i have a girl friend bah... ur eyes go soon open... No leave woman work hard then after u don get money you find woman |
Re: Common sense vs conscience: She Is A Good Girl But From A Poor Background by studentofTruth: 11:22pm On Aug 25, 2019 |
EdoBoy90: It's amazing how Nigerians associate online business with fraud. I don't know what the guy is doing online, but one thing I know is that anybody can legitimately make a living online, working from the comfort of his home. Some even get exceedingly rich (Linda Ikeji, for example). The possibilities online are endless. |
Re: Common sense vs conscience: She Is A Good Girl But From A Poor Background by yelei(m): 12:48am On Aug 26, 2019 |
I I honestly don't know because we were together for over a year while I was completely broke. |
Re: Common sense vs conscience: She Is A Good Girl But From A Poor Background by Emanodimo(m): 4:15am On Aug 26, 2019 |
Bros, u are still in sch. Therefore, focused on ur self, invest in urself, develop ur self to be buiz minded and career minded after school. I can read through your mind that ur interest lies on focusing on ursef and family... Ur interest doesn't lie. Act accordingly to ur interest. Ensure u pass out well, if 400l is ur final year. Once u finally completed ur study, let the help or friendship ends there. Untill she developed her self to be independent. Make it a negotiations thing 50/50... If she desire you after a short break. That's why some feel bad to have a female child... Born with dependence mentality is part of their make up. |
Re: Common sense vs conscience: She Is A Good Girl But From A Poor Background by Nobody: 5:31am On Aug 26, 2019 |
jovialswag: Na yahoo he dey do |
Re: Common sense vs conscience: She Is A Good Girl But From A Poor Background by mystery22: 6:37am On Aug 26, 2019 |
lol bro it's not like that but I didn’t want to go into too much details.I would love to learn this bro |
Re: Common sense vs conscience: She Is A Good Girl But From A Poor Background by LORDKing001: 7:44am On Aug 26, 2019 |
BamiTii:What exactly do you do in school? |
Re: Common sense vs conscience: She Is A Good Girl But From A Poor Background by Alkanoicacid(m): 8:56am On Aug 26, 2019 |
lol bro it's not like that but I didn’t want to go into too much details.Guy tell me this bugging thing na. |
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