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Re: How Can I Reduce The Love I Have For This Lady? by Nobody: 11:18am On Aug 26, 2019
neutrotoba:


Do you live close to each other?
another state
Re: How Can I Reduce The Love I Have For This Lady? by neutrotoba(m): 11:20am On Aug 26, 2019
adetoroamos:
another state

Then stay off social media for a while, and reduce the calls.

Distance will then do its thing
Re: How Can I Reduce The Love I Have For This Lady? by Nobody: 11:22am On Aug 26, 2019
olumalcolm:
bro is she older than you? if YES, bro shift. if NO, NA U KNW. how many years she tk senior u? grin, do u feel she loves you too?if YES, notin stops u frm loving her too but just knw u r on a thin line cos her children would always come first and if u eventually get married to her, her kids will still come b4 ur kids. can u cater for her 2kids now? Let me tell u smtin, she will still be sleeping with one of her baby daddies and once u start complaining of her promiscuity, she will tell u she is still seeing him cos she does not have enof to cater for dose kids except u wnt to carry the bills like wyclef. But on a light note, i wont lie to you, most single mothers are not LOYAL.
extactly! This issue came up one time that she off her phone for like a whole day. How will i stop been to much emotional to her
Re: How Can I Reduce The Love I Have For This Lady? by Nobody: 11:24am On Aug 26, 2019
BlvckSoul:



I wish I had seen this post 4 years ago. Wouldn’t have made such a huge mistake.
did you marry a single mother too, gist me naa
Re: How Can I Reduce The Love I Have For This Lady? by Nobody: 11:25am On Aug 26, 2019
pps1759:
Hope the woman no b cele or muslim
lmao! Maybe e don jazz me fah
Re: How Can I Reduce The Love I Have For This Lady? by Nobody: 11:27am On Aug 26, 2019
neutrotoba:


Then stay off social media for a while, and reduce the calls.

Distance will then do its thing
am doing it and she’s doing the calling now and i just dey tease her that whenever she’s done with either workout or food she should call me lol
Re: How Can I Reduce The Love I Have For This Lady? by sheDD(m): 12:14pm On Aug 26, 2019
adetoroamos:
yes free pussy dey but she stole my heart when she washed all my clothes with bare hands when my washing machine get faulty and no single girl ever done that for me.
Nonsense!!
Re: How Can I Reduce The Love I Have For This Lady? by ghettochild(m): 1:04pm On Aug 26, 2019
Oyo lowa o..
because her toto tight small...boya lomo pe na alum .com
Re: How Can I Reduce The Love I Have For This Lady? by DevilhimseIf: 1:24pm On Aug 26, 2019
grin
Re: How Can I Reduce The Love I Have For This Lady? by Jeferious: 1:37pm On Aug 26, 2019
mulero23:
You guys don't even respect this one that gave birth to hers... What of those that have destroyed theirs through abortions ... May God have mercy on ladies
What of if the child was too stubborn to abort? As in aborting that child means that she would also have to die? Thus she had to bear the child in order to save her life....have you even considered it from this angle?

My dear, if you don't have standards, I do.
Re: How Can I Reduce The Love I Have For This Lady? by Nobody: 1:39pm On Aug 26, 2019
ghettochild:
Oyo lowa o..
because her toto tight small...boya lomo pe na alum .com
Lmao
Re: How Can I Reduce The Love I Have For This Lady? by Xburn(m): 2:11pm On Aug 26, 2019
adetoroamos:
Nothing wrong loving single mother but i get worried when i know that she’s has two children already.
How is that a single mother.. Keyword : Different men
Re: How Can I Reduce The Love I Have For This Lady? by BlvckSoul(m): 3:37pm On Aug 26, 2019
adetoroamos:
did you marry a single mother too, gist me naa

No, dated one. Worst mistake of my life.
I’m out of it now sha. Had to take off but still emotionally attached and I want that ugly feeling out of my life.

Believe me when I say she messed up my life.
Re: How Can I Reduce The Love I Have For This Lady? by uberguy(m): 3:40pm On Aug 26, 2019
adetoroamos:
yes free pussy dey but she stole my heart when she washed all my clothes with bare hands when my washing machine get faulty and no single girl ever done that for me.

Yes, that act inspires love. But you should ask yourself what her motive and benefits are, then you can tell if it is worth consideration. Anyone can please you to get what they want.
Remember Samson and Delilah.

