So guys how do I intelligently bypass this question without ruining the relationship. Some will even go ahead and ask why do you love me as if I said I love them.

. still waiting, 'tis night.

Lol

Christiano25:
Lol

Is this an answer?

Simply dont encourage her.

Just say you love YouTube. Always try to evade and answer something else but never ever answer this question directly. It's a trap.

Take control, set the rules of engagement. Let it be known that you're just after canal pleasure. This will save you from unnecessary wahala.

If she's still clueless and asks then tell her the truth. Don't lie and no matter what happens or how sweet her honeypot is don't tell her you love her if you really don't. That's a mortal sin

tensazangetsu20:
Just say you love YouTube. Always try to evade and answer something else but never ever answer this question directly. It's a trap.

lmfao. I love You........ Tube.

Blackivy27:
Simply dont encourage her.

tell me more please.

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tensazangetsu20:
Just say you love YouTube. Always try to evade and answer something else but never ever answer this question directly. It's a trap.

yeah it a huge trap, I can imagine myself saying

ubunja:
lmfao. I love You........ Tube.

She laughs then she talks in a more serious tone 'do you love me or you just wasting my time?'

Then don't date someone who will ask.




Go for slayqueens and prostitutes.

WaywardSon:
Take control, set the rules of engagement. Let it be known that you're just after canal pleasure. This will save you from unnecessary wahala.

If she's still clueless and asks then tell her the truth. Don't lie and no matter what happens or how sweet her honeypot is don't tell her you love her if you really don't. That's a mortal sin

this is not a honeypot relationship. This is a like a romeo, Juliet romantic relationship where the girl wanna make sure she is not into the wrong person. Tell her you don't love her, the relationship dies instantly.

MariaLavina:
Then don't date someone who will ask.

Like seriously?

Go for slayqueens and prostitutes.

Okay, I do not seek honey pots, honey comb or whatever you guys call it. Maybe I do a little but it not the main purpose of the relationship. And I can never go that low for slay queen let alone prostitutes.

Whether you tell her that you love or not , breakup wey go happen go still happen.

Do you love me? You: Yes, It is not love.

Blackivy27:
Simply dont encourage her.

It's really as simple as this. These guys are fond of leading innocent naive girls on with chummy chummy behavior & getting her all mushy mushy, then go on to complain when she starts asking that sort of question

Cockanfanta:
Like seriously?

Okay, I do not seek honey pots, honey comb or whatever you guys call it. Maybe I do a little but it not the main purpose of the relationship. And I can never go that low for slay queen let alone prostitutes.

Lol you don't sound like one ready for commitment, dreading words of affirmation like'i love you ' is a pointer/confirmation to that assertion so it leaves one to wonder what you are doing with a lady whose love language is words of affirmation.

Lol I gave you three options, be with a lady with other love language exclude the one you dread, or be with a slay queen whose love language will likely be gifts Or be with a prostitute who doesn't want/value commitment either.

I wish you no harm bro, just a piece of advice from a heart that cares.

Chimezie198:
Whether you tell her that you love or not , breakup wey go happen go still happen.

At least, I would have achieve what I what to achieve.

KinzyeWriter:
Do you love me?
You: Yes, It is not love.

I don't understand the 'it not love' part..
Anyway thanks for helping out.

missjo:

It's really as simple as this. These guys are fond of leading innocent naive girls on with chummy chummy behavior & getting her all mushy mushy, then go on to complain when she starts asking that sort of question

Okat, I don't need this kind of comment here.

Cockanfanta:
Okat, I don't need this kind of comment here.

How is what u need my problem playboy¿

Cockanfanta:
this is not a honeypot relationship. This is a like a romeo, Juliet romantic relationship where the girl wanna make sure she is not into the wrong person. Tell her you don't love her, the relationship dies instantly.

So you don't want the relationship to die instantly, it's not a honeypot relationship, and you don't love her, so what exactly do you want from her?

I wish you no harm bro, just a piece of advice from a heart that cares.

That so nice!

MariaLavina:
be with a slay queen whose love language will likely be gifts Or be with a prostitute who doesn't want/value commitment either.

Scrap those two I have no money to spend on whores

Lol I gave you three options, be with a lady with other love language exclude the one you dread

You don't understand I really want this girl. Not desperate tho.

missjo:

How is what u need my problem playboy¿

Girl you're on my thread and I'm like the Lord here. So stop derailing. It an order not a request.

Cockanfanta:

That so nice!

Scrap those two I have no money to spend on whores
You don't understand I really want this girl. Not desperate tho.

If you really want and love her, you shouldn't have a problem sacrificing those words for her.



Wait self, you no get money to offer, you no get good words to offer. Wetin you dey look for in relationship?

Cockanfanta:
Girl you're on my thread and I'm like the Lord here. So stop derailing. It an order not a request.

What buffoonery is this?

Cockanfanta:
At least, I would have achieve what I what to achieve.

if na to say I love you go make you achieve what you want, carry go

Fountainofyouth:



So you don't want the relationship to die instantly, it's not a honeypot relationship, and you don't love her, so what exactly do you want from her?

what if I say I'm just toying around for fun. :-/

MariaLavina:
If you really want and love her, you shouldn't have a problem sacrificing those words for her.



Wait self, you no get money to offer, you no get good words to offer. Wetin you dey look for in relationship?

I don't love her. I can't even love any girl, it like a sin. I just use relationships as a tool.

missjo:

What buffoonery is this?

can you please do me a favour of adding 1700 to 88.
It won't kill you I promise.

Chimezie198:
if na to say I love you go make you achieve what you want, carry go

God forbid! even jokingly sef!
Okay wait I can say it as a joke.