adetoroamos:
yes free pussy dey but she stole my heart when she washed all my clothes with bare hands when my washing machine get faulty and no single girl ever done that for me.

Any girl that is interested in you will do that and even much more than that.

PUSSYHOE:
Who could know what God is/was doing than speculate. Adam existed before eve and survive even if its 1minute, then eve came and her survival has been attached to the man.

Millions of men have existed, survived and lived a happy life without a woman but i have never read or heard anywhere about a woman.

Let me burst your bubble

Priceless200:
Gosh...

Nairaland is too toxic. With these kind of comments, shows its really kids all over here.

Op, live your life and forget unnecessary worries, what matters in any relationship is peace of mind and happiness. If you get that with her. Then you have nothing to beat your head over for.

See how everybody is shaking the lady for accepting her kids and raising them, no single person on this thread said anything about the useless men that abandoned those kids with her, now even you wants to end the beautiful thing you both share just because she is responsible enough to keep her kids and not abort them, and also raise the kids. What a world.

You'd appreciate it if she aborted those kids right.? It's okay.

If only you know what it takes to find true happiness in relationships, how hard it is to find that better half out there.. You'd behave and have sense.

If it will be it will be. If not it won't.. Enjoy your life pls

I love it when you all play the mature card and talk about happiness! When a lady have two children from two men who abandoned her, wouldn't you want to know why!

Can you as a lady in good conscience marry to a man as third wife, of course not!

Don't give us those excuses of happiness and stuff, happiness is a state of mind! She opened her leg for the men and yes those men have their path in all this, that doesn't make it his fault! (You guys should learn to accept responsibility, you enjoyed it as much as the man, if you know enjoyment what all you wanted, why didn't you request for a condom, or you want to say it's a mistake (twice!)).

The fact that he asked here means he is bothered, and we will be wicked not telling him he he should be careful and watch before he becomes the 3rd husband.

Firstorderwizard:
Run from baby mamas oo , I got trapped to one cos of her good culinary skills( Calabar soup things) and bedmatics . How I came back to my senses after almost proposing to her remains a miracle

Vague report. Please tell us more of what was wrong with her.

Is there any need for you to reduce the love you have for her? Maybe, you have not known her much. If it is so, try and see her as any other girl, sobering up, and having heart-to-heart talk with her concerning the fathers of the two kids.
Did she tell you that the children came from two different fathers, or you just discovered by yourself?

adetoroamos:
We met around February and we have been doing some intimacy things but i notice she had two kids from different man which I confirmed, but she’s all over my head that am so much in love and am trying to reduce the love or emotions i have for her.

Can you please advice me on how not to get to much emotional to her anymore?

You met her in February and you are already intimate before even knowing she has 2 kids? Now you want to reduce the love while still having sex despite your findings.

adetoroamos:
We met around February and we have been doing some intimacy things but i notice she had two kids from different man which I confirmed, but she’s all over my head that am so much in love and am trying to reduce the love or emotions i have for her.

Can you please advice me on how not to get to much emotional to her anymore?

she will have d 3rd kid from u and move unto d 4th man.i am not morally bankrupt so I can not go naked for a girl that has gotten a child before.no be me

Awe4luv:

Bros I hail ooo, but y do u like slacked pussy this much?

Try and pray hard to God and he alone can deliver you.

adetoroamos:
yes free pussy dey but she stole my heart when she washed all my clothes with bare hands when my washing machine get faulty and no single girl ever done that for me.

oga being single an doing all that for u alone sud make u think str8ght dat she's looking for a home for her children. Wake up bro

adetoroamos:
yes free pussy dey but she stole my heart when she washed all my clothes with bare hands when my washing machine get faulty and no single girl ever done that for me.

By washing ur clothes with her bare hand means she don remove ur BRIAN BOX .....if only she can tell u d truth behind d baby daddies or else u'll make d third

adetoroamos:
yes free pussy dey but she stole my heart when she washed all my clothes with bare hands when my washing machine get faulty and no single girl ever done that for me.

It's no big deal when a lady uses her bare hands to wash clothes.. Give someone else a chance and see if she wont do more than what she does. Or let me take her place. Lol

Modernist:
One thing I learnt from my parents is that never burden yourself with Another man's responsibility, NEVER.

they are wise!

Whats wrong in falling in love with her? Have you notice any strange things in her that makes you feel you are taking a wrong step? Being a single mother does not necessarily mean she is wayward she might be a victim of circumstance. If her character, reasoning, way of life compliment that of a near perfect woman.. then dont jeopardize whay you guys share for a shallow mentality. Be wise!

bamdupsy28:


It's no big deal when a lady uses her bare hands to wash clothes.. Give someone else a chance and see if she wont do more than what she does. Or let me take her place. Lol

can u pls come into my life just to forget this lady

PUSSYHOE:
Oh my God two men have already used her to produce two babies and you are in love with her, Love hates you. No wonder girls are always praying for guys to fall in love with them.

If this is true love people are always talking about God i don't want it.