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Re: How Can I Reduce The Love I Have For This Lady? by Nobody: 3:41pm On Aug 26, 2019
BlvckSoul:


No, dated one. Worst mistake of my life.
I’m out of it now sha. Had to take off but still emotionally attached and I want that ugly feeling out of my life.

Believe me when I say she messed up my life.
I’m emotional with this one too but am still trying to find my way out
Re: How Can I Reduce The Love I Have For This Lady? by missjo(f): 3:43pm On Aug 26, 2019
Awe4luv:

dear missjo, there is a very thing line between help and responsibility....try to get that first.....
Ok
Re: How Can I Reduce The Love I Have For This Lady? by aldelly2003(m): 4:12pm On Aug 26, 2019
bro I beg run for ur dear life,I fall into the same shit ,it took me 7 f.cking yrs to get out of it,same like u I call her like 20 time a day for 7yrs then she had a child ,from a previous marriage ,before she had my,bro just ask her what happened to the 1st guy and the second guy that the men ran away ,bro we broke up last yr,bro ask her y she broke up with the fathers of the two kids,run hope she never cook u vegetable's soup sha,just run for ur dear life ,if not for Yahweh I almost lost my life ,I thank Him am back on my feet bro run o,the rod she used in beating the two men ,is just in one corner awaiting u.

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Re: How Can I Reduce The Love I Have For This Lady? by aldelly2003(m): 4:23pm On Aug 26, 2019
[quote author=adetoroamos post=81577130]We met around February and we have been doing some intimacy things but i notice she had two kids from different man which I confirmed, but she’s all over my head that am so much in love and am trying to reduce the love or emotions i have for her.

Can you please advice me on how not to get to much emotional to her anymore?


run bro ,just ask are only one question, y did she broke up with ,the fathers of the two kids ,a leopard does not change its spots ,telling u out of a terrible experience

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Re: How Can I Reduce The Love I Have For This Lady? by Nobody: 4:34pm On Aug 26, 2019
Re: How Can I Reduce The Love I Have For This Lady? by Nobody: 4:35pm On Aug 26, 2019
mulero23:
How would a virgin destroy? It is those ladies who have done several abortions parading themselves as wife materials good option?... I stand with virgin gang...
a man's main weakness isn't his libido but ego. A virgin can manipulate this. Chastity doesn't make one innocent.
Re: How Can I Reduce The Love I Have For This Lady? by Nobody: 4:36pm On Aug 26, 2019
[quote author=Alwaysking post=81613520]Shut up! Which virgin? Blatant liar[/quote ok]
Re: How Can I Reduce The Love I Have For This Lady? by Childishbanjino(m): 4:40pm On Aug 26, 2019
Blackivy27:

i know i know. it felt random. But trust me i followed this thread and was really impressed with how well you expressed your points, and how you handled the conversations that supervened.
Single mothers get too much stick in this streets.
Re: How Can I Reduce The Love I Have For This Lady? by Nobody: 4:44pm On Aug 26, 2019
Childishbanjino:


i know i know. it felt random. But trust me i followed this thread and was really impressed with how well you expressed your points, and how you handled the conversations that supervened.
Single mothers get too much stick in this streets.
thanks. I just don't think people should be judged so quickly.
Re: How Can I Reduce The Love I Have For This Lady? by Nobody: 4:49pm On Aug 26, 2019
Awe4luv:

as much as I love your salient points, I would love u to trash this out, are u saying the woman wouldn't tell the kids later in future who their father was?, are u saying the father wouldn't ask for his children later? are u saying the kids wouldn't wanna meet their real father later?, are u saying the guy should shoulder the responsibilities with his unborn kids assuming he planned to birth 3 kids?
it depends. I know so adults who love their step parents as much as their own. If he is financially capable. If he loves the kids.
Re: How Can I Reduce The Love I Have For This Lady? by Nobody: 4:50pm On Aug 26, 2019
Awe4luv:

forget maturity, she's just trying to package herself so she could dump her loads into the man's life, do u know marry such woman has so many things involved?....did u read the experience of that guy that has dated up to three to 5 of them....op once de be na forever de be o, no b only u dey pound the yam
okay. But not all single mothers. I've met some that are so mature.
Re: How Can I Reduce The Love I Have For This Lady? by aniblue(m): 4:53pm On Aug 26, 2019
PUSSYHOE:
Oh my God two men have already used her to produce two babies and you are in love with her, Love hates you. No wonder girls are always praying for guys to fall in love with them.

If this is true love people are always talking about God i don't want it.

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