Alwaysking:
Shut up and get out of here

virgoquin:

You better respect yourself now because the next time you will mention me to say rubbish I will return the favor too.

OmoAlata1:
That is why I recommend to date a man who has a good job and ugly. Even if he will cheat, it will not come that easily for him.

Toks2008:


Gbam! My point exactly...Everyone cheats whether broke rich ugly or cute but the chances will be reduced.

And when we even say cheating I still wonder how a guy without good money go spend for side chic.

Fountainofyouth:

...if I like a tall guy, it is a preference and I will condition my mind to be have an attraction for anyone tall and there is nothing wrong with that.....

Fountainofyouth:

Pls don't make people think their ideal kind of man will not be available for them, some got him or her and their marriage is working well.

PabloAndreas:

1998?...and judging from d way he looks in dat pic there's a slight chance this guy might as well be 50

Toks2008:


I never mentioned stopped..but will drastically reduce the chance. See let's face it, how many broke guys really cheat? You think it is cheap to cheat i guess..

And how many less attractive ladies cheat easily? there is a huge difference between a lady getting several advances and those that seldom get pressured.

As i wrote, the message in this piece is not what people are commenting on. The bottom line is that ladies love the man every other lady wants hence should not crave for faithfulness but must be prepared for serious competition.

lefulefu:
Toks2008 my guy that believe dat its only when a lady is attractive that she cheats is completely false. I have seen very ugly wives who cheat on their husbands with no iota of concience in dem. I have seen a married woman so ugly dat her face looks the backside of a chimpanzee and yet she still still sleeps around with different men. I have seen short ugly married men with big brown teeth who sleep around with prostitutes and they have mistresses they cater for. Cheating is not about looks. If u want to cheat even if u are physically repulsive there will be someone willing to shag u. If some men are willing to sleep with a mad woman then wats in an ugly woman not able to get a partner.

Toks2008:


Kilagbe kileju?

My point is that cheating is inevitable cos the person you are with will always have qualities other ladies want.

Simple logic.

lefulefu:
Toks2008 my guy that believe dat its only when a lady is attractive that she cheats is completely false. I have seen very ugly wives who cheat on their husbands with no iota of concience in dem. I have seen a married woman so ugly dat her face looks the backside of a chimpanzee and yet she still still sleeps around with different men. I have seen short ugly married men with big brown teeth who sleep around with prostitutes and they have mistresses they cater for. Cheating is not about looks. If u want to cheat even if u are physically repulsive there will be someone willing to shag u. If some men are willing to sleep with a mad woman then wats in an ugly woman not able to get a partner.

joyberry:
Exactly, so u think ugly guys and ladies don't have other qualities people want ?u think relationship is all about appearance and money ?like seriously

lefulefu:
u dont need to be wealthy as a guy to cheat. A vulcaniser or a danfo taxi driver who is married could get an agbo seller as a mistress and she wont be as expensive as dose lekki runz girls. Everybody knows his level. As for ugly ladies my brother there are ugly ladies who cheat like no man's business on their husbands or boyfriends.ladies who arnt attractive also get their army of woers.

IamPlato:
Lets Ask The Elders.. Husbandsnatcha, analqueenluci, adaibeku, rhekina, Jacqueline22 what Do You Say?

Toks2008:


Is it that word "REDUCTiON" that is hard to see?

You talk about vulcanizer and some talk about agbero and I wonder why? Are there no rich vulcanizers? Or is wealth not relative?

It's quite absurd that my message is not passing across. Read the conclusion to get the message.

ednut1:
no mind am

lefulefu:
any married man who wants to cheat will cheat weda broke or poor. There are some girls u maintain with 500k a week while there are others u maintain with just a bottle of malt and roasted plantain . I guess the broke dude will go for the one u maintain with malt drink and roasted plantain. And as for rich vulcanisers yes there are rich vulcanisers as well as broke ones but all of dem dey nack.

dairykidd:

I give up.. i just can't take this anymore

dairykidd:

I give up.. i just can't take this anymore

joyberry:
Uncle toks, i enjoy your writings but i disagree with this article, any body hv the tendency to cheat irrespective of looks,finances, or age.Its just lack of opportunities that make certain people faithful, about the poor guys what if he becomes wealthy tmr or is he gonna be poor forever ?About the non attractive guy,most women favor them like that in sense that they are better lovers in bed.I can't be in a relationship or marriage with someone am not attracted to sef,that might breed cheating on my own part.
Being in a relationship with someone that nobody wants doesn't make sense at all, why do people don't want them in the first place, why just me?In the long run it seems like am doing the person a favor by dating them sef.abeg uncle toks this advice no follow at all

Blissbath:
I vehemently disagree on dis topic.

Toks2008:
If you are a lady who is hell-bent on marrying a man who will RARELY cheat on you then go for broke guys or very unattractive guys so that the LIKELIHOOD of competing with other ladies will be drastically REDUCED ...

theButterfly:
Hmmmm.


Would you want someone who considers you broke and/or unattractive agreeing to marry you simply b/c she knows you'll be faithful to her, but knowing fully well that, she, on the other hand, could be unfaithful w/ a non-broke and/or attractive man behind your back? Your suggestion could work in some cases by reducing the number of men who cheat on their spouses. However, it'll likely promote or increase women's unfaithfulness in marriages.

Adaibeku:













Am happily married ok

OmoAlata1:
As long as there are desperate women everywhere, broke and ugly men can never be faithful. But I do agree that you have less chances if you are with an ugly man. That is why I recommend to date a man who has a good job and ugly. Even if he will cheat, it will not come that easily for him.

The secret women don't know is, ugly men are very very good in bed. They will break your back for you

IamPlato:
that Makes It Better... So Tell Us If He Is Right