Jeferious:
Can you give your own blood brother this same advice?

u ask am well, I don't kw. I have noticed ladies for this particular behavior, all becus of lve way no get meaning they will want u to settle for a relationship dat everybody knows will yield nothing,
a mother of 2 for not same man but different men, I once had a friend like dat in campus, bro these type of lady call single mother sleeps around like hell, make op day deceive himself thinking she is d only one dat she is rolling with,

Some guys are just too dump, u kw see single girl follow na who don born u day eye,

the last time I checked in 9ja society marriage between a guy and a single mother doesn't last ,most times the guy becomes a puppet in the hux, check around and see

[quote author=Blackivy27 post=81630572][/quote]Babe why are you lying

adetoroamos:
We met around February and we have been doing some intimacy things but i notice she had two kids from different man which I confirmed, but she’s all over my head that am so much in love and am trying to reduce the love or emotions i have for her.

Can you please advice me on how not to get to much emotional to her anymore?

My brother it will soon pass over you. It happened like that to the other 2 men you mentioned before. She was all over their heads too and behold you have seen the exhibits. Good luck to U my brother. More strength to your waist..

adetoroamos:
yes but I don’t love them as I cherish this lady so much, could it be she’s using jazz or otunmopo on me?

My brother, this screenshot is for you.

sawdi:


My brother, this screenshot is for you.

thanks bro

aldelly2003:
bro I beg run for ur dear life,I fall into the same shit ,it took me 7 f.cking yrs to get out of it,same like u I call her like 20 time a day for 7yrs then she had a child ,from a previous marriage ,before she had my,bro just ask her what happened to the 1st guy and the second guy that the men ran away ,bro we broke up last yr,bro ask her y she broke up with the fathers of the two kids,run hope she never cook u vegetable's soup sha,just run for ur dear life ,if not for Yahweh I almost lost my life ,I thank Him am back on my feet bro run o,the rod she used in beating the two men ,is just in one corner awaiting u.

e be liks say i don chop vegetables oooh! But am trying to get unemotional about her. What should i do

adetoroamos:
lmao! Maybe e don jazz me fah

no be me talk am

larryking540:

u ask am well, I don't kw. I have noticed ladies for this particular behavior, all becus of lve way no get meaning they will want u to settle for a relationship dat everybody knows will yield nothing,
a mother of 2 for not same man but different men, I once had a friend like dat in campus, bro these type of lady call single mother sleeps around like hell, make op day deceive himself thinking she is d only one dat she is rolling with,

Some guys are just too dump, u kw see single girl follow na who don born u day eye,

the last time I checked in 9ja society marriage between a guy and a single mother doesn't last ,most times the guy becomes a puppet in the hux, check around and see

We don try help am. E remain make im help imself

Fadafada231:
Op I've same problem.. though my own is a young married woman, I'm so obsessed with this lady to d extent that I call her almost every hour, one funny things is that I always check her last seen on WhatsApp and got angry anytime I see her online without any word from her. Yes she too loves me in similar vein. Hmm women

Married woman??!!. All I see is a coffin

e be liks say i don chop vegetables
oooh! But am trying to get
unemotional about her. What
should i do
I will ask u 3 questions,how did u meet her,2 what kind of Church does she goes,3 when did she break up with last father of her 2 child and y, I will tell u bros just be prayerful and try to avoid her ,their a lot of women like that ,that are destiny killer ,bro it took me 7yrs b4 my eye clear o,I left euro to come and marry her after 7yrs ,I come c well well ,bros jazz dey o,I never believed but now I do. am just getting back on my feet ,you are under a spell and u can't kW it ,only does outside the relationship will c it

e be liks say i don chop vegetables
oooh! But am trying to get
unemotional about her. What
should i do
I will ask u 3 questions,how did u meet her,2 what kind of Church does she goes,3 when did she break up with last father of her 2 child and y, I will tell u bros just be prayerful and try to avoid her ,their a lot of women like that ,that are destiny killer ,bro it took me 7yrs b4 my eye clear o,I leftg l
Europe to come and marry her after 7yrs ,I come c well well ,bros jazz dey o,I never believed but now I do. am just getting back on my feet ,you are under a spell and u can't kW it ,only does outside the relationship will c it

adetoroamos:
e be liks say i don chop vegetables oooh! But am trying to get unemotional about her. What should i do

3 question I have for u,1.how did u meet her,2.did she told u y d father of her last child left and when ,3 what kind of church does she goes 4.what does she do for a living

adetoroamos:
am too emotional on her. I check all her last seen whenevershe didnt call or text within an hour imagine!

Bro, I see nothing wrong with what you're doing, in as much as the love is mutual. However, try to work on yourself so that your emotions won't make you insecure in your relationship. People always get emotional when they first fall in love, but as time goes on they become mature, it happens to everybody. If you buy a new phone today you will start pampering the phone, you won't want it to fall, you won't want to use another charger on the phone except the one that comes with it. The same thing applies to human relationship, checking her status, getting annoyed when she reads your whatsapp chats without replying on time are all sign of love which is very idea at the this stage. You don't have to reduce any thing because; time, distance, closeness and your busy work schedule will reduce it. But don't let it make you insecure, bcox insecurity will end up killing the relationship. And believe me you're not "human wrapper" as your friends may think. And the fact that she has two kids means nothing serious; but study her without emotions and know if she's competent to be a wife and a mother. A wife through how she addresses you her family and your family members, a mother through how she adresses her kids. Shalom!

