adetoroamos:
yes free pussy dey but she stole my heart when she washed all my clothes with bare hands when my washing machine get faulty and no single girl ever done that for me.

Its not by washing clothes. You need a woman you can trust and who can stand for you no matter the situation you find yourself !

Get another lady. You'll forget her quick

Possessedchild:
Im faced with similar issue. Ive got the impression me and her are meant to be alright. We no dey do collabo for now, Im pondering on that.

You must be Possessed

adetoroamos:
how can I control the emotions i have for her. Although she called me and chat me uo but whenever she miss an hour of not calling me or text, mext thing i will do is to check her last seen on WhatsApp or check maybe she’s online on Facebook. Am even afraid maybe she don jazz me

Well, we can't rule the issue of "jazz" out...but I'm yet to get empirical evidence on the voodoo claims... But back to the narrative... Seat down quietly for 2 hours or more alone in a nice lounge with a sheet of paper and a pen...hmmm..( U dey laugh abi)...hmmn your eyes go clear now...

Divide the sheet of paper into 2... Then think through, write, list your expectations from the relationship in one side and the second tick the expectations you feel she's capable of fulfilling or she has fulfilled aside sex...because guy...most ladies do not have anything, I repeat anything tangible to offer aside sex, in the real sense of it....so look beyond the free pussy...since February.. She should have added 1 or 2 improvement in areas of your life...but you can't do this without grabbing a bottle of Budweiser or Heineken's

adetoroamos:
We met around February and we have been doing some intimacy things but i notice she had two kids from different man which I confirmed, but she’s all over my head that am so much in love and am trying to reduce the love or emotions i have for her.

Can you please advice me on how not to get to much emotional to her anymore?

I think you better check out now before you become Baby Daddy nos 3 fast fast. or ask her while 2 baby daddy? whatever that may be her explanation should give you clues to what to do. my one Kobo advice.

adetoroamos:
yes free pussy dey but she stole my heart when she washed all my clothes with bare hands when my washing machine get faulty and no single girl ever done that for me.

Ò tí ní problem...(in reminisce voice)

What the f*uck....any lady fit go to any length to make sure she get u signed dotted pages...guy, guy, guy..how many times did I call you... The dog that will go astray will not listen to the whistle of hunter...

There is nutting called L.O.V.E ...the moment you realize this, the better...nah tolerance and endurance level differs...the only L.O.V.E is what Christ has offered...after that nothing more... All nah exchange.. The moment I erased this mindset since 1998..and replace it with reasoning and rationality... I'm better off... Don't fall for that booby trap of washing bare hands & so f.ucking wat.. Aside from free pussy...what else has she offered on the table or promisingly... Then you're good to go..

adetoroamos:
yes free pussy dey but she stole my heart when she washed all my clothes with bare hands when my washing machine get faulty and no single girl ever done that for me.

bro she is a baby mama with 2 children for 2 men, she has a lot to gaiin by doing that, but I wonder how long she can do that for you .

The comments are really fun to read. OP, I think I did a thread on why it's dangerous to being in a committed relationship with a single mother. In fact, go on YouTube, there are plenty of videos advising men to run away from them. You get to watch from men who were in your position.

Trust me on this, single mom's pussies are the best prior to commitment. It never complains, always available, always wet, always ready and moist. Sometimes, the pussies even contribute financially just to keep you or manipulate you to sign that paper. However, after commitment - it would ruin you, destroy you financially and emotionally. It would complicate your life and make you miserable. The choice is there for you to make. Short term pleasure now and a life of misery in the future. You choose!

b0rn2fuck:
I have dated 3 single mother but to be honest, their pussy means nothing to them as they will entertain you with enough Bleep that will make you fall in love but mind you , one was even receiving dick from her baby daddy in the name of they have resolve and depart again, I have to chase her the second term, the second was not loyal but her pretend no be ham and the third was with two kids, she lost her husband and to be honest, still feel traces of her not loyal too. I do think once a woman open her pussy to doctor to deliver baby, they won't give you hard time before they open it to next person in the name of single woman.

