J111333:
What fvcking prayer?
Truth is men will always cheat, those who aren't cheating currently haven't seen the opportunity or an excuse.
A wise wife keep her home in peace and in one piece, not fighting to keep her husband from cheating. It's a waste of time and effort to try to stop him from cheating but keeping the home in peace will discourage him and reduce his chances.

Ebonygirl1:


It all comes down to self control bruv. You think women don't feel the need to get with other guys too? . If one conditions the mind to think and act a certain way, one will not fall prey to such temptations. There's no law anywhere that says a man is polygamous in nature. It's selfishness that makes him try to justify his short comings. Deal with it.

Jjuuddee:
Truth be told op u have lost ur chance of ever finding out the truth,honestly u shouldn't have confronted him like that,this is the problem with most women they let emotions block their judgement,trust me if he was actually cheating then u might have lost ur only opportunity of ever finding out,u just made him more discreet n careful.it will take God's grace to find out but I wish u the best in ur marriage

linearity:


What were you doing in the romance section?

FYI: he planted the number there in the hope of catching you. Now you have proven him right, that you have an ulterior motive in constantly visiting the romance section.

You better start confessing to him now or....time will indeed tell.

agbonkamen:
well I will advice you to put it in prayer but to Frank with you 99.9% men cheat I don't know why probably because men are polygamous in nature.

joe4christ:


You just dont get it, do you? I wish u will understand.
There are written and unwritten laws. The Men's code is incripted in our DNA.
A real man cheats, otherwise he's a sissy. It might not settle down well with you, but u just have to accept it that way or u remain single. Men are naturally designed to dominate and lead, while u ladies are designed to be led and submissive to your man. A man can only respect you and your feelings enough not to rub his cheating nature to your face. Thats him being considerate about your feelings.
Your focus should rather be centered on you building a peaceful home where your man can come back to and feel relaxed so another woman doesn't capitalize on and snatch him and his affection off you.
This is why the rate of divorce in this 21st century is so alarming. Cos u ladies wanna form equal right with a man. Well, u can as well remain single for all we care, there's already too many women already single and ready to mingle. Our problem now is choosing who best suits us.
So, deal with it my lady!

Ebonygirl1:


Lmao. Keep making excuses for your weaknesses

chidiebereuzoma:

It's not a weakness, it's actually a strength in reality. You may not understand what I just said... That's how we are wired

agbonkamen:
well I will advice you to put it in prayer but to Frank with you 99.9% men cheat I don't know why probably because men are polygamous in nature.

agbonkamen:
sense is far from you I swear.... Truth is always bitter

Issokay:
So, I saw my husband's (I know his moniker) mobile numbers in a topic under the romance section for people to post their digits where they can be hooked with 'seriously searching ladies' .

I have been wondering why he had to do that. He's quiet kind of, usher in the church, a good father figure etc. Our marriage is 6 years.

I am really confused. Anyways I confronted him and he said he doesn't know how his numbers ended on that topic.

Still confused....time will indeed tell.

J111333:
What fvcking prayer?
Truth is men will always cheat, those who aren't cheating currently haven't seen the opportunity or an excuse.
A wise wife keep her home in peace and in one piece, not fighting to keep her husband from cheating. It's a waste of time and effort to try to stop him from cheating but keeping the home in peace will discourage him and reduce his chances.

joe4christ:


You just dont get it, do you? I wish u will understand.
There are written and unwritten laws. The Men's code is incripted in our DNA.
A real man cheats otherwise he's a sissy. It might not settle down well with you, but u just have to accept it that way or u remain single. Men are naturally designed to dominate and lead, while u ladies are designed to be led and submissive to your man. A man can only respect you and your feelings enough not to rub his cheating nature to your face. Thats him being considerate about your feelings.
Your focus should rather be centered on you building a peaceful home where your man can come back to and feel relaxed so another woman doesn't capitalize on and snatch him and his affection off you.
This is why the rate of divorce in this 21st century is so alarming. Cos u ladies wanna form equal right with a man. Well, u can as well remain single for all we care, there's already too many women already single and ready to mingle. Our problem now is choosing who best suits us.

So, deal with it my lady!

Issokay:


It's not normal. Can it be termed normal if I do this? I will be labeled a prostitute, a bad wife and mother #sad

J111333:
What fvcking prayer?
Truth is men will always cheat, those who aren't cheating currently haven't seen the opportunity or an excuse.
A wise wife keep her home in peace and in one piece, not fighting to keep her husband from cheating. It's a waste of time and effort to try to stop him from cheating but keeping the home in peace will discourage him and reduce his chances.

LillyVal:
That romance section have too many married many posing as SINGLE Men.

joe4christ:


And if she eventually finds out, then what She walks out of the marriage? That will actually be a prayer answered to another b!tch out there!

Fountainofyouth:
Plenty stupidity on display here, some are justifying cheating by men, nonsense

EmmySparky:
african mentality... Read up on tiger woods and learn... In a sane country that actually got laws bro u would loose almost everything... Find out what happened to eboue... Just to mention a few

LillyVal:
What happened to tiger should happen to most Nigerian men

agbonkamen:
It's common with Nigerian men jor

LillyVal:
My sis I created a fake account on Nl and chatted my boyfriend, he told me his girlfriend died 2 months ago.

Holly Molly
Speechless

LillyVal:
What happened to tiger should happen to most Nigerian men

Babaalata:


What research aid did you use to arrive at that figure?