Alwaysking:
Babe why are you lying

Im 16 if you believe i aint a virgin its your choice. Doesnt affect me. Peace

aldelly2003:
e be liks say i don chop vegetables
oooh! But am trying to get
unemotional about her. What
should i do
I will ask u 3 questions,how did u meet her,2 what kind of Church does she goes,3 when did she break up with last father of her 2 child and y, I will tell u bros just be prayerful and try to avoid her ,their a lot of women like that ,that are destiny killer ,bro it took me 7yrs b4 my eye clear o,I leftg l
Europe to come and marry her after 7yrs ,I come c well well ,bros jazz dey o,I never believed but now I do. am just getting back on my feet ,you are under a spell and u can't kW it ,only does outside the relationship will c it

Bros, don't mind Op

Something is wrong with his brain box. I have dated one before when single. I will not share my experience because a sheep that will get lost will not listen to the horn of an hunter. I was ready to marry her. I enjoyed best sex l have ever enjoy in my entire life but when reality done on me, l knew single mothers are not smiling. My advice for you from my experience is



Run for your life.

JIDECAC:
Bro, I see nothing wrong with what you're doing, in as much as the love is mutual. However, try to work on yourself so that your emotions won't make you insecure in your relationship. People always get emotional when they first fall in love, but as time goes on they become mature, it happens to everybody. If you buy a new phone today you will start pampering the phone, you won't want it to fall, you won't want to use another charger on the phone except the one that comes with it. The same thing applies to human relationship, checking her status, getting annoyed when she reads your whatsapp chats without replying on time are all sign of love which is very idea at the this stage. You don't have to reduce any thing because; time, distance, closeness and your busy work schedule will reduce it. But don't let it make you insecure, bcox insecurity will end up killing the relationship. And believe me you're not "human wrapper" as your friends may think. And the fact that she has two kids means nothing serious; but study her without emotions and know if she's competent to be a wife and a mother. A wife through how she addresses you her family and your family members, a mother through how she adresses her kids. Shalom!

Thank you bro

adetoroamos:
Thank you bro

you're welcome

aldelly2003:
e be liks say i don chop vegetables
oooh! But am trying to get
unemotional about her. What
should i do
I will ask u 3 questions,how did u meet her,2 what kind of Church does she goes,3 when did she break up with last father of her 2 child and y, I will tell u bros just be prayerful and try to avoid her ,their a lot of women like that ,that are destiny killer ,bro it took me 7yrs b4 my eye clear o,I leftg l
Europe to come and marry her after 7yrs ,I come c well well ,bros jazz dey o,I never believed but now I do. am just getting back on my feet ,you are under a spell and u can't kW it ,only does outside the relationship will c it

how did you free your mind about her

adetoroamos:
extactly! This issue came up one time that she off her phone for like a whole day. How will i stop been to much emotional to her

1) if you guys stay close to each other, change location. 2) Whenever you are alone, try to get one of ur friends to spend time with. 3) This could sound crazy but it works, if you loves games, download 1 or 2 nice games on ur fone and play it everyday. Maybe one of those adventure games like grandtheft, with time, u will be thinking of the next stage of the game rather than her. It may sound childish but it works for me very very well. When something starts giving me headache or i need to take smtin off my mind, na to just play game(s) and off it goes.

olumalcolm:
1) if you guys stay close to each other, change location. 2) Whenever you are alone, try to get one of ur friends to spend time with. 3) This could sound crazy but it works, if you loves games, download 1 or 2 nice games on ur fone and play it everyday. Maybe one of those adventure games like grandtheft, with time, u will be thinking of the next stage of the game rather than her. It may sound childish but it works for me very very well. When something starts giving me headache or i need to take smtin off my mind, na to just play game(s) and off it goes.

thank you

JIDECAC:
see your way of reasoning. So because she is a mom with 2 kids from TWO different men, she's not competent to be loved?

If she wasn't married to any of the two men that got her pregnant, Yes she's not.

She's careless, irresponsible and very poor at decision making. Smart people learn from the mistakes of others but this one failed to even learn from her own mistake.

Can you take such a woman to your family as a bride?

pcguru1:
Ubunja should be in this thread any moment from now, magneto dude is *drawn* to single mother thread.

Omo no be small thing of the Ubunja dey attack me about my thread on single moms yesterday no be here

Martin0:


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it not all single mother's that are are wayward some are very responsible I know of one she has 3 kid's the first two are same father the last one has his own father presently a man has proposed to her and the wedding date has been fixed some of this woman have been through things it he who wear the shoe's that know where it pitches my bro if you love this lady truly and you feel she loves you too you guys should talk like adults make her understand your stand you just can tell

Blackivy27:
Im 16 if you believe i aint a virgin its your choice. Doesnt affect me. Peace

I will have to test you first, if not I don't believe you, most girls who claims to be virgins are not.

Alwaysking:
I will have to test you first, if not I don't believe you, most girls who claims to be virgins are not.

Blackivy27:

I'm waiting for you in my room.

Alwaysking:
I'm waiting for you in my room.

Keep waiting. I dont mind.

Blackivy27:
Keep waiting. I dont mind.

If you don't come it means you are hiding something, perhaps, you are not a virgin after all.

Alwaysking:
If you don't come it means you are hiding something, perhaps, you are not a virgin after all.

no address?

Blackivy27:
no address?

 3, Oba Akran Avenue, Ikeja, Lagos

I will be waiting...