Women will always give birth, and doctors shall always be there

Brother, it is not love ó, it is called lust. So, you better reset your memory back to factory setting before you get consumed. A married guy in my office is paying dearly for his own. Stop calling lust love. May God help you.

Well, love is a beautiful thing. Her past doesn't really matter here, if you really love her then go for her. I know that she had two kids for different men may not speak well but you never know she might have been a victim of circumstances. Everyone deserves a second chance to love and be loved. If she is really over your head as you claimed no need in reducing emotions rather go for her, thing may just workout beautifully...

adetoroamos:
yes free pussy dey but she stole my heart when she washed all my clothes with bare hands when my washing machine get faulty and no single girl ever done that for me.

We sef sabi the drill.

If she wan con jazz you finish, na to dey cook for you remain...

But Lass Lass you dey okay...

Bro you mumu

Sorry to say dat but true...u must be king of mumu
See what is bothering you for this kind country and even get mind to carry am come here for us to discuss

May God have mercy on you

Said dat one of her baby papa bleep her all in the name of seeing his son
And u still talk about love cos she wash cloth for yuh with bare hand when ur washing machine spoil

Chia I'm sorry bro
U never jam babes dat will donate their kidney for u all in the name of married to come and kill u finish

No go use dat ur brain play bet9ja dan be mumuing ursef upandan

Op I've same problem.. though my own is a young married woman, I'm so obsessed with this lady to d extent that I call her almost every hour, one funny things is that I always check her last seen on WhatsApp and got angry anytime I see her online without any word from her. Yes she too loves me in similar vein. Hmm women

MachadoPreto:
Use her for money rituals

MachadoPreto my nigga

i can see that both your monikers MachadoPreto and pvssy is back

behave this time ooo

2 kids from 2 different men.
That doesn't speak well of her.
But anyway mistakes can happen or better still try to find out why she had 2 children for different men.

Back to your question.
Use the ignore button.
Reduce or cut down every communication.
Cut off her visit or reduce it.

adetoroamos:
Nothing wrong loving single mother but i get worried when i know that she’s has two children already.

nothing wrong? Lol, unless the father(s) of those kids are dead, I'd say you should run away. If the fathers of those kids are alive but not present, think about what she would have done to make them not present. .

Boss13:
The comments are really fun to read. OP, I think I did a thread on why it's dangerous to being in a committed relationship with a single mother. In fact, go on YouTube, there are plenty of videos advising men to run away from them. You get to watch from men who were in your position.

Trust me on this, single mom's pussies are the best prior to commitment. It never complains, always available, always wet, always ready and moist. Sometimes, the pussies even contribute financially just to keep you or manipulate you to sign that paper. However, after commitment - it would ruin you, destroy you financially and emotionally. It would complicate your life and make you miserable. The choice is there for you to make. Short term pleasure now and a life of misery in the future. You choose!

the guy will be made the scapegoat of all the men that jilted her. Him go wash pant and train other men's children tire

adetoroamos:
i don knack three girls after and am still obsessed with her even the young girl btw i still chase her away cos of this lady. Can she be using jazz on me?

She is not using any jazz.. this type of feelings do happen. It's natural

davillian:
2 kids from 2 different men.
That doesn't speak well of her.
But anyway mistakes can happen or better still try to find out why she had 2 children for different men.

Back to your question.
Use the ignore button.
Reduce or cut down every communication.
Cut off her visit or reduce it.

No need asking her any question, she will surely cook up stories for him. The lady is a no no for him

Fadafada231:


She is not using any jazz.. this type of feelings do happen. It's natural

why you wan push the guy inside fire now?

adetoroamos:
i don knack three girls after and am still obsessed with her even the young girl btw i still chase her away cos of this lady. Can she be using jazz on me?

mshew juju ko its all in your head jare you just don't want to see her for what she is,a walking talking garage for your penis

Oh my God! It's so painful that people are giving you such advice. To me as far as the person makes you happy there is nothing wrong with that. Did you care to ask why she had kids with different men? Maybe one day you may remember her. If she was daughter of dangote will you leave her? Maybe because of her status? As far as the person has the qualities to be with you forget about the number of children. (qualities such as money, education, character, ability to think and work, caring etc depending on your status. It can happen to anyone. She may even be the one that will lift you.... Just try and do small research about her before anything...

adetoroamos:
We met around February and we have been doing some intimacy things but i notice she had two kids from different man which I confirmed, but she’s all over my head that am so much in love and am trying to reduce the love or emotions i have for her.