Am not saying she is a saint but pls give her a chance

some idiot may have taking advantage of her maybe when u still fresh and ignorant


out to enjoy life

pls let not treat her like she get all the fault until we get her own side of story

Analysiscorner:
Is there any need for you to reduce the love you have for her? Maybe, you have not known her much. If it is so, try and see her as any other girl, sobering up, and having heart-to-heart talk with her concerning the fathers of the two kids.
Did she tell you that the children came from two different fathers, or you just discovered by yourself?

i discover myself and she told me it’s just only one

Stop nacking her

Whats wrong in falling in love with her? Being a single mother dont necessarily means that she is wayward, she might he a victim of circumstance. Have you notice anything that makes you feel you are getting with the wrong person or direction? Study her character, carriage, intentions, and way of life and if all these compliments that of a near perfect woman then dont jeopardize what you guys share cos of shallow mentality
Be wise!

komodapson:


Well, we can't rule the issue of "jazz" out...but I'm yet to get empirical evidence on the voodoo claims... But back to the narrative... Seat down quietly for 2 hours or more alone in a nice lounge with a sheet of paper and a pen...hmmm..( U dey laugh abi)...hmmn your eyes go clear now...

Divide the sheet of paper into 2... Then think through, write, list your expectations from the relationship in one side and the second tick the expectations you feel she's capable of fulfilling or she has fulfilled aside sex...because guy...most ladies do not have anything, I repeat anything tangible to offer aside sex, in the real sense of it....so look beyond the free pussy...since February.. She should have added 1 or 2 improvement in areas of your life...but you can't do this without grabbing a bottle of Budweiser or Heineken's

bless you bro

The problem is having two children for two men

adetoroamos:
We met around February and we have been doing some intimacy things but i notice she had two kids from different man which I confirmed, but she’s all over my head that am so much in love and am trying to reduce the love or emotions i have for her.

Can you please advice me on how not to get to much emotional to her anymore?

Did she inform you that she had two kids? Did she do her utmost to keep you in total darkness regarding this? Was she afraid of losing you hence the silence? Was she,planning of telling you eventually?

Yes, she has 2 kids for 2 different men which also means 2 kids she did not abort. Do you know many "good" girls out there by now should be mothers of four or even six if abortions did not exist?

Try and test this woman if she's the real deal. Forget she has 2 kids. If you really like her and you let her go, you'll regret it down the road. Also ask yourself if you're ready to be a good father to her kids. If not, perhaps reconsider.

Blackivy27:
i didnt want to mention you. If he loves the kids why not. African mentality states that if the kid aint yours give the child up. Thats why childless families would rather break up than adopt a baby.

b!tch im a virgin. Tell you a secret if i want to, i'll bury your as$ to the ground. A hymen doesnt make me a good gal. Okay its personal choice. A hoe might have more love than a virgin.

Shut up! Which virgin? Blatant liar

adetoroamos:
nawa ooo! Ontop my topic u dey display love lmao


And thnks everyone it sms d lady is finding her way and I deleted my WhatsApp messenger today and she hasn’t call but am thinking in my mind that i hurt her �

Should I replace her asap or I should chill till December to find another babe?

this your story come dey be like forged gist to me with this you comment above.

adetoroamos:
you could av ignore him, I reply some sensible comments only and why can’t you be like me

Common sense you don't have, you better act like a man not a sissy.

DenreleDave:



Nawa for u... U that can't marry a single mother of one, u r advising one to marry of two and 2 fathers... Bro u no try...
Let her locate her husbanda except she gat so many attitude they can't tolerate

Mark 10:17-18
(17)As Jesus started on His way,a man ran up and knelt before Him."Good Teacher," he cried.
"What must I do to inherit eternal life?"
(18)"Why do you call me good?" Jesus replied.
"No one is good except God alone."
____Berean Study Bible.

People have been indoctrinated to conclude that single mothers are demonic .Why claim self holiness where nobody is pure.
What about single fathers?
Are they pure?Is it because single fathers are not always seen with their kids.
Many have been deceived by single fathers
who deny ever had kids.
The OP seeks opinions from nairaland community but many who had no experience in the matter claimed professional advisers.
Let it be known that single mothers are not demonic but have the propensity to be good wives.
Sometimes, do not comment if you have nothing meaningful to say as you will not be killed for doing nothing.
Op, do not allow "small boys" that can barely handle girls to advise you on this sensitive matter.
You have got the final say.

sawdi:


Are you getting attention from other ladies?

this comment is making me to laugh............

GogobiriLalas:
Run fool!

words of Gandalf!

Fadafada231:
Op I've same problem.. though my own is a young married woman, I'm so obsessed with this lady to d extent that I call her almost every hour, one funny things is that I always check her last seen on WhatsApp and got angry anytime I see her online without any word from her. Yes she too loves me in similar vein. Hmm women

na another person wife you dey talk about so o. my world!

usoroh4luv:
Avoid her. Don't call and don't take her calls. Look for a mistake she will make and quarrel her.

You bringing this here for advice means that your eyes don dey clear small small. It is well.

First one chop run away, second chop run away.

My Question is if she is gud why do they run away? Don't forget she treat them nice as well.

Bross zip up and run or you will realize, it when you drop your pikin aswell.

Na only two you see what of those who f**k never put belle?

Take SNIPPER

DenreleDave:




Amos Amos Amos Amos Amos Amos Amos

Find out about her two baby daddies first and the reason they rejected her.... I'm telling u, single mother of one sef can be humble not to talk of 2 with 2 different fathers... She will be super humble but the moment she gain her stand in ur life, no backing out for u.

Moreover ladies are very weak, any of her baby daddies may call her anytime in the name of baby, she might not telling u I swear to God.... She will go and Bleep them again.....

I repeat, find out why they rejected her.. They know her better than you. She was real with them, she might be pretending to u to gain favour.... Maybe dt that is what happened that made her second baby daddy saw this and dumped her.... Be wise Son

wise words.................