Can you please advice me on how not to get to much emotional to her anymore?

2 kids from different man and you are there to make it third.....some men get mind sha

favour32:

Nothing to worry about.
She made some mistake in the past or not her fault.
She won't want a repeat of such nature.
Single ladies(mothers) are best in recent times.
Do not let people's opinions to discourage you as if single ladies(mothers) are demonic.
What are about single fathers?
Are they demonic too?

Nawa for u... U that can't marry a single mother of one, u r advising one to marry of two and 2 fathers... Bro u no try...
Let her locate her husbanda except she gat so many attitude they can't tolerate

Thesame thing that got the first two attracted to the lady before they realized they were in kege has gotten you also, that's no big deal ma broda, just contribute your own quota to the industry, then take a bow and leave, simple!!!

adetoroamos:
nawa ooo! Ontop my topic u dey display love lmao


And thnks everyone it sms d lady is finding her way and I deleted my WhatsApp messenger today and she hasn’t call but am thinking in my mind that i hurt her �

Should I replace her asap or I should chill till December to find another babe?

Amos Amos Amos Amos Amos Amos Amos

Find out about her two baby daddies first and the reason they rejected her.... I'm telling u, single mother of one sef can be humble not to talk of 2 with 2 different fathers... She will be super humble but the moment she gain her stand in ur life, no backing out for u.

Moreover ladies are very weak, any of her baby daddies may call her anytime in the name of baby, she might not telling u I swear to God.... She will go and Bleep them again.....

I repeat, find out why they rejected her.. They know her better than you. She was real with them, she might be pretending to u to gain favour.... Maybe dt that is what happened that made her second baby daddy saw this and dumped her.... Be wise Son

adetoroamos:
We met around February and we have been doing some intimacy things but i notice she had two kids from different man which I confirmed, but she’s all over my head that am so much in love and am trying to reduce the love or emotions i have for her.

Can you please advice me on how not to get to much emotional to her anymore?

Don't worry, with time she will help you to reduce am .We are waiting for the next thread when you will start complaining about her

Gosh...

Nairaland is too toxic. With these kind of comments, shows its really kids all over here.

Op, live your life and forget unnecessary worries, what matters in any relationship is peace of mind and happiness. If you get that with her. Then you have nothing to beat your head over for.

See how everybody is shaking the lady for accepting her kids and raising them, no single person on this thread said anything about the useless men that abandoned those kids with her, now even you wants to end the beautiful thing you both share just because she is responsible enough to keep her kids and not abort them, and also raise the kids. What a world.

You'd appreciate it if she aborted those kids right.? It's okay.

If only you know what it takes to find true happiness in relationships, how hard it is to find that better half out there.. You'd behave and have sense.

If it will be it will be. If not it won't.. Enjoy your life pls

XhosaNostra:
Sometimes I wonder how old some of the people making submissions here on NL are. So unbelievably stupid & shallow minded.

Not surprised it's coming from a lady!

Sometimes a man just need to hear the truth from people of experience.

No single mum can love another man wholeheartedly.
You just have to play second fiddle for the rest of your life, and if she gives you kids (I mean if, she's already fulfilled in that regard) you just can't get over the feeling your kids are just a consolation price.

JIDECAC:
see your way of reasoning. So because she is a mom with 2 kids from TWO different men, she's not competent to be love?

Marry her na or give her brother...

[quote author=adetoroamos post=81577915] yes free pussy dey but she stole my heart when she washed all my clothes with bare hands when my washing machine get faulty and no single girl ever done that for me.[/quote
Any girl that is interested in you will do that and even much more than that.